Member Reviews
This was a really really fun read. It was relatable, it made me laugh, it was educational. The artwork was fun. I highly suggest this for young teen girls. |
Thank you for the opportunity to read this book. I liked the conversational tone and the illustrations were cute but it felt quite disjointed at times. |
This book has the potential to be exceedingly helpful to young girls in the process of growing up. When I look back at my high school days, I can't help think that I wish I had some of the advice or "survival tips" listen throughout this book. I lived in a very conservative town where feminism was considered a bad word to the extreme and the idea that women should be allowed free menstrual products while on their period was out of the question. This little graphic novel opens your eyes to the fact that there are individuals advocating for women and young girls which in itself is such an important message to send to those feeling as if they are alone. It touches on important themes such as self-image, anxiety, the changing body, giving girls an accessible self-help guide to navigating the world as a woman. I highly recommend! |
Every once in a while, I am in the mood for something like this. Funny, relatable, and cute. And that's what I got from The Ultimate Survival Guide to Being a Girl. A quick break from the daily hustle for some fun. |
I love comics and this one was so delightful. The Ultimate Survival Guide to Being a Girl gives a hilarious take on growing up female. From love to body image, this comic captures all the highs and lows and makes you laugh out loud as you relive them. I highly recommend this comic! |
3.5 Stars This was... fine. This was a cute read and based on the majority of the content and conversational tone I can see this being a nice book for younger girls just entering high school, but I don't see this being very useful if you're any older than that. I had an ARC copy and a lot of the formatting got super messed up, but hopefully that was fixed by publication and I won't judge it on that. My biggest problems with this is that the order of the topics within this. There was just no cohesiveness and the book would jump around from topic to topic with each section seeming to have nothing to do with each other. This does make the reading experience feel a bit off. Also De Witte can come off kind of preachy (everyone should go on a plant based diet?) and the last chapter on *diversity* could've probably expanded. |
This comic was a cute, witty, and clever work. The illustration style was undoubtedly my favorite part, I'm not sure If there's a lot I really can say for this after all; It is just a comic, but a comic I enjoyed nonetheless! I do recommend this, especially for girls in need of a giggle. |
Martha D, Reviewer
There's no shortage of puberty guides out there. MOst try really hard to reassure the reader that whatever they're experiencing, it's nothing weird. That everything you feel and wonder about is acceptable. It's nice to see a book address other issues beyond just biology. De Witte makes it a point to discuss social issues, even the social aspects of simple biological issues. Like shaving your legs. Most of the advice in this book takes the form of "You don't have to, but if you're going to, do it this way." Its conversational and stragithforward. |
I think any book on puberty etc that you actually want to read is doing a fantastic job. This is cute, has a focus on mental health, overall decent. |
This book could most likely help a lot of girls out there. The author touched some topics really well and I was actually surprised by the range of topics and how current topics were picked up (How to be avoid being catfished, how to decide what to post on the internet, ...) but on the other hand most of the time it simply did not feel like a non-fiction book and it fell short touching some very important topics like sexism and racism. Some topics are touched on quite bluntly and might be a bit provocative (meat-free diet, tampons should be free, ...) - for my taste, the author put her personal opinion and point of view a bit too bluntly out there for a non-fiction book. Also for a non-fiction book this book to me lacked a clear structure - it felt more like somebody sitting down with me and preaching on one topic after the other. This might be considered relateable but it also could end up feeling overpowering. Disclaimer: Copy provided by the publisher and NetGalley in exchange for an honest review. |
The Ultimate Survival Guide to Being a Girl gave me some mixed feelings. On the one hand, I'm always supportive of books that want to educate young women about their bodies. It was cool that De Witte mentioned tattoos, having online friends, and other topics that rarely get discussed straightforwardly with teens. However, it's important to note that a lot of the book read as opinion or anecdotal because of a lack of citations or outside examples. There were a few patently false things described here (without any citations), like an anecdote where the author says her hair "grew back thicker and darker, and in a very odd pattern." Hair that has been shaven does not grow back thicker or darker but does grow back with a blunted edge. Some may think the blunted edge makes the hair look thicker, but either way, it does not actually get any thicker or any darker, and certainly not more so each time it is shaved. Also, the author mentioned teens should "call themselves out on being a Negative Nancy." I can't describe how many times in my teen years I was invalidated and pushed aside because I was written off as a 'Negative Nancy' instead of actually told that my feelings were valid and logical and I needed to work through them and understand how to understand them. Every once in a while, De Witte also threw in a "Duh!" or similar note, which came off as a little condescending, implying the reader should already know the advice she just gave. It was a bit off-putting. Overall, I'm concerned about the amount of "survival guide" type books for teen girls that perpetuate stereotypes like those outlined above. Also, coming out to friends and family is considered "breaking difficult news" which seems weird. Anyway, overall, I just have extremely mixed feelings! |
Jennifer E, Librarian
Either I'm kind of emotionally stunted for a 20-something or this book is really relatable beyond its intended audience. Lots of good advice and insight. Some of the sections, especially on diversity, discrimination, and social justice, were oversimplified and uninterrogated, but made for a passable beginner's guide. |
I wish I had this as a teen to explain the things adults thought were too...."inappropriate"...for me to know, even in regards to my own body. LOVED all the little illustrations and how caring the author was when it came to thoroughly covering each topic....like self-care and body image. It doesn't preach or spout the usual advice that sounds like a broken record - it actively seeks to get teens to think about themselves as more of their own person, instead of an extension of what others want to see. |
I found "The Ultimate Survival Guide to Being a Girl" pretty refreshing compared to other titles that solely focus on the physical and chemical changes that happen to young girls. The style of this book reminds of something an older sibling might reveal to their younger sister, like how not to be a mean girl, how to wear makeup, what styles of clothing work best for certain body types, etc. It is so much more than a " how to manage boobs, period, and hormonal rage" guide that could legitimately help young girls navigate through the wonders and strains of puberty with helpful cheat codes to get them through life successfully. I would gladly purchase for my library or own children. |
I loved this book. I wish I had a book like this growing up but I'm glad that exists for girls now. I can't wait to give this to my little cousins and other girls so they can enjoy this book as well. |
The Ultimate Survival Guide to Being a Girl is the book equivalent of getting advice from a big sister or an older friend. It's perfect for teens who have questions but who might not feel super comfortable confiding in their parents. Christina De Witte is 22, so she's fresh out of her teen years. Reading this as a 31 year old, it's obvious that there is still a lot more that can be said and taught while still maintaining a young perspective. This isn't the authority here, but rather someone who might still be going through the same thing or is still figuring out what is and is not important. It might not have been for me, but I am sure many young gals will be grateful for a book like this. |
This book was super entertaining and educational. Whitte's voice is so quirky and fun resulting in an easy to read survival guide. She covers everything from body image and social anxiety to tattoos and shaving. Everything she writes is informative without being boring. I only wish that I could have read something like this in high school when I really needed it. This is best suited for girls between ages 13-17, (in my opinion) and if you're between those ages and in need of some advice definitely pick this up when its released on August 7th. |
This book is the perfect replacement or addition to the classic American Girl guide! De Witte gives practical and timely advice for teens about navigating society, their bodies, and their feelings without judgement. |
This was a nice little self-help book for younger girls. Meaning girls in their teens. But I just wasn't the right audience for this so it got a bit weird when it talked about things that either happened to me like 5 years ago or things that never happened. |
The Ultimate Guide to Being a Girl held so much potential yet fell kind of short. I had read this in hopes of handing it over to my daughter someday. However, I’m no longer quite comfortable with that. Even for girls in high school, I feel some content is inappropriate or not discussed well. While I like that the author was unabashed in giving out a lot of advice, I feel like several things could have been left out. Do girls need to know about hygiene, proper bra fitting and how to handle sticky situations? Yes, absolutely. Do they need to be concerned with tattoos, or how to meet an online friend in real life? I say no. The audience for this book has me confused. There is a significant chunch dedicated to girls getting ready to go through puberty while simultaneously using words like “bitchy” and talking about things that seem more mature than the age of girls who are going through the big change. I’m on the fence, some may really like this brash, feminist, tell it like it is book, but I wouldn’t let my child read it. |








