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The Woman They Could Not Silence

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This is a unique look at the life of Elizabeth Packard and her impact on women's rights specifically in the mental health field. She heroically stood up for not only herself and her rights to be viewed as an individual, but also the other women who she met along the way while being unjustly hospitalized in a mental institute by her husband.

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The Woman They Could Not Silence by Kate Moore was both inspirational and riveting. I listened to the audiobook that was masterfully read by the author. It is embarrassing that I had no idea who Elizabeth Packard was prior to listening to this captivating audiobook. How she slipped through history without more of a presence was hard to fathom! Elizabeth Packard was a true heroine in women’s rights. Author, Kate Moore, impeccably researched this book and combined her research with her masterful storytelling and talent to remind everyone about this all but forgotten woman who changed the history of women’s rights. The Woman They Could Not Silence was a true account of Elizabeth Packard’s time in an insane asylum and her long and difficult fight she fought in the name of mental health rights for women and the rights of married women. Kate Moore relied heavily on letters, memoirs and trial transcripts to detail the obstacles Elizabeth faced both before her confinement in the insane asylum and after. Although The Woman They Could Not Silence was quite long (over 14 and half hours of listening time), I found that I could not pull myself away from her story. I wanted to know more.

In the year 1860, Elizabeth Packard had been married for twenty one years to Theophilus Packard. Elizabeth was a housewife and patient and loving mother to their six children. Her children were Elizabeth’s heart and sole. She lived for them. Theophilus was a Calvinist minister and quite threatened by Elizabeth’s remarkable intelligence, unheard of independence and inability to hold back her own thoughts on any subject she found contrary to her own thoughts. In those days, a woman lost all her rights as a U.S. citizen when they married. In the eyes of the law, in 1860, the man was always right. The husband was regarded as being in sole possession of the property where a husband and wife lived and the husband would be awarded complete possession of the children if either were to be contested in a court of law. The laws always favored the husband. Based on these laws, Theophilus had no trouble having Elizabeth committed to the Illinois State Hospital insane asylum located in Jacksonville, Illinois, against her will. He proclaimed her insane just because she had begun to question his religious views. Theophilus had two friends write letters for him to support his findings. That was all Theophilus needed to have Elizabeth committed. At the Illinois State Hospital, Elizabeth quickly learned that she was not the only sane housewife to be committed without evidence of insanity. Dr. Andrew McFarland, the doctor in charge of the asylum, held the power to silence Elizabeth and keep her locked up for three long years. All that time, Elizabeth fought back against her cruel husband, unmoving and detestable doctor who showed the world a different side of him than he showed the patients at the asylum and the 19th century laws that gave men, and especially husbands, absolute power over women and wives. Elizabeth was determined to change those laws and give women their undeniable rights as citizens.

The Woman They Could Not Silence by Kate Moore was both powerful and dramatic. Elizabeth Packard’s accomplishments were historic and heroic. She got her points across through her voice during the trials she endured, the books she wrote and by seeking intervention and reform by the government both through individual states and by the national government. Elizabeth Packard became an advocate for women’s rights. The Woman They Could Not Silence was a testament to how far women’s rights have progressed from those dire days of 1860 but also how far they still need to come. Hats off to the courageous and undying bravery Elizabeth Packard displayed as she fought for her own freedom and rights and those of her fellow women. This is a book not to be missed. I highly recommend this book.

Thank you to Blackstone Publishing for giving me the opportunity to listen to the audiobook of The Woman They Could Not Silence by Kate Moore in exchange for an honest review. All opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.

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First line: This is not a book about mental health, but about how it can be used as a weapon.

Summary: Elizabeth Packard, a wife and mother of six, has displeased her husband with her differing views on religion and politics. According to the laws of the land he is within his rights to commit her to an insane asylum. And this is exactly what he does. However, Elizabeth will not go quietly. For three years she lives inside the walls of the institution, writing her story and about the abuses of the staff and the superintendent. Finally, when she is released her problems are not over. There is still a battle to be won and no one is going to silence her until it is finished.

My Thoughts: If you are looking for a non-fiction book that reads like fiction then this is it. The story is very easy to follow, the flow is consistent throughout and the plot is compelling. Elizabeth’s story is probably more common than anybody realizes. A husband, father, or brother has become disgruntled with a woman and sends them away. It is sad and fascinating all at the same time.

I listened and read this at the same time. Both were very enjoyable ways to consume this book. The reader did a great job and kept my attention while I was doing other things as I listened.

I did get a little frustrated at times with Elizabeth. Even though she knew that certain men were the ones that put her in the asylum she continued to try and persuade them to change their minds. I liked to see that she was smart enough to manipulate the situations she was in or make the best of her times in the asylum. She kept her wits about her which many other women would not be able to do.

With her limited resources she improved the lives of many of the women trapped in the asylum with her. And when she left she did not forget the ones that were still imprisoned. She was an intelligent woman who knew how to get her points heard. Because of her campaigning she brought about changes for married women and patients in the asylums.

FYI: From the author of Radium Girls.

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This wonderful book by Kate Moore delves deeply into the issue of women being oppressed by their husbands and institutionalized. We follow protagonist Elizabeth Packard in her trials against her husband, who wants to see her declared insane. In this day and age it was quite simple to do. Elizabeth fought back for her freedom and the freedom of every woman subjected to suppression by their husbands.

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Kate Moore's previous book <i>Radium Girls</i> is a book that I think about a lot. When I finished it, I immediately went to see if Moore had any other published works and was utterly disappointed to find there wasn't much. So, when I saw <i>The Woman They Could Not Silence</i>, I was immediately excited to read it.

Here we learn the story of Elizabeth Packard, a woman who was admitted to an insane asylum falsely, because her husband wanted to get rid of her. In the asylum, Elizabeth saw the true reality of how these facilities treated the insane. As she grew more vocal, the worse her treatment got.

While I can't say that I enjoyed the things Elizabeth had to face, I did enjoy reading about the history and just how far science, mental health rights, and women's rights have come from Elizabeth's lifetime. This didn't hit me as hard as <i>Radium Girls</i>, but it was a good read.

3.5/5 stars

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Thank you NetGalley for an audio-ARC of The Woman They Could Not Silence by Kate Moore.
Kate Moore narrates this audio and her voice is perfect for the time period and the historical aspect of this story. Written like a narrative, this non-fiction book was easy to listen to and keeps the reader's interest.

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If this were a fiction book, when Elizabeth Packard wins her insanity trial, readers would be cheering at the happy ending. But THE WOMAN THEY COULD NOT SILENCE is not fiction, and Elizabeth's court battle is only a small part of the remarkable story. As I listened to the book unfold (I had the audio version), I could not believe all this woman had been through. What's more, i was filled with respect for what had to be one of the most brilliant and unsung female heroes of our time.

Just as she did the women in Radium Girls, Kate Moore does an excellent job of bringing Elizabeth Packard and her struggles to life. Readers will find themselves on the edge of their seat as she struggles for release from the asylum and cheering for her brilliance when she bests her antogonists.

Elizabeth Packard is the badass hero every woman should know about. Thank You Kate Moore for writing this book.

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Another fantastic and fascinating book from Kate Moore.

This ticked all the boxes for me--early feminism, part of history I know nothing about, lunatic asylums, and the mistreatment of women.

I listened to the audio, which the author read, and it was a good production. The short chapters made this 15 hour audiobook fly by.

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Many of us have seen the graphic that circulates social media with the list of reasons women could once be institutionalized. It’s an absurd list and in the book groups I’m in, “novel reading” is often circled. People laugh. And it is funny when you don’t think too deeply upon it. Because that list is a reality. Those were reasons women could once be institutionalized. That list exemplified the lack of rights women had. That list declared that women who actually thought for themselves, showed emotions, used their imagination, or did anything else outside of the structure set for them as females could then be contained and controlled. So, while on the surface, that list may seem humorous, it’s actually quite terrifying.

Elizabeth Packard lived during a time when the beliefs that list imposed were widely practiced. Because she had spoken out about women’s rights, possessed religious beliefs that contradicted her husband’s and simply proved to have a mind of her own, her husband was legally able to have her institutionalized and declared insane.

That was the beginning of Elizabeth’s harrowing, gasp-inducing ordeal. She endured a number of institutional abuses and a painful separation from her children, while they were being conditioned to view her adversely in her absence. As the title of this book clearly conveys, that was not the end of Elizabeth’s story.

I did appreciate that Moore included some of Elizabeth’s own misjudgements of other women when she possessed a positive perception of the male they condemned. Her mistakes show her humanness, as well as one of the many issues still prevalent in today’s society. We are often quick to dismiss claims of mistreatment when we don’t experience such mistreatment from the culprit ourselves. Fortunately, Elizabeth was able to learn from her own errors and came to fight for the very women she once misjudged.

There is a particular short story - one I don’t want to mention by name in an effort to not spoil it for those who haven’t read it - that aptly demonstrates the disturbing effect of doing things simply because “this is the way it’s always been.” The story takes very little time to make a loud statement about not questioning practices and mob mentality. Its eerie message is evident to the reader and one might find it difficult to believe that such an absurdity could ever take place. We see it all play out in different ways again and again, however, and The Woman They Could Not Silence exemplifies this horror as a reality back in the 1800s.

The value of the historical issue addressed in this book has not depreciated. We need to know this. And we need to recognize how those laws and toxic beliefs continue to subtly (and sometimes not so subtly) influence how we behave today. Kate Moore does not shy away from clearly stating how prevalent this issue is still; how quick society is to cast doubt on a woman’s claims with this simple statement: “She’s crazy.” We must all continue to be women they cannot silence.

I do not think a single fictional horror story exists that can outdo the things that have happened and will happen in this world. We live the ultimate terror daily. The story detailed in this book is truly a terrifying one and while it’s part of history, it’s something that did happen - something that could happen again in different ways. So, if you really want to read something that will creep you out and make you think twice about turning out the lights, read this book about men with too much power, inhumane laws, and women who are silenced through imprisonment, manipulation, and mutilation. I promise you: This is a scary book. But it’s an important one and it needs to be read.

“We are only just beginning to appreciate exactly how a person’s powerlessness may lead to struggles with their mental health.” ~Kate Moore

“No human being can be subjected to the process to which you subject them here without being in great danger of becoming insane.” ~Elizabeth Packard

I am immensely grateful to Bibliolifestyle & Sourcebooks for my finished copy and Blackstone Publishing and NetGalley for my audio review copy.

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I suspected this would be good because Radium Girls was so good, but this completely knocked my socks off. The story is amazing, and it is told well. Highly recommended.


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“She blocked out all that usually dominated and made the world stop and stare.”

Incredible true story about a woman who never gave up fighting for her truth. In 1860, Elizabeth Packard was unjustly detained in an asylum by her husband for speaking her own mind and not sharing his beliefs. While most people would have given up against the myriad of obstacles she faced, she never did. Against all odds, she was not only able to secure a release from her prison, but was also legally declared sane by a jury. Elizabeth Packard eloquently and tenaciously represented the oppressed, championing the rights of women and the mentally ill for the rest of her life. She was responsible for several laws promoting the rights of married women and of the mentally ill. She wrote several books about her experiences. And she ultimately helped initiate an investigation into the abusive behaviors toward asylum patients in Jacksonville, IL. She was a pioneer, a reformer, a hero, but mostly, a mother.

The author’s absolute passion for Elizabeth Packard comes through loud and clear. Her book is extensively researched and comes together impeccably detailed. While it is a work of non-fiction, the narrative and sudden twists make it read like a novel. The content is overwhelming to the heart and forces the reader to pause and reflect on how things have changed and yet how they still remain the same. After reading this, you will think twice before flippantly calling another person crazy again.

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Elizabeth Packard is one of my favorite feminists so I was extremely excited to find this book. Kate Moore absolutely did her story justice.

The book goes in depth from the beginning of her first confinement to the end of her life, with all of her accomplishments as a free woman. I found the outsider point of view interesting. Knowing what the doctor was writing in his files, what her friends were advocating for, and what her husband was doing back home was fascinating, especially as Packard herself didn't know any of it. That decision from the author really highlighted for me just how isolated and in the dark Packard was kept.

Packard's story is one of injustice and anger, and I felt every emotion with her while reading this. If you call yourself a mental health advocate or a feminist then this story is an absolute must read.

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𝘗𝘰𝘸𝘦𝘳𝘧𝘶𝘭, 𝘳𝘪𝘷𝘦𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘪𝘯𝘴𝘱𝘪𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨!

Omg, I have no words to describe this book, what an amazing and beautifully writen story. Brutal, shocking and empowering, The Woman They Could Not Silence is a story that will stay with me for a long time. I absolutely loved Elizabeth’s story.

This is my first book from Kate Moore Author and it won’t be my last.

Thank you NetGalley and Blackstone Publishing for this ALC.

𝘙𝘦𝘢𝘥 𝘪𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘭𝘪𝘬𝘦: 𝘩𝘪𝘴𝘵𝘰𝘳𝘪𝘤𝘢𝘭 𝘧𝘪𝘤𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯, 𝘮𝘦𝘮𝘰𝘪𝘳𝘴, 𝘸𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘯’𝘴 𝘳𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵𝘴, 𝘣𝘢𝘥𝘢𝘴𝘴 𝘸𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘯, 𝘧𝘦𝘮𝘪𝘯𝘪𝘴𝘮 𝘴𝘵𝘰𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘴.

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I have never been happier to be born in the current era. A time where women can speak their minds and are not prosecuted for it. This was a true story about Elizabeth Packard whose husband didn’t like that she thought for herself and spoke her mind – and thought differently than he did. In the 1860’s men were able to send their wife to an insane asylum with very little evidence of their mental health except that she was outspoken and “different”. This is what Packard’s husband did. She was not insane, but one of the smartest women of her time. She wrote books and fought for women’s rights while in the asylum. Inside, women were often abused by the staff and if they didn’t arrive insane, many became that way because of how they were treated. Moore did an amazing job writing about Packard and using her writings to see her inner thoughts. I loved reading this book and learning about this little piece of history that helped make big changes.

If you read Moore’s other book, Radium Girls, and enjoyed it – you will love this one as well.

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Excellent book about woman's history and the way they were oppressed for merely being strong women. This is another part of history that is kind of buried and rarely talked about but should be required reading. The audiobook is very well done. I will be purchasing the hard cover edition for my local library.

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This is the second of Kate Moore's books and I enjoyed this one tremendously! Elizabeth Packard is a very interesting and relatively unknown historical figure, I am grateful to Moore for shedding light on this bold, honorable, and courageous woman. I listened to this title on audio and felt that Kate Moore as the narrator brought Elizabeth to light even more. The first several chapters were particularly engaging- I was immediately drawn into Elizabeth's struggle against her husband who plotted to get her unrightfully detained in an asylum. I believe this book demonstrates much better pacing and engagement than Moore's first book, Radium Girls. I am looking forward to her next historical topic!

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An incredible and profoundly moving narrative nonfiction account of Elizabeth Packard's fight for women's rights and mental health care in mid-19th century America. I knew women were essentially the property of their husbands and subject to their control but hearing about how Elizabeth Packard was sent to an insane asylum in 1860 simply because her husband thought she was too outspoken and claimed her to be insane was unbelievable. Even worse than her husband's treatment was the way Dr. Andrew McFarland ran the Illinois Insane Asylum. The sad thing is she was not an unusual example, what made her stand out though was that she fought back. She kept secret journals about the conditions and treatment of the other women, many who were as sane as her and later fought in the courts to change laws regarding the institutionalization of women and to get Dr. Andrew McFarland removed from his position. Kate Moore did an amazing job using first hand accounts written by Packard herself to tell this story that history has largely forgotten. Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for my advance listening copy of this great book!

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I honestly DNF'ed this book at 26% I was bored and could not imagine 10 more hours.

The authors narration was fine though.

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Thank you @NetGalley for this audio ARC of #TheWomanTheyCouldNotSilence


Kate Moore tells the story of Elizabeth Packard who was institutionalized by her husband for insanity. Except, she was completely sane. The longer she stayed the more she fought, and not just for herself but for all women.

Wow. Just.. Wow.
This audiobook, narrated by Kate Moore herself is terrifyingly amazing.

Following Elizabeth Packard, we learn the treatment of woman, especially married women in the 1860s+. Moore does an amazing job at telling Elizabeths story and the battles she fought for herself and for all women.

This is a book that should be taught in schools when high schoolers learn about history.

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Well I am now properly and rightly enraged. It’s seems that Kate Moore isn’t going to shy away from writing the stories of badass women that history wronged. I thought that The Radium Girls was infuriating, I had no idea how much angrier this book would make me.

This is the story of Elizabeth Packard and her garbage husband who was intimidated by her intelligence so claimed she was insane and had her committed to an asylum. Only for her to discover that the asylum is just full of perfectly sane women who’s husbands didn’t want to deal with them anymore. The torture and abuse these women went through was horrendous and the amount of injustices and blatant lies they were told is unfortunately not as appalling as it should be. This book embodies the whole “nasty woman” mentality and it’s brutal and incredibly empowering seeing how many times Packard was shoved down only to pick herself back up and keep trying. And yet have you ever heard of her? Probably not.

The perseverance this woman had to continually keep trying to have her voice heard speaks volumes of how suppressed women have been and yet still keep screaming. I got chills, I cried, I raged, I did victory laps, this book brought out so many visceral reactions. And yet it’s another piece of history that no one knows about simply because it’s a woman’s story. The post script at the end really gut punches you with how far we think we’ve come with feminism only to realize we’re still dealing with the same struggles and same suppression she went through. This is yet another story that I want to put in everyone’s hands and will recommend relentlessly.

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