Kate Kennedy is such a fun voice in the podcast space and it naturally translated to this book.. Her takes on pop culture from the millennial perspective are engaging, interesting, and thoughtful. Love that the audiobook was read by her too, it really took it to the next level and made the personal perspective and stories land better.

Thank you to Netgalley and Macmillan Audio for the ARC!

Step into the world of millennial culture with Kate Kennedy's delightful exploration in 'One in a Millennial'! As a pop culture commentator and host of the popular podcast Be There in Five, Kate brings her unique perspective to dissecting the experiences and influences that have shaped the millennial generation. Through witty anecdotes and insightful reflections, Kate delves into the nostalgic treasures of our past, from AOL Instant Messenger to American Girl Dolls, while also addressing the complexities of millennial life, including purity culture and the pressures of modern motherhood. Her ability to blend humor with heartfelt sincerity makes 'One in a Millennial' a joy to read.

Whether you're a proud millennial or simply curious about the cultural landscape of the generation, Kate's book offers a delightful journey through the highs and lows of millennial existence. Prepare to laugh, nod along, and perhaps even shed a tear as you immerse yourself in the witty and poignant pages of 'One in a Millennial'.

Admittedly, I know Kate Kennedy from her social media presence, but I have not listened to her podcast. That being said, I was excited to hear about her thoughts on Millennial culture, as I am a loud and proud member of the group. The book comprised of several essays that looked into how being a millennial affected the way in which Kennedy grew up, and I enjoyed it quite a lot! This read less like a memoir and more like an examination of a culture. Some of the parts of the book totally resonated with me (like the going OUT out parts) and there were several parts that were truly quite funny. It made me realize that I didn't have the most unique experience myself, as a lot of the topics she broached applied to me as well. The book did a get a bit wordy at times, which was my only critique. I did enjoy listening to the author read the book in her own voice as well, it certainly made it feel more personal and put the appropriate inflection when it was needed. Overall, it was good to see the humor in things that I used to take seriously, and I appreciated how much heart Kennedy put into this examination of being a Millennial. I'm still proud to be born when I was, and applaud Kennedy on how she celebrated this specific age group.

Thanks to NetGalley and the publishers for an advanced listening copy of this book. All opinions within this review are my own.

Every millennial should read this. I have felt so seen while reading this. I have laughed, nodded, cringed and feel like I could have written this myself (if I were as talented with words as Kate is, that is). So many relatable and what I thought were niche moments. I went to a private Christian school up until 7th grade, so sometimes I wonder if my experiences were different than some but other than the teeny-tiny class (12 of us?) almost all of it was a universal experience. Listen to the audio, you won't regret it.

This book wasn't really what i expected. It was an interesting read non the less. I wish I had more to say.

From Kate Kennedy, the pop culture podcaster of Be There in Five and a millennial through and through, comes this fabulous book about a generation! This book is part memoir, part societal commentary, and all parts nostalgia. For me, I found some core memories being unlocked of gel pens, games of concentration, and AOL instant messenger, not to mention delving into the ups and downs of youth group culture. Kennedy delves into how culture shaped a generation’s worldview and what it was like navigating new social dynamics in the midst of the entirely new digital age. One in a Millennial is a wild ride that is filled with endless references, while diving into some deeper moments of Kennedy’s own life and opinions. This is a funny, difficult, and memory-filled read (I would recommend listening to) that brings to light the joys and struggles of a generation that came of age around the start of the new millennium.

This book brought me right back to my adolescence and Kate reminded me of so many thoughts, feelings, and interests that I've had over the years! Kate is honest, vulnerable, hilarious, and a master wordsmith. You have to really pay attention because all the plays on words brought an extra element of delight to this reading experience. Moreover, Kate makes a compelling argument for women to feel free to truly enjoy their interests despite what society/patriarchy dictate what is acceptable. To accept the sheer joy from the things that bring you joy is a sincerely valuable lesson to walk away with. Thank you for this insightful and detailed trip down memory lane and validating my experience through each phase of my life. What a special and unique read that I'll be buying for my peers!

One in a Millennial: On Friendship, Feelings, Fangirls, and Fitting In ✨

“We were raised in preparation for a world that no longer exists, and are forever trying to navigate the terms.”

“Social anxiety is like believing in conspiracy theories about yourself.”

“We were to be sexualized without our consent, no matter what.”

One in a Millennial is broken into three sections - Kennedy’s childhood, her college years, and adulthood - largely reflecting on her own personal experiences, but very relatable to many female millennials.

I listened to this on audio and truly think that’s the way to go with this one - it felt like chatting and reminiscing with a friend! I found myself writing down quote after quote and nodding along to what Kennedy was saying. These stuck out to me the most: a need for validation, being a people pleaser, door beads, American Girl dolls, the mall, the sweet pea lotion/spray from bath and body works, impressive words per minute (thanks computer class), Shel Silverstein, AIM away messages, Lizzie McGuire, a general disposition of rage, “but first coffee”, the female zeitgeist, jeans and a going out top…and so much more.

Kennedy’s description of mental health felt so relatable - “problems don’t feel big enough to feel sad” - and her unique way of describing depression and anxiety felt spot on - “wasn’t completely in power when the power went off.” I’m glad there’s less taboo around mental health and more people are talking about it these days. While this is a mostly light hearted read, she does touch on some tough topics/feelings that I think can feel very singular/isolating, but turns out many others feel/think the same way.

This was put on my radar earlier this year by @bottomlessbooks.ct & @essentiallynovel (thank you!) I had never listened to Kate Kennedy’s podcast before, but I’m so happy I listened to her audiobook!

Thanks to @netgalley and @stmartinspress for the ALC of One in a Millennial! This published on January 23rd, 2024.

I was so excited to listen to the audiobook of this! After requesting on NetGalley, I saw the author on Watch What Happens Live and got even more hyped up learning she included Real Housewives content. I mostly enjoyed all the pop culture nods and certainly identified with the author, as we are close to the same age. One thing I found a little mismatched was that the content was not as upbeat and light as I expected. The author delves into issues surrounding a lot of things millennials celebrate and revere, and as a listener, you can't make up your mind if you are supposed to not like these things anymore. I will say though, it does open conversation and introspection into the time period and offers some interesting thoughts into this generation of people. There's a lot of anecdotes and personal stories about the author's decision to become a parent, more than I expected. All in all, this audiobook flowed pretty well and I liked the way it was read. I just expected it to be more nostalgic and positive, and less of "let's open dialogue into why all these things we love are problematic." Maybe as I think about it more, I will appreciate more of it.

I thought this was a really smart and funny take on this author’s experience of growing up in the 90s and 2000s, and how the mainstream culture at that time impacted her youth and upbringing, as well as her values. Starting with American girl dolls, slumber parties, AOL, Limited Too, then venturing into diet culture, purity culture in high school, hookup culture in college, and women’s reproductive health threats in adulthood, girlbossing, mental health, and more. The author inserts personal anecdotes and poetry throughout, which makes it feel authentic. Lots of millennial nostalgia “I remember that!” moments. I listened to the audiobook narrated by the author which was very well done, I felt like I could hear all the range of emotions that she goes through in this book as there is a mixture of serious and lighthearted messages.

This was such a fun read—well, listen. I didn’t know anything about the author beforehand or her podcast or backstory, but she immediately felt like that friend who brings disparate groups of girls together, effortlessly holds court, and still makes you feel like the exclusive BFF. (I also didn’t realize her writing had a bit of a spoken word vibe, so was pleased to listen to the audiobook as reading that, I think, may have turned me off to it.) Although some references weren’t as relevant to me—Kate’s more of a solid millennial, while I’m an *elder millennial*—I was aware of all of them and some certainly hit VERY close to home. Any cringe was intentional and immediately alleviated with the genuine comfort and knowing that only a true friend (and fellow member of the Up All Night Club™️) can provide. This is a nostalgic, well-researched book executed smoothly and written by an unabashed girl’s girl, which I found a delight to listen to. I’m excited to recommend it to friends, but am bummed we won’t all get to talk about it at a slumber party.

Falling Short of Expectations: A Review of "One in a Millennial" by Kate Kennedy

"One in a Millennial" by Kate Kennedy, unfortunately, falls short of its potential, leaving readers feeling underwhelmed and disappointed.

The book follows the protagonist, a young millennial navigating the ups and downs of modern life, from dating mishaps to career struggles. While the premise holds promise for a humorous and relatable exploration of millennial experiences, the execution ultimately falls flat.

Kennedy's writing lacks depth and nuance, relying heavily on tired stereotypes and clichés rather than offering genuine insight or originality. The characters feel one-dimensional, their actions and motivations often ringing hollow and unconvincing.

Moreover, the pacing of the book is uneven, with the plot meandering aimlessly at times and lacking a clear sense of direction. While there are moments of humor scattered throughout, they are not enough to sustain interest or engagement over the course of the story.

Additionally, the book/s attempts at social commentary feel forced and superficial, failing to offer any meaningful insights into the challenges facing millennials in today's world. Instead, they come across as heavy-handed and didactic, detracting from the overall reading experience.

Overall, "One in a Millennial" is a mediocre offering that fails to live up to its potential. While there may be some appeal for readers seeking light entertainment, those looking for a more substantive exploration of millennial life are likely to be disappointed.

In conclusion, "One in a Millennial" is a forgettable read that ultimately fails to leave a lasting impression. Kate Kennedy's novel may have had the potential to offer a humorous and insightful commentary on millennial experiences, but unfortunately, it falls short of expectations.

Thank you to Macmillan Audio for this advanced audiobook copy for my review!

Kate Kennedy shares her experiences as a millennial and a human. Her writing is insightful, witty, and emotional, and there is something any millennial can relate to in this book.

I enjoyed listening to this audiobook but, I admit, it was definitely the sort of book I put on in the background while I did other things. This is not really always a book about a “universal” millennial experience. Don’t get me wrong, I definitely related to some of her nostalgic callbacks (the bit about AOL Instant Messenger “away messages” felt like a personal attack) but the stories are often pretty specific. I’m okay with just calling it a memoir.

I found that this book wasn’t really sure what it wanted to be. There would be a more lighthearted essay about 90s nostalgia and then a hard hitting commentary on reproductive rights. I enjoyed both, but it sometimes felt like two different books.

Overall, the book itself could use a little more cohesion and forward motion, but I liked each essay separately and the author is a great writer.

I really enjoyed the nostalgia of this book. Limited Too!, American Girl, trundle beds, AIM, oh my! I really enjoyed the author’s commentary on how girls and women are made to feel as if our interests aren’t valid or acceptable by men, and thus society as a whole. I also appreciated that where she could, she mentioned her privilege, but also was honest with the ways in which she struggled with mental health and later on, fertility. This book was perhaps deeper than I anticipated, but it was that depth that made it all the more compelling. I also appreciated that the author addressed how her voice appeared labored at times (there’s a spoiler here, so I won’t say it) because I noticed and it was a bit distracting but I wouldn’t say it was often. But I did notice, so I liked that she explained why. I also personally love when you can hear a narrator’s emotions in an audiobook because it just makes it even more relatable. Overall, I’d recommend this audiobook!

Even though I’m a millennial, I didn’t care for the tone of this book. I found it grating and did not finish it.

That said, I could see others loving this book. So I think it’s a simple case of a work that wasn’t for me.

So all I’ll say is: Your Mileage May Vary.

If you grew up in the 90s or 00s, listening to this will immediately take you back to your childhood. while listening I was constantly shaking my head and pointing like "yeah, me too!"

The audio was phenomenal, especially because it's read by the author.

This is one of my favorite books of the year. It is as if Kate wrote about my life specifically. I couldn’t believe how relatable this was. A must read!

2.5 stars. I am smack dab in the middle of the millennial generation and I picked up this book expecting some nostalgia, maybe some laughs, and an entertaining ride. HOWEVER, what I got was an extremely analytical and pessimistic view on the things that came out of our childhood years told in a very unorganized and longwinded manner. She's not wrong about some of the things she said, but this book made me feel blue instead of nostalgic. Despite saying this is not a memoir, this is definitely a memoir of Kate's personal experience growing up as a millennial and the lasting impact cultural norms have had on her. There is no real structure and its way longer than it needed to be. The author does address (in depth) diet culture, misogyny, mental health, and the expectations that were placed on millennial youth. A lot of what she said was relatable and makes sense as to why so many people of my generation struggle with the things we do and why we're working so hard to break the cycle with our kids, but this long of a book made it feel depressing instead of hopeful. I really didn't like what some of what she said about religion and Christianity, though I feel like her stance was ultimately unclear. Overall, this just made me feel icky.

Being one of those people that is on the bubble of being a millennial, I was able to relate to many of the author's childhood memories. I enjoyed the humor she brought to the table with this self disclosing book. I didn't always agree with her conclusions as my life took different turns from hers but I appreciate her vulnerablility and honesty. I appreciate that she reads the audiobook and while she made it raw with several emotional voice breaks as the weight of what she is reading hits her, I just found her voice tone depressing and I struggled to finish the book. I have no other tie to this author but if you do you will enjoy her personal story. I really liked when she talked about the struggles of entrepreunership. Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for an audio version for an honest review.

Every girl of a certain age can relate to this book. If you grew up in the 90s and were a teen in the 2000s- ESPECIALLY if you were raised in church this book will feel like home for you