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Minding Miss Manners

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A fun and sassy way to explore etiquette, Minding Miss Manners is definitely a good read/listen. The narrator (Jacobina Martin, the author's daughter) is hilarious with a tongue in cheek expression that perfectly expresses the advice that Miss Manners wants to pass on.

The format is a Question and Answer forum from advice that Miss Manners has offered in response to questions asked by her fans. It is great for listening to on a road trip or walk! The questions astound me as does the simple rude greed that some people do not seem to have a problem expressing.

I requested an advance review copy and was fortunate to receive one from NetGalley. My review is voluntary and my opinions are my own.

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This book is an absolute delight in every way. If you, like I, miss the delightful gossipy advice columns of yore, then this book is absolutely for you. Judith Martin not only delivers spot on advice to deal with the complexities of modern society - ranging from greedy brides, to addressing invitations to fluid-gender guests,, to whether a guest has precedence over using a charging cord than the teenager to whom it belongs— but she delivers it with sass and snark that is amplified and enhanced by the delightful delivery of the narrator, her daughter, Jacobina Martin. This is the kind of book every single one of us needs both for etiquette training and for the pure humor.

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MINDING MISS MANNERS

What a great audiobook! Informative, eye-opening, timely. A great listen and very helpful resource. There are so many topics covered that a listener will be challenged to hear something that is not covered.

It is pleasant to hear the questions and the responses to those questions. The answers are logical and straightforward. So much so, you might try to guess what the responses will be, and you may find that you are not correct, but that is part of the fun!

So, sit back in your recumbent cycle, or rowing machine, or walk to your heart’s content on your treadmill, or whichever your activity may be, and enjoy this audiobook!

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In the Twenty-first century it seems people have forgotten how to behave politely, suggests this book. People have become entitled and self-centered while believing everything must revolve around them. Miss Manners tries to condemn these behaviours by offering ways to deal with impolite and utterly nonsensical behaviours.
It is an eye-opener as it shows how the society has changed for the worst. It shows how people tend to be offended no matted in which way you behave. Nonetheless, politeness and good manners are virtues that should be preserved and cultivated despite the changes in society.

It shows that in a world full of entitlement and judgement, being well behaved is what elevates you and not what holds you back.

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This was the perfect accompany to a long car ride. The narrator was easy to understand and spoke in a commanding and firm voice that resonated well with the text. The book was very informative about sending thank you notes in a timely manner and proving the listener the confidence to say "No! with several situations. This is the older sister that everyone needs and the girlfriend that has the confidence you wish you had!

Thank you to Judith Martin, the publisher, and NetGalley for this audiobook in exchange for my honest review.

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Netgalley now has audiobooks and this book was one of my first picks. I loved how Miss.Mannner’s answered questions with a little bit of humor, some answers I could only imagine Miss.Manners rolling her eyes (as I did) with the question. I thought this book was a lot of fun while also being informative. I give this book 5 stars! Thank you Netgalley for the opportunity to listen to this book for an honest review.

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Gentle reader......
This book is mostly about self-centered-ness, selfishness and our inability to have proper manners. Parents are partly to blame (me included) and we have drop the ball. But that’s another book for another time. I can’t say enough how refreshing this was. And I’m definitely reading more of these books.
First.... the narrator was excellent and fit perfectly with the telling. I would highly recommend listening to this as an audiobook. Second..... it’s really not that long and very informative and at times funny. And lastly I’m just going to highlight some things that jumped out at me.
I would agree that invites to “things” that are going to cost money are out of control today This day and time, people feel like everyone should contribute to there “life events” and we should never say no. And if you decide to contribute to give something that’s not on a registry you’re all but verbally put to shame and judged unworthy.
When did it start being ok to.......
• decide things for other people?
• social milestones are not social events.
• Presents are not mandatory.
• Have a fundraiser for divorce, adoption and or college.

It is greedy to expect a gift at all and we should only give if it’s heartfelt.
Why are we trying to profit from our friends?
It is an American privilege to speak out but we don’t need to vent or attach people. It’s counterproductive. Don’t do it any remember your manners.
Like I said, I throughly enjoyed this and highly recommend everyone take the time to read this. It’s got some great advice and it’s funny.

Thank you NETGALLEY and the publisher for this ARC audiobook, in exchange for my honest review

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Are you the rude one? This question and more is answered in the updated for current times ?Minding Miss Manners. Both educational and funny this book is for anyone who wants to navigate today's social norms.

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Everyone needs to listen to/read this book! It covers all current etiquette topics such as online and technology etiquette, hosting etiquette, how to deal with those friends who invite you to parties just to extort money off of you, and much more! The book is divided into 5 large chapters, each consisting of Q&As from Miss Manner’s readers and Miss Manners answering each questions. If you have a social life and ever had to deal with rude and obnoxious friends, like us all, you need a copy of this book.

I deducted 1 star because some questions were a little far-fetched.

Excellent narrator with different intonations in her voice, pleasant to the ear.

Thank you Net Galley and the publisher for this audio arc in exchange for my honest review.

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Definitely an interesting book with the narrator doing a splendid job. I listened to the book on my scribd app. It’s a witty with interesting comebacks to nosy people with easy familiarity in the new social media friends. Many solutions are responses to the questions the author has received. I looking for the day I may use 1 or 2 responses/ suggestions by the author. Both the book and audio version are very good.

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Minding Miss Manners is a AWESOME book. I listened to this on audio, it was great!!! The narrator is PERFECT for this book. This book goes through lots of situations, things people have wrote to Miss Manners about and what Miss Manners recommends. It’s very interesting and a great read. :) happy reading!

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Fun take on modern manners. Really enjoyed the sassy banter of the replies of the narrator. I assumed it would be an etiquette for the modern day. I wasn’t expecting it to be similar to an old newspapers gossip column. Would recommend to someone looking for something fun and quirky to read.

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Miss Manners has been teaching us the right way to handle various situations for years. She was around twenty-five years ago when I got married, so it was interesting to see how society has changed over the years and how her recommendations still hold up over time. There were some outrageous situations, especially in the bridezilla section, that makes me sad for humanity. As expected Miss Manners politely and sometimes with pointed snarkiness puts the moronic people in their place. This was an interesting and humorous read. The audiobook narrator did a great job giving Miss Manners a voice and personality.

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I have always been a fan of advice columnists, with Miss Manners ranking up at the top, so I was really excited to discover that Judith Martin (the person behind the Miss Manners pen name since 1978, with assistance from her children Nicholas and Jacobina since 2013) had a new compilation of reader letters and responses. In this compilation, Miss Manners continues to enlighten, inform and delight readers with advice delivered with her signature dash of witticism. Navigating the age-old dilemmas of weddings, family squabbles, holiday gatherings, party hosting, gift giving/receiving and thank you notes, this compilation also includes some sage advice for more modern dilemmas from food fussing, extortionist etiquette and virtuous rudeness to fundraising and yes, selfie parties.

Narrated by Judith Martin's daughter, Jacobina, I found her clear, poised and proper enunciation - with a wonderful hint of snarkiness! - to be easy on the ear and pitch perfect as the voice for <i>Miss Manners</i>. While the letters and responses have been organized into broader categories, the format makes it easy for listeners (and readers of the ebook or print format) to dip in and out for quick intervals of listening/reading.

Filled with sensible, common sense advice and delivered with humour and grace, I found myself nodding my head in agreement, snorting with laughter and occasionally gasping with shock at the situations presented. A wonderful refresher on the do's and don'ts of life and nice to learn that even as society continues to evolve and the online world takes control of our lives, something things, etiquette-wise, have remained unchanged.

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Minding Miss Manners is a collection of etiquette dilemmas with answers in the traditional Miss Manners style & it brings Miss Manners’ advice up to date with questions such as “who has priority over the mobile chargers” and “how should I respond to this birthday gift list”. I really liked the way that Miss Manners discusses how so many people live in such a public/social media world that they don’t understand boundaries or privacy.
There were plenty of amusing moments, subtle “snark” and sharp responses that need to be filed away for future use! Some of the etiquette is American rather than British but there is much good advice.
The story is narrated by Jacobina Martin, the daughter of “Miss Manners” herself. Her voice worked well, but it felt too fast paced & could have benefitted from pauses between each “dilemma”. Overall, it is an amusing listen but if you want to refer back to it, you’d really need the printed book!
Disclosure: I received a copy of this audiobook free from the publisher via NetGalley. Whilst thanks go to the publisher & author for the opportunity to read it, all opinions are my own.

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Minding Miss Manners is a collection of questions and answers in the traditional Miss Manners style that you'd expect. And, as you'd also expect, it is full of discussions about rude and polite behavior. The chapters are focused on topics like "Fake Etiquette" (she sets the record straight) and "Virtuous Rudeness" (to combat aggressive and needless fundraising). Her primary themes seem to be expressing gratitude, minding one's own business and responding to outrageous comments or questions with a simple "no."

While the book is useful, and also mildly amusing, it got old for me after a while because the topics and themes repeated themselves. I suggest it is probably best enjoyed in short bursts, or given as a gift to someone you think has been rude to you.😉

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With the advent of audiobooks being offered by netgalley, this was my first pick.
I came of age when Emily Post’s etiquette book was on my bookshelf and frequently referred to. I owned Miss Manners’s original book, which was published in 1982. But etiquette books seem to have gone the way of the dodo. So, I was curious to see what this current book would cover. As expected, we hear of Bridezillas, food fussiness, thank you notes, selfie parties, busy bodies and political correctness. But above all else, this book points out the overwhelming materialism of this society.
Now, this was a very entertaining read and I enjoyed it immensely. Miss Manners has a wonderful snarky wit, and she truly has a way with a bon mot. Her answers are based on plain old common sense and decency. Having said that, an etiquette book is by nature a reference book. And if you really intend to refer back to it, you’d want this as a book, not an audiobook. Obviously, we’ve moved on from how to structure a response to a wedding invitation. Gentle reader, I kid you not. Response cards are a recent phenomenon. But you might want to remember an appropriate turn of phrase. But if you’re just looking for entertainment, then yes, the audiobook will fit the bill.
Warning - I was listening to this on my walks and realized I was in danger of catching flies as my jaw seemed to be perpetually down around my clavicles.
Jacobina Martin, Judith’s daughter, is the narrator and she does a fine job.

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Minding Miss Manners by Judith Martin should be mandatory reading for everyone these days. It's a no-frill reminder that civility matters at a time when civility is in short supply. Organized like the newspaper column of the same name, this book covers all the modern-day challenges to good manners we face every day - how to respond to things like Go-Fund Me and birthday party gift lists, and how to walk away from a social media feeding frenzy with your dignity.

I listened to the audiobook version of this title, and it was just a great way to pass some time while I was out in the yard. Nothing too demanding, just a lot of great advice and answers to many of the awkward or uncomfortable situations we find ourselves in this post-manners time.

I highly recommend Minding Miss Manners, and will be giving it as gifts to all the graduates I know!

This review is based on an advance copy listen.

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I feel that today's people lack of all sort basic manners and this guide offers a modern, fresh and interesting approach to all kind of situations and gives polite answers to often bizarre and rude questions.
Etiquette is a must for civilized society.

Witty and fun to listen.

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While I believe that we certainly live an era of “fake etiquette”, and that manners are fleeting at best, this book does not denote the Miss Manners expertise we have come to know and love. I would not recommend this as a go-to gift, research manual, or the like. I prefer my manners to be given without snark and side-eye.

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