I am very thankful that I read this book, since now I am prepared for that future date that I'm not looking forward t0 -- the date when I have to choose a place for a loved one. I've been in nursing homes as a volunteer in many capacities -- taking Girl Scouts troops to sing, therapy dogs to visit residents, and Irish dancers to entertain, and there were very few places that I'd want to spend more than a few hours in. This book will help me choose the best out of a bad set of options.

I know, I know, a 5 star rating looks fake. I can assure you I really recommend this book. I wish it had been available to me when I was the primary caregiver for my mother. It's like Karen Severson has read my mind or diary, she touches on so many of the concerns and questions I encountered during my tenure. She writes from years of clinical and professional experience, but it's conversational rather than lecture. I could see this book as a reference right alongside The 36-Hour Day. If your Alzheimer's Organization has a book discussion group, or a reading list, I would definitely include Look, I shrank Grandma as a selection. This reference is practical, relateable, hopeful and empowering. I will definitely advocate for this book as I appreciate the care and clarity with which it is delivered. I think that what I appreciated most was that she didn't sugarcoat the expectations and the progression of the disease. Her section on end-of-life decisions is sooooo necessary to so many families.

I really like this book. Even more, I value it so highly I'm going to buy copies for other family members who are currently going through these issues. I wish I 'd had it as a resource when my mother was going through her last few months with dementia/Alzheimer's. The author brings her professional knowledge and experience to the subject and combines both with compassion and common sense. Well-written and informative. Highly recommended.