A satirical feminist folktale featuring: a wedding planner, a disability rights activist, goddesses, princesses, a generational curse, angry men’s rights activists, and a dog. Along with themes of identity, love, and defying tradition.

A Seattle woman celebrates her 55th birthday by holding a swayamvar. An ancient custom in her Indian culture, where suitors compete in feats of strength and will to win a princesses hand in marriage. The woman, a respected intellectual, knows that she is setting herself up for ridicule, but her self esteem and libido are flourishing as she herself withers from disability and age. To her surprise, an ensemble of characters show up to support her call. As her plans spiral into a wonderful spectacle, she must decide who is worthy to take her hand.

What made this book for me was the way the exploration of identity and feminist ideals were portrayed in a humorous and quest-like way while talking into account the history of the MC. She is an older woman who is not looking for love, but is asking for love to find her as a test for herself as much as it will be a test for her suitors. A journey of self discovery. The side cast add such value to the story, through their told stories we see more and more into the MC and her decisions.

It integrates and challenges many topics throughout the story. It all felt natural and beautifully written. By the end of the book I was smiling so hard my cheeks hurt.

I first off would like to say that I was ecstatic to read find & be offered to read this book solely based on my love for Jha’s “The Laughter” that was published a few years back. I truthfully read that book in one sitting and adored it, so I was pleased to see a second book of Jha’s being published!

This story was absolutely stunning and Jha’s weaving of feminist ideals, humor, history, and exploration of identity truly made this book shine. The main character’s quest for love as an older woman with a disability in a seemingly uncharacteristic way (based on the story that is weaved about her identity throughout) seemed to me to not only be a conversation about the act of looking for love as a woman BUT as a test to herself. Similarly, the characters throughout the book add great value and conversation to the story, often through the discussion of the main character’s underlying expertise in gender studies and through the history of her culture.

This book was truly is a shining star at integrating many complex topics into a story and overall conversation in a way that felt natural, beautiful, and necessary. And the ending truly had me grinning from ear to ear.

Thank you to NetGalley & HarperVia for an opportunity to read the ARC of this book!