Being the dependable one drains you of your life force, your dreams and any sense of sanity. My wish for you is that you understand from my story that your story doesn't have to go this way. If you are starting on this path, know to your core that you can say no. Know to your core that you have the right to set boundaries and live your life in a more peaceful, engaged way. Know to your core that you are not here, on earth, to save everyone. That is not your job. That is not your responsibility. Know to your core that you deserve to live your life and not carry others through theirs.