Thank you to the publisher for the review copy.

This was such a great coming of age book with not one but TWO love stories in it.  Charlie and Sage are such great examples of what a supportive and caring friend should be like. Both are navigating developing feelings for two different guys and in turn, lean on each other for support.  This was a light book, but had some emotional chapters towards the end. A YA book with lots of heart.

This story is told through two points of view - Sage and Charlie. Their friendship was my favourite thing throughout the book. I really like Charlie's twin, Nick, their brotherly love is so refreshing, I don't often see sibling relationships told so well. Luke is a force to be reckoned with, he knows exactly who he is and won't take any crap, even from the person he loves. All of the characters have their own flaws, of course. I got tired of all the ups and downs caused by the secrets and misunderstandings between all of the main characters. The happy ending was nice but I'm a little tired of angsty stories with the "will they, won't they?" trope, which is used twice in this book.

I very much liked this story. It takes place at Brexley, the boarding school all the characters attend. It is its own little world contained within the story. I loved the friendship between Charlie and Sage. I do wish the LGBT angle was handled a bit differently in some parts. Nothing overly wrong with what was done in the book, just maybe an overly tired trope in some areas. But the overall story was heartwarming and gave all the good feels. Thank you Netgalley for the chance to read it.

This book follows a group of teens Charlie, Sage, Nick, and Luke in their senior year at a boarding school. The main characters’ relationships and friendships are at the center of this book. I honestly thought this was an enjoyable read. I tend to steer away from books with boarding school settings because they all seem to follow a similar path. This book wasn’t too different from that path but I was intrigued from start to finish. 

I love how relationship and friendship progression are displayed in this story. They learn how to deal with  their individual relationships that eventually become strong as a result. I wasn’t too surprised with the fact that Charlie’s story centered around coming out because of the setting and the way he had portrayed himself to his classmates. It was probably one of the least painful coming out stories I’ve read in some time.

For the most part this was an easy read that didn’t stray to far from what I imagined it would be. This story was lighthearted and enjoyable.

3.5 stars.

At the prestigious Bexley School everyone believes that Sage Morgan and Charlie Carmichael will end up being together, eventually. But Charlie dates a different girl nearly every week. His twin brother, Nick, has had a crush on Sage forever. When  transfer student, Luke, shows up to take a gap year, Sage, Charlie, and nick’s lives will never be the same. Charlie and Luke are drawn to each other, giving Sage and Nick, plenty of time alone. Life long friends Sage and Charlie must face the secrets they have been keeping from everyone including themselves. 
Sage and charlie's friendship is something I wish i had growing up. It was slow to get into but by the end i found myself wanting to know how it would end. Plus i wanted to know just how stupid the smart guy charlie would be when it comes to Luke.

Three relationships are at the heart of this story: a friendship and two romances. Only two of them really held my attention, however.

Sage and Charlie are best friends, but everybody at their private boarding school thinks they’re in denial and that they are destined to be a couple. They do love each other—just not that way. Instead, Sage has fallen for Charlie’s twin brother, Nick, and Charlie is drawn to a new student, Luke. But Sage and Charlie both let their fears hold them back from being open about what they feel and instead hide behind their friendship until faced with the possibility of losing Nick and Luke forever.

Of the three relationships, Sage and Charlie’s friendship and Charlie and Luke’s romance worked for me. Although he’s never admitted it to her, Sage suspects Charlie is gay, and she does what she can to support him, including spending time with him rather than dating. Charlie is a golden boy at his school, and he’s terrified of coming out and possibly losing the love of his family and the respect of the students. Instead, he hides his sexuality by being a serial dater and by not challenging people’s assumptions about him and Sage. Even after he swoons over Luke (and they do have some swoony moments as a couple), Charlie struggles to overcome his fear of people knowing he’s gay, and Sage feels like she can’t be open about her feelings about Nick until Charlie comes out. So, all four of them are tangled up in a web of love and secrets and lies.

Charlie is just one of the complications in Nick and Sage’s romance, though, and it’s the other one that lost my interest. Sage’s parents got together young, and their marriage ended in divorce, so Sage is afraid to be with Nick because she doesn’t want the same thing to happen to them. “That’s the dumbest thing I’ve ever heard,” says one of the characters when Sage tells them what she fears. I agree, to the point that I rolled my eyes every time it came up, which kept me from getting invested in their relationship.

While this novel isn’t perfect, it is the author's first book, and I liked it enough that I’m going to be keeping an eye for more by her in the future.

A copy of this book was provided through NetGalley for review; all opinions expressed are my own.

This follows a pretty standard, expected plot. It makes gestures towards progressive thought with lgbt relationships. The problem is, that lgbt plot essentially becomes strictly a coming out story. There's no more complexity than that. With familiar elements organized in familiar ways, this doesn't really stand out from the crowd.

Thank you, NetGalley and the publisher for the chance to read this book.

DNF

Unfortunately, the writing style is really not my cup of tea at all. I feel like the author expects me to know tons of information about the characters without explaining anything, too many people were introduced at once and they all blended into one, and the plot jumped around too much for me. I definitely see why people would like this, unfortunately, it just wasn't for me.

If We Were Us is a pleasant, well-written romcom.

Let’s start with the writing style. Well it was utterly pleasant. I dove into the book pretty quickly and in a couple of hours I was already in the middle of it.

The relationships between the main characters are interesting in the sense that they’re built on diverse things (other than love). The friendship between Sage and Charlie is adorable, with no implied feelings to each other and I miss having great f/m friendships in YA literature. The only flaw is that they seemed a little bit « too much » alike. When I was reading a chapter, I found myself wondering for a second wether I was reading Sage’s POV or Charlie’s. 
2.5/5 

I could tell if the rep were good (for the gay and the half Japanese characters) but something bothered me along the way but I couldn’t put my finger on it exactly. Maybe I’m getting tired of reading gay men struggling with their masculinity and fake-dating girls in order to drown the fish, especially when the book is not written by an ownvoice on this topic. At the end, I was a bit ill-at-ease with Luke’s take : not wanting to be with someone still in the closet seems a bit rough to say, especially when all the characters are in the twenties. 

The four main characters are likeable. Maybe a bit too much. They’re not very deep, very two-dimensionnal in their reactions and their habits. They are not helped by the lack of strong storylines because the book is basically just about romance and friendship. It’s ok though, I could have enjoyed that, but I got bothered about a lot of stuff with Charlie’s chapters and Sage’s ones were just meh. 

It’s overall an okay book and I will probably read an other one from this author, but the flaws in this one disturbed me and kept me to really enjoy it.

This book had good moments, and I think books like this are so important for queer teens. I wish there had been more of these books when I was a teen, because I think it would have expanded my world view immensely. 

Charlie and Sage are best friends. They are just friends, but their group thinks they are together. Then there’s a new boy named Luke shows up and that is who Charlie likes. Then because they are teens, Sage has a crush on Charlie’s brother Nick. So they are all sorts of complicated and teenage feelings. 

The friendship shared between Charlie and Sage is the main stage, and I think more books need to do this. I was invested in how they were going to manage to be friends when life moved on for them, but I was also interested in knowing what’s going to happen with the romances each one was going to have. The friendship was the main focus, and I think more books need to do this so teens can see it is okay to just be friends with people. 

The romances were okay, but I think they could have been a little stronger to me. I thought how Charlie and Luke had to deal with the confiucliting feelings Charlie has about his sexuality was a strong point. I cant imagine how that feels, but the author does super well to show how these feelings can impact yourself and the relationship someone has. 

I think this book was great because of the boarding school setting, and Charlie and Luke. Definitely a cute YA read, and it is even better because there is queer rep which is something we need more of in the world of books.

I did enjoy this book. It was a light hearted, YA story about love. 
The characters were very run of the mill. I didn’t really warm to them, but there wasn’t anything to dislike either. The story worked well, and had a predictable ending, which sometimes you need.
Overall, a decent 3 out of 5 stars.

This was sweet and charming, but it also had a lot of depth. I really appreciated the discussion on how it can be really scary, but ultimately so freeing and rewarding, to be yourself and to admit what it is you truly want. The friendship in this was really well done too. I grew to love these characters, and I think lots of contemporary readers will be just as enchanted by Sage, Charlie, Nick, Luke, and their friends as I was.

Well written and entertaining. This story has lots of feels that will keep you happily turning the pages. In the uncertain times that we are facing it's books that will keep us sane. That will give us the distraction we so desperately need. Pick up this winner of a book. It's a must read. Happy reading!

This was a pretty middle of the road read for me. I didn't love it, I didn't hate it. It's nothing we haven't really seen before, plot-wise, and the characters are a bit cookie-cutter and sound alike. I wouldn't go out of my way to recommend this to a customer, but I'd lump it in with similar titles if someone was looking for something to read.

there may be slight spoilers in this review, so read at your own discretion, but i have some things to say.

i just… mmm i’m disappointed. other people may like this book and that's fine, but this has harmful queer representation.

i don’t even know where to start. this cover looks like a cute read but i was just upset reading this, for two main reasons among a few others. firstly, you don’t have to be “out” or even queer to write these storylines, and i don’t know the author’s identities or anything and she definitely isn’t required to disclose anything, but as a queer person myself I was uncomfortable and angry reading this. 

this story alternates between two best friends: Charlie and Sage. Sage is straight and in love with Charlie’s twin brother, Nick. Charlie’s gay and later says “I’ve known for years” but dates so many girls for a few weeks at a time before dumping them, and generally treating them like shit. this is my first complaint. Charlie claims he’s known for years that he’s gay (said as a senior) and that he dated all these girls to hide the fact that he’s gay and because he “had a reputation to hold up”. it’s one thing to date a few girls if you are struggling to accept your sexuality and are still figuring things out, but he treats these girls like shit and barely feels bad about it. i could get past it if he acknowledges that being closeted doesn’t excuse his shitty behavior. even when he first gets with Luke, Charlie doesn’t treat him that well at times. 

AND THEN Luke pulls the “we can’t be together if you won’t come out” card, which pissed me off. stop putting this in books unless you’re going to facilitate a discussion about why this is toxic!!! you should NEVER pressure anybody, let alone the person you are dating and supposedly love, to come out just because you want to be with them publicly. that is the shittiest thing to do. AND the book never addresses this. Luke never apologizes. Charlie only goes home and comes out to his parents because Luke broke up with him for not being out to everyone. i’m so fucking tired of reading this in lgbtq+ books, and they’re almost ALWAYS written by non own-voices authors. i’m not even sorry for all this swearing because i am so upset and tired of reading this in books but especially YA books. yes, Charlie’s parents were accepting of him and not homophobic (expect for a few side comments), but not every household is like this. not every lgbtq+ child can come out safely and to have this message that you have to be out in order to date someone in YA books is so fucking harmful. people deserve to come out on their own time when they are comfortable. coming out is not some grand romantic gesture so please stop writing it like that!!! i’m going to scream!! 

also this book just screams “look at me i’m such a good ally!!” it’s full of little comments in scenes from other characters after Charlie comes out that are so cringe worthy. there’s a joke about someone hiding in the closet and then a comment of “nobody should have to hide in the closet”. shit like that. 

anyway. the writing? this read like a wattpad published first draft. the time skips were SO annoying. every chapter had like 5+ time skips where things just happened off page and you get no sense of development for these characters. the scene would end abruptly and jump ahead and then past conversations would get referenced but we don’t see them happen. 

and the two POVs?? useless. there was no differentiation between the characters monologues and this was first person so it was incredibly confusing. i couldn’t tell who’s POV i was reading half the time. i got zero sense of their personalities, and they just read like puppets bouncing around doing things because the author made them. the only character i actually liked was Nick.

This was a very up and down book for me. I loved the sound of the summary when I requested it on NetGalley and that part of the book I loved. But there were a few tropes which were not my favourite.

This book is about Charlie and Sage being best friends and everyone in their friend group and their school thinks that they are together. But new boy, Luke, shows up and Charlie is very interested in him. Sage, on the other hand, is interested in Charlie's brother, Nick. They are in their last year at school so they're talking about where they're going for college afterwards and their plans when they split up. 

This book made me feel so many emotions and I loved it for that. I adored Charlie and Sage as characters, I found them interesting to follow and I loved their friendship. You could see they actually loved each other completely, just not in that way, and it was so lovely to see a platonic relationship like this when it is made very clear that they are incredibly important to each other and it was never going to be romantic. The main focus is the relationship between Sage and Charlie and how they can manage it when they split up after high school, but there are also relationships with the love interests to consider.

This is where this book let me down. I loved the building of Charlie/Luke and Sage/Nick that happened throughout the first half of the book, how they got together and the growing pains they had in their relationships as they got used to having people they were serious about. It felt very realistic for the troubles Nick and Luke had with them and I was interested to see how they would deal with it. While internalised homophobia is not my favourite trope at all, I sympathised with Charlie and how he felt like he was letting everyone down by being someone else to who they thought. I also sympathised with Luke, who was forced back into the closet again because of this and understand how he could be frustrated when he didn't see any problem with it. What I didn't like was how solving the problem came across as if Luke was holding up Charlie's coming out like an ultimatum (especially when it was only for three months) and how no one once said to Charlie that he didn't have to come out if he didn't want to, that it was his decision to make. It wouldn't have taken much to change the resolution of that conflict, to make it about how it is a hard position for anyone to be in and Charlie and Luke not managing to be with each other despite wanting to support one another. But we didn't get that and it made this book very frustrating.

Another quibble with this book, though this one was far more minor, was how there were suddenly all these characters on the page without being introduced to any of them. I can't remember half their names but they were the group of friends Charlie and Sage hung out with and they all became very indistinguishable from each other, despite having a lot of screentime. I wouldn't have minded this for the minor side characters, like Dove, but they were far more major and had a greater part to play in the book and I can't remember even one of their names.

However, one thing I loved about this book was the boarding school feel of it. It was such a fun setting to play up, especially when we got introduced to how things worked at the school and how it diverted from the rigid roles of popular/unpopular kids, by just having groups of friends, some more well known than others.

This, combined with the writing style, made me wish that one conflict above was reconciled because I could have really loved this book.

3.5 stars!

This book was a bit of a bummer. I was looking forward to a cute high school romcom with an LGBT+ angle to it, but If We Were Us just fell flat to me. The bar is getting higher and higher for YA fiction: there are countless books written for young audiences that combine romance with self-discovery, social commentary, and humor. This wasn't one of them.

Frankly, the book could be summed up in one word: predictable. The main characters are flat, not whole people - I couldn't connect with them, even from the very beginning. The book is told in rotating perspective between Sage and Charlie, two childhood best friends and seniors at the prestigious Bexley School. Their chapters sound exactly the same, despite them supposedly being very different individuals. I found myself searching for their character flaws and things that make them more human, but they always did exactly what I predicted them to do. Once you know the initial premise, you can guess almost exactly what happens in the whole book. The dialogue is stilted, the life of boarding school very Zoey 101-stereotypical, and the romances lacked chemistry. I was more interested in Charlie's storyline, but even that had some issues in my mind and lacked the sparks that I was hoping it would have. 

Overall, this is a pass for me. Thank you to Sourcebooks for the ARC!

Now let’s get down to business and talk about the things I loved within this book.

The friendship between Charlie and Sage, as well as Sage and Luke was definitely a plus. They seemed stronger together than apart and were the glue holding each other together until secrets got a bit in the way.

Charlie is a conflicted character, who I deeply felt for throughout the course of the novel. While some may not like stores of people unsure of their sexual identities, as someone who struggled with mine for so long, it’s comforting to see a story so like my own. And seeing someone overcome it is even better, especially when they are supported.

Does Charlie do dubious things during this time? Yes, and while I do not support the actions of the character I do, in a way, understand it. Everyone is created differently and feels differently.

Sage’s story is different, and it took a while for her motivations to be explained. I do with that her half of the story had been a bit more fleshed out. It would’ve helped me understand her better as I was often confused by her actions and her lack of honesty about why she was behaving the way she was.

Overall this book was a good read, almost comforting to me in how it was written, and I would recommend it to someone who wants a YA coming of age story that is a quick read.

firstly thank you to netgalley and the publishers for the Earc In exchange for review 

before going into this book I was so excited to dive in and I wanted to read this one when I first heard about it as the premise of the book sounded great and something I would enjoy. sadly this book fell flat for me and was just a okay read.  

I'm not one for doing negative reviews so I will only say the positives of the novel will a little critique because there definitely were moments that I enjoyed throughout such as this is set in a boarding school setting which is a nice feature in books that I love.

the friendships I really enjoyed too and how really supportive they were to one of our main characters Charlie who is currently in the closet and is too scared to come out to friends, family and the school because of the repercussions he thinks it will have on himself and doesn't want anyone to treat him differently. I will say Charlie was a great character but from time to time he did annoy me (just my opinion) 

and finally I really like the cute romances we do get but I wished we got so much more from them as I felt that throughout the whole story we only got snippets of romance and felt it was never fully touched upon. yes don't get me wrong we do see build ups to the relationships but I felt something was missing. 

overall if we were us was a good read just wasn't on par to what I thought It could of been. I will say it was a really fast read for me and went by very fast. if your looking for something light and cute definitely read this one if you are interested.

I really enjoyed this romantic, boarding school story. It was light, and while our dual narrators mostly focus on teenage drama, and somewhat frivolous stuff, for example, dresses for prom, and spending time with friends, there is enough serious material to engage readers on a deeper level.

Sage and Charlie are best friends forever. So much so that almost everyone expects them to wake up and love in love. Both of them know that’s never going to happen – Sage is secretly in love with Charlie’s twin brother Nick, and Charlie is deeply, deeply in the closet. When Luke arrives, there’s a bit of a stir in the group of friends – good looking, personable, popular – which girl will snag him?

The boarding school setting is as you’d expect – elite, preppy and mostly rich kids. There are many characters to indicate the many friends Sage and Charlie have, and how many girlfriends Charlie has, and while they serve the purpose of offering a range of opinions about each other and the entanglements of romantic interludes, they really are just backdrops to our focused four.

Walther doesn’t explain everything either. Readers have to keep up with Sage’s breezy monologues, and Charlie’s intense regime of academic excellence, student leader, sporting commitments and getting together with and then quickly breaking up a string of beautiful peers. He’s quite exhausting, and as the story progresses and we watch the way he struggles with his attraction to Luke, we understand why he maintains so many commitments. Sage’s secret romance with Nick also seems like it’s a hot minute from disaster, and we’re not surprised when everything is turned on its head.

It is so easy to engage with Sage and Charlie. Their loyalty and love for each other is infinite. Even though they think they are keeping secrets from each other, they’re really not. They know each other too well. They are observant and keep a protective eye out. It’s a fascinating bond, and when Sage loses everything to keep Charlie safe, and Charlie realises what Sage has done for him, they are truly insightful moments for these kids, and we sympathise and cheer them on.

Talk on the review sites mention the terrible ways Charlie treats his girlfriends, and subsequently Luke. But Walther does a good job of showing us why he is so fearful about his sexuality. Nick too develops beautifully as a character. He has to come to terms with a lot about both Sage and Charlie, and his forgiveness is everything.

But Luke is the character that stands out for me – brave, resilient, extraordinarily strong. He puts up with a lot from Charlie, and it’s important that he draws a line on the treatment and holds his ground. But since predominantly, this is a romance novel, the grand gestures are predictable, and readers aren’t required to deal with too much angst or darkness.

Thanks to Netgalley and Sourcebooks Fire for the advanced copy. Recommended for readers who like books that focus on romance and friendships more than social issues and commentary. It doesn’t try to be more than it is, however, there’s some thoughtful conflict in there among all the typical high school hi-jinks. It’s funny too, so it doesn’t take itself too seriously. Highly satisfying conclusion. If We Were Us comes out on June first 2020.