The author states the various views in the church on homosexuality and whether it's a sin or a normal but minority difference of human sexuality. She gives the traditional and progressive arguments for sexuality, the purpose of marriage, and same-sex relationships. She also gives her research into the Bible's verses about sexuality and marriage along with the different ways the Bible's intent is interpreted.

I found it very interesting, informative, and thought-provoking as someone who wishes to be more knowledgeable on the topic of faith and sexuality. It does not give a definitive answer but the author states what she thinks as a result of her research. I am glad that these conversations are happening.

This is an excellent book for anyone who would like to explore more about what the Bible has to say about same-sex relationships and to understand the different views and different interpretations among Christians.
While the author is clear about where she stands, she presents both sides of the debate in a clear and balanced way. She covers some deep theology and complicated concepts but does so in a way that is accessible, explaining things well.
I found it to be a thought-provoking book. I don't agree with all of her conclusions but I like that she presented her case in a thoughtful and respectful way, and there were definitely some points that made me look at things differently.
I think this is the kind of book that could open up helpful discussion on this topic rather than shutting it down and that can only be a good thing!

Really appealing! I never thought there could be a place for LGBT+ people on the Bible, but turns out it is possible after all! I liked the author's style and how she explained everything. Really worth the time.

A deeply rational and yet powerfully intimate examination of scripture that seeks to elucidate what those texts say about modern same-sex relationships. The author is very candid about her investment in the topic, and yet maintains an admirable detachment in her search for the most accurate and appropriate interpretations of the old words. Be prepared: this is rigorous theology, not self-help or Christian inspiration. But I loved it for that. I learned a lot and I leave this book having gained a better understanding of my own relationship with scripture. Thank you for that.

The author presents a good organization of the issues here, starting with the church’s response to LGBT people. This first chapter a good overview, but there’s not a lot new here. If you’ve been following these issues at all, you’re familiar with the history. I was not familiar with the <i>new</i> ex-gay movements (ugh) but they appear to be pretty small. Of course, she mentions Justin Lee and Matthew Vines, whose books put me on the path of reading about these issues!

This is followed with an interesting, if brief, overview of same-sex relationships in the ancient world and in biblical texts. Then a discussion of the traditionalist and progressive arguments against and for same-sex marriage.

One thing I found interesting is that there is scripture to support a marriage without children - I Samuel 1:8. While this is obvious to most people, there are some that suggest that same-sex marriage is wrong because they cannot have children. But this would nullify sterile and/or barren couples, as well as couples marrying to old to have children. Also, Jesus and Paul both downplayed the role of procreation - as opposed to what the prophets wrote in the Old Testament.

Interesting! At this point, the author talks about how the current arguments have put us in a stalemate, so, to move the discussion forward, in the rest of the book, she focuses on arguments that have been overlooked. I guess what I said about stuff not being new in the first chapter makes sense - it was just a prologue.

I liked the discussion of OT laws - some of which are pretty insane.

The author goes on to discuss interpreting the Bible and how this has been done <i>since the original writing</i>, and how we should go about it today.

In the chapter on celibacy, she asks how we might apply I Corinthians 7:9 to LGBT people. Good question! (She even references Preston Sprinkle’s book - which I reviewed as a NetGalley ARC a while back.)

And finally discussions the origins of being attracted to someone of the same sex. Is it sin from our fallen nature? Is it just human variation?

And the conclusion she comes to?

<i>In essence, accepting same-sex relationships does not require compromising Scripture. To the contrary, taking scripture <b>more</b> seriously teaches us to apply these texts in a way the biblical authors themselves model.</i>

I like how this book discusses current arguments, and adds to that discussion with a very compassionate voice.

I think this would be good for anyone who is actively thinking about these issues and still isn’t sure where God is leading. Even if you think you know where God is leading, maybe this would be a good read to reflect on if you’re following God - or just where you want God to lead.

<i>Thanks to NetGalley and Wm. B. Eerdmans Publishing Company for a copy in return for an honest review.</i>