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Life With Less Of Me

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Pub Date Jun 23 2026 | Archive Date Apr 30 2026


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From afar, Julianna Burmesch's formative years looked perfect: A father with a good, steady job. A stay-at-home mother who loved to read. A spacious yard filled with toys and games for her and her two siblings. Yet for those who looked just a little closer, it was the house on the block that other parents didn’t want their kids to visit.


On June 23, 2026, Burmesch releases her memoir, "Life with Less of Me," a candid and deeply reflective account of growing up in a home where the front door hid dysfunction, abuse, alcoholism, neglect and fear.

Inside that seemingly ordinary house, her father’s blind selfishness, Jekyll-and-Hyde moods, and fists that left bruises on his wife dominated the home, inflicting daily trauma on the family. Her mother tried her best, but over time, the weight of her husband’s abuse led to lethargy and parental neglect, burdening her children with even more hardship as her autonomy was slowly whittled away.

In "Life with Less of Me," Burmesch explores a truth many survivors understand: Abuse doesn’t just affect us in the moment. We carry trauma throughout our lives, sometimes even passing it to the next generation. With unflinching honesty, she reflects on how her upbringing shaped her identity, influenced the trajectory of her life and even affected her health as an adult.

Determined not to pass her scars to her own children, Burmesch fought to educate herself, heal from her past and embrace resilience. Through self-examination, professional growth and an unwavering commitment to breaking generational cycles, she became the successful, fulfilled woman she is today.

"Life with Less of Me" offers hope to readers navigating the lingering effects of childhood trauma and serves as a reminder that while we may begin life with less than we deserve, healing and wholeness are still within reach.

From afar, Julianna Burmesch's formative years looked perfect: A father with a good, steady job. A stay-at-home mother who loved to read. A spacious yard filled with toys and games for her and her...


A Note From the Publisher

Julianna Burmesch is a former school principal, speech pathologist, early brain development trainer, parent educator, and child advocate. In writing her memoir, “Life with Less of Me” (Books Fluent, June 23, 2026), she wants to help people understand the effects of adverse childhood experiences and unresolved trauma on one's long-term physical and mental health. Julianna is a mother, grandmother, potter, and occasional jewelry artist. She lives in Wisconsin with her husband, John, and her beautiful dogs, Bella and Ruby.

Julianna Burmesch is a former school principal, speech pathologist, early brain development trainer, parent educator, and child advocate. In writing her memoir, “Life with Less of Me” (Books Fluent...


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This book was a hug from one traumatic childhood to another, reassuring and careful. It was informative and hopeful while still acknowledging that the pain of ACEs never fully leaves us. It was also a reminder that even when we think we have things managed, something can come up that throws us out of balance and we need to take cafe of ourselves and ask for help. There are always those willing to help, be it family, friends, medical professionals, even authors.
There were moments in this book which I could have written about from my own life, specific situations where I thought "almost the exact same thing happened!" So in one way, while I'm sad to know that others had similar experiences, I'm also less alone in what I experienced.
I found it especially connecting to how I always feel like I'm the one who has to be on top of it all. But I've been working on that! Just this weekend I found myself in need of a lift and I reached out to someone. And what do you know...it worked. Was it an instant fix? No. But it was a step to build on, and I'll take that.
Thank you for reaching out through this book. May you be comforted in the love and life around you, and may those reading this book feel like they too are seen and heard.
My thanks to the author, publisher, and NetGalley for an advance reader copy of this title in exchange for my honest review.

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Thank you to NetGalley and the publisher for providing this book in exchange for an honest review.
This is a well written memoir of a very troubled childhood. The cycle of abuse is generational and Julie has done a great job of reflecting on her past and breaking that cycle. She is a true survivor!

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