As a parent who is passionate about equality and the need for inclusivity, this book really appealed to me. Since it’s aimed at children aged 5+, I didn’t think it would be suitable for reading with my 3 year old. However, he LOVED it! It’s colourful and cheerful. The big bold letters are quickly followed by a term that relates to gender identity which is then explained in easy to understand terminology. I think it was really well done and I can’t wait to purchase a copy to use both for leisure and for home-schooling purposes in the future.

The following is my Goodreads review, so it is more geared towards a potential reader than the publisher:
"Who is this book for? The idea is cute, but I don't feel like the execution is good. Also a lot of the letters feel forced, and I cannot understand how any child at the age when they are reading ABC books would get this. This reminds me for those "[STEM Topic] for Babies" books, that seem more geared towards the parent than the kid. I realize a lot of "reading" when a child is young is more about the interaction between parent and child, but I feel like this could have been done so much better if it actually helped explain gender identities rather than reading like a glossary on an LGBT forum. Also the art is... not great. Art is subjective, so never let an artistic opinion stop you from reading a book, but the art was weridly uniform in a way that didn't feel right."

I have to first say that this took me under five minutes to read because obviously, a. I'm an adult and b. I'm not trying to explain the genders to a little one.

This book, as someone who is nonbinary (they/them), is a fantastic way of introducing the concept of gender to a child - or even an adult who either is struggling with their own gender identity or perhaps explaining what their gender is to someone else. 𝐴𝐵𝐶 𝑜𝑓 𝐺𝑒𝑛𝑑𝑒𝑟 𝐼𝑑𝑒𝑛𝑡𝑖𝑡𝑦 is a bright picture book that highlights twenty six of the different genders that exist - of course, there are many others out there but I liked how Devika Dalal has created something that is the first step in helping with understanding this often complex and sadly conflict ridden topic.

There were a few genders in the book that I myself was unaware of - and it was great to add these to the many I have learned about through my personal journey of self awareness.

𝐴𝐵𝐶 𝑜𝑓 𝐺𝑒𝑛𝑑𝑒𝑟 𝐼𝑑𝑒𝑛𝑡𝑖𝑡𝑦 should find a home in every primary school in a bid to make gender identity and the concept behind it a norm. I would suggest this to any family were gender identity is something that needs to ge explored as it will help pave the way for more indepth conversation and possible acceptance of 'this is me'.

Thank you to Jessica Kingsley Publishing for once again filling a gap in the market - I'm sure this will be welcomed by many who need it.

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I think this book is a good simple book that could help children understand different genders at a basic level but it would be nice to see something more detailed.

I was really hoping for a bit more with ABC of Gender Identity. The ABC format was almost more confusing to young readers. I, myself, had a really hard time identifying each letter and keeping the different gender identities separate. I see this as being more overwhelming and confusing for kids. I believe gender identity books are absolutely needed. I think it's the format of this book that is the problem.

The heart of this text centers on identifying the concept of gender from varying perspectives. There are 26 terms offered within the text for one to become acquainted with and develop an understanding of or refine a list for further research.

As a 33 year old woman, a lot of these terms are new to me. What a beautiful book. Simply set out and eye catching. My 9 year old has also read it and we will be researching in more depth.

A great introduction for kids and adults into different gender identities. The most helpful portion of this was the guide for adults at the end. It would have been more useful if there was more information about each of the identities throughout the book, but given that this is for children, the descriptions given were a good start to invite more conversations.

I realize this probably makes me sound like a jerk, but I hated this book.

I am a well educated, very socially liberal thirty something. I gave many friends in the LGBT community and a dear friend who is Trans. I think it’s very important to be raised to be accepting of all people, no matter their gender or sexual identity. That being said, I would never read this book to my son. Some of it was outrageously reaching; for example “O is for Offgender: Someone whose gender feels very similar to another gender”. What does that even mean?! Additionally “K is for Kynigender, one who can’t pinpoint their gender due to the stress of the questioning process”. Get out of here.

3* Well-intentioned book that misses a trick because it's too... not aimed at kids.

This intends to educate but what it does is overload the brain with terms that are hard to understand, and that don't differ that much from one another. It'd have been better to focus on simpler, more everyday terms that the majority of kids/adults will encounter.

Perhaps a few images might have helped make this book easier to understand for the target audience.

ARC courtesy of Jessica Kingsley Publishers and NetGalley for my reading pleasure.

I received an advance copy of this book via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.

This book has an important purpose, introducing diverse gender identities to children, as a springboard to discussion with parents or carers. I think that this is a great idea, but that the book needed a little refining. Some of the terms given could do with more explanation and seem picked to complete the alphabet, rather than because of their relevance.

I also feel that a section at the start of the book explaining the basics of gender (presentation, pronouns etc) would make the book as a whole more useful.

This book is adequate. It's not phenomenal but it also isn't terrible. The artwork is simple and not engaging but it does represent a more diverse group of characters than may normally be seen. The definitions are concise but don't provide enough substance for someone with absolutely no knowledge to engage in a dialogue with a child without doing further research first. This book is a good jumping off point.

I absolutely love how open and inclusive this book is. It was extremely educational for adults and children. Even though it may not seem like a book that a child would understand, it is never too early to read with young ones. My four year old son read this with me. He loved the illustrations because they were simple little kids. He even tried to repeat the pronunciation of the words. Definitely very educational. I liked the guide at the end for adults as well and how to approach this book with children.

ABC of gender identity is a very short book that aim to be an education guide for children about the diversity identities that are out there. I think it would probably be more didactic if it was an illustrative book, having in mind that is for children, and in that case it needs to be easy understandable.
Although, I can’t see any incorrect mistakes in its description in general.

This was a great introduction for me, even as an adult, into learning more about gender identity. As a cisgender, straight female, I am familiar with some of the terms, but definitely learned a lot while reading! Certain terms I still felt like I needed more information, but I understand that this is a picture book geared towards children, so the content is more limited. I loved the colorful pages and illustrations with each letter. I think this book is a great starting point for parents/guardians to help their children learn more about gender identity.

A great little book to start a conversation around gender identity, for both adults and children - there were terms I was unfamiliar with and it’s a good starting point for me as a cisgender ally to the LGBTQIA+ community to better understand and support. I’ll certainly be buying a hard copy when it is released.

I received a free e-copy of this book from
Netgalley in return for a fair review.

A short book featuring a term about gender identity for each letter of the alphabet.

I did struggle to understand quiet a few of these terms, even with the explanation underneath. Maybe I need to do a little more research.

I really enjoyed 'The ABC of Families' and believe it should be in all schools and libraries. This one, while informative, was a bit more complicated for children to understand and would need more explanation and adult guidance. I also feel that the illustrations didn't add much to this book.

Thank you #NetGalley and Jessica Kingsley Publishers for the free copy in exchange for an honest review.

This ABC book about gender identity is truly a helpful guide for parents and little ones. Parents can use this book to have many discussions about words and their definitions. It is even helpful to older kids. A definite keeper on anyone’s bookshelf.

*Thanks to Jessica Kingsley Publishers and NetGalley for this Ebook in exchange for my honest review

The book ABC of Gender Identity is geared towards young readers and shares 26 terms about gender identity from A-Z. As an adult reader, many of these terms were new to me so I appreciated the learning opportunity it provided. Our kids have had a lot of thoughtful questions lately regarding gender identity and the differentiation between gender and sex.

In addition, many of these terms are now included in popular culture (especially YA books, television shows, etc) which is wonderful but also has reminded me of the broad range of terminology there is. I always want to be able to respond factually and books like this are a wonderful way for entire families to learn and grow together.

I did wish that there were more illustrations because this is a children's informative picture book so that part felt lacking for me. I found the guide for adults incredibly useful and think it is a great addition to the book.

Thank you to Jessica Kingsley Publishers for the gifted copy in exchange for my honest review.

ABC of Gender Identity is meant as a conversation starter for adults to talk about gender with children.

For each letter of the alphabet, a term related to gender identity is named and defined in a very brief manner. Personally I found those definitions too brief. Yes, this is a children's book, but at the same time the book directly says in its guide for adults at the back that it's more meant as said conversation starter. It also encourages adults to do research on their own. While I do think it's important for adults to do such research if they really want to talk about gender with their children, additional hints and links to find reputable and trustworthy resources would have been appreciated.

I also found the terms that are defined a bit random. It's supposed to be gender identities, but not all of them were. One was also a Chinese term for a person identities as both male and female, which I thought was cool to include, but since it was the only non-English term it felt out of place. Equally out of place was that one of the term was not an identity, but a specific set of neopronouns. I get that it was probably hard to find a gender identity for each letter of the alphabet, which factored into the decision to include these two examples, but it made the list feel a bit less well curated.

The art of the book was very minimal. Pretty much the only art in it were the human figures you can also see on the cover, which are very simple. The rest of the layout is very sparse and simple too and uses the rainbow colours of the gay flag. It looked sweet and fitting for a children's book, but at the same time also a bit too simple, especially since the book ultimately seemed to be more targeted at parents than the children.

Still, aside from the alphabet, the book brings up some good points and information about gender and how to talk to children.
Overall I however wanted a lot more. The book felt aimless and like it didn't know what it wanted to be. If it was for children, it should have explained basic things about gender in terms meant for children. If it was for adults to help talk to kids about gender it should have included more details and sources, even as a conversation starter.

Ultimately, I liked what the book was trying to do, but I can't say it did so successfully.