Cindy does an amazing job of letting us, her readers, into her private life enough to feel her pain, and know that we are not alone in our suffering.  I found this book to be a balm easing the hurts, and providing hope.  If you are willing to be strong enough to restore your relationship, with God's help, this book can be a great resource for you.  For me, although I read it after my divorce was final, I found it also reassuring that for me, my ending was probably the correct one.  Cindy gives you insights into her life that made me feel like she completely understood.  She is very raw at times, and I found that helped me to resonate with her and also to move forward.  If you have TWO people willing to work hard, I do believe you can save a marriage with God's help, after trust has been broken.