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Love and Ruin

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Paula McLain does a great job weaving true historical facts and turning them into a fascinating read.
This was the story of the love affair and marriage between Martha Gellhorn and Hemingway. She was a novelist, travel writer, and journalist who is considered one of the great war correspondents of the 20th century. She reported on virtually every major world conflict that took place during her 60-year career. Unfortunately, she fell madly in love with Ernest Hemingway, whom we all know was a big jerk in real life (to put it kindly).
This is her story of her battles in life with herself (and her father), trying to be a writer, war correspondent, and her marriage; the biggest battle of them all.

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Ballantine Books and NetGalley provided me with an electronic copy of Love and Ruin. I was under no obligation to review this book and my opinion is freely given.

Knowing next to nothing about Ernest Hemingway's personal life besides his propensity for drink and women, I thought it would be intriguing to read this historical fiction about one of the women in his life. Martha Gellhorn, a successful writer and correspondent in her own right, struggled to find her place in Hem's world. His jealousy and possessiveness of Marty's time helped to unravel their sometimes tumultuous relationship, but it was really insecurity that ruined their love affair.

Previously unaware of Martha's place in the journalistic and literary world, I originally thought that Love and Ruin included a fictitious character in a realistic world. The author does a good job of weaving a historical narrative with the real-life people who lived through the horrors of war. Where the book falls short for me is with regards to the details, as Love and Ruin gets bogged down in the middle because of this. Marty's life with Hemingway was only a small part of her total experiences and I would have liked to see the author get into more detail about her alone. Love and Ruin was very readable, with an overall quick pace and well drawn characters. Readers who are familiar with Hemingway and his personal life may get more out of this novel than those who are unaware of the nuances of this famous writer's life.

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This historical fiction is based on the real life marriage of Ernest Hemmingway and Martha Gellhorn (whose name tried to autocorrect as I wrote this….which is a travesty).

I’m not going to pretend that I knew all that much about Martha Gellhorn before diving into this book. And while a fan of some of Hemingway’s work, I was more of a fan of his house in Key West overrun with six-toed cats. This book paints a devastating picture of a woman trying to “have it all” with a tempestuous (insert another word for verbally abusive and jerkish) man considered a “genius” at the time.

Martha Gellhorn became one of the fiercest women reporters of wartime, embedding herself in with the Spanish Civil War. She survived bombings, midnight raids, and even crossed borders by herself in a time when women weren’t exactly expected to that. Even when forbidden to go over and cover D-Day, she snuck onto a hospital ship and was one of the first reporters on the scene of the devastating attack.

All that pales in comparison to her crazy war like marriage to Hemingway. The book does a good job of showing Martha trying not to lose herself, even when faced with the love of her lifetime in Hemingway. They met while he was still married, and she was still living at home. It wasn’t until they were together in Spain covering the war that they began their affair. Through the Spanish Civil War, life in Cuba, and his divorce, the book follows the years they were together and while they were apart. It’s not a very flattering portrait of Hemingway, but it made me want to learn so much more about Gellhorn. What an amazing woman who had one weakness which was Ernest and their life in Cuba.

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Love and Ruin by Paula McClain is the love story that existed between Martha Gellhorn and Ernest Hemingway. Gellhorn, a young writer, meets Hemingway and the attraction is immediate. They travel the world independently and together and ultimately marry. McLain's writing is beautiful and the story is insightful and exciting. A great read!

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Thank you to Netgalley for giving me the opportunity to read and review, "Love and Ruin"
by Paula McLain. A beautiful work of historical fiction! I truly enjoyed seeing how the story of Ernest and Martha played out. Such an interesting time period as well. Looking forward to reading more from Paula McLain in the future.

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Paula McClain does it again reaching into the twentieth century to find strong, independent women with compelling stories to tell. First came Hadley Richardson in The Paris Wife, then Beryl Markham in Circling the Sun. As much as I enjoyed both of those historical fiction novels, they pale in comparison to the story of Martha Gellhorn, a trailblazing war correspondent and Ernest Heminway's third wife.

I've read a number of books about the Spanish Civil War, but I felt the shelling, the deprivation and the agonizing, heartbreaking defeat more cleanly here. As Spain was falling, Marty and Heminway fell in love. This is that story too. But her story is also the story the cataclysmic world events and what she reported on in the Winter War and D Day. Just loved how this book told her story and heart aches without diminishing her or the world events.

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3.5 stars

This was my first book by Paula McLain and it will not be my last. I have seen other reviews stating that Love and Ruin don’t compare to Paris Wife or Circling the Sun, so I am more than anxious to set my eyes upon those books.

I waffled a bit with my rating because while I really enjoyed this book, I also found myself skimming over many parts. I really loved Marty, she was a woman before her time. I loved that she was strong and she knew what she wanted for herself; that in the end, she chose herself. I understood her grief and loss, but she was just too much of a woman for Hemmingway to handle and she wasn’t going to let him hold her back.

I am not a big fan of the classics, so I have not read any of Hemmingway’s works and quite frankly, I don’t really know much of him as person. But I’ve got to say, he seems like a real jerk. I really did not care for him and just kept thinking that Marty was way too good for him.

One of the other struggles I had was the very descriptive war scenes. I know, its historical fiction, but like Marty, I wanted to human connection. I found myself skimming through the war passages, which is why I ultimately decided on 3.5 stars. The story of Marty Gellhorn is a good one, and I was completely captivated by her story.

I would recommend this book to lovers of historical fiction.

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In Love and Ruin, Paula McClain once again weaves effortless historical fiction, telling the story of Martha Gellhorn, a renowned war correspondent and Ernest Hemingway's third wife. In McClain's hands, the tumult, horror, and atmosphere of the 1930s and 1940s come to life vividly through the story of two writers passionate about one another and their writing. Gellhorn is a fascinating character through whom to witness a world gone mad and to struggle to find her own place in the world, on her own terms and on her own two feet. I loved this book, did not want it to end. The atmosphere, the crackling tension, and beautiful prose combined to create a book that I did not want to put down and that kept me up way past my bedtime. A wonderful, wonderful story from a master of historical fiction.

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From the author of The Paris Wife, comes another novel about Ernest Hemmingway. This time told through his third wife, Martha Gellhorn. Martha is an author, who meets Hemmingway by accident while on a trip to Key West with her family. She keeps in contact with him and decides to go over to Spain to cover the Spanish War. Hemmingway is married to his second wife at this time during the time they first start their relationship. Both Martha and Hemmingway are very independent people, their eventual marriage pretty much seems doomed from the start. I loved this book as much as the Paris Wife. However, one thing that bothered me was that Martha was portrayed as being lovesick and broken hearted with her split from Hemmingway. From what I have read, she was the one who left to cover World War II without him and eventually ended their relationship.

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I was a big fan of "The Paris Wife" and I was very excited to read an advance copy of Paula's new novel, "Love and Ruin." I loved continuing to learn about Ernest Hemingway and his wives. I particularly loved this story surrounding Martha Gellhorn's life and work. Paula gives Martha a voice and I found Martha alluring, resilient and very strong in the face of a more than eccentric and difficult relationship with Ernest. Paula also provides a perspective on World War II that I had not read about before, a journalistic perspective.

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Paula McLain has once again piqued my interest in Ernest Hemingway’s personal life – and, once again, I found myself fascinated by the life of the central character, Martha Gellhorn. In The Paris Wife, Ms. McLain focused on his first wife, and in Love and Ruin, she focused on his third wife.

And, see what I’m doing here, without even meaning to? I’m referring to both women in terms of their marital relationship with Hemingway. And, this is in many ways emblematic of what was happening to Ms. Gellhorn – being treated as if her primary role in life was as Hemingway’s wife. I thought it was sad, but realistic, that when her book was published, one of the main articles supposedly about it focused on her affair with Hemingway, rather than on the merits of her work.

This book was striking in how much it pointed out the problems that working women face(d) – then and ever since. When Hemingway was pushing her to get pregnant, it was clear that another child would not affect his life – he’d just do what he wanted and it would up to her to manage. And, it was clear that that would put an end to her professional travels.

This book focuses completely on the period during which she was involved with Hemingway. After I read a little more about her, though, I think that her life after Hemingway sounds fascinating as well! Maybe even more so, since she was able to pursue her journalism without his trying to hinder her.

One other thing I really liked about the book – I didn’t feel that it portrayed her as a saint. I’ve now read enough about Hemingway to be pretty convinced that he would not be a person I’d want to be involved with! But, it’s not all one way, and I don’t think the book tried to make us think that.

A solid 4 star read. I enjoyed it very much.

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I love Paula McLain's writing style. While there were parts of this book that I loved, it felt more factual and journalistic than Paris Wife so I didn't feel as emotionally invested. I also was not as interested in the war aspects of the story, which is a personal bias. It was a great story and I'm glad I read it.

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I have enjoyed two other books I have read by Paula McLain Circling the Sun and the Paris Wife and knew I would like this one as well! The author has a wonderful way of blending the history with the story of the characters. I always enjoy learning something while being entertained and that was definitely the case here. The biggest draw for me in this book was the character of Martha Gellhorn. What a character she was. I can only imagine the draw of Hemmingway to have attracted so many people to him, including her. Midway through this book I had to stop reading to look up Gellhorn's accomplishments. Wow. I appreciate the fact that Hemmingway, while defining her in some ways, was not the end of her story. I loved how she found and reported on the human side of the story, and to bear witness, in the wars and lives she covered. This style of writing gave the public a reason to care and that I think is what fueled her as much as being in a room full of reporters in the thick of things. Gellhorn was such a smart - whip person, and I am so glad McLain wrote about her so as I could learn about her and her legacy.

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As a determined, smart, and independent young woman, Martha Gellhorn ventured out on her own to follow her dreams and become a writer. Starting with the Spanish Civil War in 1937, she is drawn to the stories of average people and devastatingly young soldiers. She is starstruck upon meeting and befriending none other than Ernest Hemingway and knows at that moment her life will never be the same. After years of travel, writing and the rollercoaster of emotions that goes along with being the third wife of Hemingway, Martha feels she is slowly melting away into the background that is his life. When she can no longer define her work or their marriage she turns to her love of journalism and goes to Europe at the worst possible moment to become the only woman at Normandy on D-Day and one of the first to report from Dachau after the camp was liberated. The unprecedented work of Martha Gellhorn, combined with her great passion for the great writer is told beautifully by author Paula McLain. Just as I felt with her telling of Hemingway’s first wife (The Paris Wife) this controversial genius had met his match with Martha and I devoured every single page of their stormy romance. Highly recommend this fantastic work of historical fiction - a must read this summer!

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Another great historical fiction from Paula McLain! I loved the return of Ernest Hemingway and the story of his tumultuous relationship with Martha Gellhorn. If you read The Paris Wife and enjoyed it, then get your hands on this novel! While I enjoyed The Paris Wife, Love and Ruin exceeded my expectations. Ernest Hemingway and Martha Gellhorn meet in this installment and we follow their relationship through the years. The author included years of important historical events but it was not overwhelming. In fact, I learned a lot and appreciated the historical backstory as it relates to their love story and who they were as individuals. This novel takes you from Missouri to New York and eventually to Madrid, Finland, China, Cuba, Key West, Paris, London, and more. What a delight it was to travel the world in this novel! This is a fantastic summer read. For me, this was ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️/5 stars. This is my favorite Paula McLain book yet! Thank you @randomhouse for this advance reader in exchange for my honest review.

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This is the second book I've read by Paula McLain. I did not really enjoy reading The Paris Wife, and I've been avoiding Circling the Sun for that reason. I received an ARC of this book through NetGalley for an honest review, and I actually enjoyed reading this book. It wasn't an amazing, life changing book (note the 3 star rating), but the characterization of Martha Gellhorn pulled me in. She was a fascinating woman. Because of this book and The Paris Wife, I've come to the conclusion that Ernest Hemingway was a royal ass. I totally understand that these books are works of fiction and could portray the author's biases. He just seems like an unnecessarily complicated, selfish ass. That's a good character portrayal on the author's part to make me have that opinion. Maybe I'll give Circling the Sun a try now.

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This book could easily have been a slam dunk for me - two celebrated and iconic historical characters falling in and out of love against the backdrop of World War II. Martha Gellhorn and Ernest Hemingway live huge lives, working and traveling the world in some of the most turbulent times in modern history. Both of their stars are rising; Gellhorn as an author and war correspondent and Hemingway at the peak of his career as the celebrated author of "For Whom The Bell Tolls." Gellhorn wants love and a fulfilling career. Hemingway wants love and a sycophant wife. We have world conflict. We have romantic conflict. We have the Americas, Europe, Asia, and a tropical love nest in Cuba. And yet, if you asked me to describe this book in one word, it would be "bland."

McLain writes very well and I thought she did a nice job of creating the atmosphere of a world being swept into war in the 30's and 40's. I just could not connect at all with Gellhorn. Gellhorn is the narrator and she explains what she is seeing and how she is feeling, but for the most part, it did not translate into any emotional affinity. I had little sense of her real personality. Without that engagement with the main character, I felt only a cursory interest in the story. By contrast, McLain's Beryl Markham character in "Circling the Sun" had me so hooked that I fell down rabbit hole after rabbit hole, reading everything I could get my hands on about Markham after I finished McLain's book.

For me, this was a solid 3-star. I liked it, but didn't love it - something vital that glues the reader to the page was missing.

Thanks to NetGalley and Random House Publishing for an ARC of this novel. My review, however, is based on the hardcover version.

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Those of us who read "The Paris Wife" will welcome another chapter in Ernest Hemingway's life. Martha Gellhorn, a female journalist eager to prove herself among her male cohorts, is covering the horror of the Spanish Civil War and runs into Ernest Hemingway. She is captivated by the married author as is he. They maintain their respective careers until the publishing of his best-selling "For Whom The Bell Tolls" when conflict sets in. Gellhorn is an extremely independent and adventurous woman but is confronted with having to subdue her own identity when Hemingway's takes the forefront.
What's especially interesting about this book is that it encourages the reader to read more about Martha Gellhorn. She was a remarkable woman at a time when men covered war and reported on it. The places where Martha went, and. often, through unconventional means, made the reader feel the loss and destruction of the wars that she covered. The personal story was beautifully interwoven with the world events that made it even more compelling.

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I don't have an adventurous bone in my body so I couldn't identify with Martha at all; but I admired her spunk and determination. She was naive, though, if she really thought Ernest was interested in her only as a friend.

The writing is excellent as expected from McLain, with detailed descriptions and insights. One almost forgets that this is fiction. It seems so much that Paula McLain was a fly on the wall observing all that happened.

McLain is definitely a master of historical fiction. I wonder who will catch her interest for her next book.

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What a wonderful look into the life of one of Hemingway's wives, Martha Gelhorn. I loved traveling with them and meeting other notable people of times. As a writer, there was wise advice about our work, acknowledging (or ignoring reviews), and how to wrangle a story. McLain also showcases, through both Hemingway and Gelhorn, the feelings and frustrations, the very hard work, of writing.

Several observations struck me that are relevant to today as it was in Gelhorn's time:
" 'But it's hard to die for ideas, isn't it?' 'It's hard to die any way. ... At least our ideas are the right ones.' "
This comment gets to the very core of our political divide and contentious issues today, in my opinion. Holding fast to one's own ideas as the ONLY way, the only right way, is closed-minded and detrimental to our ability to discuss, collaborate, compromise, and come to the best possible solutions together.

Another quote I appreciated:
" 'That's the main thing they say about journalism, you know, ... don't trust reportage. Don't let other people tell you what happened, not if you can help it. You have to take it all in with your own senses. To write what you see, and what you feel.' ... That stood me still for a moment. 'What about being objective?' 'Don't try. There's no such thing.' "

Everything we hear, read, watch, is through a filter, whether someone else's or our own. Everything in the media, on YouTube, TV, the radio, in every news outlet, etc. is presented through another's eyes and life experiences and political, religious, life views. Nothing is objective. We would be wise to be mindful of that in all the "news" and information we take in every day. Paula McLain, and her subject, Martha Gelhorn, implore us to think critically.

LOVE AND RUIN is a well-written, compelling, historical novel. Fascinating in looking back and in its relevance to today.

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