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101 Questions You Need to Ask in Your Twenties

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Whether you just polished off your college graduation cake, are in your twenties or thirties struggling through a quarter-life crisis, you're simply trying to figure out how to become all grown up, or you're a parent looking for that perfect college graduation gift or Christmas gift for your twentysomething, 101 Questions You Need to Ask in Your Twenties is the book for you.

Very easy to read and really helpful.

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I liked the introspective nature of this book and would implore any twenty-something to read it. I loved how easy it was to read.

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This book was okay. I thought reading it in my early 30’s, it would still be relatable, but it wasn’t.

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As someone in their mid twenties this was a really interesting and fun read. I thought it brought up some very intriguing points and was an amusing and informative book to read. I would definitely recommend it especially if you are in your twenties!

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There are some really good points and questions in this book that would appeal to anyone - I think that anyone could use the tips in this book, even if they are not in their twenties. It is a great book for anyone with some questions and could be used as a great gift, The author uses funny stories to illustrate his points, and would be helpful for anyone who is maybe looking for some motivation. It is also about not letting fear hold you back from what you want to do, and to try anything at least once. Not all readers may connect with all the questions or the points the author wishes to make, and some of the questions are also easily answered on ones own. All in all, an interesting book.

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I read through the book once and highlighted some parts, so will go back and read through what I highlighted. There were some good points in this book, however I didn't find the question format that appealing to me.

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This book is a good way to make certain you do the work of assessing who you are, where you are, and where you want to be. Without that type of self-reflective assessment, years could go by and paths traveled without really knowing if that's where you wanted to be. Make things happen, rather than having them just happen to you, by taking the step of reading this book and thinking about it.

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This was a pleasant book to read. The language was easy to understand and the stories from the author was cute and funny. He made his point shine through and got the reader to understand the importance of the questions he asked.

I have only read through the book once quickly as the author said a reader should do the first time. I have not gone through the book trying to answer the questions. Then maybe my review of the book would have been different, as many of the questions were hard. They make you put your plans, life, friends and family under a microscope, as I belive everyone should do a few times in your life. I think this book simplified it a little, and for some questions you might need more help than the book to answer.

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101 Questions You Need to Ask in Your Twenties by Paul Angone – Book Review
Adulting got you Down? Us too. Life can go rather quickly and just finding the answers to the questions of life is key.

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“Whether you just polished off your college graduation cake, are in your twenties or thirties struggling through a quarter-life crisis, you're simply trying to figure out how to become all grown up, or you're a parent looking for that perfect college graduation gift or Christmas gift for your twentysomething, 101 Questions You Need to Ask in Your Twenties is the book for you.”
It breaks it down into the key subjects of life:
• Adulting to win – Thriving on the big picture and small details of adulthood
• Careerish – How to build a career that is meaningful (whilst making you money)
• Relationshipping – Dating, Marriage, networking, friend-ship, mentoring, oh my!
• Signature Sauce – Uncovering your passion, purpose, and calling collide.

So, it has its own twang to life. Throwing life into the deep end and seeing if that positive thing pops up. It evens tells you how to read the book!


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I like it, he puts his own ideas in his own way. Showing life experiences in different ways to develop different strategies for your own life after reading the book.
Understanding life is a journey is the key to success. If you are unclear, this book is about to open a few mindful doors, Score 4/5

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As a twenty something who has just recently graduated from uni and entered the 'real world' I found this book to be of great help. It posed some great questions and got me thinking about the bigger picture. It also reassured me that having a quarter-life crisis is completely normal and I know feel much more prepared to figure out my path. I would recommend this to anyone who is currently trying to muddle their way through their twenties!

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I recommend this book for ages 17-35, even though it’s aimed at your twenties. The knowledge you gain about yourself through asking yourself these questions, gives you a great base from which to go forward in your life. It’s informative and motivating and helpful.

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Oh dear. It is another one of those books that I have read that I am really not enamoured by.

I really wanted to like 101 Questions You Need to Ask in Your Twenties by Paul Angone. I mean, ok, I am out of the twenties bracket but I still have questions. What I found was a bunch of tenuous extended metaphors, analogies and self promotion of previous books. It just didn’t leave me satisfied or happy as a reader.

101 Questions You Need to Ask in Your Twenties by Paul Angone is available now.

For more information regarding Paul Angone (@PaulAngone) please visit www.allgroanup.com.

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Many teens in high school when asked about what they want to do with their lives, the typical answer is: "I don't know." Even those who declare some area of interest soon find themselves choosing other options soon after. High school students change electives and concentrations. Undergraduates move from course to course. Some prefer to simply go earn some money while thinking about what their second job would be. Then, there are relationship matters where young people reaching puberty would try to make sense of where there hearts and emotions lead them to. What if someone could guide them or mentor them? What if questions themselves are more useful than answers? This is what this book is aimed at doing. Instead of trying to give or spoon-feed kids about what they need, let them discover for themselves. This book of questions fit in nicely because they are designed to prompt Millennials into active thinking. For many of them are often less open to people telling them what to do. They prefer to find their own answers. They simply need a guide by the side instead of sage on the stage. Paul Angone is that guide by the side. According to Angone, there are four major concerns about people in their twenties, and other age groups as well.

Adulthood matters: "Thriving in the big picture and small details of adulthood"
Career matters: (How to build a career that is meaninful?)
Relationship Matters: (Dating, marriage, networking, friendship,mentoring, etc)
Calling and Signature Matters: (Uncovering where you passion, purpose, and calling collide)
A total of 101 questions are posed, each categorized in one or more of the above categories. Before entering into the questions, the author shares about his own growing up stage. He knows what it means to be confused, to be searching for the unknown; to wonder what life is about. He has also encountered people who kept themselves busy so that they could avoid the personal questions about life, calling, and significance. The key belief in this book is this: "To find good answers, we must first ask good questions." A good question is a problem half-solved. The trouble with many is that they are so busy trying to find answers without asking the right questions in the first place. The questions in this book have been tested to deal with the many transitions we face. Angone is spot on when he says that too many of us have been preoccupied with trying to settle into the "new normal" and fail to enjoy the transition moment. He writes: "Transitions are not simply a bridge to the next important season of your life. Transitions are the most important seasons of your life." So, the mood of the book has been set right from the start. Don't be afraid of not knowing what to do or where to go next. Let the questions help us to discover our journeys, our contexts, our circumstances, and ourselves!

The questions are phrased to cajole our hearts to face our doubts and our fears. There are those that asks us what we are hiding from.; why we are afraid; our insecurities; social media pressures; and the expectations both real and incredible. He is well informed about the social media scene as well, showing us not only questions but tips on what we could do and how we should manage our social media interaction. For instance, asking "Should I really post this?" sets us thinking about why we want to do what we do. We learn the difference of theory from reality as we form different relationships from time to time.

I love the part about the benefits of feeling lost, where the author highlights six learning points to address our inner concerns, turning a crisis into a learning opportunity. When we shun challenges and avoid them like a plague, we do ourselves a disfavour as many people learn most when they face challenges directly. Angone also takes us further by asking the question behind the question. Why we ask the question of us? What is the question behind the question? Here is a sample of some of the most thought-provoking questions:

Question about Passion: "When have others seem me the most alive?"
Question about our Big Story: "What are the pivotal plot points of my story?"
Question about Bigger Questions: "What is my significant why?"
Question about our Fears: "What are 3-5 of the greatest tragedies that I've had to overcome?"
Question about Anxiety: "What is my anxiety telling me?"
Question about Calling: "What are my problems and personal pain revealing to me about my purpose?"
Question about Career: "What do I need to do while I wait to do what I was born to do?"
Question about Relationship: "How do I stop networking and start relationshipping?"
Question about Perspective: "What is Love?"
Question about Fairness: "Should I be asking Is-Life-Fair?"
Question about Being Down-to-Earth: "Am I dreaming big and being faithful in the small?"
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On and on, the questions ought to keep one on the edge of the seat because they are so personal and self-revealing. There are several pages of wisdom in dark blue background that drive home a gem to remember. They are encouraging and assuring to the one in doubt.

My Thoughts
First, I want to commend the author for such a valuable resource to help teens and young adults work through their doubts and uncertainties. As they go through life from school to college; and from graduation to the working world; chances are they are filled with cautious idealism. Cautious because they have been constantly bombarded with fake news and false hopes out there on the Internet. Idealism because they all have this common characteristic: Wanting to make this world better than before. The questions have been phrased in a catchy way, that they grip the heart's attention instantly. One could say: "Finally, someone has put into words what I've been asking all along!"

Second, with this resource, there are many different possible applications. One can use it in church groups, Sunday School classes, or Christian gatherings to help people grow deeper in helping one another grow and understand what it means to struggle through life when in the twenties. It can also be used as a conversation starter in sharing sessions. Those of us called to teach can use this or portions of it to relate to younger audiences. It could also spark a sermon series for youth services. Those with the gift of writing could write about them.

Third, while the audience of the book is explicitly to those in their 20s or 30s, there is no limiting other age groups from using the book. As long as one is engaged with people of these age groups, it would be an important window into the contemporary issues they face. Each chapter is kept brief Key points are in bold, with occasional wise words offered throughout the pages. Who knows, some of the questions might even interest older folks among us, especially those of us who had not really answered the questions in our teenage years. Well, it is never too late.

Paul Angone is passionate about reaching out to Millennials. Stemmed from his own struggles when in his 20s, he has researched, spoken on, and wrote about the biggest challenges and issues surrounding young people. His objective is to help others discover their passion, purpose, and career choices. His website is AllGroanUp.com which has been read by millions in 190 countries.

Rating: 5 stars of 5.

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This book has been provided courtesy of Moody Publishers and NetGalley without requiring a positive review. All opinions offered above are mine unless otherwise stated or implied.

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I received this book from Netgalley and am providing my honest review. I wasn't quite sure how to review this one, so I'm just going to post the thoughts I had while reading and my answers to some of the questions.

Each of us is unique with our own experiences, environment, upbringing, personality and more which makes us different than others. Asking the right questions rather than seeking someone else's answers provides us the chance to provide our own answers unique to ourselves.

I've often wondered if life is just a waiting game. Waiting for the work/school day to end, waiting for the weekend, waiting for graduation, waiting for a certain age of phase of life, waiting for this sentence to finish. I'm a forward, big-picture thinker so I always look towards the future, not as invested in my present as I ought to be. Or as I'd like to be, anyway. And I'm working on that. What Paul says about transitions resonates with me for this reason. Because, our 20's are full of change and transitions. Rather than wait for it to end, we can embrace them and live within them. It's the journey, not the destination, right?

Being in the present, figuring things out is when we are most creative. When we're lost and solving the puzzle which is our own life is when we have the most profound revelation and are the most creative. Rather than looking forward and waiting for the future to happen, live as it happens.

There's a section about friends which I can't answer because I basically have one friend. My other friends are still in my California college town, which I moved away from after graduation. I'll only see them once a year at this point.

Great questions.

What is fear keeping you from doing? A substantial part of why I identify so strongly with Hermione Granger from Harry Potter is my fear of failure. Like her, I was thrust into a world of academics with people I didn't have much in common with as far as backgrounds go. I felt like I was surrounded by college prep/AP classmates who had scientists/doctors/lawyers for parents while I didn't and I feared failing because I didn't want to risk being kicked out of that world for not being good enough. Fear of failing holds me back, so sometimes I'll be too afraid to try something for fear of failing at it. From getting a driver's license to operating an intercom at work. This is also something I am working on. Instead of closing in on myself from the pressure of doing things right, I dive headfirst into what I'm afraid so that, if I fail, at least I won't be afraid anymore.

I do appreciate that the God parts are kept to a minimum as I'm not religious at all. I don't believe I have a destined purpose or that I'm put here for a reason. But I am here and any meaning that has is what I make it.

Stereotyped at work for my age? I haven't experienced this, that I can recall, and the person closest to my age is 5 years older than me. But, I am a girl working at a STEM vocational campus with a population of 98% male, so I've had to quickly learn how to be vocal, radiate confidence and stick up for myself.

All in all, a pleasant read. I had a great conversation about some of the questions with my partner in crime, so that was good fun. Thanks!

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I absolutely adore this book, it's made me think about my life and where I want to go with it. Some of the chapters don't relate to me, as I'm unmarried with zero children, but other parts I find extremely relatable. E.g. having friends who love from their strengths and being supportive, and being lost, that was a good one... by good I mean I sat and had a mild existential crisis. Well written and gladly received for a wakeup call!

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This book did ask good questions, but it was bogged down with stories of why the question was important. It was almost information overload. I think while the questions are good, and some are good regardless of age, the stories should be spaced out more or not all shared. It would add something to it if not every question seemed life or death serious.

I received this copy from the publisher via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.

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This book did not live up to the expectation I had for it. Most of the questions and answers were things I already knew. Overall, I am very disappointed with this book.

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An interesting look at the queries twenty-somethings have about life. Some of the queries i really connected with and liked how they responded but a few of them i felt were odd queries to include and they could have answered and addressed them better.

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I know it's not the way to go if you truly love life you will stop it there's other people to think about please

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