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10 Things a Husband Needs from His Wife

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This looked like maybe it was going to be humorous or Stepford Wife-ish and I wanted a peak at it. Was neither. DNF. As it's a Christian book I am sure it will find an audience in religious bookstores.

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10 Things a Husband Needs From His Wife is a book on how to help a woman's relationship get closer to her husband by listening and giving him his needs. There was one quote in the book I thought was absolutely wonderful it's saI'd "I want to build the kind of relationship where my husband turns to me as a trusted advisor when a huge decision lands on his plate. But what would it take to get him there? I imagined It would require me to be already pursuing him, providing words of affirmation and praise, and listening to him to know what is on his plate in the first place. That's the kind of wife I long to be.". This book is not just for married couples - can help those who are going to be married as well or who are single as well - this is good book.

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I saw this book on Netgalley and wanted to read it because I often feel like I have good intentions in the spousal department, but don't always follow through. I really enjoyed this book. Smalley wrote in a down-to-earth fashion, offering real-life examples of how to work toward a better relationship regardless of how long one has been married. The chapters were short, and review questions helped the reader apply topics personally. Would recommend to anyone who wants to work toward a stronger marriage.

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10 Things a Husband Needs from His Wife is an excellent resource for women who would like to make sure they’re living up to their full potential as a wife. In this five star non-fiction book, Smalley discusses the top ten things her careful research and experience have taught her on this front. Shared in an easy to follow format, this book gives wives and future wives-to-be many pointers on what they can and should be doing to get the most out of their marriage. Very insightful and easy to read. Looking forward to putting several of these principles into action.

Thank you to the author, publisher, and NetGalley for the review opportunity.

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Erin Smalley, wife of Greg Smalley, has written a marriage book on her own, especially directed towards wives. In it, she gives us ten things that our husbands need from us, why, and how to provide that need in his life. The ten she chose are: a healthy wife, affirmation, valuing his differences, physical intimacy, the benefit of the doubt, respect for his leadership, gratitude, influence, time for rejuvenation, and friendship.

Erin acknowledges that wives have needs too, but gently challenges us that we need to act right no matter how our husbands acts, and that the only person you can change is yourself. Furthermore, by your model of acting well, you will influence your husband to treat you better and improve this marriage as well. This is a good book for marriages that are okay but just need that little push to make it great.

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Thanks to NetGalley and the publishers for allowing me to have a free, digital ARC of this book in exchange for an honest review.

I have to admit that I procrastinated reading this book for a while. I just knew it would be a book of a lot of things I would have to do differently. Fortunately, that was not the case. The book was very insightful on just how different men are than women. It was helpful to see his perspective on different aspects of our marriage and what he needs as a man that I would not readily notice.

I would recommend this book to a wife of any age, but it would be a wonderful present for a bride - to -be!

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Nice title to reaffirm choices you can make that will help foster a better relationship with your husband. Nothing in the title was surprising to me, but it is always good to hear things again.

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"10 Things a Husband Needs from His Wife" is an exciting book with great advice about real issues encountered in a marriage. It is a Christian based book with for women who want to develop a closer relationship with their husbands.
Although I have been married for over 20 years, this book had much to teach me. Erin Smalley shares stories that we all can relate to and realize that we aren't the only one in that situation. She helps us to understand that men as a whole think differently than women. When we understand this, she states, we will allow the differences to become assets to our marriages.
Erin shares great biblical principles and situations from her own marriage.She gives us prayers for ourselves, prayers to say for our husbands, and challenges to think about..
I found her suggestions very helpful and was excited to be reminded of principles I had long since forgotten or never learned. This was one of the best books I have read about wives relationships with their husbands. I highly recommend this to all wives of all ages. Very good book!

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I don’t usually read non-fiction ebooks because I like to have a hard copy of the book to underline and highlight since I use non-fiction Christian books for devotional times, Bible Studies, small group studies, and prayer group meetings. This book, however, caught my attention immediately on NetGalley and I had to get the ebook to read.

It is a very well-written book detailing 10 ways that a wife can better support her husband. Even after 17 years of marriage and 4 children, I found the book absolutely enlightening. The author brings in great anecdotes that every woman, wife, and mother can relate to. Her writing is easy to read and understand and extremely honest. Her 10 points are very relatable and she gives pointers on how to make them real and workable in our daily lives.

I’m so glad that I picked this book up. It has opened my eyes and heart and mind to how I can better serve my husband. I can pray along with St. Francis, asking, “O Divine Master, grant that I may not so much seek to be…understood, as to understand.” I have much to think and pray over.

I received a copy of this book from Harvest House Publishers via NetGalley. I was not required to write a favorable review. All comments and opinions are solely my own.

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I don't often rave about books, but this one is worth every word of praise. It is a must-have book and I think should be included with the marriage counseling before the wedding.

It is eye opening. I encountered many of the problems that I thought only I struggled with, but lo and behold I am not alone. Erin Smalley even sheds light on the mystery that is man and his thought processes. She uses examples out of her own marriage in this book, and it was a wakeup call for me. I realised that I have been stepping back, expecting my husband to understand throuhg ESP what I wanted from him. Now I am an active partner and it has changed our relationship.

I cannot thank her enough for this book, and it is going to be a gift to every one of my friends. Brava Erin Smalley, this book was long overdue.

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What a lovely book! I am going to be purchasing a copy for my bookshelf. The author provides practical advice for married couples in all walks of life. I read many of the parts to my husband and it started great conversations on how he felt about certain topics and the forms of appreciation that he holds dear to his heart. This should be a part of every premarital counseling material!

*This copy was provided to me by Netgalley for an honest review.*

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Even though I have been married for over 8 years - I still love reading books about relationships and marriage. I believe no matter how many years you have you under your belt - you can always learn something new.

"By becoming a model and giving to your husband the things you desire to receive, your husband and your marriage will be shaped in ways you cannot yet imagine."

10 Things a Husband Needs from His Wife offers effective ways to make your marriage more loving, stable and strong. One of the things I love about this book is each chapter has stories that the reader can relate to. Also, included are personal challenges and Prayer for the Wise Wife. The personal challenges help you to apply the information you learned to your real life. The prayers come in handy for the times you don't know how and what to say when it comes to praying.

Grab this book - I promise you won't be disappointed.

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I would recommend tgis book to anyone who hasn't read anything about marriage. It's research and an experience-based manuscript on beeing a wonderful wife which makes it really worth-reading.

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Really good book with sound advice for wives, with emphasis on how men are wired differently and how the differences shouldn't always be a deal breaker but something that can be discussed and compromised on.

I wish though that it wasn't just about how women needed to understand their husbands; I would've liked it more if it was a combination of both sides, i.e. how men needed to understand their wives also. I do think there are already one too many books on what men 'expect' in relationships/marriages and how wives should meet those expectations, but not enough books on what the wives want and what they wish their husbands knew so they could be better understood.

All in all, it was a good book and I enjoyed reading it.

Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for providing me with a free copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.

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*I received this book from NetGally in exchange for an honest review.

Of all the marriage books I've read, this one is definitely top 3 if not my new #1! Smalley's writing is fantastic as it combines great biblical principles on marriage with real life accounts from her own life. She also adds in marriage challenges, prayers for your husband, blurbs from her own husband about the chapters topics, and questions for reflections. This book is especially great for the married and engaged women, but would also be a great book for single women who are wanting to be married one day. All in all, a great book by Smalley that shows the biblical role of a wife and how we can truly be our husband's helpmate!

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"10 Things a Husband Needs from His Wife" is about the small and sometimes not-so-small things a wife can do to actively work on a better marriage. The author wants to help wives to understand how men are wired differently from women and she raises awareness for how these differences can be dealt with. One might get the impression that this book is all about pleasing men and giving up one's individuality, but the author also focuses on self-care and stresses the importance of it.

This book is clearly aimed at married women and even though many chapters could be read also as preparation for marriage, it would be better to only read it as an adult as some chapters also address the issue of intimacy in marriage. Also, this book is written from a Christian and rather complementarian point of view, but I didn't mind that. I found many suggestions pretty helpful, even though I already knew some, but it is very easy to forget these little details in your everyday life.

The style was clear and accessible. And the cover, in my opinion, is very pretty, too. I also couldn't find any contradictions in this book. Most claims are backed up by quotes from Scripture, but the author also quoted a few studies.

I think this book would be most helpful for young wives or engaged women. If you haven't read too many books on marriage, this might also contain some new information for you.

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A practical guide for every married woman to have a stronger relationship with her husband. This book is full of prayers and tips that would make this the perfect gift for any newly married woman.

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This one is excellent! I thought that Erin did a great job with this book.

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I highly recommend this book. It’s filled with great advice to help anyone’s marriage.

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