This book made me appreciate my husband and the life we have. Liars is a dark, unique look at marriage and how it changes both people involved. This book wasn't my favourite, based solely on subject matter, but I can see how many people would really like it. I would give it a go if are looking for not your typical book about marriage.

Liars is one of the most visceral writings on maternal rage that I have encountered. Sarah Manguso is a beautiful writer and her work is marked by incisive observations about what happens to a person when they swallow their rage for too long. The narrator of Liars is drained from the constant demands of motherhood. The unrelenting needs of a completely helpless being on both a woman’s body and mind intersect with her husband’s weaponized incompetence. As the decades spill over and her career ebbs and flows, the narrator finds herself unable to leave her narcissistic partner until he makes the decision for her. Manguso examines how the narrator was blindsided and how she makes sense of the choices and moments that shape her life.

There are many things that I enjoy about Liars. The writing is poetic and the characterization is strong. I was immediately invested in the characters and their lives. It is refreshing to read a story about motherhood that does not romanticize the experience. Although the narrator makes many beautiful observations about her child, there is no narrative that suggests that the child’s existence made all of the struggles worthwhile. In other words, the narrator’s life is marked by mental health struggles and they aren’t magically solved by having a child.

I was initially invested in the plot because it hits on a social commentary that I am fascinated by: Do hetero men hate women? The internet is rife with jokes and commentary about hetero couples hating each other, and I have always been curious as to why women stay with men who are terrible to them- who don’t even seem to like them. Liars charted this territory, but ultimately circled around for too long and lost my interest. At one point, the narrator comments that she is reading Philip Larkin and is tired of his incessant gloominess, and I had to pause my reading to make sure it wasn’t my own words manifesting on the page. The misery is so drawn out (almost 15 years of it!) that it is hard to feel sympathy for the narrator. Her husband did not make a slow reveal of his horridness. He was pretty terrible from the start. And yet, the narrator was constantly compromising her values and needs to accommodate the relationship. In that sense, this is an interesting read on the power of codependency and the pressure to check boxes- like marriage, home ownership, and child bearing. Unfortunately, it just missed the mark for me.

I think that anyone who has experienced maternal rage will consider this book cathartic. It is also appealing to people who enjoy reading about ongoing issues of equality within domestic spaces. It can also be great if you just need to rage about men who act like children. All perfectly fair reasons to enjoy this book.

The idea of this book was an interesting one, I enjoyed figuring out what was happening and what was going on with the characters. The use of women and how marriage can change you worked well and I felt for Jane. Sarah Manguso does a great job writing this and making the characters feel real. It was everything that I was hoping for.

Liars is the story of a tumultuous relationship — from “first ferocious hunger” to the “strange dread at suddenly being divorced” fourteen years later — as related by a woman whose successful writing career seems unthinkable in the conditions under which she worked: with a flaky and jealous artist for a husband, a need to micromanage all the details of their household, and the (not entirely unwelcome) demands of motherhood, Jane is still able to release some well-regarded work; using various grants and fellowships to pay for part-time child care so she can continue to eke out work. The storyline is not quite stream-of-consciousness, but it does jump along in fragments; highlighting all the lowlights of this relationship and making it very clear to the reader that we are getting this story only from Jane’s POV — and while she makes the case that she married a liar, someone “bad at gaslighting”, Jane tells us a few times along the way that she’s a liar, too (it’s not incidental that the title is plural.) This reads a lot like a memoir — I suppose any novel about a novelist does — so I snooped around the internet to learn about author Sarah Manguso’s life, and the major strokes line up. Whether or not the fine details are a faithful account of Manguso’s own marriage, Liars positively has the ring of truth: I absolutely believed that Jane would enter this relationship, and that even if she was lying to herself along the way, that she made the choice to stay in this relationship and work on it — to the detriment of her professional life and mental health — and the truthiness here was like a punch to the gut; you know this is the kind of chosen misery some people live in and Manguso explores it beautifully.

Liars, by Sarah Manguso, dives deeply into the married relationship of Jane, a somewhat mentally unsteady wife as well as a successful writer, and John, her husband who does something in film that we are never fully cognizant of. He vacillates between being successful and being severely impeded by his narcissism. There are some positive moments in the marriage, which is also heightened by the birth of "the child," whose addition to the family strengthens it and lends it some emotional vulnerability.

The plot of this novel is rather bleak yet realistic. The weak relationship lasts for 14 years, but we are aware fairly early on that John is indeed a liar, and that he has an interest in another woman. On the other hand, Jane is not as honest as she could be in her assessment of her role in the marriage, in spite of her efforts to make it work.

Manguso's clarity and writing style keeps the plot and the interactions of characters in this book of heightened interest, and it moves swiftly. In a less-skilled writer, the book might have moved more slowly and been influenced by the lack of a more clear or fully examined setting, but it is cohesive and true to its eponymous title.

Thanks to Net Galley and Random House for the opportunity to read this book.

A really dark and twisted novel about marriage, motherhood, artists/writers, the concept of being a "wife"-- at first I wasn't sure I would be able to stand pages and pages of the husband's narcissism but in the end I was impressed and blown away, as always, by Manguso's writing.

While the writing style as others have mentioned requires a bit of an adjustment period, I would agree that this novel is an astoundingly emotive and lyrical reflection on the 'nuclear family', albeit more suited to those who prefer a more fast-paced, 'train of thought' storytelling format.

LIARS is told from the perspective of an aspiring writer, Jane, whose creative spark is regularly extinguished under a cloud of compromise; this veil, among other grim complexities, defines the nature of her marriage to John, an egotistical filmmaker with near zero redeeming qualities. Given the disheartening nature of their relationship (arguably, from the start), it's difficult to attach reason to this continued suffering. But to many this is a reality- a long haul that presents as quite jarring to a reader with comparatively favorable relationship experience.

That being said, to those who question how easy it really is to fall into such traps, how easy it is to lose years of your life to this foggy 'autopilot mode', I'd recommend giving this a read. While I didn't quite connect with it, and thought the overall framework was a bit jarring, the novel still offers valuable insights and some thought-provoking statements, particularly toward the end, that resonated with me.

Thank you to Net Galley for providing me with an ARC for this book.

This was an enjoyable, yet uncomfortable read.

It felt very "Ducks, Newburyport" ish, in the sense that it read as a single train of thought throughout the book, although it was over several years rather than a few days. I loved the writing style and could see myself enjoying other books written by Sarah Manguso.

As a married (and childfree) person, this made me grow even founder of the man I married. You never know who the person you love will become in the privacy of your marriage.

It is a fast-paced novel, that will keep you hooked. It does feel a touch heart-breaking at times as I'm guessing more people go through this in their marriages than we imagine.

Synopsis (from Netgalley, the provider of the book for me to review.)
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A searing novel about being a wife, a mother, and an artist, and how marriage makes liars of us all, from the author of Very Cold People and 300 Arguments.

A nuclear family can destroy a woman artist. I’d always known that. But I’d never suspected how easily I’d fall into one anyway.

When Jane, an aspiring writer, meets filmmaker John Bridges, they both want the same things: to be in love, to live a successful creative life, and to be happy. When they marry, Jane believes she has found everything she was looking for, including—a few years later—all the attendant joy and labour of motherhood. But it’s not long until Jane finds herself subsumed by John’s ambitions, whims, and ego; in short, she becomes a wife.

As Jane’s career flourishes, their marriage starts to falter. Throughout the upheavals of family life, Jane tries to hold it all together. That is, until John leaves her.

Combining the intensity of Elena Ferrante’s Days of Abandonment and the pithy wisdom of Jenny Offill’s Dept of Speculation, Liars is a tour de force of wit and rage, telling the blistering story of a marriage as it burns to the ground, and of a woman rising inexorably from its ashes.

A great read about the disillusionment of marriage and the perils of wifehood and motherhood - be careful what you wish for.
Decidedly literature or book club material and not for the most casual of readers --- very very feminist.
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It took me a little bit to get into the narration and writing style, but once I did, I was sucked in. I could feel the emotions dripping off the page and felt Jane’s feelings like it was all happening to me. The description of the life she was living was so vivid I could see it all play out in front of me. I also appreciated the humor brought to the book which added some levity. I recommend this to any woman in a long term relationship.

I feel so lucky to have stumbled upon this unique, beautiful, highly memorable book. It was a pretty bleak read, but I couldn’t put it down because of Manguso’s lyrical writing style and her gift for arranging thoughts/paragraphs in a way that is downright haunting. This felt as real, detailed, and immersive as a memoir. I highlighted 41 quotes, and I look forward to reading more from this author.

Let me tell you, I read this book in one sitting. This novel perfectly encapsulates the journey of a successful woman who falls in love with a man who won’t love her back, a woman he reduces into a babysitter and maid. I think we all settle at different points in our lives in the hope that our silence will earn us more love, when in reality settling traps us and eventually destroys us in feminine rage. Manguso’s stream-of-consciousness writing is stunning and immerses you in the story from the very beginning. I could not put this book down even if I tried. I’m so grateful to NetGalley and Hogarth for letting me read this ARC, and I can’t wait to purchase a copy for myself once it releases! Well done Sarah.

This read more as literary fiction and was very heavy handed. The characters just weren't engaging enough.

Sarah Manguso's newest novel has the intensity of one of those stories that you cannot wait for it to end so you can feel some relief from the nearly unbearable tension. An intimate look at the inside of a devastating marriage that read as terrifyingly realistic.

Jane marries John who, from the beginning, no one is playing hide the ball here, really sounds like the worst. “If I had the energy I would leave him.” So there’s that.”

But instead she has a baby with him. A man asks “‘Why are you still with him?’ That’s what most people would ask if I told the story to them like that, in one sentence.” Well, sister, I’m about halfway through the book and I’m asking too.

Then she has cancerous cells. “I thought he became a sociopath but he hadn’t become anything.” Truer words never spoken, my friend.

This is the story of a woman, a marriage, a life. It’s so dark. And I’m afraid more women live it than we know.

Swallowed by motherhood and marriage, Jane juggles life as a wife, mother and writer. The novel focuses on her life with John and their son, and the downfall of her relationship with John, delivered though through almost diary-like entries of reflections of her days. It made for an interesting way to view their relationship, but took a little adjusting to when I first picked up the book.

Overall it was a tough but good read - uncomfortable content at times, but artfully written. It was pretty fast paced, mostly powered by Jane's palpable rage. The first half of the book or so had me hating everyone and internally shouting DIVORCE HIM every other paragraph, but that's sometimes how it is when you're painted a such a painful story about the burden of invisible labour and traditional gender roles in the home and hetero relationships in general. The Afterword section was cathartic.

The title of the novel and certain passages left me wondering whether how much the title was directed at John, and how much was shared by Jane, and I'm not sure exactly how to feel about that.

Best read when you're in the mood for something that will fire you up, if you can deal with the pity and sadness you feel at the same time. You for sure won't walk away without feeling something from this.

The description of the book seemed interesting, so I wanted to check the story out. Unfortunately, it is not working for me right now. It is nothing against the story or the author, but I couldn't get into the story/characters. I may try and find a physical copy to add the my library when it is released, though, because I think my readers could like it!

I didn't want this book to end. I loved the way Sarah told the story of her family. I related a lot to what she said about marriage and motherhood. She's an excellent writer and I would devour more of her work if given the chance. Thanks to NetGalley for the ARC. Five stars.

I have long admired Manguso's work and this book is no exception. It is a wonderful portrait of marriage and family and a close look at the gender binaries that still rule heterosexual marriage so often. I also appreciated and admired the narrator's unflinching self examination.

Sharp, witty, funny, and devastating on top. I felt propelled by this story of a woman artist and her artist husband, both laughing out loud and visibly wincing.