When we ask ourselves, ‘who did we raise up to stand in the shoes of Martin, Malcom or Mandela in this Black Lives Matter generation?’ We must assign to the legion of leaders lighting the way, Zachary R. Wood as a bridge closing the gap! This prolific memoir written by a 21 year-old, gives practical strategies for engaging people on their deeply ingrained and dug-in positions in order to widen the conversation of differing perspectives thereby expanding concepts of inclusivity. As a phenomenal orator (see also his TedTalksX), he tackles large issues on the page that belie his baby face, and forces his readers to listen intently for ways he attempted on his college campus to find a common ground.
If Childish Gambino is the African American "lodestar of consciousness” reminding us of all we, as a people, have to be uncertain about; then Zachary Wood is that disruptive force in truth-telling that is most certainly uncensored while taking in the wash. His book harkens back to the work and book done by Dr. Beverly Tatum, “Why Are All the Black Kids Sitting Together in the Cafeteria,” sometime around the year of Zachary’s birth. He morphs and evolves its premise as all generations must. He proves to us that uncomfortable learning done consciously can yield uncomfortable truths and develop uncommon courage. Dr. Tatum highlighted :
"Fear is a powerful emotion, one that immobilizes, traps words in our throats, and stills our tongues. Like a deer on the highway, frozen in the panic induced by the lights of an oncoming car, when we are afraid it seems that we cannot think, we cannot speak, we cannot move…What do we fear? Isolation from friends and family, ostracism for speaking of things that generate discomfort, rejection by those who may be offended by what we have to say, the loss of privilege or status for speaking in support [of self], physical harm caused by the irrational wrath of those who disagree with your stance…”
Rage is just that sort of irrational wrath he encountered in his youth juxtaposed by his teenage years of a calming force who demonstrated a strength of purpose and will to survive. But Zachary has done the one thing trauma and recovery specialist know to be cathartic and healing for victims; he has claimed his truth and become a beacon on the discourse of doing so. If you remember the clap-back tome to Reviving Ophelia-- Ophelia Speaks; you won’t be disappointed by “Uncensored” answer to the educational giants like Lisa Delpit, Dr. Beverly Tatum, and Sonia Nieto...
This beautifully written gut-wrenching memoir tackles sensitive issues in the author’s life that illuminate that the very thing he was castigated about was indeed ‘fake news.’ Underestimated, unfairly chastised, browbeaten, and bullied, he rises as a young man who saved himself by asking for help from a school professional that was ironically set up by his rage-aholic mother. It just goes to show if avarice doesn’t get you, karma surely will...And yet we are left to wonder if she ever grasps at any deep reflection or develops any remorse for emotionally stunting an otherwise academically stellar childhood. One can only hope! In a time headlined by the #MeToo movement, he is at once bolstered and buoyed. Yet we tend to overlook in a movement that subverts silence by empowering the act of speaking up, is its corollary counterpart — #BulliesCowards&Punks, for those who deny, refuse to atone, or take ownership for their brazen acts of victimization. Zachary Wood tells us exactly how the cover of mental illness or those who enable, bend the arc of truth toward deception in an effort to cover shame and conceal the facts through series of orchestrated secret bearing and blatant lies. Needless to say, both his mother, his grandmother, and and stepfather, need a slot in the latter hashtag. Motives, methods of madness, and manipulation are only as powerful as those who stay silent. Zachary spoke up and continues to speak out. When Malcom X said, "all chickens come home to roost," one wonders what those who abandoned, berated, and disparaged him will ask of him now that this MANchild has found his promise land — his voice!
You can’t help but cheer, "Go Zachary! You have more in your corner than you know, as the wind beneath your wings, SOAR! Lead and achieve. Never look back; your future is bright and unhampered! Everything you went through was preparing you for just this moment. Be proud of your hard won strength, resilience, as well as your ability to keep your eye on the prize. Continue to speak out —you empower us all and challenge us to shine a light on our own dark places."
Five star for a perfect prose that makes one both cry and cheer in all the right places.