Mijo: We Bend, Not Break
by Francisco Castillo
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Pub Date Oct 21 2025 | Archive Date Nov 20 2025
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Description
What if the greatest inheritance a family carries isn’t land or money, but silence?
Mijo: We Bend, Not Break is an unforgettable novel about three generations of Mexican American men bound by distance, unspoken love, and the heavy weight of survival. From the cracked soil of Michoacán to the immigrant fields of California, it follows fathers and sons who mistake endurance for strength, until one shattering moment forces them to confront the question every family must face: how do we break the cycle before it breaks us?
Written by Francisco Castillo, Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, Navy veteran, and son of Mexican immigrants, this is not his story, but it is one he knows intimately. Castillo brings a rare blend of professional insight and cultural truth to the page, crafting a work of fiction that feels searingly real.
Lyrical, raw, and ultimately hopeful, Mijo: We Bend, Not Break speaks to anyone who has lived with generational silence or longed for repair. It’s a novel about trauma, tenderness, and the extraordinary strength it takes to bend without breaking.
Fans of Sandra Cisneros, Luis Alberto Urrea, Valeria Luiselli, and Ocean Vuong will find themselves profoundly moved.
This is a book that lingers, a story that heals, and a reminder that even the hardest soil can grow something new.
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Featured Reviews
A love letter to every family still learning how to say ‘I love you.’
Mijo: We Bend, Not Break hit me right in the corazón—raw, real, and beautifully gut-wrenching, it’s a story about fathers, sons, and the love that finally learns to speak. 💔🌻
Mijo: We Bend, Not Break is a beautifully written multigenerational story that captures the quiet strength and pain that run through families who survive by enduring. Through the lives of fathers and sons shaped by migration, silence, and love left unspoken, Francisco Castillo delivers a story that feels deeply human and heartbreakingly real. His prose flows like memory—lyrical but grounded, heavy with truth and hope. I found myself completely immersed in the characters, feeling their longing, their resilience, and their slow journey toward healing. This book stayed with me long after I turned the last page—it made me think about the unspoken legacies we all inherit and the courage it takes to break cycles of pain.
🔥 Wow, this book got me right in the feels! Mijo: We Bend, Not Break is like a full-on emotional rollercoaster through love, loss, and generations of tough men learning how to feel again. I laughed, I cried, I wanted to hug everyone in it (even the stubborn dads!). The writing is raw, real, and straight-up gorgeous. You don’t have to be Mexican American to see your own family in these pages—it hits that universal truth about how we all carry pieces of the past. If you’ve ever tried to heal what came before you, this one’s gonna speak to your soul. 💔🌱
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