I read the Author's Note at the beginning of this book and it really set me up for this story, which I loved!

I love when a romance has substance and this one did. Hannah is biracial and deals with the idea of fitting in and where she fits in. I got a much better understanding of the experiences of people in different ethnic groups.

Jack is a journalist and he wants to do something different, so he convinces his boss to let him write a piece on How to Lose a Girl. Hannah needs a guy to show her boss that she is not just a workaholic, but also has a life. I love the Fake Relationship trope and this book mastered it well.

Well developed characters, I learned about the experiences of different ethnic groups, the plot was flawless and the writing was wonderful. This was a great book!

Since Hannah left her last toxic relationship she has vowed to stay away from men forever. That was two years ago and Jack Nolan is at the bar with his friends when he sees a beautiful no nonsense type of girl walk in. Jack convinces Hannah to walk to a taco truck with him and the both leave feeling like they just met someone pretty importunate. Fast forward a few days and Jack is pitching his idea of a political scandal piece to his boss who tell him he should think about do a how to lose a girl article and do everything wrong to get a girl to break up wit him. Hannah is trying to break into weddings at her party planning job and her boss tells her to convince her the guy she started dating is the one because "shes not the type of girl someone would marry"

Hannah and Jack meet in a bar. She is fed up with men and he is not looking for romance. Jack is a journalist looking for an opportunity to write real news rather than "how to" articles. Hannah is an event planner who wants a promotion. He needs to write and article on "How to dump your date" in order to get a chance at an article on political corruption. Hannah needs a date to impress her boss and show her that Hannah is capable to help plan a wedding for the daughter of an important politician rather than the sports events she has been planning. A delightful read.

This was an enjoyable book to read, although stressful at times because I really wanted them to just tell each other, but that is common with plot tropes like these. And I am always excited to read more books written by authors of color featuring characters of color. Hannah is fiercely feminist and unafraid to be strong, I loved that about her. I also enjoyed Jack's journey to discovering that his 'I'm not like other guys' idealistic version of himself was not finding him a true partner and it was only by not trying did he find Hannah, although some of the things he did to 'lose' her was so cringy. There was a scene at the end with Hannah and her boss and I was glad it happened because if it hadn't, the book would not have been believable. I definitely wanted more time with the dog in the story, but that's just because I have dogs! I thought it was a fun spin on the movie and I loved all the discussions of dating/dating apps and the discussion around the two together.

I knew from the moment I first heard about this book that it would be a winner and I’m so glad that my instincts were right!

This book gave me everything I ever needed from a romantic comedy and the fact that it has a biracial heroine (finally a heroine I can truly relate to) was honestly icing on the cake. So many of the things that Hannah, our heroine, talked about were things that I had felt so much growing up and even now and having her talk about those things was honestly so validating.

I loved that this was a twist on “How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days” and I love that this book had the “fake dating” trope, except they were both fake dating each other without telling the other and that was so hilarious and fun to read. My one complaint is that I wish that the fake dating plot didn’t last the entire book. I was really hoping that we’d get to see them as a couple (minus the faking it part) for more than a chapter. I wanted to see them get through the angst of lying to each other and then work towards just being together in a healthy relationship, something both of them haven’t successfully done before in previous relationships.

Irregardless, this was a definite win for me and I think that fans of contemporary romance will love this one for sure!

Four amazing funny, snappy, hilarious, heart warming stars!

When it comes to a retelling of one of the entertaining rom-coms, `How to lose a guy in 10 days",I dived in without wearing googles and pallets, thankfully I swam well and enjoyed my time as I started flipping the pages.

The beginning was a little slow but characterization was good. I did enjoyed their love story. Sometimes it was a little frustrated to see the couple making same mistakes over and over again. But at least they're motivations are easy to relate and you may find some parts of your lives and connect with the characters.

Both Hannah and Jack are heartbroken and carry heavy burdens from their past relationships but it was really to good to see how they found each other and their HE!

I love the books make you relax and give your long smile on your face, fresh your mind! This is a soft, lovely, entertaining reading.

Tnank you so much Berkley for sending me this great ARC copy and special thanks to Netgalley !

This is my purest and honest review! I'm a hopeless romantic and I adore romcoms, thankfully this is one of the good ones!

This is a cute twist on How to Lose a Guy in Ten Days with diverse character/perspective. Romance fans are going to love the tension and the games Hannah and Jack play on one another.

I wanted to love this book, really. I wanted to adore it as much as I adore How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days. I ended up really liking the main characters, but was really disappointed with the author's lack of creativity. I would have loved to see Jack and Hannah get a story of their own instead of a rehashed one. The read was just too predictable for me, which made it lose that can't-put-down, page-turner effect.

Thanks to the publisher and NetGalley for the ARC in exchange for my review.

Loved it! Not the Girl You Marry was excellent and will be a treat for anyone who swoons over a good rom com!

While the summary of this book sounded fun, I could not get passed the crass humor and terrible grammar. Short, choppy sentences, sentence fragments, and lack of semicolons made it obnoxious to read and seem like it was a rough draft instead of a nearly finished work.

"Not the Girl You Marry" is essentially a gender swapped "How to lose a guy in 10 days." "Not the Girl You Marry" follows Hannah and Jack as they reluctantly fall in love. Both Jack and Hannah have been in love before and have felt its keen sting when things don't work out even after they have put all they have into it. When they meet each other both have these prejudices and expectations but all it takes is high stakes and chemistry to change the game. This was a clever and amusing read!

A fun rom-com that takes the premise of How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days and flips it on its head. Jack is a journalist trying to get away from his light, fluffy beat of internet how-to videos. His boss promised him a promotion if he can show how typical guy behavior turns women off. Hannah is an event planner who is trying to break into planning weddings but her vocal unromantic attitude is a stumbling block for her boss. The chemistry between Jack and Hannah sizzles on the page and keeps them coming together even as their behavior is designed to keep them apart.

A fun story influenced by How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days. I adored Hannah. This is an author I'll definitely be keeping my eye on.

In Not the Girl You Marry we basically get a gender swapped How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days with a biracial heroine and a feminist hero. I felt the book had a slow start and the characters were a bit predictable but it was an entertaining read. An interesting take on love and career for the millennial generation.

Great romcom! This would really be a wonderful Netflix movie. The chemistry is palpable. It sometimes gets frustrating when characters don't explain their situation to each other, but the author handles it well. The dialogue seemed very natural, and the characters real.

NOT THE GIRL YOU MARRY is a tough book to review. The first 75% was good, but nothing particularly bowled me over. The character dynamics were fine. The set-up was fine. The romantic banter was fine. It was all just fine. From the grand reveal onwards, however, everything began clicking into place for me - I just wish it happened a good hundred pages earlier. But it's a fresh spin on the rare romantic comedy that I wasn't a fan of and for that alone I would recommend it to lovers of all rom-coms alike.

Initially, this book pissed me off. I knew what she was trying to do; a retelling of How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days, with a lady. I was put off by the drama in the main characters internal dialog, I felt like it dragged. However, once I realized that my internal monologue is much the same, I was able to get over their drama. I focused on the sweetness of the story and the humor and bam I was in love. I love how tough she is, how she wore moccasins to a bar, and even how she stopped him from mansplaining by cupping his junk (and squeezing when he started being naughty).

I really like Andie J. Christopher and I really didn't like How to Lose a Guy in 10 Days, so I was interested to see what would happen when an author I like took on a trope I would usually avoid. The answer is: funny, but ultimately still not my jam. I'm not a big fan of manipulation, needless hoops to jump through, and thoughtlessness, and the bosses in this book exemplified all of these qualities. I did really enjoy the genuine romance that grew between Hannah and Jack but oof! I did not completely enjoy the road to their HEA.

This is definitely not your typical fairy tale or happy ending but it's definitely the type of Love Story you want for yourself or for somebody that you love. Nothing worked at First like it was supposed to but everything fell into place at just the right time and just the way it was wanted and needed. I definitely recommend reading this if you love love stories and you're an optimist and if sometimes the prince admits that he's not such Prince all the time.

This is the romance novel 2019 needs. It's smart, and feminist, and incredibly fun, and I devoured it in less than 24 hours. I can't wait to share it with other readers once it releases -- it's delightful.