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Alec Aspinwall´s I´ll Be the Water offers a beautiful explanation of death to a child from the perspective of his grandfather. The book's illustrations -- mostly scenes capturing the time the two characters spend together in nature -- consist of calming blues and greens that compliment the message. For the boy, this is a coming-of-age experience as he realizes the fleeting nature of life. One day, he realizes that his grandfather is aging, and he grapples with the idea of death and the finality it brings. The grandfather´s comforting instruction to his grandson hinges on the great paradox we all encounter at some point: Though our loved ones leave us upon death, they are never completely gone. Aspinwall presents an optimistic view of loss that is sure to create nostalgia for older readers. Parents of children who have not yet experienced the loss of a close family member may value the perspective of this grandfather who has learned some lessons of his own. Aspinwall has spoken from the heart in this endearing book.

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I'll be the water is a very touching story dealing with the loss of a grandparent. It's inevitable that a child will experience death in some sense. This is a beautifully written story that can be used to prepare a child for someone dying. It can also be used to help a child grieving post a loved ones death.

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This is a gorgeous book about a boy and his grandpa. The boy starts to realize that his grandpa is sick and is scared that he will die. Grandpa gives him a wonderful explanation to help his grandson handle his grief.

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I'll Be the Water by Alec Aspinwall is a beautiful story that will resonate with both adults and children, and will serve as a wonderful bridge to opening dialogue about loss and grief. With gorgeous illustrations by Nicole Wong, the story of a young boy's deep connection with a beloved grandfather unfolds in such a way that the love they have for each other is virtually tangible. The question of how to explain such a tremendous loss to a child, who views a grandparent as a best friend, is handled in such a loving and thoughtful way that it will surely provide a measure of comfort in gradually accepting and understanding the circle of life. Highly recommended.

Many thanks to NetGalley and Myrick Marketing & Media, LLC for the opportunity to read this ARC.

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