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The Overdue Life of Amy Byler

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Amy Byler used to have an exciting life. But two kids, crushing bills, and a long absent husband have left her exhausted and frumpy. So when her ex reappears and offers to care for their kids for the summer, she reluctantly agrees to a few weeks in New York City, to a makeover from a fashion magazine, to high heels and dates and well-fitting bras.

Kelly Harms' THE OVERDUE LIFE OF AMY BYLER is a fresh and very funny reminder for every woman who struggles to put herself first that creating an enjoyable life is an important part of being a great mom.

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I have never read anything by Kelly Harms before, and truly didn’t know what to expect from this novel.

It’s the story of a school librarian who gets the chance to take a break from a pretty stressful life. She learns to be herself again while also hanging on to the hope that her kids still need her.

I enjoyed the “teaching” (librarian) perspective of this book, as I am a teacher and it resonated with me and the difficulties of getting students to enjoy reading. I also appreciate that sometimes life can be very difficult to handle on your own.

Amy’s #momspringa was a way to get away from it all, but also her way to understand how much she has already.

I think this book would be an excellent vacation or beach read for any parent/teacher who feels a bit overwhelmed and would like to live vicariously through Amy Byler.

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I’m spilling over with love for this book.

There is a very bookish theme, sparkling banter between the characters, including in-depth discussions on books. And there is food porn, there was so much food consumed that I was constantly hungry. And there was journaling. And a New York setting. And all the humour, literally laugh out loud moments.

And, and, and.

I could keep whispering sweet nothings about this book, but I rather you discover the joys of it yourself.

If you love books bursting with wit, and highlighting the power of female friendships, and the joy of finding yourself, then I highly recommend this gem of a book to you.

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I have been reading some heavy novels recently and thought it was time for something a little less oppressive. This one fit the bill perfectly.

Amy Byler is a school librarian and single mom with two kids, ages 12 and 15. Her husband up and left them for nebulous reasons three years previously. It has been a struggle to make things work, but Amy has indeed made a good life for her family even though she is worn down from her efforts. Suddenly Amy’s husband reappears and wants three months of re-bonding time with the kids, which eventually results in Amy getting a “momspringa” vacation in New York City.

This book is engaging, funny, and thought provoking. Amy finally has time to actually think about finding her true self, and to try to determine in what direction she wants her life to go. Things are complex, and Amy has much to sort through. What exactly does her husband want? How will the kids react to him? Does she still love him or is she ready to move on to someone else? Her whole recent adult life has revolved around being a wonderful mother to her kids. But at what cost to herself? Is it possible to find a way to take better care of Amy? The cast includes a couple of great longtime friends of Amy’s - a magazine editor and an ex-nun (whom I loved) who dole out advice and a couple of interesting male companions Amy connects with during her journey in New York.

Amy has a ton of decision trees in this novel, and it was fun to think about what I would do in her position. Humor is present throughout; I smiled a lot and laughed out loud several times. I also liked the fact that two of the main characters are librarians and we get some good librarian book talk in this story. Extra credit goes to Ms. Harms for her dialogue, which simply sparkles.

Amy is so easy to cheer for and I kept hoping for a way for everything to fall into place for her and her family. I looked forward to grabbing the book every time I had a few minutes to read; I felt invested in the characters and was engrossed in their story.

I recommend The Overdue Life of Amy Byler to anyone looking for a quick, easy, and fun read featuring a very likeable main character on a thoughtful journey.

Thank you Net Galley, Lake Union Publishing, and Kelly Harms for the gift of an advanced review copy. Thanks also to Sonja Yoerg for kindly bringing this book to my attention. Opinions are mine alone and are not biased in any way.

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Our new association with #tallpoppywriters has yielded another great read. The Overdue Life of Amy Byler introduces us to Amy, a single mother with two teenage children. Her husband John, had left her and the children three years earlier to take up with his much younger (and tinier) girlfriend/coworker in Hong Kong. Suddenly, and without warning, John returns, with a desire to reunite with his children.
Mild-mannered Amy accepts the situation and allows her guilt-ridden husband to spend the summer with the kids. This surprise break provides her with the perfect time to escape her Pennsylvania surroundings and take a journey to the big city of New York for a library conference.
Once in the Big Apple, the book really takes off. She bunks with longtime friend Talia, whose magazine Pure Beautiful, needs a boost. Together the women give birth to #momspringa. The story of an overworked, exhausted mother recharging her batteries over the summer in the city that never sleeps. The concept proves to have the power to raise Talia’s magazine ratings with laugh-out-loud results that set Twitter on fire. Amy discovers one surprise after another in New York City.
The Overdue Life of Amy Byler is just plain funny. Featuring spin classes at Flywheel, a few blind dates, and a host of other unexpected escapes that all play into the new chapter of Amy’s life. One of the best parts of the book is night texting with her two best friends. Trust me on this one, it’s great fun.
This is an amazing story about identity, raising kids, moving on, and love. Kudos to Kelly Harms for terrific writing. Just when you think the book has peaked, my gosh, it gets even better.

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This book is hilarious, I’ve never been a single parent but I started getting anxious just reading about Amy. I read this book in a few hours and was kicked out of my bed for laughing so hard. My husband was not amused but I certainly was. I look forward to reading this author in the future

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This was a funny book! The author did a great job with the main character, Amy Byler, as well as the supporting characters - especially Amy's quirky friends Lena (a former nun) and Talia (a single, childless, fashion magazine editor). The story focuses primarily on Amy, a determined mom who has been working nonstop after her husband left her and their two kids 3 years ago. Her estranged husband randomly reappears and decides he wants to be a part of his children's lives by taking the kids for a week. So while the kids are with their father, Amy goes to NYC to attend a conference for librarians. What was supposed to be a quiet and uneventful week without her kids turns into a wild adventure that lasts the summer (#momspringa)! I really enjoyed this book and look forward to reading others by this author.

Thank you to Lake Union Publishing and NetGalley for providing a copy for review.

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I'm so grateful to NetGalley, Lake Union Publishing, and the author for an opportunity to read this wonderful novel prior to publication. I have been in a lengthy reading slump, and though I've started several great books, I have not finished one until THE OVERDUE LIFE OF AMY BYLER, which I could not read fast enough! I will provide a more in-depth review on my blog closer to publication in April, but for now I will say that this book is honestly and engagingly written, has wonderful character development, witty dialogue (including some laugh-out-loud text message exchanges), emotional depth, and thought-provoking situations arising between the characters. It deals with marriage, children, including teenagers, friends, regret, and the road to possible redemption. And, if you read this book, you will understand when I say that I want a #Momspringa, like, right now! This will end up as a favorite read of the year. Really well done.

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"I must never again forget to care for myself."
Definitely a fabulous, laugh out loud funny novel mixed with a whole lot of truth.
What Mom doesn't forget herself as she is raising her kids?
What is a Mom's life? Does it include time and enjoyment for oneself?
When Amy's husband decides to come forth and get to know" his kids after a few years on hiatus, Amy decides with some reluctance and persuasion, to take a month for herself. Could she really relax, live and love?
This is a wakeup that is amazing for not only Amy, but for her twitter fans that are following her to see her escapades as #momspringa!
I loved all the characters in this book, but especially Cori, Lena and the hot librarian!
Read this in a day!

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Amy’s life as a wife and mother was going along as smoothly as can be expected with John, a mostly absent husband, Joe, an eight year old genius son and the diver, Cori, her twelve year old daughter. But on the day John rolled his suitcase out the door and got on a flight to Hong Kong, stable, stay-at-home mom, Amy, became a single mother with two children to raise. Quite quickly, according to Amy’s BFF, Lena, Amy snagged a job as school librarian at the private school Joe and Cori attended, refinanced the house and barged on with her life.

Kelly Harms recreates the topsy-turvy life and emotional roller coaster ride of a single mom with her quirky accounting of conversations that Amy Byler has with herself, in her own head. Amy’s actually quite convincing and has you choosing her side of the argument, and then just as swiftly your emotions flip-flop and suddenly her rationionalizations have you siding with John! (There were times I didn’t know if I’d “kiss ‘im or kick ‘im” if I actually ran into him.) The BIG issue arises when John returns after three years in Hong Kong, in order “to spend time” and “get to know” his children. (Oh brother, picture lots of really mad faced, exasperated emojis in Amy’s texts.)

John wants to spend a week with his children-just a week! What could go wrong? Amy’s friends, Lena and college roommate, Talia, are in cahoots when Amy decides to spend that same week in NYC at a conference for librarians, earning continuing education units and presenting at the conference. ( This is a “get away” on which planet?) Amy’s sensible financial strategy is to stay with Talia, editor of Pure Beautiful Magazine, in order to save hotel expenses. When Amy’s phone calls and texts go unanswered she reverts to their old college days and the tricks she and Talia used to get into hotels. This is the point where Amy’s “overdue life” begins to get REALLY expensive-it’s NYC, not rural Pennsylvania. Credit cards are for emergencies, right?

Amy’s attempt to enthuse and enthrall Cori with reading begins with summer book suggestions and journaling. This “grateful reader” simply adored the journal entries Cori writes to her mother at the beginning of each chapter. The references to authors, book titles and plays are a luscious treat for book lovers of all ages.

Amy does experience life in NYC. And it was certainly “overdue.” You’ll need to read the book to find out the bits about the “make over of Amy”, the clothes, the dates, the restaurants & bars, the plays, the museums; the crying & heart-breaking decisions that have to be made. Read Kelly Harm’s newest book and you will experience the pain of abandonment and the false elation of martyrdom; regret and forgiveness, the thrill of a new love, and even the realization that children grow up and become independent -which is both joyful and bittersweet. You might need your own ” momspringa” after you read The Overdue Life of Amy Byler.

Check out: https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/41723475-the-overdue-life-of-amy-byler

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I really enjoyed this book. The style is breezy and humorous, despite the somewhat serious subject, and I loved the heroine who goes on a Momspringa and rediscovers herself in the process. Will definitely recommend and It should find many fans with readers of this type of fiction.

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This book is hilarious. Amy rides a rollercoaster of emotions from living the life of a single mother the last 3 years because her husband couldn't handle life and just took off leaving her with 2 young kids. When he decides to return she has to decide if she can enjoy a week in NYC at a conference while he cares for them. This starts the summer of having fun, trying to rid herself of self guilt and falling love. It's a great book and I couldn't put it down. Make sure you put it on your TBR list and grab it when it comes out.

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When a mother who’s been all the parent, all the time for three years gets a week off, everything falls into place.

“Could it be this easy? Could life be this aligned for once?”

Amy leaves her small-town life for a week of responsible-only-for-herself time. #momspringa

“The tablet blinks again, and I click back to the message app. Talia, in her succinct way, doubling down on her cool in four little words: this party is on”

There are makeovers (“I promise you will be thrilled. You look like … like the perfect version of yourself.””) and dinners and walks in the park. There’s romance, friendship, and self-reflection. There are literary references and reading adventures. And, probably my favorite, there are LIBRARIANS.

But momspringa doesn’t last forever.

““Amish rumspringa ends with a big decision. Go home or never turn back. I’m not sure how your momspringa is any different.””

I suspect many mothers will find Amy’s time of complete freedom fabulously relateable. Recommended for mothers looking for a fun, funny, and touching story about love, family, friendship — and being yourself.

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Amy Byler's husband ditched her and their kids three years ago, so when he shows up, full of reget, we can forgive her for being less than welcoming. Still, she could use a break--and a life.

What follows is so engaging, I had to clear my calendar. Harms dances on the knife edge between snort-your-coffee humor and bull's-eye insights, often in the same sentence. As a card-carrying curmudgeon, I resist such tactics, but here I never felt played. Instead, I was swept up in Amy's Everymom dilemma, her quest for a full life without sinking into the swamp of selfishness.

Whip-smart and honest to the core, THE OVERDUE LIFE OF AMY BYLER is a thoughtful, nimble charmer.

Did I mention the hot librarian?

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