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For the Love of Friends

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Lily suddenly finds herself as a bridesmaid in 5 weddings in a 2 month period including those of her younger brother and baby sister. She is 32 and thought she had her life together and would be able to handle it, her friends were normal...until the bridal events started happening. Lily couldn't believe the demands and the behaviors and none of her friends were listening so Lily starts an anonymous blog to vent. It feels good to let it out but what will happen if someone figures out it is Lily writing it? A story of friendship, family, love and finding your voice even if it might not be what others want to hear.

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Lily Weiss is 32, single, and in 5 weddings in the space of a couple of months. There are some real bridezillas - and mum-zillas, and these weddings are costing her thoudands. Her solution: start a blog to get it all of her chest, stretch her journalistic muscles, and maybe make some cash from the site ads.

This was an easy, rom-com read, complete with "it could only happen to me" hijinks and the hunky guy you can't have until suddenly apparently you can. It was well written, and the story flowed.

I got some serious second-hand anxiety because of the brides, which was mega uncomfortable but I think also shows that I engaged with what I was reading, and it all felt like it was just airing on the side of being ridiculous, but was also believable. I did also feel, at the end, that Lily had less apologising to do than some of the brides, but the brides barely acknowledged that they'd been anything less than reasonable.

I didn't find that I was furiously turning (virtual) pages to find out what happened next, but it was a low-effort, light read that's entertaining and fun.

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I received an eARC of this book in return for an honest review - thank you to NetGalley.

This book follows our main character Lily as she navigates having to be part of 5 bridal parties within a couple do months, including her own younger siblings. Starting a new online blog to follow her journey, she unleashes truths about Bridezillas, evil bridesmaids and monster-Moms. All while thinking she was remaining totally anonymous.

I really enjoyed the main character, she was likeable, funny and I loved seeing her relationships with the other characters. It was also really lovely that we not only had her voicing the story but we were able to read from her blog, too - adding that extra dimension and viewpoint. With jealousy over her younger siblings getting married, tensions with the bridesmaids and juggling money to reach all 5 weddings, she felt like a very relatable and real character.

The concept of 5 weddings meant that there were a lot of other characters involved in this book, but their personalities were so well built up that it was easy enough to follow each individually. The love interest plot had quite a few twists and turns, the only let down for me was that the ending was quite predictable.

Overall I really enjoyed this, a perfect summer read, easy enough to be sucked into and breeze through.

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If you loved, or even liked, the film 27 Dresses then I think you will love this - same same but different.

Lily Weiss is a writer, working for a prestigious science institute. It's her job to make complex (and often boring) science accessible to normal people. She's good at it, but it's not what she dreamed of when she used to write stories at night under her duvet as a child.

Her work BFF Caryn asks her to be a bridesmaid when she finally gets her boyfriend to propose. Caryn and Lily don't really mix in the same circles but Caryn begs Lily to save her from the toxicity of her other bridesmaids, including her sister-in-law-to-be, and Lily can't say no. But then things snowball, her college BFF also announces she is getting married and asks Lily to be a bridesmaid to protect her from her overbearing mother. Then her closest friend Meghan also announces she is getting married and guess what? You got it, she wants Lily to be a bridesmaid. Next her younger brother announces his engagement, and as a way to get her new sister-in-law he wants Lily to be a bridesmaid! Lily is at Meghan's engagement party when her baby sister, who still lives at home with their parents, announces she too is engaged. Suddenly at 32, Lily feels over the hill if even her foetus of a sister is engaged. The only solution is to mainline Chardonnay which leads to her waking up in bed with one of the groomsmen and no recollection of the night before.

At first things are hectic but manageable, Lily even manages to become adept at helping brides to choose their favourite dress (and not just the one their bitchy friends or controlling mothers like). But then the bridezilla demands start: buy this hideously expensive bridesmaid's dress; dye your hair; lose weight; fly to Chicago for dress shopping; fly to Mexico for a wedding; fly to Paris for a bachelorette party; etc. In frustration, because Lily would never say these things out loud, and in an attempt to earn some money to help her pay for all the dresses, shoes, gifts, parties etc, Lily starts up an anonymous blog called Bridesmania where she recounts the more absurd things her brides are doing.

Oh, and one of Meghan's groomsmen, Alex, is really sweet and charming but Meghan has ruled no drama, and after sleeping with one groomsman Lily can't risk any more disruption to the wedding so Alex must go firmly into the friend zone.

I think it will be fairly obvious to any reader/watcher of rom-coms, what is going to happen. But it's a fun read and Sara Goodman Confino walks a thin line between making the brides-to-be unreasonable but also showing that Lily's decision to take out her frustrations by writing a vitriolic blog was not the most appropriate response.

After DNFing so many books already this year (and with more on the horizon), this was a delight and proved to me that it's not me, it's the books. So if you fancy a light-hearted, hilarious, snarky wedding-themed rom-com that is absolutely ripe for being made into a movie then look no further. Highly recommended.

I received a free copy of this book from the publisher via NetGalley in return for an honest review.

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For the Love of Friends was an entertaining, feel-good read.

Lily is a single woman in her early 30s and finds herself a bridesmaid in FIVE weddings. The thought of that makes me want to rip my hair out. She tries her best to get through it, but has to deal with bridezillas and everyone having an opinion about her love life. Lily needs an outlet and starts writing an anonymous blog.

I can see how people might think Lily is a selfish person for broadcasting her closest friends’ and family’s dirty laundry. She really tried her best to be selfless, but how selfless can you be before you explode?

I loved the complexities of all of her relationships, especially her love interest. At first, it was difficult to keep all the characters straight; but I quickly fell in love with some of them.

This book is definitely one I plan to re-read and purchase a paper copy when it’s released.

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Easily readable, though very predictable. I found it unbelievable that her friends could easily forgive her for the gravity of what she did. I thought it undermined everything, but still, I came for a happy ending and I got it.

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Lily Weiss is a writer stuck in a prestigious but boring PR job who somehow ends up being a bridesmaid in 5 weddings simultaneously. As she manages her brides and family opinions on her weight, single status, and overall life prospects, Lily decides to channel her frustration into a blog called Bridesmania where she writes (mostly) honest and snarky recaps of her adventures. When she unexpectedly falls in love and reaches a breaking point, she has to climb out of a hole of her making.

While Lily was pretty heinous on the blog, I could have forgiven it had the main conflict in the book not been so absurd. My least favorite romance trope is months/years of tension based a simple misunderstanding, and that is the basis of Lily’s entire story. Without spoiling it, I felt as though we wound up to this huge cliff only to find out we had only climbed two feet off the ground. Lily is at times not a great friend, but more importantly, she has awful friends! A certain love interest redeemed the story - had this book simply been about friendship and family, I would have knocked another star 😕

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this was actually cute and fun! i rarely read books within this genre because some don't just meet my expectations, but this was quite the book and i did enjoy my time with it. Another first from the author, a solid one and i would love to recommend.

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This book was, for me, a little too complicated. I loved it, i love the author’s style and i love the dry wit of the main character, she made me laugh so many times, but i was also having a hard time following all the different characters. The point of the story is exactly that, that Lily has too many friends getting married at the same time, and the author showed the confusion of all the different friendships perfectly!
I loved it and will reread it for sure, as soon as i have enough time to delve in and remember the characters better!

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What can I say?? This book was hilarious and heart warming, and showed the importance of friendship while still being light hearted.
Lucy is a single 32 year old who is invited to 5 weddings in two months, AS BRIDESMAIDS!. And to add insult to injury, two of them are her younger siblings.
And with her little income slipping through her fingers, mum-zillas let loose and killer bridesmaids, Lily finds it surprisingly cathartic to blog about it all. She can rant to a few thousand strangers and no one will know!
But what happens when everyone does know??
This book was so refreshing and funny and the writing was amazing! This is a classic for all lovers of rom-coms which are moderate on the romance and heavy on the comedy.

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I LOVED this book. I cannot recall a moment where I was starting to get bored or uninterested. There was always a new little twist that kept me engaged.

Although I cannot directly relate to Lily, I can empathize with the way she is being treated by some of her closest friends and family. She had so many thoughts and feelings going through her head all at once, yet she did not want to upset any of the people she loved. So she translated those feelings into writing which is her biggest passion. This did come back to bite her in the butt when her post gains views. But there were a lot of lessons learned from this mistake that helped Lily develop as a character. I love the humor of her blogs and references to relatively recent events or people.

There were SO many relatable themes throughout the novel, which I think is what ultimately kept me so interested. I found myself reflecting about how I would respond in Lily's situation and understanding why she felt the way she did.

I think the way Sara Goodman Confino incorporated romance into this novel was clever and not too overbearing. It wasn't the main focus of the book, but it developed nicely and was really a cute story.

I would definitely recommend this as a joyful read with a great storyline, that'll leave you happy! Once I got into it, I had a hard time putting it down. I was reading every break I got, which says a lot about the quality of a book.

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I would like to thank Netgalley for the opportunity to read this ARC in exchange for an honest review.

Lily Weiss has been asked to be in five weddings. Naturally, Lily said yes, wanting to do the right thing for all of her friends, but wedding mania begins with Lily stuck in the middle of it. Evil bridesmaids, demanding mothers, garish dresses, how will Lily survive it all? For Lily, the answer is to start a blog, Bridesmania, and snark about all of the low points for the preparation of each wedding. For the Love of Friends is a hilarious story, following the main character, Lily, and her quest of succeeding at all of these weddings. Can she do it?

The cutest and best book ever! I honestly loved every single moment of it. Lily was such an interesting and enchanting main character, and I wanted to know more about her every moment I kept reading. The plot line of For the Love of Friends is creative, funny, and just so amazing! As soon I as started reading, I didn't want to stop reading. Confino did a really good job depicting the craziness of weddings, especially for someone, like myself, who has never been in a wedding before. To think about all the pain and labor that actually goes into a wedding is actually frightening, and Lily portrayed that for us by showing the behind-the-scenes horrors of each wedding.

There were many secondary characters that I enjoyed, such as Megan, Caryn, Becca, Amy, Lily's grandmother, but my favorite secondary character was Alex. The friendship Alex and Lily formed because of the weddings was honestly precious. I enjoyed reading anything about Alex, and I wish I had my own Alex. He is perfection! Without these secondary characters, none of the major drama in the book would've gone on, so I'm glad that they're there. Megan was so adorable, and I could tell how strong Megan and Lily's friendship was. Likewise with Becca. Caryn was amazing at first until she got into the nitty-gritty of her wedding. Then, she was an absolute beast about anything and everything, but it made the novel more enjoyable. Amy was so stuck-up, but I feel like Amy was more misunderstood than snobby. She was achieving the one thing that Lily hasn't achieved yet, and she was taking pride in it. Lily's grandmother was a hoot! Anytime Lily was around her, I was always ready to hear what her grandmother had to say. She was amazing!

I really enjoyed For the Love of Friends. It has all the important aspects of a romantic comedy. If you like Christina Lauren or Kiley Roache, you'll definitely like For the Love of Friends.

Happy reading!

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As someone who has been a bridesmaid 11 times, I relate a lot to this story. After the kind of year we've all had, it's been really refreshing to read something lighter and fun!

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For the Love of Friends follows Lily, a 32-year-old PR writer, who is in 5 weddings in the same year. She starts a blog about her experience to make a little more money so that she can cover the expenses of the weddings.

This is the book about a bridesmaid that we all needed. It was a riot and I could not stop reading. Though it was a little slow in the beginning because of all the background information, the story picked up in no time. One of my favorite things about the book, besides the blog posts themselves, was the voice of the main character Lily’s narrative voice was so much fun to read. She’s snarky, opinionated, and extremely funny. I really liked how Lily’s character developed through the course of the book. I really liked that she started to notice the things she could do to be a better person and be better toward her friends and family.

I really liked that the book also focused on the relationships between Lily and her friends, her family, and her love interest. It was nice to get a look at her friendship and family dynamics and see how they changed as she grew as a person. I enjoyed reading all these characters, they were so well fleshed out and so dynamic. I loved all the drama and all the hectic wedding events.

One of my favorite tropes to read is the best-friends to lovers trope and this book delivered. It’s definitely a slow burn. I loved seeing the evolution of their relationship and how they went from strangers to best friends to lovers.

This book was just a joy to read and I would highly recommend it.

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This is a really funny feel-goods book about Lily, a single 32-year-old, who is due to be a bridesmaid at 5 weddings over the course of a 2 month period. She decides to blog about her experience to try and make a bit of money on the side to cover the costs of the weddings.

There is a wide variety of very realistic characters throughout this book, they were so well written I could really imagine them as real people. Lily was a really funny and cynical character who felt very relatable and imperfect. The characters I enjoyed reading the most were the ones I hated. Caryn’s friends and Lily’s mother were definitely the most hateable characters in the book and they were just so well written. Alex was probably my favourite character in the book, he was an absolute sweetheart.

The whole concept of this book was absolutely brilliant and fantastically written. There was nothing particularly surprising about the outcome of the book but it didn’t need to be surprising. It was a fun and entertaining book that I did not want to put down

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For the Love of Friends is a hilarious but real look into the life of a bridesmaid...x5. Lily agrees to be in 5 weddings within a few short weeks of each other. And to cope, she starts an anonymous blog to rant about the Bridezillas.

This book was hilarious, with a narrator you both hate and relate to. Lily is not the most self aware person, but we all know that friend or family member. I’m sure we can also relate to some of the stressors she experiences as a bridesmaids, and how our friends can change when weddings are in the picture. This was a quick read that kept me on my toes. While it was somewhat predictable at times, it was fun to watch this all unfold in front of Lily. I definitely recommend this book if you want a laugh, and a light read.

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Cute chick lit story that is relatable as a woman in her late 20's early 30's. I enjoyed the sharp and witty humor throughout and thought the main character Lilly was relatable and fun!

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For the Love of Friends was entertaining and engaging. Reminiscent of 27 dresses and Bridesmaids, this book reads like a rom-com but the characters are better fleshed out and the plot slightly more realistic. Of course, the plot was simple and anyone who has watched their fair share of rom-coms knows exactly how the story would play out but the writing kept me so engaged that I read it all in one night. The main character, Lily, was the perfect mix of snarky and real. She was not perfect by any means, but that's what made her so likable. The issues didn't get magically resolved either and she did have to have real conversations, which I can appreciate. Lily's connection and relationship with the love interest was a charming delight to read,
Overall I enjoyed the book and it was definitely worth losing a night of sleep. It doesn't hurt that the cover is cute too.

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This is a totally fun and enjoyable novel. For the Love of Friends is delightfully humorous and shines as one of the best funny book I have read.
I voluntarily read and reviewed an advanced copy of this book. All thoughts and opinions are my own.

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This book as a lot of appeal for the mid twenties to mid thirties crowd. I really liked Lily and her friends—I felt like they reminded me of several of my friends and their own misadventures through dating, engagements, wedding planing, etc. I also love this because Lily really is a good friend and good bridesmaid, which did hurt the believability that she would write some of the blog posts she does. They were a little too on the nose/mean, but I guess they have to be in order to forward the plot (as opposed to taking the smarter, more discrete option of changing facts enough that the posts are still entertaining while not being too obvious). I thought the opening romance might mean this mostly women’s fiction book would also fall into a romance but the love story is definitely a side story to Lily’s relationships with her friends, but the story doesn’t suffer because of this.

Overall, I liked it. If you like 27 Dresses, Say Yes to the Dress and all those TLC spin-offs, or frankly have been a bridesmaid you will probably find someone to relate to in this book.

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