This is a memoir written by a poet, so do I really need to say more?? A truly incredible memoir of her childhood growing up in a strict Rastafarian home in Jamaica while aching for freedom and gender equality. Sinclair does an expert job of weaving background information about Rastafarianism and Jamaican history into her personal story. Her prose, as expected from a poet, is beautiful, vivid, and fierce. My only note is that the ending seemed a little too tied up with a bow - but if that's what happened in real life, then that's what happened! I really recommend this book to anyone! It is one of my favorite memoirs of all time and should be included in the modern feminist canon.

Safiya Sinclair’s “How to Say Babylon” gives her readers an insider’s perspective of Rastafari and how she was able to escape the controlling rules of her father, poverty, and the strict rules of Rastafari. I am guilty of knowing a fingernail amount of knowledge of the Rastafari religion, which I learned about from Bob Marley biographies and his music catalogue. I have traveled to Jamaica and have seen the tourist areas as well as remote areas, but I truly had no idea of what role Rastafari played in Jamaica. Sinclair writes beautiful prose to convey her hardships and her desire to break free from the constraints. The reader hopes that her mother will find the strength and resources to break away from her abusive husband. Because of Sinclair’s resilience and education she was able tif find a path out.

Although compared to Tara Westover’s memoir, “Educated”, Sinclair’s poetic writing style and use of symbolism surpasses Westover’s writing style. True, their experiences have many commonalities, but “How to Say Babylon” reads like literary fiction.

I would recommend this book to students in Advanced Placement courses or Creative Writing but would need to be upfront about some triggers of abuse.

Thank you to Safiya Sinclair, 37 Ink, and NetGalley for the ARC.

A mostly sad read. The author’s parents story was full of hardship and deprivation.
I didn’t really understand her father’s beliefs but understood the consequences of them.
I think Sinclair was very generous to forgive her father because I didn’t think I could have.

In "How to Say Babylon: A Memoir," Safiya Sinclair delivers a poignant and poetic exploration of her upbringing in a strict Rastafarian household in Jamaica. With lyrical prose, Sinclair paints a vivid picture of her childhood, marked by her father's fervent religious beliefs and the stifling expectations placed upon her as a young woman. Sinclair's journey is one of rebellion and self-discovery. She navigates the complexities of her family dynamics, grappling with the weight of tradition and the yearning for independence. Her love for poetry becomes a lifeline, offering solace and a means of expressing her innermost thoughts and desires. The memoir is a testament to the power of language and the resilience of the human spirit. Sinclair's evocative writing captures the beauty and harsh realities of her homeland, while her unflinching honesty reveals the deep wounds inflicted by patriarchal control and religious dogma.

While the narrative occasionally meanders and lacks a clear structure, Sinclair's poetic sensibilities and raw emotions make for a compelling read. The coming-of-age story resonates with universal themes of identity, family, and the search for freedom. It is a powerful and moving memoir that will stay with you long after you turn the final page.

I really enjoyed this book! The story was so raw and truthful and honestly really educated me about another culture. I think everyone should read this book.

This audiobook was hella long but I powered through it and really, really enjoyed it. Not surprised that the author is a poet. I learned gobs about Rastafarianism and found every part of it fascinating. The author does a good job telling parts of the story she isn’t proud of as well. In the vein of Educated, but longer. Definitely worth the listen! 4.5

I've been trying for two weeks to write this, and nothing feels right. I just want to say this is the most beautiful memoir I think I've ever read.

I loved this so much. It was such an emotional story. I put it on hold because I wasn’t sure how I was gonna feel about it. But I throughly enjoyed it. Some things it talks about is heavier, but definitely a good read

Beautifully written memoir, I feel like I learned a lot about the Rastafarian culture. Definitely well done.

Fascinating account of a young woman whose father became a Rastafarian in Jamaica. Safiya Sinclair is the oldest of 4 siblings born to her mother. (Her father has other children) She relates the account of their life in Jamaica, where she is forced to adopt the Rasta ways. Wearing dreadlocks was a primary way of identifying followers. Safiya's mother taught the children and they were extremely bright. Safiya attends school and is moved forward a few grades due to her intelligence. Her dreadlocks cause her to be bullied, and also to miss out on opportunities. Her father's discipline was harsh, he beat her mother, herself, and her siblings. Safiya needs to come to terms with her home life and her father's ideals. Safiya is depressed, but is able to find herself through poetry. Poetry opens new avenues for her and allows her to leave Jamaica, get an education, and win multiple awards. She decides to write her family story for those that came before, and those that will follow her.
An emotional story, beautifully written, with great insights on how to survive a difficult family experience and to come out whole.

Sinclair's memoir is a tour de force of introspection and self-discovery, as she navigates the complexities of her Jamaican heritage and the intersections of race, culture, and personal history. Through lyrical language and vivid imagery, she invites readers into her world, inviting them to witness the joys, sorrows, and triumphs of her journey towards self-acceptance and understanding.

One of the most remarkable aspects of "How to Say Babylon" is Sinclair's ability to seamlessly weave together the personal and the universal, creating a narrative that resonates with readers of all backgrounds. Whether recounting her childhood in Jamaica, her experiences as an immigrant in America, or her reflections on love and loss, Sinclair's voice is both intimate and universal, inviting readers to reflect on their own experiences and connections to the world around them.

In the classroom, "How to Say Babylon" serves as a rich and engaging text for exploring the art of memoir writing. Through close reading and discussion, students have the opportunity to analyze Sinclair's narrative techniques, from her use of metaphor and symbolism to her skillful blending of past and present. Additionally, the memoir prompts students to reflect on their own identities and experiences, inspiring them to explore their own stories through the lens of creative expression.

Moreover, "How to Say Babylon" aligns with the objectives of the 11th-grade English curriculum, particularly in its emphasis on narrative writing and literary analysis. By studying Sinclair's memoir, students deepen their understanding of the memoir genre and hone their skills in crafting vivid, authentic narratives that reflect their own unique perspectives and voices.

I was so excited to get my hands on this one but it just didn't entertain me as much as I was hoping for. I have had a few friends read it and they have LOVED it so I know that my review is probably in the minority.

A truly masterful memoir. It's clear that Sinclair is a poet -- her mastery of metaphors and description elevate this work. I learned a lot about Rastafarianism and was deeply invested in Sinclair and her family.

There is nothing better than a memoir written by a poet and How to Say Babylon was no disappointment. Brilliant, sharp, and heartfelt. I loved every word.

Powerful memoir about Safiya Sinclair’s experience growing up in a strict Rastafarian household in Jamaica and the abuse inflicted upon her and her family by her father.

I appreciated how raw Sinclair is with her description of her father’s cruelty and how it affected her feelings and perspective on the world. Her writing is also beautiful and paints a very clear picture of her life.

I do feel like it was a bit repetitive at times but aside from that this was a really good read.

4.5 rounded up

I received this book as a NetGalley arc and was hooked from day one. Sayifa Sinclair wrote about her childhood with an authoritarian father at the helm. Many of us grew up with strict parents, but Sinclair's father is on another level. There really was very little freedom in her upbringing. What I appreciated was that despite her difficult circumstances, Sinclair never fell into whining or complaining in this book. The story is told in such a way that you feel as though the author were trying to explain what happened.

We root for Sinclair as she moves through the various chapters sof her life. Although her upbringing was harsh, the author ends up demonstrating much more maturity than many of us are capable of, she cultivates a relationship with her father and forgives him.

I have to admit, I didn't know much about the Rastafari life and I understand that this is one person's lived experience. Even still, it was interesting to learn a little about a religion in which I am not familiar. I would recommend this book for anyone looking for an engaging memoir to read, anyone wanting to learn

𝘏𝘰𝘸 𝘵𝘰 𝘚𝘢𝘺 𝘉𝘢𝘣𝘭𝘺𝘰𝘯 is a memoir about the author's Rastafarian upbringing. One quote from the book to sum it up - “Babylon would not pollute the purity of his daughters any longer”.
Safiya’s father was a stout Rastafarian, who wanted to protect his daughters’ purity at all costs. They were not allowed to leave home to meet up with friends, only allowed to wear their hair loc’d (or “dreadlocked”) and had to only wear skirts.
Safiya recounts her upbringing, from being in a strict Rastafarian household to breaking out on her own.

I typically do not rate biographies or autobiographies, but this is one YALL NEED TO READ!

I knew of the Rastafarian religion but never to this extent. At times I felt so bad for Safiya and her siblings, because it felt like they were living in a cult. I loved her mom, even though at times she made me angry.. BUT her mom made the impossible happen for Safiya & her 3 siblings which I felt was like any [black] mother would do.
Overall, this is definitely a memoir you should pick up and read ASAP!

Finished How to Say Babylon by @safiyasinclair. This is definitely my TOP book of 2023. One of the books I will never forget. First, my reading experience was heightened by the hypnotic voice of the author as she recounts events of her life in the audiobook. I recommend that you listen. It's powerful.

I connected with her story because my mother was a member of Twelve Tribes of Israel (a form of Rastafarianism) when I was a child. I understood and identified with the culture and references to Rastafari even though her and her mother's stories do not mirror my own. I called my mom to talk about her Twelve Tribe days and she recounts the pain but also a sisterhood of women taking care of each others' babies, cooking together, color dances, and some Twelve Tribe women who dressed only in skirts and were subservient. That, yes, polyamory was the norm. That Emperor Haile Saliassee I was revered, looking to Africa as Marcus Garvey taught and ganga, among other herbs, were healthy and necessary. I will tell you that I have only smoked weed in eutoro because my mom smoked it to squash the morning sickness I gave her. But my mom in particular, nor her children's father, prescribed to the strict tenants Safiyah grew up under. I did not grow up with a father figure isolating me from the world or locking me into his beliefs but I understand the world she describes so well. I hear her pain and recognize that her dad's frustration and his mother's abandonment shaped beliefs that became a weight around her neck. And I relished in the voice she developed. The way she unshackled to find herself and then write her story.

I cried at the conclusion. But I'm not sure if it was because of what she endured in her younger years or for the pivotal moments she began to speak up for herself. Her poetic voice brought literal tears to my eyes. This is a phenomenal book. Not good or great. This story is set in Jamaica but it is for every little girl and woman in a patriarchal world that tries to crush them under the guise of protecting their purity and womanhood. It's for all of us. And you MUST read. It is a 5 ⭐️ for me.

This is one of hte best memoirs I've ever read. it is heavy and heartbreaking yet beautifully written and full of vivid imagery of Jamacia.

There were times I had to put the book down and take a break because the abuse the author suffered is absolutely brutal. Those scenes are necessary and the violence is never gratuitous. I felt so many feelings while reading this, mostly anger and frustration but there is also hope and love.

Highly recommend for memoir readers.

Safiya Sinclair's "How to Say Babylon" is a mesmerizing memoir that delves into her journey of breaking free from a strict Rastafarian upbringing to embrace her identity as a woman and poet. Sinclair's lyrical prose vividly portrays her struggle against patriarchal control, inviting readers to reflect on universal themes of self-discovery and empowerment. The book's inclusion in prestigious lists like the New York Times Notable Book and its selection as a Read with Jenna Today Show Book Club Pick underscore its impact and relevance. Sinclair's powerful narrative leaves an indelible mark on readers, prompting admiration for her courage and resilience.