The Journeyman Life

“This superb work transcends the ‘ordinary’ self-help book by inviting you on a unique voyage of self-discovery and deep introspection. Tony Daloisio not only asks the hard questions, he also models and shows us how to honestly face the difficult, even ugly parts of life (past or present) that we often try to avoid. Yet, it is only through this critical workout of our inner and outer selves that a true transformation takes place. And soon we’ll discover—or rediscover—the real meaning of inside out. An enlightening and remarkable book written by an equally remarkable human being.”

—STEPHEN M. R. COVEY, New York Times and #1 Wall Street Journal bestselling author of The Speed of Trust and Trust and Inspire: How Truly Great Leaders Unleash Greatness in Others

“Very few men have the courage to speak of, speak into, and speak about their journey of discovery and change because it requires transparency and vulnerability regarding the inner man. Into this vacuum of masculine dialogue comes a courageous river of authenticity and insight from one of us that you can trust. Please do not read The Journeyman Life for information. Read it for transformation. Be brave.”

—KENNY LUCK, Founder and President of Every Man Ministries

“The Journeyman Life is potent wisdom for our times. With courage and compassion, Tony enters life’s crises as sacred portals to inner growth and change. His journey treads the vulnerable path of transformation, revealing the importance of befriending our imperfections and the key to changing the world that is waiting to be found inside.”

—BARBARA VACARR, CEO of Kripalu

“With breathtaking honesty, Tony puts himself on the examination table for, as he calls it, a full body scan. Then he invites us to do the same. His call to action is both frightening and exhilarating . . . If life is about change, which I believe it is, The Journeyman Life is a worthy resource to guide us on that journey. We can either change or tell ourselves stories about why we don’t need to change. But even when we have the courage to see the unedited reality of our lives, we need help. This book is a marvelous source for that help.”

—TIM CLARK, Founder and CEO of LeaderFactor

“Tony combines ancient wisdom with modern psychology and his own personal journey to map out a clear and in-depth path to doing the work as a man. Right now is the time to pick up this book and start your journey of inner work—you need it, and the world needs it as well! Our systems have been built on patriarchal mindsets, and the only way to heal our world, is to heal our masculinity. Start here.”

—MATT DEFINA, Organisational Psychologist and Head of Programs & Impact at The Man Cave

“Dr. Tony Daloisio has done it! He has written the comprehensive guide for men to find joy, passion, and purpose in life. The Journeyman Life offers a very practical guide for all men to be introspective, honest, and thoughtful with effective change, continuous improvement, and the ability to define one’s highest level of meaning in a whole-person way. Above all, Tony’s book will connect you with how to be the best version of yourself—authentic, resilient, and purposeful. This is a must-read for anyone who is open to change and transformation both personally and professionally.”

—MICHAEL K. SIMPSON, Amazon #1 bestselling author in Executive Coaching and author of Unlocking Potential and Powerful Leadership through Coaching

“With refreshing vulnerability, Tony invites us to take up the wild, heartbreaking, and exhilarating journey of life. He reminds us of the transformational wisdom that so many of us men need to hear—that we are both perfectly imperfect just as we are and that we can grow into so much more. Tony reminds us that life’s breakdowns provide the most reliable breakthroughs if we are willing to go on an inner journey. This is an important book for those who long to create the brave, wise, and compassionate world that so many men dream of.”

—DR. BRANDON NAPPI, Founder of Copper Beech Institute

“Believing in your own ability to transform and grow is always critical, regardless of your age. Tony reminds us that vulnerability and embracing your imperfections is important for everyone.”

—CHIP CONLEY, Founder of Modern Elder Academy

“Tony has always been a seeker and a catalyst for other seekers. He is a true Journeyman, and in this book, he takes us on a compelling journey—from the inside out. Integrating a wealth of experience, both personally and professionally, with the latest research on ‘what makes men tick,’ he offers a roadmap for any man seeking to up his game in this thing we call a well-lived life. The Journeyman Life is a major contribution to the field of adult-male development. Do yourself a favor and read and follow the wise and practical counsel in this book.”

—DR. NEIL YEAGER, author of The Seventh Prism, The Leader’s Window, and the best-selling Power Interviews

“Try as we might, no man escapes a quiet voice that asks, ‘Who am I?’ and ‘What do I really want in this life?’ Time passes, and the reality of age subtly turns up the volume on that internal chatter, and yet even in later years, lifelong questions frequently remain unanswered because it takes being vulnerable and risks losing the protection we have unwittingly amassed. Tony’s journey, captured here, is both a testament to his own pursuit of truth and nothing less than an extraordinary gift to men.”

—WILLIAM SPEAR, Founder and CEO of Fortunate Blessings Foundation and Higher Education Consultant

“Do you want to let life carry you along passively, or do you want to grab an oar and learn to steer and propel yourself? Tony Daloisio is a wise and practical guide, and The Journeyman Life is the guidebook to learning to live actively rather than passively. I’m so grateful to have found it before more of life passed, and I urge you to read it today.”

—PETER BECKER, Head of School at the Frederick Gunn School

“A daring look at a subject many have shied away from because it requires truth seeking, truth telling, reflection, and individual change. We have an obligation to ourselves, our relationships, and our purpose on earth to be better by increasing our capacity mentally, emotionally, physically, and spiritually in order to be more, do more, and serve more. And when we do, our little corner of the world becomes a better place. But holding up a mirror or a capacity gauge takes courage and fortitude to make the journey to a better life . . . a journeyman life.”

—KENDALL LYMAN, Principal at The Highlands Group and author of Change the Way You Change

“Being a man today can be challenging and lonely. Yet through his journey of vulnerability and trust, Tony shows us a path of not only feeling more alive and connected to each other, but maybe, most importantly, to ourselves.”

—PETER CALLAHAN, Leadership & Engagement Director at Copper Beech Institute

“Tony’s work has been revolutionary for myself and for the team of directors at Skellig. Tony’s realness and tenacity to boldly get to the issues and then guide safely to a resolution is profound. I’m glad I met Tony, and working with him has led to many moments of truth.”

—PAUL O’SULLIVAN, CEO and Founder of Skellig