The Intimacy You Crave

Straight Talk about Sex and Pancakes

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Pub Date 01 Jul 2019 | Archive Date 01 Oct 2019

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Description

Sex advice. . .
from a pastor’s wife? Oh my.

Packed with sound advice and biblical insight, pastor’s wife and author Lucille Williams will leave you laughing out loud as you receive a fresh perspective on love and romance. Sure to tickle the funny bone, The Intimacy You Crave: Straight Talk about Sex and Pancakes is a hilarious, vulnerable, and highly entertaining read that is sure to put a smile on your face.
 
Whether you’re thriving or barely surviving in your relationship, The Intimacy You Crave will give you unprecedented insights and step-by-step challenges that will increase your desire and deepen your sexual intimacy so that it overflows into every area of your married life.
 
Why settle for reading about romance when you can live it out in your own life? Whether you crave fun and laughter or a deep connection with your husband, unlike anything you’ve experience before, Lucille Williams delivers it all with a side of laughter.
 
What readers are saying about Lucille Williams and The Intimacy You Crave:
 
“Hilarious and so wise!” Goodreads reviewer
 
“I was pleasantly surprised at the fresh & humorous content.” Goodreads reviewer

“I don’t think I have laughed, chuckled, and smiled so much at a book before. Laugh out loud… Hilarious. I was in need of a smile and a pick-me-up and this gave it in spades. For a really heart-warming, uplifting read with a smile. Inspiring and entertaining. A warm-hearted, feel-good and simply great read that I didn’t want to put down. Goodreads reviewer
 
“I especially loved the Fun Expressions Referring to Sex, and how the author gave the reader permission to add a false cover to the book or put a sticker over the word sex. I didn’t have to do either of those things because once I started reading, I couldn’t put this book down. I finished the entire book in one day!” Goodreads reviewer
 
Lucille Williams is an author, speaker, director, and coach who has been working with families for over 25 years. Straightforward, funny, engaging, genuine, and authentic, Lucille writes from her experiences as a pastor’s wife and deep devotion to her husband and children.

Sex advice. . .
from a pastor’s wife? Oh my.

Packed with sound advice and biblical insight, pastor’s wife and author Lucille Williams will leave you laughing out loud as you receive a fresh...


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ISBN 9781643520605
PRICE $14.99 (USD)
PAGES 240

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Featured Reviews

Ladies, if you crave intimacy with your husband, and you're not sure where to start in bringing about change in your marriage, pick up a copy of Lucille Williams' book, "The Intimacy You Crave: Straight Talk about Sex and Pancakes." Her biblical, humorous and practical book offers plenty of fuel for increasing intimacy in your marriage.

Williams' fun expressions for "sex" will keep you chuckling throughout the book as she takes you on a journey of discovery. The book is divided into four main parts--Straight Talk, Hindrances, Understanding His Sexuality, and Bringing it All Together. Squashed inside those four parts, Williams covers all kinds of topics from body image to sexual abuse and it's impact on marriage, how men are visual creatures, and what to do to "keep the engine running," and more. So much more. She tackles issues of pornography and what's acceptable and gives sound biblical reasoning for her statements.

While I'm not sure I agree with her reason for writing the book, I think Williams ended up with a good manual nonetheless. As the wife of a children's pastor, her heart is to prevent the devastation of divorce in the lives of children. I get that, but we should be all about making our marriages great because it's God's design, a picture of the church, and shows His glory to the world. And, as a result, godly marriage stay together and children are protected from devastation. But that alone should not be our reason to pursue intimacy in marriage. Still, as I said, the book ends up being a great go-to for questions the reader might have. At one point Williams says, "God cares about your sex life, and God wants it to be all He created it to be. And it needs to be beyond amazing, just like the Creator intended." How can you go wrong with that?

The book includes quotes from anonymous husbands which can actually help the reader understand their own man better. There are "Secret Sex Missions," should the reader choose to accept them. (Though many are simply relationship builders and communication builders and not necessarily sex-related. However, they may lead to sex.) Williams also includes a section at the end of each chapter designed to help the reader open the dialogue with her husband.

Overall, this is a good book. While the topics can be sensitive to some, the authors' good humor sprinkled throughout makes it easier on the reader.

Note: I received a copy of the book from the publisher through NetGalley for this honest review. The opinions expressed are my own.

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What a wonderful book! I love that Lucille Williams approaches the topic of sex in marriage with compassion and humor. You can go to any book about sex in relationships and feel like the author is lecturing women about what happens when they have a lower sex drive. I love that this book does not come across as a lecture. Williams discusses why sex is important, how to overcome obstacles (self-esteem and past abuse included), and even looks directly at men. For the first time, I've found a book where it discusses women who have the higher sex drive in the relationship (and trust me, I've looked and looked for this!). I really appreciate this author taking a closer look at what seems to be taboo: women who want sex more than their husband. I also appreciate being able to get a closer look into the male mind in regards to sex...more than them just wanting it. Highly recommended!

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I cannot express how AMAZING this book is! Lucille covers sex and relationships in an honest, loving way so that the entire book felt like a catch up with a good friend. I loved the feeling that I wasn't alone with body image issues and other topics that were incredibly sensitively covered. I would recommend this to every woman!

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Truth Time. I based this book solely on the cover. I didn't even read the title or what it was about. I was hungry when I was looking for books to read, and this one had pancakes on the cover. PANCAKES! Imagine my shock when I started reading this book and found out what it was about.
This book discusses a very important concept of marriage. While it contains a wide variety (in my opinion, too many) euphemisms for sex, the one constant message is that it is vital to a healthy, happy marriage, as God intended. Every topic discussed may not apply to you, but there are sure to be topics covered that you will be glad you read.
I would recommend this book to those who have not married yet, as well as to those who have been married any length of time.
I received a copy of this book from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.

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I absolutely recommend this book to all married couples! I could not put this book down. Not only does it talk about sex, which is a beautiful, amazing, God given thing. It talks about and teaches us women how to be better,stronger wives. I have read a lot of books, but this book will forever be with me in my heart and soul. I have already changed. Plus this book is written by a pastors wife! How awesome is that!

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I enjoyed The Intimacy You Crave so much that I have already recommended it to my friends. It covers over a multitude of issues that could and do arise while so closely connected to another person. Gives great advice as to how to approach said issues and how to turn it around and better your marriage. It was nice to hear different perspectives on all areas, which also allowed for me to take a deep look into myself and discover where I have been wrong. Self reflection is never a bad thing and neither is spicing up your marriage!

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This author has a writing style that keeps you engaged and comfortable. This is an uncomfortable topic or at least it can be but the author injected humor tactfully and appropriately. I found myself chuckling and shaking my head. I love her list of alternate phrases for sex.
This book isn't only for the married, it's a great resource for the engaged or any woman thinking about marriage. Granted you won't be able to use the book to the fullest but it will be very helpful for what's coming.
The book is interactive. You don't just read. No!!!! At the end of each chapter are two "activities" to help you really use and get the most out of the book.
The are even a few chapters looking at the man's perspective. This book covers quite a few areas in 12 chapters. The tone is wonderful and makes you feel like you're having a conversation with a good friend. Laugh out loud moments included.

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I was hesitant to read this simply because of the title and because I've been lazy in my marriage. This book was funny, informative, and very helpful. Williams does a job acting as a girlfriend holding your hand but also delivering blunt truths. I highly recommend this book to any couples struggling, looking to spice things up, or just simply needing a little change.

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I was very happy when I received he notification that I am able to read the book and I was not disappointed.
The book offers information and suggestion about how to improve your relation with your husband.
The author highlights the idea that our day by day relationship with our husband affects what happens in bed. So, she starts from here and helps young, or not so young, ladies to know how to respect and love their husband, how to understand him, how to improve their marriage and their sex life.
The book is full of useful suggestions.
What I liked the most is the little stories the author used to help us understand the power of our actions and of our words. It was a pleasure to read his book.
I recommend it to every women that is married, no matter the age.

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This is the most light-hearted book I've ever read about sex (not that I've read THAT many!). I find it funny that the author describes herself as a bit of a prude in the beginning of this book - that's not the vibe I get AT ALL from her book. Seriously though, this book was a fun read... I literally laughed out loud at many of the stories and illustrations. Much of what I read I've heard from other authors, but it was still so good. I wish all wives could (or would!) take the time to read this book. The gentle admonition and encouragement to make intimacy a high priority is a much needed reminder.

I did not particularly care for the chapter on abuse - mainly because it didn't really apply to me... and reading the stories shared just made me feel shocked and saddened. I skipped part of the chapter.

Overall though, I enjoyed this book and I am very glad I took the time to read it. I'm sure my hubby with be glad I did too!

I received a complimentary copy from NetGalley in exchange for my honest review.

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I kinda got this book by mistake. Truly! Decided to read it... Loved how the author addresses the subject of SEX within a Christian Marriage as well as touches on lots more.. Yep! SEX!!! Now I’m blushing! This will be a book I recommend or give to brides to be at their bridal shower with the recommendation to read at least Part 1! All those “True Love Waits” brides who would love to ask certain questions but would die of embarrassment... this book is for you! The book has 12 Secret Sex Missions, an Ask Him section, What he wants you to know... there is a Resource List of books and websites at the back of the book.

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This would be a good book for girls with questions. You know, the ones she googles then deletes from her history? Young, newly married girls have enough struggle with everything else. This would be good advice for them.
Also sound Christian marriage advice about a difficult topic.

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Easy, and informational read from a Christian author! You don't find that now and days and it was refreshing. It was funny and light hearted. It is for anyone who is about to be married, just married, or been married for a long time. The book is so relaxed its like talking to your best friend.

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