Absolutely loved some of the dialogue in this. The sections about being in public service hit so hard.

Very raw and incredibly vulnerable. A dark and beautiful collection of poems, a few of which left me in tears. I had to stop at certain points to cry a bit.

This was an enjoyable read and I would recommend it. thanks for letting me have an advance copy. I'm new to this author.

I can see why this book was highly anticipated! Jared Singer does a great job in taking the reader through a journey of mental health while also making deep points on enjoying life more.
While the title did throw me off a bit as I thought it would be more of a "self help" approach, it's a great read for those looking for a book that you can really connect with when reflecting on your own life in a poetic format that will not intimidate as the wording is very understandable.

Unfortunately this one wasn't for me at all. The title made me really interested in it but most of the poems didn't seem to have real meaning and the message of them totally eluded me. Some poems had a story and they stirred some feelings in me because I either felt something similar at some point or I had strong empathic feelings for the person, but like 90% of them didn't do it for me. I'm really sad that I have to give this such a bad review because the author probably worked pretty hard on this and it's not easy to put your feelings into words and then also publish them, but I just didn't enjoy a lot of it.

I received a copy of this book in exchange for my honest review. Thank you NetGalley.

Jared Singer is an insanely talented poet. This book just further confirmed that.
Be warned, there are SOME poems in here that may be offensive to others. So if you are sensitive or easily triggered, this isn't the book fo ryou.

3.5 Stars ☆☆☆.5

"If there was magic in this world, we have long since scienced it into extinction."

I don't think this is the kind of book you say you enjoyed, simply because of all the dark topics it covers: from suicide to self-harm to anti-semitic beliefs. Poetry can get extremely personal, and this is a prime example of that. At times, it felt as though Jared Singer was almost laying his soul bare.

I connected a lot to some of the poems, I thought they were insightful and relatable. The poetry itself was great, I loved the writing style. However, I did think the poems got slightly too repetitive for my tastes which is why I gave it 3.5 stars.

don't read this collection if you get offended easily. A lot of his poems are funny but it can vary with your sense of humor. I liked how real this collection was. You can tell this author doesn't give a f*ck in his writing and in his life and is authentically himself which really resonated with me. This collection made me laugh at times and made me feel his experiences which I like as a reader.

This was such a powerful collection of poems on topics such as grief, suicide, love, and body image. I found so many of the pieces to be relatable and the way Singer writes gets right in there and tugs at those heartstrings. I will be getting a hard copy of this so I can go through and copy my annotations from the digital version that I have. *Advance copy provided by the publisher in exchange for my honest review.

Oooh, I enjoyed this a lot more than I initially expected, and I'm more than pleasantly surprised! While this is a very personal collection of poetry, and I did not necessarily identify with them all, each word managed to resonate with me on some level. I found myself sharing small quotes from this on Twitter, just so someone else out there could have the air punched from their lungs like I did.

An exploration of loss, of being Jewish in America, of anti-Semitism as a whole, of fatphobia both obvious and subtle, of love and all its complexities... of all those tiny acts of self-destruction we must learn to forgive.

This books description says it is a book of poetry about the ways we put ourselves into routes of self destruction. As someone who suffers anxiety, depression and much more. I was hoping this book would be something I could relate to, connect and learn from. Instead I was confused half the time what was going on and what the author was even writing about.

Raw, morbid and not my cup of tea. Deals with death and suicide, grief and loss, mental health, body image and more. Perhaps I am not in the right place to enjoy this book for I did not enjoy the writing nor could I relate to the 'poetry'.

An interesting cover and love the title as it pulls to my heartstrings screaming out to me to read. I’m not usually a poem reader but it’s struck a chord that I needed to read. I needed to read on what the poems were all about and felt that the poet was writing about me and hit the nail on the head about some of the topics. Another book to keep handy for the times I need to distress and rest.

A strong, emotive and utterly vibrant collection. Jared Singer's poetry is full of incredibly potent lines and verses. I could not stop reading from the first to the last page.

Wow , what an interesting read. Definitely an book that is entertaining. If this is the genre you like then this novel ticks all the boxes.

Let me start with this: "A Letter to Sarah Contemplating Superpowers" just flat out made me bawl. Being a spoken word poet myself, I went looking for the video on YouTube, which is a far more visceral experience than just reading the words.

I wish we didn't live in a time where we get taken by surprise when someone we know, a friend, a loved one, turns up dead by their own choice. But we live in a time where a lot of us do to various degrees. What can we say to that, other than:

"If I could travel through time, I would go back
to the moment before it was too late.
Right before you wrote a suicide note that started

Dear Jared:
I’m doing this now because I know you will be the one to
find me. Of all of my friends, I think you’re the one who’s
strong enough to take it.

What made you think I was strong enough to take this?"

There was a lot of poems about this topic. I'm not sure if they were about the same person or if Singer had to experience more than one. But if that sampler wasn't enough to clue you in, 'Forgive Yourself These Tiny Acts of Self-Destruction' is in part, raw with pain and in other parts, breathtaking in how an image was woven out of words.

The other piece that stood out for me was 'Artifacts', excerpt:

"Why do you think rich men buy the
instruments of famous musicians

and put them behind glass instead of playing them?
To protect a valuable object? Do you see their
families in cases? Their egos? Their legacies?"

I can't relate to his poems about being Jewish, but I can appreciate how poetry allows us to talk about things we each experience differently.

This eArc was courtesy of NetGalley and Button Poetry.

This collection was another book of very hard hitting poetry, which examines a number of sometimes difficult subjects. Singer discussed a number of personal experiences and triggering subjects for him. With this in mind it made the poems more full of depth and more jarring.

There are a number of triggering subjects so if subjects like suicide, body image issues, loss of loved ones and more so if those subjects are too triggering for you go into this with caution. The poems are very heartfelt and definitely show a journey that hopefully lead towards acceptance and growth.

All in all it was a great collection that is sure to pull at the heartstrings and have great impact.

this was really a personal book. don't know if enjoyable is the right word for it, but i felt a connection with a lot of poems, specially the last few.

This is a book i'm going to read again sometime because i saw myself in a LOT of poems. my heart aches.

Any time I see a Button Poetry book on here, I have to request it ASAP. Jared Singer is brilliant and I will definitely be purchasing my own copy. I cannot wait to read more from Singer.

This lacked a poetry feel. Just felt like a celebrity who was trying their hand and something new unfortunately it just didn’t work for me.