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How We Are (Discreet cover)

A spicy MFM new adult novel

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Pub Date Sep 30 2025 | Archive Date Sep 27 2025

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Description

  • 18+ only please - includes graphic menage sexual content and language

If love doesn’t follow the rules, why should they?

Five years is a long time to love someone from a distance.

But I’ve finally finished my degree, broken free from my Kentucky momma and her pageant dreams, and moved to Chicago to be with my soulmate.

Step one: move in and make up for lost time with Darius. Intimately.

Step two: land my dream job and start fresh.

Easy enough… until my mom starts scheming to drag me home and slap a crown back on my head.

And then there’s Arlo—Darius’s best friend and frustratingly hot roommate. He’s moody, brash, and impossible to ignore.

When I find out he and Darius have shared women before, everything shifts.

I shouldn’t want both of them.

Good girls don’t get tangled in fantasies that include two men. They don't wonder, what if.

They definitely don’t tempt a man like Arlo…

Right?

  • A high-spice, emotional MFM new adult romance for readers who love soulmate reunions, roommates-to-lovers tension, and a heroine who has to learn to overcome guilt and the expectations of others.
  • 18+ only please - includes graphic menage sexual content and language

If love doesn’t follow the rules, why should they?

Five years is a long time to love someone from a distance.

But I’ve finally...


A Note From the Publisher

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Spicy menage ebook on Kindle Unlimited until Dec 20, 2025, then available Jan 2026 through Draft2Digital (Hoopla, Kobo+, Apple, etc)
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Discreet paperback cover available through IngramSpark
Spicy menage paperback cover on Amazon
Spicy menage ebook on Kindle Unlimited until Dec 20, 2025, then available Jan 2026 through...


Advance Praise

"This was a stunning, emotional story of love, identity and choosing your own path! 1000000/10 recommend" - NikkiGirlReads - early reviewer

"This was a stunning, emotional story of love, identity and choosing your own path! 1000000/10 recommend" - NikkiGirlReads - early reviewer


Marketing Plan

Discreet paperback reveal at Getting Witchy With It Signing Event - Peabody, MA: September 20th, 2025

Launch Release discreet and spicy menage paperback - Romancelandia Bookstore - Centreville, MD - Oct 10, 2025

Available for bookstore signings/meet-and-greets in the DMV areas (DC, Maryland, Virginia)

Discreet paperback reveal at Getting Witchy With It Signing Event - Peabody, MA: September 20th, 2025

Launch Release discreet and spicy menage paperback - Romancelandia Bookstore - Centreville, MD -...


Available Editions

EDITION Paperback
ISBN 9798989384099
PRICE $18.99 (USD)
PAGES 476

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How We Are is a sizzling, emotional, and unapologetically steamy MFM romance that keeps you turning pages from start to finish. Poppy Minnix nails the tension between past love and irresistible temptation, creating a story that’s equal parts heartfelt and hot.

The heroine’s journey—from chasing her dreams to navigating intense feelings for two men—is both relatable and thrilling. Darius and Arlo are perfectly drawn contrasts, each offering charm, challenge, and undeniable chemistry, making the love triangle electric without ever feeling forced.

What sets this story apart is the combination of high spice and emotional depth. Minnix doesn’t shy away from exploring complicated desires, jealousy, and self-discovery, giving the romance a richness that lingers long after the last page. For readers who love soulmate reunions, roommates-to-lovers tension, and stories where love isn’t simple but entirely irresistible, How We Are is a must-read.

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