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There I Am

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Reading this book really puts your life into perspective. When you feel your lives are hard or you are going through a lot and then you go read a story like Ruthies you wonder how you didn’t personally find the strength to make it through what surmounted to your own small insignificant problems. This story was so powerful and so beautifully written. I received an advance review copy for free, and I am leaving this review voluntarily.
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I absolutely loved this book. It felt like I was sitting down and hearing a close friend's story. Ruthie Lindsey's writing is so heartfelt and honest. I found her via Instagram and I am always inspired and uplifted by her words. She writes in a way that even if you haven't gone through anything even similar to what she has you can apply her outlook and lessons to other events in your life. She truly is an inspiration and her genuineness and love for life, even amidst the struggles and challenges, shines through in this book.I definitely plan to read this one over and over again. I can't wait to see what is next for her.
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Ruthie is an excellent storyteller, She brought me right into her story with her words. Her story is filled with pain and heartbreak that could leave you feeling empty, but instead you walk away from this book feeling full - full of hope and joy. She reminds us that through pain, we can find ourselves again and look forward to the future.
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This journey that Ruthie Lindsey takes us on is beautiful, raw, emotional, and magical. I want to read this book for the first time 100 times over.
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I followed this author on Instagram for years. I was really interested to read this story of recovery and starting over. I would recommend for sure, even if you have never heard of Ruthie.
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This book was beautifully raw and completely honest. The author faced so much in her life and yet was able to find a way through it. I would highly recommend this book for those needing to know they can make it through anything. 

I would like to thank Netgalley and the publisher for providing me with a copy free of charge. This is my honest and unbiased opinion of it.
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I cannot imagine the pain Ruthie endured;  so much so, I wondered so often how she could put one foot in front of the other and make it through most of her days. I must say at the outset, there was an aspect of her story that was confusing. As a woman who used to suffer from debilitating migraines, it was difficult for me to grasp how she could ever possibly function with constant auras, the sensation of a spike being driven over and over again through her eye, and the dizziness and nausea that usually accompany these symptoms. I was left confused.
I am grateful to have read her story and I hope for health and healing for Ruthie.  Hers has been a terribly difficult path.
My thanks to NetGalley for the opportunity to read this book.
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Ruthie Lindsey has an incredible story and it has never been more relatable than it is now. Her memoir covers everything it took to overcome a near fatal car accident, an even more life threatening complication from the resulting spinal fusion, chronic debilitating pain, the loss of her father, her struggle with infertility and the end of her marriage to her first love. If that sounds like more than any one person could possibly take you’d be right. Which is why her journey and her message of healing is nothing short of awe-inspiring. She wants you to know that YOU too can begin the journey of healing. Healing is for YOU. YOU are worthy, YOU are loved. YOU are love. Her message is so important and her writing is like being wrapped in the warmest hug by the sweetest friend. Read this book and then give it to someone else who deserves to hear how worthy they are.
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A beautiful, heart-felt story that had me reading chapter after chapter. Ruthie made me laugh, cry, put my hands up and say "preach!" and everything in between.
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Truly one of the most beautiful stories I have ever read. It was not only beautiful and a story everyone I know everyone can connect to the lessons is so eye-opening. Just when you think the lesson was learned, it keeps diving deeper in and gives you ways you too can transform your life!
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I pre-ordered this book the minute I found out it was available. As a part of the launch team, I received an advanced reader electronic copy and completely devoured Ruthie's story. She shares so vulnerably in this memoir that I believe anyone can relate to as pain is universal.

Her story of healing is inspiring!
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Right now, we are all going through incredibly difficult times, immersed in a global pandemic, and There I Am reminds us that we are resilient through change and we can get through immense pain. This book is raw and indispensable for anyone dealing with chronic pain, grief, divorce, health anxiety, faith, addiction, friendships, and the difficulties of trying to start a family, to name few. It was a gift and honor to read, thank you Ruthie for sharing your heart, so that others might gain the courage to heal.
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I needed this book! Not only was this book a page-turner, but it's also a heart changer. Reading this memoir gave both comfort and hope. Ruthie tells it like it is, bare-boned, raw and beautiful. When you hear the truth, you know it. Even the painful, dark moments need to be expressed, and this book does this gracefully. I'm comforted and inspired by people who lay it all on the line, and this book does this so well. I know Ruthie isn't perfect .... but this imperfection is what makes a work of art and that is what There I Am is, a work of art!
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Such a raw, open, beautiful book.  

I started following Ruthie on Instagram because I loved (coveted) her beautiful home and style.  Over time, as she shared more of her personal story, I feel like I started seeing her differently.  This book tells the story of what happened - to Ruthie, how she handled it, how she dealt with some of the huge challenges set her in in her life.  It's open, honest, raw and supremely readable.

The book is structured chronologically, but rather than wanting to read ahead to see what happens, Ruthie really draws us into her world, her family, her friends, her home and her life and you find yourself living along with her.  I found myself rooting from her from very early on and her current success and achievement are even more incredible when you see what she has overcome to get there.
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This is such a beautiful memoir from start to finish.
It is so beautifully & vividly written, that you feel like you’re right there with Ruthie, through each moment.

I was so touched by her & her Fathers love & adoration for each other & later I was in awe of her strength & determination to heal & find joy again.

This book gives an in depth look into her journey through debilitating chronic physical pain, as well as the emotional pain from trauma, loss & heartache, to her healing journey & re-discovering herself & her joy. She is truly a walking miracle & an absolutely magical human being.

Ruthie has a light within her that shines so bright, that to know her, or to know of her, is to feel that light within you too.
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This book is a beautiful culmination of beauty and pain. Ruthie's voice is so raw and powerful that you feel everything you're reading. Every chapter is a new amazing part to connect to. I feel completely seen and understood while reading this book, and I can relate to so many different parts that it's unbelievable. 10/10 would recommend to anyone
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"Healing isn't a process you complete--it's a journey you are on for a lifetime."

Wow. Just wow. I loved Ruthie's honesty and vulnerability in this book. Not only does she do a wonderful job of pulling you into her story with great writing, but she also invites you to start your own healing process from whatever it is that's causing you pain. I felt like I was hearing from the big sister I never had. Ruthie's experiences make me want to be more compassionate toward myself and others. Adding this to my list of favorite memoirs.
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I’ve been waiting for Ruthie Lindsey to write a book since I first began following her on Instagram. Even on the internet, she radiates warmth and light, and she has a way of making everyone feel like their story matters. 

What a gift this book is. I couldn’t put it down, and I couldn’t stop crying. Through her various trials, Lindsey teaches us what it means to live with and embrace the nuances of life. And her poetic prose is such a wonderful bonus. I knew Lindsey was talented and creative, but the writing and structure choices in this book rival the likes of renowned authors. Lindsey is an exceptional storyteller and uses language to her advantage in communicating her story. I have no doubt this will be a top book for many in 2020.

Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for this title in exchange for an honest review.
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This book is beautiful -- a beautiful story about something that isn't always beautiful. Ruthie's story telling feels like the most comforting cozy blanket wrapped around you. Her journey gives a hope to anyone who is struggling. Thank you to Ruthie for sharing her story -- it allows others to be brave and find their story.
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Ruthie is such beautiful soul that has been through so much in her life. She is sharing that she is continuously learning to heal and live life as we all are, with finding joy in each day. Her experiences are her own but are relatable to many of us, from losing her father, depression and divorce. 

She has a way with words that made me laugh, cry a bit, my eyes have been opened to see life situations differently, how we can help one another and had my heart cracked wide open to let healing light into my own soul. 

Thank you, Ruthie. You are one in a million.
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