Trigger Warning: Sexual Assault, Suicide, Gaslighting, Manipulation

Adelaide is living the dream by moving to London. When she meets Rory, everything seems to come together. Except, Rory doesn’t always answer her texts. And sometimes he goes days without speaking to her. Oh and often manages to not cancel their plans until well after he should have already met her. Also, he tends to speak down to her and put down her thoughts and feelings. OK, so maybe Rory isn’t the Prince Charming she thought he was. She loves him though. So it must be meant to be right?

OK I am going to start with the only bad part of this book. There is a line talking about how great a particular author is, and how wonderful a certain book about humans that are just completely average was. (IYKYK and you know my feelings on that one!) I have also seen people compare this book to that one and to that I say, absolutely not. All I kept thinking while listening to this book was….damn I HATE Rory. What a terrible, horrible, not good, very bad person. Rory is to Adelaide what Stephen is to Tell Me Lies. OK maybe not exactly the same, but the hatred I felt was the same! I absolutely despised this man and the way he treated Adelaide as well as Natalie. I wanted so badly for her to recognize what a horrible human being this man was and leave his ass behind. If you enjoy books about super toxic relationships, you will enjoy this one.

Adelaide is a twenty something American living in London. While navigating the hardships of young adulthood, she struggles in her romantic relationship with Rory Hughes.

This is such a raw, riveting, vulnerable, and important read for young women! It touches on some hard topics like mental illness, toxic relationships, and not defining yourself by others. Adelaide is a lovable character, and her desire to be loved is heartbreaking. Genevieve Wheeler was able to write a a story that has heavy topics while also being an enjoyable read. Adelaide and her friends are likable and relatable! Wonderful debut novel!

This is the story of Adelaide an American young woman living in England who falls head over heels for a handsome man who consistently makes her feel “ less than”.. I so wanted to slap her for putting up with such treatment. That being said I could not stop reading this book and loved how it came all together , I was cheering for Adelaide by the end. An insightful look into mental illness. Thank you NetGalley and St. Martins Press for this early e copy.

Adelaide by Genevieve Wheeler is a poignant and beautifully written story. Her struggles and triumphs are portrayed with sensitivity and insight, leaving a lasting impact on the reader. Highly recommended for those who enjoy introspective tales of personal growth."

Adelaide by Genevieve Wheeler is a book that I have been impatiently anticipating and was so excited to get an ARC. Adelaide is a 26 year old expat living in London who is experiencing the typical struggles that the mid-twenties offer: trying to find herself, find a partner, and find happiness. She meets Rory Hughes on a dating app and feels like she has found her guy. As their relationship progresses she starts to question if it is so great after all.

While this book is pitched as a love story it is really much more than that. There are some serious trigger warnings and topics explored through Adelaide's relationship with herself and her family. Much of the dating feels very familiar and true to the experience of many in the real world - the author did a great job of capturing that longing, anxiety, and tension that comes with being with someone who isn't always giving you what you need back. This book was heavy and unexpected - it may not be what I expected to read but it was better.

Thank you to Netgalley and St. Martin's Press for the ARC in exchange for an honest review. Adelaide is out 4/18/23.

Easily a five star review. I found myself looking for an opportunity to pick up this book through out the day. What a beautiful and painful story Genevieve Wheeler has given us. Adelaide made me feel truly “seen,” which may or may not be a great thing but it helps to normalize the conversation that everyone can be in a bad place at some point in their lives. Adelaide, an American studying abroad in London, finds herself experiencing deep depressive episodes through an emotionally manipulative relationship that pained and frustrated me to observe, but I really loved the female characters in this story so much and the empowering female relationships. I found myself thinking “That reminds me of me” too often. It was an absolutely heavy and I highly suggest checking the content warnings first. I don’t tend to re-read books but I look forward to picking this one up again. I can’t wait for whatever Genevieve writes next!

Pub date: 4/18/23
Genre: coming-of-age
Quick summary: Expat twenty-something Adelaide thinks she's found the perfect man in Brit Rory - but when he needs more than she's able to give, she'll have to figure out if she can live without him.

I went into this book not really knowing what to expect, but I devoured it over two days with the combo of text and audiobook. Adelaide's (mis)adventures took me back to that time of being in my early twenties, trying to figure out who I wanted to be. I loved how her voice came through on audio - it felt like I was right there with her.

It's hard at times to listen to Adelaide's romance with Rory - it's clear to the reader that, as much as Adelaide thinks their story is a love story, it isn't, and Rory is going to continue to disappoint her. For this reason, this book may be triggering to those who've experienced abusive relationships. I was glad to see Adelaide eventually grow to understand her worth and figure out her path forward.

If you enjoy character studies/coming-of-age novels, give this one a try! It reminded me a bit of Sally Rooney, but I liked it more than Rooney's last book.

Thank you to St. Martin's Press for my e-ARC and Macmillan Audio/Libro.fm for my e-ALC.

4.25. Thank you so much to NetGalley and Genevieve Wheeler and St Martin’s Publishing for the ARC. When I looked at Goodreads to see what this book was about someone there had written if you liked Normal People you’ll probably like this. Well that’s all it took. I loved Sally Rooney’s Normal People and couldn’t wait to read this. (Actually the author even mentions Normal People in this book!). From the first paragraph of the Prologue I knew this was going to be an emotional journey. Mental health/illness can be really difficult to read about or live with. And if you are in love with someone who is emotionally distant or physically distant for days on end with no explanation whatsoever that is hard. When you give and give but often times you are left feeling unseen, unloved, unwanted or misunderstood by the person you are in love with - that’s hard. There’s a lot of foreshadowing in this novel and I knew the main character was headed toward something hurtful and I wanted her to escape before it happened. This ultimately is a book about life - the ups and the downs in live and in life. It’s a slow journey through the highs of life in your 20’s taking on the world - and some of the grief that also comes. I very much enjoyed this emotional book.

I just finished this book and I am still reeling from it so this review will likely be biased. It's usually better if I sit with it for a few days. I read this whole story in one sitting. First of all, I loved the writing style. It pulled me in immediately. I connected with it.

I also connected with Adelaide even though we are not very similar. It's hard not to fall in love with her. It's hard to not get swept up by the story of someone who falls so hard for someone who just will not love them back equally. It's so hard to watch her suffer as she navigates her relationship before, during and after. It's so hard to both want to yell at her to get out and also deeply understand why she just can't let go.

I underlined so much of this book. There are some beautiful, beautiful passages in it that spoke to me deeply. It reminded me of my two favorite books from the last few years: Normal People and Sorrow and Bliss. I absolutely loved it.

with gratitude to netgalley and St. Martin's Press for an advanced copy in exchange for an honest review.

This book brought me back to the toxic relationship cycle of feeling like you like someone more than they like you, and how that feeling is all consuming. Great, nostalgic read about the hard feelings of a love where it given back to you.

My Thoughts
For the biggest chunk of this books story our American character Adelaide Williams is a hot mess.

She proves to be very likable to everyone she interacts with but unfortunately not lucky in love.

Her entire history with men, past and present to date, has consisted of heartbreak.

Her never ending quest for an HEA has to happen someday, right.

Read the book to find out if Adelaide finds her one and only, be prepared for quite the up and down journey with her.
[EArc from Netgalley]
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Thank you to the publisher and NetGalley for the eARC. I couldn’t put this book down. I loved Adelaide’s feminism, her confidence, and the way that relationships were written so completely and beautifully throughout this book - both positive relationships like those with her girlfriends and Adelaide’s relationship with very toxic Rory. This book also tastefully tackles mental health and abusive relationships.

Thanks very much to the publisher and NetGalley for the eARC of this satisfying debut novel about about finding one’s way in the world when you’ve suffered terrible trauma in the past and the agony of loving someone who does not reciprocate those feelings. Like Acts of Desperation, which I also enjoyed recently, this is a painfully accurate depiction of what it’s like to date a pouty, selfish man-baby. It also deals sensitively with mental illness issues. I wish I had friends as devoted as Adelaide’s! Lovely prose, as well. I’ll look forward to the author’s next novel.

Absolutely beautifully written book. Heartbreaking and honest. I had a hard time putting this book down as I wanted to keep reading! Thank you for the advanced read!

I’ve been thinking about this book for days and had trouble coming up with a review. Promoted as a “milenneal romance” this story of Adelaide and her difficult journey to find love and acceptance is not exactly an easy read. It’s filled with heavy topics and struggles that are relatable and also challenging to read. It reminds me of Beth O’Leary, but heavier. Those British Rom vibes, but with content warnings that you need to read.

Light and fun, it is not. But it is stuck with me for days. Sometimes that has just as much weight on a read and review than rom com feelings.

as an American twenty-something living in London, Adelaide falls into an incredibly toxic relationship with a British man named Rory Hughes. I felt that this one does mental health really really well. highly recommend, & then talk to me about it when you’re done! content warnings for toxic relationship, suicide, rape, & fatal car accident.

Adelaide was not my typical genre but I enjoy debut novels and this was a very interesting read. The writing style came across as frantic and scattered and truly lent itself to the issues Adelaide was dealing with. Wheeler created both likable and annoying characters and I found myself reading straight through one afternoon just to find out how it ended. I almost sense we were given too much unnecessary detail regarding Adelaide’s work and earlier life but Wheeler may have felt it needed to create the story. Certainly a book for readers who enjoy the busy lives of the 20-somethings and how it can be a very challenging time in many ways- self discovery, relationships, establishing a career and coming to terms with unforeseeable issues. My rating is 3.75 actually.

Thank you to #NetGalley and #St.MartinsPress for and advanced reader copy of this book.

I found the story very difficult to get into, and I had a hard time connecting with any of the characters. I did think it was well written, however, but up until the last few chapters I found myself wondering “what’s the point?” At the end, I did understand the author’s intention but I wish it had been made clearer earlier on.

Thanks to NetGalley, the author and publisher for an advanced reading copy of this book in exchange for my honest review.

Im not sure if this would be truly classified as a romance. I felt like this was more of a journey of trying to find yourself and trying to figure out your worth in life.⁣
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Adelaide is a 20 something American living in London; she has a traumatic history of a bad boyfriend that she felt was her first love but wasn’t a great guy, she meets Rory when she isn’t really looking for love and tries to do everything in her power over years to get him to love her and while he at times acts like she’s wonderful, he also ghosts her at times and doesn’t act like he appreciates her which really irritated me at times, because she was trying so hard for his appreciation.⁣
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This really hits on mental health awareness and how you can be trying so hard to light others up that it drains you and dulls your own shine. ⁣
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I did absolutely adore Adelaide’s best friends and their love for her and always being there for her and each other. ⁣
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I also liked the writing style of this. It was really unique. ⁣
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This officially falls into the category of one of the best books I’ve ever read. I immediately connected with the main character, Adelaide. Her story of heartbreak, self discovery, and highs vs lows is one I will never forget. So often I felt myself reading words that I know I had thought myself. The icing on the cake for this novel is the omniscient narrator that gives you a glimpse of the future before you even turn the page.

Bravo to Genevieve Wheeler on this debut. I cannot wait to see what you write next.