Like many others, Fern Brady first crossed my radar when she was featured in the show Taskmaster, where I thought she was hilarious. I jumped at the opportunity to read this book as soon as I saw it, and I am incredibly glad I did. Fern is direct and honest in ways that wildly important. Every superlative this memoir receives is well-deserved, both in terms of the writing style and the content. Even while discussing heavy, traumatic events and ideas Brady does it with a light hand and clear voice that is simultaneously enjoyable to read and also not letting the reader escape their complicity in how society treats neurodivergent people, and especially neurodivergent women. While I already knew that the symptomology of neurodivergence presents differently in women than men I didn’t realize specifically how, and Brady offers a master class in what many of those differences look like and how devastating it can be when they are ignored. Instead of continuing to fill the page with gushing superlatives, all I can say is that I highly recommend this book, even if you are not familiar with Fern Brady’s work. At the very least it can remind us that we are totally ignorant as to what’s going on in the complicated inner lives of those around us, and so we should lead with compassion and understanding instead of judgment or frustration.

I want to thank the author, the publisher Rodale Inc., Harmony, and NetGalley, who provided a complimentary eARC for review. I am leaving this review voluntarily.

Thank you to the publishers and netgalley for an e-arc of this book in exchange for an honest review.

I have heard of Fern Brady before as I really enjoy watching a lot of British/Scottish/Irish comedians and similar panel shows, so I was intrigued when I saw she had a memoir coming out, even more so when it was about her and her journey with autism.

Overall, I really enjoyed this book and thought Fern did an incredible job describing her thoughts and feelings and her experiences pre and post diagnosis. It was really insightful - to her, and autistic women in general. I liked that she included sources and footnotes were required.

As an autistic female as well, I resonated with a lot of Ferns feelings and the struggles she had to understand others, or more so, for others to understand us. I think this book is so important and I recommend lots of young women should read it.

As an autistic AFAB person with minimal support needs, this harrowing memoir makes it very evident to me how lucky my upbringing was. Diagnosed in my 40s, I too grew up in an area of the world where Autism in girls was not at all recognized. I feel very lucky and grateful not to have had the same misguided and socially-unacceptable situations Brady experienced. While I thank the publisher and NetGalley for access to the e-ARC, reading about the events of Fern's life made me very uncomfortable yet sympathetic.

Great book! This was my first books learning about a woman on the spectrum and what she went through. This was very eye opening and insightful.

This was a very interesting memoir, with a blend of humor and frankness that I found very engaging. The writing feels like talking to a friend explaining what it is like to live in their head, which made Brady's life story both relatable and informative to someone who does not have personal experience with neurodivergency.

This memoir was well-written and truly compelling. Fern's voice came through so earnestly in this book that I felt connected to her from the first page. Fern documents her life before and after getting an autistic diagnosis. She goes in depth on what seemed different for her compared to everyone else, and how that affected her life. This book is clearly the product of passion that is thought-provoking, sad at times, but still a joy to read. This is best shown in my favorite quote of the whole memoir: “My mum and teen brother came through to Edinburgh and took me out for Japanese food as there was no other way in our culture of saying, ‘Sorry you’ve gone mad again.’”
Thank you to NetGalley and Rodale Inc. for sending me an ARC in exchange for an honest review.

I was immediately drawn to Fern Brady in her episode of Taskmaster. Her quirks and thought processes made sense to me in ways I couldn't articulate. When I found out she is autistic it clicked, as a fellow neurodivergent woman I was seeing someone that thought like me on TV. As soon as I saw that she had written this book I knew I needed to read it. I am so glad that I did! This is a raw and honest look at Fern's life and experiences. I read it in one sitting and plan to recommend it to my friends.

Thank you NetGalley for the eARC!

I was interested in reading this book because I have ASD too. It grabbed my attention from the moment I started reading. It’s well-written and I enjoyed being inside of Fern’s head and watching how she experiences the world. The book will provide a wealth of information to those who are unfamiliar with ASD. It will also make those of us who are on the spectrum feel less alone. I applaud Fern’s bravery in writing so openly about her life.