Member Reviews
Janette F, Reviewer
This is a story of family secrets and the effects these secrets had on the author's life.
The author's father was arrested, pled guilty and served jail time for molesting boys in his Boy Scout Troop in the 1950s.
Mr. York was first molested at the First Baptist Church in Nashville, Tennessee when he was seven years old. The male predator was a respected, upstanding member of the church.
The sexual abuse continued at church, in movie theaters, in public restrooms and department stores until the author graduated from high school.
As an adult, Mr. York pursued a homosexual lifestyle and participated in many risky sexual acts and dysfunctional relationships.
The author is now in his sixties and has written this book about his life with insight, understanding and compassion. It is time for healing and forgiveness.
My Thoughts
Mr. York's family appeared to be a normal church-going, white middle class family. No one would have guessed the secrets that were never discussed. However, keeping secrets came at a high price. The author never told his parents about the inappropriate touching at church or any of the other sexual encounters he had as a child. Yet, you have to wonder if there weren't many warning signs that were intentionally ignored.
Mr. York provides many examples of how his childhood abuse changed the way he perceived himself and those around him...and not in a good way. This story of abuse is very disturbing, but the author does not consider himself a victim.
This is an account of resilience and determination to overcome the past and walk confidently into the future. This is a gripping memoir that is worthy of your time. Highly recommended!
Rose J, Reviewer
Due to the content of this book, it is obviously not the easiest read in the world. However, York's carries you through his childhood trauma with a voice that is deeply personal. The fact that personal poetry and song lyrics are layered throughout allows for some breaths of fresh air and further insight into a man whose life has been far from easy, but who doesn't want to be labeled a victim.
