I wanted to love this book but it felt a little too simple in writing style. I love that it tackled a topic we don't see covered a lot: obesity. It was interesting to watch Pearl prepare then respond to her transformation but it felt like other pieces didn't get completely fleshed out. I also didn't appreciate what felt like lazy writing and cheap shots with phrases like "Pearl's rolls are even more dynamite than the sushi". It just felt icky.

I am always drawn to a sister story. Being one of four sisters who are each unique in the way we have processed and reacted to our experiences I was immediately drawn to the story of Pearl & Ruby. I loved that the novel is bookended with the voice of real-life sisters. It starts with the author's note who states that her beloved sister struggled with obesity and that much of the fictional story told in "The Sisters We Were" is rooted and actual events and in that relationship, and then at the end of the novel the reader gets a letter from the author's sister. These letters depict a voice for the inspiration of the characters. When I first started reading, I was hesitant because overeating as a response to unhealed trauma is real and somewhat triggering to me, but I could not stop thinking of these sisters. Also, the setting call to me, a sister story set in central Texas. Yes, please. I am glad I returned. I recommend this novel to anyone who enjoys a redemption story with an unlikely hero, and a true hat tip to the "religion of sisterhood." Thank you #netgalley & Sourcebooks for allowing me to be an early reader of this brilliant novel. If you are in or around Waco please check out the author event at Fabled Bookshop on January 18th.

The Sisters We Were is the debut novel by Wendy Willis Baldwin and is the story about complicated family dynamics and the impact long-held secrets have on two sisters, Ruby and Pearl, and their mother, Birdie who have drifted apart for years after a fateful event that changed their family.

Despite years apart, when morbidly obese Pearl schedules a life-changing weight loss surgery, Ruby comes to help Pearl with her recovery. Using current day and flashbacks, Willis Baldwin shows how the childhood trauma the sisters experienced continues to affect their relationship.

Inspired by the author's sister's struggle with weight, the premise was solid and the opportunities for poignancy were there, but the delivery was weak and unbalanced. Most of the story focused on Pearl's obesity instead of including Ruby and Birdie's POVs which would have made for a more well-rounded story. Also, mystery about the event that changed their lives was clear from the onset, but not addressed in near enough depth. I wanted tension and emotion, but the sisters seemed to overcome decades of emotional baggage too easily and the dialogue sometimes felt juvenile giving the story a Hallmark/After School Special feel.

This is a story about family secrets, rebuilding relationships and is a journey of self-discovery and healing. It is a lovely way for the author to honour her sister and her struggles with obesity, but despite the topics addressed, the story wasn't as emotional or compelling as I had hoped.

Disclaimer: My sincere thanks to Sourcebooks Landmark for a complimentary digital copy of this book which was given in exchange for my honest review.

Some readers may find the topical content too sensitive to read. I requested this book based on the cover and because it was about sisters, not knowing the plot.
I found it to be tender and touching because it’s based somewhat on the author’s own relationship with her sister.
I related on so many different levels with themes in the story. I related to Pearl in having undergone in the last 2 years my own reprogramming of how I relate with food. I could also relate the thrill of trying on clothes in much smaller sizes and also the invaluable help of a support group.
I related to Ruby with the whole pet owners not picking up after their pets scenario. I have fantasized about doing exactly what she did.
At its most basic premise the story is about two sisters finding their way back to each other. I also correctly guessed, early on, why Pearl compensated with food, from the few clues offered.
Go ahead, read your fill.

It is so rare to see a plus-size main character, let alone one that is obese. Especially in a way that isn’t made into more of a caricature of a person. The author beautifully wrote both sisters, who were inspired by the relationship she shared with her own sister. It was a bit slow going for me at first, but I think it was just due to my own mood reading style. It was an immensely human story, full of complex events and feelings. Both sisters dealt with their childhood traumas in different yet similarly toxic ways, one often more judged than the other. It was so cool to see an Austin-based tale as well, as it’s my home base! I would absolutely recommend this story, with a bit of precaution for those sensitive about these certain subjects.

This beautiful novel takes place in my home state of Texas. It is a moving and touching story about two sisters. One struggling with morbid obesity who makes a decision to get her life under control by undergoing lifesaving bariatric surgery and learning the stem of her unhealthy relationship with food. The other sister, who on the outside seems to always have it together, moves back in with her to help her through her surgical weight loss journey, but also has her own demons to face. These two sisters were once really close but life drifted them apart. Sometimes growing up in the same house doesn’t mean we each share the same experiences.

I absolutely adored Pearl and Ruby. It was such an emotional read taking you deep into Pearl’s eating struggles, her weight loss journey, and uncovers the secrets she has been holding in all these years leading to her eating disorder. The connection of trauma and abuse to obesity is such a real life key issue that is not addressed enough. It also shows how these sisters find each other again and learn their bond is unbreakable. This book will pull at your heart strings. It will have you crying, laughing, and just having so much love for them. Highly recommend this book. If you have a sister, you most likely will find parts of this totally relatable.

Pearl and Ruby are sisters that could not be more different. They grew up in the same dysfunctional household but became very different adults in dealing with the trauma. Ruby escaped as soon as possible while Pearl was left behind alone. Ruby stayed away until Ruby needs her help. Ruby decides to go back to her childhood home to help her sister after surgery. This causes both sisters to deal with the past and become closer.

This is a heartbreaking but hopeful story. Can someone who had a difficult childhood heal from the trauma for a more hopeful future. People who read this book may see themselves or someone they know. It will give you perspectives on situations that you may not have had. It is a wonderful story of survival.

Thank you to #netgalley, #WendyWillisBaldwin and #SourcebooksLandmark for a copy of this book.

This is painful, deeply painful in spots as it tracks Pearl's journey. Her mother Birdie is in prison for shooting her stepfather, she's estranged from her sister Ruby, and she weighs 531 pounds. Pearl loves her job working in a memory care unit but she doesn't love herself. Her weight has been an issue since she was a child- this moves back and forth in time to tell some of the things she experienced as a result. Ruby doesn't understand and is downright cruel to Pearl at times but now she needs her and moves back home to care for both of them. Pearl's life, her binges, her challenges with chairs and cars, and everything else (right down to not being able to shop at any clothing store in the mall) will resonate with readers who have similarly struggled (albeit not on the same level). This is very much about Pearl, with Ruby serving almost as a foil (and yes, there is a romance which felt unnecessary but ok). Thanks to Netgalley for the ARC. Great read. And don't miss the letter from the author's sister.

The Sisters We Were by Wendy Willis Baldwin is a hidden little gem that really wasn’t on my radar at all until a few trusted bookstagrammers put it there. Big thanks to my friend Andrea over at @andrea.c.lowry.reads for giving me the push to read this one. It’s a wonderful debut about two sisters, their upbringing, shared childhood trauma, and strained relationship that developed as adults. I grew up with two older brothers, so sisterhood has always been a fascinating subject for me. I longed for a sister my entire life, and have always been drawn to stories centered around this particular bond between women. A huge part of the story revolves around the younger sister, Pearl, her struggle with obesity, and her weight-loss surgery journey. I was not at all familiar with the process or multiple steps involving weight-loss surgery, so I value the education I received in this novel regarding the subject. Sure, the story is fictional, but the insight I gained was very much appreciated. I always love a story that can educate and entertain me at the same time. This novel surprised me in the very best way. The subject matter is dark and heavy at times, but also so hopeful and uplifting. I couldn’t put it down! I don’t think I’ll ever forget Pearl, Ruby, and their unbreakable bond. The Sisters We Were is available next week - Tuesday the 17th! I highly recommend you grab a copy. 5/5 stars!

Pearl and Ruby were sisters. They haven't spoken in 12 years. Their choses tore them apart. Pearl is extremely fat and knows she must lose weight so she goes to a doctor and finds out about bariatric surgery. She needs to have someone to take care of her after her surgery. Ruby is a runner. She won a scholarship for college and has not looked back since. Due to mitigating circumstances, the two sisters find themselves together again.
Such a well told novel with great character development. I loved this one.

The Sisters we Were by Wendy Willis Baldwin is a story about the lives of two sisters who live very different lifestyles. Pearl and Ruby Crenshaw never thought they would be sharing their family home once again as young adults. Ruby finds herself unemployed and goes back to live with Pearl in their mother's older home. Pearl has health problems due to having gained an excessive amount of weight. Pearl decides to make a drastic change and have surgery to help her lose weight and gain some control over her future. The sisters have a few problems with the new living arrangements and adjustments. Overall, the story left me feeling a bit sad.
The publication Date is January 17, 2023. Thank you to NetGalley, the author, and publisher for the opportunity to read this book.

What an emotional story this was, about two sisters, Ruby and Pearl, who have drifted apart over their adult years due to differences and heavy family secrets.

This book mainly followed Pearl Crenshaw’s weight loss journey and bariatric surgery. I really enjoyed that the author based Pearl around her own sister and was able to pull in real life experiences and information. I will say, at time it did get a little too wordy regarding the surgery, but it was actually really interesting to read about all of the pre and post-op prep that someone must take when they are going down this path.

The characters were very well written - I absolutely adored Perry, Pearls boss, turned closest friend. He had the perfect lines and was the perfect cheerleader throughout the book. We all need a Perry in our lives! I also loved that the FMC, Pearl was an unlikely heroine - one with a deliberating, life threatening weight problem who saves herself.

If you are interested in personal transformation, relationship building and HGTV, this is a book you would enjoy!

3.5 ⭐️

Please do not let this rating deter you from reading this! I rated it this way because I was hoping for a VERY powerful read, along with some great humor, and although it had parts that met that, it seemed to me of more of an informational book on bariatric surgery.

Thank you NetGalley, Wendy Willis Baldwin and SourceBooks for an advanced copy of this book in exchange for an honest review!

This book y’all! It moved me to tears! The Sisters We Were is both heartbreaking and joyful, serious and fun, poignant and inspiring. It’s also one of those stories that had me feeling so much and wondering how in the world I’m going to write a review that fully portrays how powerful this story is as a whole.

What appealed to you the most in this story?

I can’t put into words how much the characters brought this book to life. Even the supporting cast brought life and atmosphere to the story. However, I became attached to Pearl’s character the most as she began her weight loss journey and started facing her past while moving forward into her future.

Also, this story brought all the emotions and had me wanting to just jump into the pages and help and hug both sisters. What really had me reaching for the tissues were those moments where both Ruby and Pearl were dealing with their heartaches and hurts together while allowing hope to help them find a path to healing.

How was the pace?

This is a fast-paced story and trust me when I say that once you pick it up you won’t want to put it down. I flew through it in less than 24 hours!

Do you recommend this book?

Overall, this is a story about struggle, strength, perseverance, and the bonds and struggles of sisters. This is an absolute MUST READ and I’m truly blown away by this insightful debut. It would also make for an excellent buddy read or book club read (truly so much to discuss in this book).

P.S. You have to read the “Author’s Sister’s Notes” at the end of the book!

Thank you, Sourcebooks Landmark, for this gifted digital copy in exchange for my honest review.

Really enjoyed it and would give the book 3.5 stars. What first drew me to the book was the cover and the story didn't disappoint. Loved the dynamic between Pearl and Ruby. They are the exact opposites of each other and deal with situations differently. Ruby has never had a problem with her weight and doesn't understand how Pearl can weigh over 500 pounds. Ruby believes her sister can lose weight magically by exercising and going on a diet. The poop throwing incident allowed Pearl to see that her sister isn't always perfect. Pearl eats her feelings and hasn't changed her life much since her mom went to prison. Pearl blames herself for the tragedies that affected her family. I couldn't wait to find out why their mom was in prison. Ruby and Pearl were good for each other. They motivated each other in different ways. Pearl naming her CPAC Mr. Winky made me laugh. Loved Perry. He was the perfect friend for Pearl.

Definitely recommend the book. Enjoyed the story, characters and writing style. Look forward to reading more books by the author. Loved how the author talked about her sister and her amazing weight loss.

I received a complimentary copy of this book from SOURCEBOOKS Landmark through NetGalley. Opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.

Four and a Half Stars ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭒
The Sisters We Were by Wendy Willis Baldwin is an emotional story about two sisters who grew up together, but couldn’t be more different as adults.

Story Recap:
Pearl still lives in her mother’s home while her mother serves a long prison sentence for manslaughter. Her weight has crept up to a deadly number and Pearl knows it’s time for drastic measures.

Ruby has a rage-fueled incident that goes viral and has her suddenly jobless. She goes home to stay with Pearl until she can get back on her feet and help Pearl recover from weight loss surgery. Ruby hasn’t been home in years and refuses to communicate with their mother, Birdie, who is in prison.

My Thoughts:
This story is mainly about Pearl and her weight loss journey, and her transformation. Pearl, Ruby, and their mother, Birdie all have some family secrets, and it’s these secrets that are keeping them from living their best lives.

The book is very detailed about Pearl’s weight loss journey and her surgery. It gets just a bit too in-depth at times about the surgery and all the preparation for the surgery. But what I loved is that the book emphasizes the importance of all the care before and after the surgery, and all the work, both mental and physical that must go with the surgery.

It’s the characters that really made the book. Pearl is so brave and has such a giving and generous spirit. Ruby is very intense, but she loves Pearl and she learns she has to deal with her issues in order to live a better life too. And I just loved Pearl’s boss a the assisted living center, Perry. He’s a breath of fresh air and just the kind of guy you’d want as a best friend.

Recommendation:
I highly recommend The Sisters We Were to anyone who enjoys women’s fiction. I received a complimentary copy of this book. The opinions expressed in this review are completely my own.

Thank you NetGalley, Wendy Willis Baldwin and Sourcebooks Landmark for the copy of The Sisters We Were. This is my personal review.
This book was filled with family secrets. It had too much going on that I was overtaken by what was going on. I really did not like the characters in the story. It was hard to keep reading but I did with hopes I would appreciate the debut novel of this author.

Delightful story of Pearl who weighs 531 pounds and her courageous confrontation of her obesity and her sisters story - and how trauma affects us - well written and engaging - I loved the characters

This was such an unexpected, but wonderful read. This is the first book I have read that explores morbid obesity and I thought it was really well done. The character development as well as the exploration into the background and circumstance that led to obesity were really eye opening.

I found this to be a very thought provoking read while also being an interesting story that I was engaged in.

A very worthwhile read.

The Sisters We Were is the story of 2 sisters, each with their own set of trauma and unmet expectations that leads to a rift in their relationship. This book read like an episode of My 600 Pound Life. I found the story interesting, but not necessarily compelling.

Unfortunately I had to put this one down. I couldn’t relate to the characters and the story was gripping my attention.