Michael's experiences with depression, anxiety and anorexia including the time he spent in a mental health hospital. You also hear from the perspective of Michael's family, in particular his sad Ian. There are many self help books on mental health now, but i have never come across one like this. Written jointly by father and son, it covers a 4 year period of crisis in the life of a young man whilst doing his MA. His story is covered by using a diary he wrote at the time.

I'd like to thank Netgalley and Jessica Kingsley Publishers for a copy of the boo in exchange for an honest review.

This is the story of the Maitland family and their battle with metal health issues. Notice that I don't say Michael Maitland's battle. With mental health it is a battle for the whole family and everyone involved in Michael's life.

The story is a mix of excerpts from Michael's diary from when he is brought into the Priory to start to deal with his issues with depression, anxiety, OCD and anorexia after he reaches a low of 44 kilos (97 lbs) as a 6' tall male and has an oedema and a collapsed lung. With insight from his father and the fallout within the family and dealing with Michael's problems.

It is explained best in the preface of the book itself

Out of the Madhouse tells the story of Michael Maitland, and that of his family –dad Iain, mum Tracey, younger sister Sophie and younger brother Adam, plus Bernard the family   dog. Michael went to university in 2007 to do a degree in Illustration and, whilst there, he suffered from depression and anxiety which led eventually to anorexia and, finally, hospital and the Priory. That’s where our story begins, in the Priory in the late autumn of 2012. It is a story with a mix of happy and sad times, highs and lows –and tragedy. The story comes to an end in 2017. The book is divided into three parts –Into the Priory, Back Home and Inside the Maitland Family. Michael’s diary and notes form the backbone of much of the book and let fellow sufferers and their parents and loved ones see inside the head of someone with mental illness and understand how they think and feel. Alternating with Michael’s words, I write about the effects upon and feelings of the family –if you have a loved one with mental illness, you are not alone and will recognise much of what the Maitlands experienced over the years. I also offer self-help thoughts and ideas through the book that will help those with mental health issues, and those who love them, to manage depression and anxiety and related issues. This is a memoir, a self-help guide and more –happiness, sadness, stupidity, regret, pain, shame, embarrassment and so many other emotions are all here. So too is love –angry, frustrated, irritated, worried and more –but always love. It is a strong and golden thread that runs from the start, right the way through to the end, and beyond.

I liked the personal touch in this book with the actual diary entries from Michael and his thoughts and feelings at the time of his lowest points. It was good to have a book that actually had that point of view. But, I don't think I was the targeted audience for this book because, being a sufferer myself this book seemed to be written more for the families and friends surrounding those suffering from depression and anxiety than the actual person suffering.

There is some insight from the family about how it was hard to understand what was happening with Michael. He stops going to University, but won't get a job and barely leaves his house. They just think that he's a freeloader and they're being too nice helping him pay his way in the world and they don't think about how there could be a bigger problem.

They have some good tips for family members to help them recognize that something may be going on with someone close to them

"Look for patterns of changing behaviour"

"Watch for changes in demeanour"

"Keep an eye on physical changes"

And the biggest one being "DON'T KEEP QUIET!" I know that no one wants to push a loved one away by prying, but if you don't confront this person they may not get the help they need before it's too late. Sometimes this person may not even understand what is going on with them, and sometimes they may even be hoping you take notice and help them. I think that was the best advice that they gave in the book.

My issue with the book was some of the advice they gave to deal with the symptoms of depression and anxiety, especially their tips on panic attacks. As one who has suffered from many I found myself getting angry at their advice to "Think ahead" , "Learn to relax" and the best one, "breathe deeply" . Now, again I say that this is actually good advice for family members who might witness a panic attack as it gives them something to say to try to soothe the person suffering... but, telling someone having a panic attack to "just breathe deeply" would be like if I shoved your head underwater and told you to "just breathe deeply"  ....it isn't as easy as this book made it seem.

The other issue that I had with this book was that when it came towards the end of the book and giving suggestions on where to get help they were all based out of the U.K, as that's where the family was from. This in and of itself wasn't my main problem, it was the fact that Iain (as he was the one writing this portion) didn't even seem to TRY to do any research into other organizations in North America, where much of his audience will probably be from, as his publisher also had a branch in the U.S.A. He would say "Just contact the NHS, or dial 999" and when he does refer to how references in different places will be different he just says "your GP can direct you to the Community Mental Health Team, or whatever it is called where you are" . Now, I don't expect him to come up with all of the names. But, either a few from main places where people may be reading your book, or an appendix at the end of the book to refer to for other possible help in different places would have probably been helpful and not a huge amount of work. It really would have made the book seem a bit more authentic and helpful.

I do really like the description Michael uses as the mental health issues as a tentacled monster. The stories written about this and the analogies were very fitting. It is definitely a beast that can easily strike a person with many arms but stem from the same problem.

I hope that someone who has a family member or loved one with mental health issues will read this book as I think it will be more helpful to them than it was for me. I'm thinking of getting my man to read it for his opinion because it did have some great tips for dealing with your loved one and with dealing with yourself. The one thing that I really took to heart to remember for the future (because those with mental health issues seem to be the ones who need to be taken care of) is that your family dealing with you need to take care of themselves as well! Sometimes they need to walk away from the person in need of help and take a breather and some time to themselves, because their health mentally and physically matter too!

I was given a copy of this book in exchange for a honest review.

Michael’s struggles with mental illness were laid out in this book in an informative and loving manner. The authors did an amazing job of ensuring that the reader emphasized with Michael while providing crucial information to assist others struggling with mental illness. As someone suffering from depression and anxiety, I found this book to be extremely empowering.

I found this book an interesting read and it gave a lot of good advice and information for families of a person suffering from mental health issues . It was also interesting to read the insights of Michael as he battles his illness.

This book documents Michael’s journey from 2012-2017. Through that period he suffered from severe depression and anxiety which led to him battling with anorexia.
It is written mainly using diary entries from Michael written at the time, but also with entries from his father, Iain. It is Iain’s entries which make this book so different from the norm in that they are a mixture of accounts of how the family dealt with the situation and, exercises and tips on how to cope and manage with depression and anxiety.
Although Michael had a long battle, it was amazing to see that he came through without the prolonged use of medication (although it was recognised that this is not the right approach for everyone).
This is a really interesting and different read on the subject of mental health. I would recommend it for anyone with mental health issues, anyone helping someone dealing with these issues or just someone who wants to know more about the subject.
My only slight criticism of the book is that Iain’s advice is a bit repetitive at times, but I understand that can be helpful for advice to be repeated so that it sinks in.
Thanks to NetGalley for a Kindle copy of this book in exchange for an honest review.

As a perinatal mental health advocate and as the author of a book about postpartum bipolar disorder, I found "Out of the Madhouse" to be a compelling, worthwhile read. The book depicts co-author Michael Maitland's quest for healing as well as his father Iain's reflections about his son's recovery journey. Michael stays at the Priory, a place that my British psychiatrist friend told me is one of the top institutions for mental illness treatment. It's an inspiring story as Michael Maitland evolves into a mental health ambassador— the book is also practical as it contains pointers for better mental health that can apply to people with a variety of mood disorders.

'Out of the Madhouse' tells of Michael's journey through the mental health system whilst he battles his own mental health issues. As someone working in mental health I always find these kinds of books extremely enlightening and useful for me as a professional. What I really appreciated about this one was that interspersed with Michael's diary entries were recollections from Michael's father, Ian, as well as advice and tips from Michael to others experiencing mental ill health as well as those supporting individuals suffering from mental ill health. These tips, as given from someone who has first-hand experience, are invaluable.

I found this a really emotive read, as Michael's story is somewhat turbulent, but was really happy to read at the end that Michael goes on to share his story with others through conferences and suchlike, and ends up in a career and friendship circle which seems to be making him very happy.