Love the wisdom & insight of Laurie Polich Short. Have recommended this book to all of my reading friends.

To accentuate book theme, Short uses lenses, rather than chapters for book division. She goes further into lenses by suggesting that there are four lenses through which we may view various life events and time periods which proffers great/er insight.

The wisdom and insight is solid. We urge you to step inside the covers. Accept what's there. Grow.

Short ensures that you understand the four lenses with plenty of examples. In fact, understanding them should help to close up that gap which, can exist, between the head and the heart. If you understand the necessary lenses which, can transform you existence, then, you may not need to actually remember the lenses in and of themselves.

Just use them.

Hence, the title.

Love it.