I was hoping this would be accessible to young people but definitely a step over their heads! I really enjoyed it though.

One minute the 13-year-old unnamed narrator of the story is living comfortably with her parents. She is going to school and living the life of any young girl but the next moment she is sent to her birth parents. Parents she never knew about and to a complex life of hardship. Her brothers are loud and almost hurtful, her mother is quick to assign tasks and her father is always busy. Luckily there is her sister who welcomes her and helps her navigate her new home.

As the girl learns to live her new life she can’t help but still wonder why her parents never told her anything and most importantly why she can’t go back home. I think it would be easy to find this story very bleak and it is sad but I feel like despite what the main character goes through you know she is is going to be alright. I loved this book and hope you’ll check it out.

Such an uplifting and heart-warming story despite the dire circumstances of the girl’s upbringing. What a wise author!

I loved this novel - I wish it hadn’t ended. I read a few reviews that complained that we never learn the narrators name but that didn’t bother me in the least. This is the perfect suggestion for people who love Ferrante or Alice McDermott or Colm Toibin. Highly recommend!

I received an advanced digital copy of this book from the author, publisher and Netgalley.com. Thanks to all for the opportunity to read and review. The opinions expressed in this review are my own.

A Girl Returned is lush and beautiful. Amazing prose and visuals.

5 out of 5 stars. Highly recommended.

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A Girl Returned by Donatella Di Pietrantonio may have just become my number one read so far. I laughed, ugly cried, meditated on my own life and laughed and ugly cried anew. The story instantly seized me.
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The central protagonist; a girl returned narrated the novel. This young girl subjectively taught me the essence of vitality, forgiveness, and perseverance. Most importantly, she showed that love is action, not an emotion.
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The story too dealt with the dysfunctionalities of families. Nevertheless, throughout all the heartbreak and turmoil that permeated the pages of this book, the unnamed protagonist sister, Adriana invariably found a way to make me smile.
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The book was beautifully written, and I'm convinced I'll reread it soon. Thank you for the advanced readers' copy via #NetGalley.
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This was a slim novel that felt like it was greater than the sum of its parts. I think that those who have read and loved the Neopolitan series by Elena Ferrante are likely to enjoy this one, as well.

The narrator of the story is looking back at her childhood when she was the arminuta or "a girl returned." At 13, the arminuta learns that she was being raised by distant relatives and that she must go back to live with her biological family. She moves from a wealthy life to a life of poverty crammed into an apartment with her real parents and her sister and brothers. Not surprisingly, the arminuta is bewildered by this turn of events and she struggles to regain her footing within her new environment. Quite a touching story that leaves you wanting to know more (her name, her later experiences, etc.)

Thanks to NetGalley, the author, and Europa Editions for an opportunity to read an advance copy.

Interesting read, and very different (topic, characters, writing style) from other books- which was enjoyable.

Thank you top NetGalley and the publisher for the e-copy to read and review.

Great read. The author wrote a story that was interesting and moved at a pace that kept me engaged. The characters were easy to invest in.

A Girl Returned by Donatella Di Piertrantonio

The unnamed narrator of this novel is 13 years old when she is taken by the man she thought was her father to live with her birth family. The story follows her through confusion and feelings of abandonment as she struggles to understand why she is no longer wanted by the people she knew as her parents. Her birth mother is cold towards her and she must adjust from being an only child to being one of many siblings and from a comfortable life to poverty.

What I enjoyed most about this book was the relationship ‘arminuta’ (the returned) has with Adriana who accepts her as a sister as if they have never been apart.

The descriptions of the harsh family life were very vivid and real. There is no nostalgia in this book and the emotions are raw. Without giving anything away, I thought the ending was very good and in keeping with the rest of the book.

I really enjoy reading translated fiction to learn about other cultures and this gave me a real insight into Italian life of working class families in the 1970’s.

A very solid 4 star read.

This is not a book for the faint of heart or people on the lookout for something breezy to read. It is a very short book but packs so much emotion into the pages that it is hard to look away.

We meet the girl who was 'returned' in the very beginning, she is conflicted about her new surroundings and life. She does not understand the reason for any of the current circumstances. Despite all her best efforts, she finds herself fighting nightmares and all other levels of questions. It is a matter of survival and in this story, it is the improbably close bond of two sisters who might have never known each other if the situation was different. 
I can talk about the book, the siblings, a few reactions to uncomfortable situations and other related things but since the book is not that big, and that the translation seems flawless in terms of the flow of the story I would be ruining a part of the tale but giving too much away. Although I guessed the underlying cause of the entire upheaval, it did not take much away from the experience. 
This book has been translated from Italian and gives an insight into a way of life I cannot even begin to imagine. There are references to her current status since the tale is told as a flashback but the narrator has no name other than the moniker her family situation gives her. If I was more into artistic books which bring with them a layer of subtle discomfort throughout the narration forcing us to confront things, I would have rated this higher but I did enjoy the whole thing and am glad I gave it a shot.

I received an ARC thanks to NetGalley and the publishers but the review is completely based on my own reading experience.

This was beautiful! It has been a while since I have had the chance the read something with such wonderful imagery and prose. I found myself wanting to remember a line every 5 pages due to the incredible writing.
In all honesty, I went into reading this without any expectations and wondering if I would enjoy it because it didn't sound like something I would typically read. I finished this book wanting more and consistently thinking about it. It truly is a work of art.

Until the age of 13, our unnamed narrator has lived with her mother and father. Then, one day, she is returned to her actual father and mother. At one go, she learns that her family had taken her in as an infant and, with now apparent explanation, are taking her back to the crowded, impoverished home of her birth parents.

I read the English version for Kindle, entitled A Girl Returned and translated from the Italian by Ann Goldstein. The main character suddenly finds out her parents aren’t actually her parents, when she is removed from from her normal, upper middle-class life of beach house vacations and Barbie dolls, to a chaotic squalid house filled with dirty kids and parents she used to consider an aunt and uncle. She goes from referring to “the woman who conceived me” as “the mother” until a jarring switch about 3/4 of the way through the sparingly-told story (or perhaps -translated).

I found her fraught relationship with her brother Vincenzo to be very discomfiting, but it’s resolution made me feel a hundred times worse. The theme of motherhood is a compelling one, the arminuta has Adalgisa her adoptive mother, her actual mother, the mom of her friend Patrizia, a mothering landlord, and a nurturing teacher who all guide her to very differing degrees. She herself comes to mother her scrawny sister Adriana as well.

Thank you to Europa Editions and NetGalley for an ARC in exchange for an honest review.

Told from the point of view of the 13-year old main character, this book describes a drastic change in circumstances - she is shunted out of one life and into another. Given no explanation, she gradually picks up pieces of knowledge, but truly belongs neither in the one nor the other life. The writing is beautiful and conveys worlds of emotion - but the ending was too ambiguous for me, leaving way too many questions unanswered.

The year was 1975. As small town in Italy.
Yet.....this story is being told 20 years later....looking back on a childhood. It’s a thin quiet introspective novel. Very heartfelt story.

She was thirteen. We never learn her name.
She didn’t know her other mother, the mother who conceived her.
A distant uncle dropped the girl off with her biological mother and their family. The uncle explained that they - he and his wife, Adalgisa- ( the only mother she knew for thirteen years - minus the first two years of her life), can’t keep her anymore, and she would be fun living in a house with lots of kids.

She had been an only child with the uncle and his wife. As the only parents she knew...the girl was happy with them. Comforts of home, security, food, clothes, supported activities, friends, community, school, feelings of safety, and abundance of needs were met. Love flourished between the girl and the only mother she knew.

So why was the girl returned to her birth mother? Why did the birth mother give her away in the first place? The reader is not told many details about either of the two mothers. Instead we get suggestive details - and eventually more specific facts, but not everything, leaving the reader to contemplate the roles - behaviors and actions from all the adults....
but this story really belongs to ‘the girl’.....
The story she most wanted to tell was her experience about being ‘returned’....about the new family she lived with....(a shocking contrast from her old life), about her siblings...about the poverty...about the scarcity for food, money, hygiene supplies, solitary privacy, about the family relations and housing dynamics.....
her loneliness, sadness, suppression, school, her teacher, about her one close friend, Patrizia, from her old life, with special emphasis about her younger sister, Adriana....( whom she became very close), and the older 18 year old sibling, named Vincenzo. ( who she tried to distant herself and desires)....whom with later a tragic event takes place.

The girl and younger sister, Adriana, by 3 years, shared sleeping in the same tight bed. Adriana wet the bed regularly. The mattress was constantly soaked with urination.
The girls slept in the same room with the 15 and 18 year old brothers.
My heart sank imagining the living conditions.
But the girl takes special care to love and protect Adriana. Adriana idolizes the girl.
Truth is they begin to idolize each other. ( for different reasons....but it’s the most beautiful relationship).
The girl tells Adriana about her past life - walking along the sea...eating a variety of delicious flavors of ice creams-( all foreign to Adriana) ...and about her old city life which was only about 50 kilometers from their house.

Throughout this story...the girl keeps trying to figure out why her mother sent her away. Because she was sick? Was she dead? etc?
The girl even wrote a letter asking to come back home. She told her mother or Aunt... that everyone in the family saw her as an annoyance, a nuisance. [ not everyone REALLY]....Adriana adored her.

Sergio, one of the brothers could be cruel....as it was his basic personality...tough guy bully type...who was basically equally mean to everyone. Vincenzo wasn’t cruel to the girl....but he was ‘potentially’ dangerous sexually.

There are a couple of adventure days...taking the bus back to the girls old house
....which looked abandoned...

Giuseppe was the baby. One day....the girl and Adriana were to watch the baby while the mother visited someone in the countryside stocking up fruit for jams.
Well....that scene brought tears to my eyes. Let’s just say....it was a HARD DAY!!!!
But when later - once Giuseppe was as asleep next to her own body....the girl said...
“I don’t think I’d ever felt the pleasure of such intimacy with any creature”.

Later the girls were scolded when the mother returned because some chores never got done. I had to set the book down and walk away at that point for a half hour.
Given what those CHILDREN went through that day - only to be scolded later .... we’ll, my emotions ‘ached’.

I really liked the combination of the smooth and stark writing. I loved getting to know the characters.

So much lifelike quality in the everyday details. I found the writing to be both compassionate and merciless. I REALLY LIKED THIS SLIM SIZE NOVEL!

Thank You, Europa Editions, Netgalley, and author Donatello Di Pietrantonio

A Girl Returned is an Italian novel about about mothers and daughters and siblings. A 13-year-old girl is sent away from the family she has always thought of as hers to live with her birth family whom she has never met

Emotional moving heart wrenching the story of a thirteen year old girl a girl living with a family she thinks is her family is suddenly kicked out of the only home she knew.Sent back to her birth home shocked to discover that this is her family that they are a poor family and her life adjustment begins.So touching so moving at times sad an exquisite novel. #netgalley #europabooks,

The premise is intriguing: a 13-year-old girl in late 1970s Italy is told that the people who she thought were her parents were not, and that she is to be returned to her real family. The unnamed narrator is heartbroken at the loss of the people and town she loved. Worse yet, the new family is large and extremely poor. Her life of dance lessons, swimming, decent clothing, and weekends by the sea with friends is over. The devastated narrator is not exactly sure about why she is being forced to live with these people or why she ever spent the first 13 years of her life elsewhere in the first place.

The narrator has difficulty loving her biological family, and the feelings are mutual, except for her younger sister Adriana and her baby brother. The narrator's parents regard her more as another mouth who can't even keep up with their hard work than a beloved daughter. Though she is bright and a good student, that doesn't help much. Other people in their small town keep referring to her as "the returned girl" and gossiping about her. The sisters become extremely close. The narrator seeks to improve life for Adriana as well as herself. She is angry that secrets are being kept from her, and tries to find out what they are.

I found the pacing a bit frustrating--too slow in some places, too fast in others. It was difficult to remember which character was which at times. Tantalizing hints are dropped about how things that happen to the narrator, Adriana, and other characters later. However, very little that is definitive is said, and the ending is annoyingly ambiguous. I would not call this novel a must-read, but it is fun, in a sad way.

I had nothing else, in that darkness inhabited by breath.

After thirteen years, a young girl who has lived with the love and privileges of an adored single child learns that she is being returned to another mother. No more will she live by the ocean, with beautiful clothes and clean bedding, now her sleep will be warmed by the body of a sister and bed-wetting. Her life is like a dark fairy-tale, a princess forced to live in poverty, as if punished for some unknown deed. What has she done to be punished so? What sense in living in such filth and destitution, with parents who don’t even really seem to want her back? No longer will she spend happy days in the sun with her best friend Patrizia, nor can her friend’s family save her from this senseless exile.

Her little sister Adriana may be uncultured and ignorant but she is fierce and has a hunger for the the world, more she longs for a closeness with her big sister, the Arminuta (girl returned). Vincenzo, the eldest brother is a mystery, who causes an eruption of confusing emotions within her when he isn’t off with the gypsies or getting beaten by his father. Each day, she longs for her ‘other mother’, she must have had a reason for giving her back, she was ill, could she be now on her deathbed and in desperate need of her care? All she knows is, her ‘real mother’ doesn’t seem to care about her at all, this useless city daughter who can’t even pluck a chicken nor perform domestic tasks. Her real family lives in a foreign world, boisterous, crude, sometimes violent and leaving her deeply lonely despite the presence of many siblings. This feels like a house of shame, parents who have more children than they can afford.

She wants to return to that other life, for now the only way is to relive the memories, telling Adriana about the delicious fresh fish from the market, fish her sibling has never had… no, for them it’s only tuna from a can. Her sister longs for nothing more than to be shown a glimpse of that life, the freedom. Then there is the baby, the youngest of the brood, a child that aches with sickness caused by desperate hunger. A different child, there is so much she doesn’t understand nor perceive about this family, swallowed as she is by her own grief and rejection. Then there is the school, here she is as much an outsider as at home, far more educated than her peers. This is yet another opportunity for her devoted sister to look out for her, whether she likes it or not. Her sister will take hits for her at home too, has protective leanings for her ‘special’ sister, who mustn’t ever be beaten. She can’t do anything right by her mother, doesn’t have the practical sense vital to their existence. Her mother is gruff, meaner than her ‘seaside mamma’ but it’s been a hard life, one that misery has seen fit to hover over. Tragedy isn’t finished with her family. There are also many things she doesn’t know about her biological mother and the story of why she was initially given up.

She must learn to get used to this new life, one that she knows she doesn’t belong in, despite her dream of returning to her true mother. “It’s an enduring emptiness, which I know but can’t get past.” What is mother? Will she ever know again, it’s meaning? Strange to come to love the siblings she learned of so late in her life, regardless of their differences.

It is a story of family and of identity, but one could say class too. Adriana is the heart of it and the beauty of the tale is more in sisterhood, at least that was my takeaway. This is the English debut of the Italian author Donatella Di Pietrantonio, it is beautifully written and engaging. We feel as equally lost and determined as all the characters. Our narrator’s mother does seem to resent her Arminuta, as if it’s easier to feel disgusted by her ‘city, upper class ways’ than own the reasons why her child doesn’t fit into their hardscrabble surroundings. It is a sad novel, and I look forward to more by the author.

Publication Date: July 2, 2019

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