I was really looking forward to reading this book. I am glad that I read it, but from the very first page, it made me feel so blue and sad and that is a feeling I could not shake for the entire book. In fact, the tone of this book is quite depressing, which I totally understand considering the life described, but it really weighed me down and dampened my enjoyment.

I suppose if this was the point of the book, then the author succeeded beautifully.

The writing is strong and visual - making it very easy to imagine the scenarios described in the book. Considering this is not a work of fiction, I feel very badly and it did make me take a second look at my own views on people who work more behind the scenes.

How many times have I seen maids in my travel and never really bothered to think about it. This book made me think.

“Maid” is the debut memoir from Stephanie Land. It chronicles her struggle to survive while trying to provide a good life for her young daughter Mia. In the book, the author details her life as a domestic worker, juggling several jobs at a time to make ends meet, while it never be enough. She also writes about her experiences with welfare, government assistance, etc. At one point, she makes reference to 7 different programs she’s trying to apply for, how people look down at her for using WIC vouchers without understanding how hard it is to get them, to prove poverty. It was certainly a quick read and you never get the sense that the author wants you to pity or feel sorry for her. I wasn’t crazy about the end, however. I found myself skimming through it.

Absolutely loved reading this! What a great perspective on poverty and trying to escape it. Steph grew up middle-class but found herself in a homeless shelter with her toddler. She was not raised "in the system" but her story shows that we are ALL only one or two life experiences away from potential poverty. The narrative does get a little bogged-down in details in a few areas, but overall, the author does a great job of letting the reader imagine her or himself walking in the shoes of an overworked, poor, single parent steuggling to survive.

Many thanks to Netgalley and the author for the ARC in exchange for my honest opinion.

An incredible story of one woman's fight to survive while caught in the never ending loop of our country's horribly broken system of welfare and assistance. This is one of those books that will stay with you for a very long time.

Stephanie Land's story educates us on just how flawed our public assistance services are in this country. And it's not just those systems, it's our mindsets. The stereotypes and discrimination the poor endure are just as devastating as not having enough food or a safe place to live. Those of us with financial ease or who are living our middle class, bourgeoisie lives often don't understand that public assistance programs can be almost impossible to live on, and to live without. They are meant to help someone get back on his feet in a time of crisis, but once in...it's realllllllly hard to get back out. For example: As soon as you catch a break and make $50 more a month, you are in a higher income bracket and have to pay $100 more for childcare. Or going to school is the way to a better paying job, but you work 80 hrs a week at TWO low paying jobs already just to keep your kids fed, classes are not an option for you. Or you'll never be able to leave the crummy apartment in the ghetto because even if you could make the monthly rent somewhere else, coming up with the first and last month's rent deposit is impossible.
In the same vein as "Evicted", (such a staggering, astonishing book) this book is eye-opening, sometimes shocking, and will make you angry and sad. Your annoyed thoughts will start to change next time you choose the wrong line in the grocery store and end up behind someone using food stamps. As a teacher, I thought about how many students in poverty I've taught whose parents might've seemed uninterested in their child or unwilling to help, but were in reality, probably doing all they could.
At this point, we need more than public welfare and housing reforms in the United States. Reform is not enough.

I had no idea what to expect when I requested this title and I have got to say, this is really well written and rather eye opening. Stephanie Land writes in such a way that the reader experiences her highs and her lows right along with her. There is a part of the book that made me gasp out loud, and that doesn't happen often to me. I think that this is an important book for people of all walks of life to read and I will be wholeheartedly recommending this one.

I was drawn to this memoir because I was raised by a single mother, and although our circumstances were not so dire, I felt invested in Land's account of her struggles with being a single mom who worked so hard and struggled harder. Land's writing is good, but what I really enjoyed was the way that she presented each house that she worked in as a different lesson she learned in her desperate attempts to stay afloat. While she does provide a commentary on the stigma surrounding government assistance and the difficulty of overcoming poverty, this book is primarily about the author's personal journey to escape her harrowing circumstances. It was a touching and captivating read.

I enjoyed this book of a strong single mother who didn't let things get her down but did what felt best for her life.

The Maid by Stephanie Land
Having watched "Nickle and Dimed" and "American Winter" I was very interested to read this memoir. It gives you a personal account of living in poverty in America and how difficult it actually is to overcome.
The cycle certainly seems never ending and while there are assistance schemes they seem more likely to keep you trapped than actually assist. The harder you work to increase your salary, the less benefits you receive, sometimes to the point of leaving you even poorer.
In case trying to keep your head above water was not difficult enough, there is also having to deal with the judgements made by ignorant people.
I never cease to be amazed at the horrific circumstances so many people live in day in and day out. The strength shown by the author and her determination to do better is inspiring.
I think memoirs such as these should be compulsory reading to educate people about the poverty in their midst and hopefully be more empathetic and less judgemental.
Thank you to #Netgalley #TheMaid for the ARC

This is the real story of a single mother in Washington state trying to make ends meet to provide for her young daughter. It shows how welfare is a need for some in her position just struggling to survive and provide for her family.

This book gives you a glimpse into the life of those on food stamps and welfare. It shows you a little about what happens inside and how it makes people feel. This is a must read book. I highly recommend it.

I would like to thank Netgalley and the publisher for providing me with a review copy in exchange for my honest and unbiased opinion of it.

This is a book that some may choose not to read but everyone should. This is a book that can open their heart and mind to all those "other people" you may or may not already know.
This is a book of the struggles and insights of a single mother in Washington state who works hard to provide for her young daughter and to make ends meet.

This is a book that gives small peeks into the intricacies of state and federal aid and the stigma that surrounds all those programs. This is a book that shows how "the system" can and does work properly for someone in need who is working hard but continues to struggle and needs that extra help.

This is a book that shows how close everyone truly is to be living the same sort of life through any number of choices, accidents, job loss, illness, or what have you. This is a book that spills for the realities of life in America.

This is a book worth a purchase or a library loan and would make an excellent choice as a bookclub read.

Inspiring, the author show how hard life can be. I've known a few people in situations similar, and only they hard work did the make it. Impressed.
Thanks to author,publisher and NetGalley for the chance to read this book. While I got the book for free,it had no bearing on the rating i gave it.