This book is hospitable. Enjoy a plate of cookies and some warm milk.
It seems to be an authentic offering of one man’s reflection on his life’s experiences, sharing what has been helpful for him: emphasis on for him. This is Mr. Britt’s philosophy, attributed to and gleaned from his family, friends, acquaintances and media such as books and movies. It is shaped in a friendly, conversational manner.
However, as a lifelong student of philosophy and wisdom teachings, I don’t consider the title represents the contents. Maxims, yes. A few life insights, yes. Read further. This is a playbook of beliefs, formed by maxims, from a man who states his beliefs in God, in hunting, in the glory of competition and sports. Unfortunately, for the few useful guidelines herein, the author’s overt claim that there is a God, and that as his creator led him to create this book, puts up a bill board that blocks the view of usefulness from non-religious yet very capable readers. Then, there's the rub of hunting if one believes in the sanctity of life. Killing for survival may be necessary, but isn't killing for sport destroying your 'God's' creation?
We can certainly applaud the call to seek wisdom! I endorse inspiration and encouragement to be open to the lessons of skillful teachers who walk their talk. While these are helpful folk sayings, helpful ancestral teachings within a certain ancestry, it is merely a collection of a very specific, cultural transmission. Wisdom is a weightier concept, requiring sagacious discernment, deep insight into the essential nature of life, of universal application -- different from this friendly, coaching playbook.
In the sagging shelves of ‘self-help’ books, what makes this book stand out? Potential buyers should peruse the table of contents and a few maxims to decide for themselves. I consumed many such books in my 20-40s, seeking ‘success’ and ways to improve. Ultimately, these Hallmark flavor books offered diversion, a few confirmations of my experience, and fewer substantial insights or inspirations by which I developed more fully. I wasted a lot of time within the chain of fast food ‘success’ books. (For example, he offers a maxim/rule that “It’s going to be okay”. Really? Experience parenthood, marriage, decades of working to survive and realize everything is not okay and may not be okay. There is much tragedy, suffering, and ignorance that is not abated in this life. Wisdom reveals that suffering is part of reality and carries many into death).
Overall, this is a fitting family tribute, a gift from an elder to his family and friends. It is, as a family album, sharing the highlights of one’s man's life. A maxim is a rule of conduct; this may be a useful guide if the recipients are not rebuffed by the author’s religious claims and business-sport-male mentality. And beware, while ‘feel good’ sells in America, often everything may not be or turn out okay. It doesn't mean you haven't lived as wisely as possible.
Yes, true wisdom helps us navigate the dangers and difficulties of this mortal experience. May we keep seeking.