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Date Smarter

A Strategic Guide to Navigating Modern Romance

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Pub Date Apr 29 2025 | Archive Date Oct 27 2025

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Description

In every area of life—career, health, finances—we accept that success takes time and effort. But when it comes to love? We’re told to “just let it happen.”

No wonder so many smart, successful people feel stuck, frustrated, or burned out by modern dating.

What if there were a more strategic way to find real connection?

In Date Smarter, dating coach and former university lecturer Tim Molnar draws on behavioral science to offer a research-backed approach to finding love.

Whether you’re dating online or off, this guide gives you the tools to take control of your romantic life.

Learn how to:

  • Take charge of your dating life with a goal-oriented mindset
  • Use behavioral science to optimize how (and who) you date
  • Set your personalized “Date Number” to stay motivated
  • Ask people out with confidence, no apps required
  • Meet people IRL with research-backed strategies that actually work
  • Reframe rejection to build resilience
  • Create an irresistible dating profile (backed by real data)
  • Plan better dates that fit your budget and schedule
  • Know when to stop searching and commit

If you’re ready to date with more clarity, confidence, and purpose, Date Smarter will show you how.

In every area of life—career, health, finances—we accept that success takes time and effort. But when it comes to love? We’re told to “just let it happen.”

No wonder so many smart, successful people...


Advance Praise

"An empowering, optimistic, and genuinely helpful guide to navigating modern dating. A great read for anyone ready to find a relationship that lasts."
- Katherine Woodward Thomas, New York Times bestselling author of Conscious Uncoupling and Calling in "The One": 7 Weeks to Attract the Love of Your Life

"Date Smarter empowers you to be the architect of your romantic future."
- Matt Abrahams, Stanford Graduate School of Business, author of Think Faster, Talk Smarter

"A must-read for anyone navigating the chaos of modern dating. Insightful, funny, and packed with actionable tips, Date Smarter will help you find the love you're looking for."
- Ashley Kirsner, Founder of Skip the Small Talk

"Tim Molnar's refreshingly data-driven approach to dating is an eye-opening and accessible guide to rethinking how you find a partner."
- Kavita Ajwani, Founder and CEO of Dashing Date

"Molnar ... speak[s] in a non-coachy, non-salesmanlike way, with kindness, easy humor and occasional self-deprecation."
- Colorado Public Radio

"If you're single and totally burnt out on dating, this book is a great choice."
- Connell Barrett, author of Dating Sucks but You Don't

"Rather than assuming what readers need, Molnar uses questions to help them uncover their own barriers, motivations, and optimal approach—making the book interactive rather than prescriptive."
- Ken Woodward, host of Curated Questions Podcast

"An empowering, optimistic, and genuinely helpful guide to navigating modern dating. A great read for anyone ready to find a relationship that lasts."
- Katherine Woodward Thomas, New York Times...


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ISBN 9798991941723
PRICE $9.99 (USD)
PAGES 236

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