Whew, that was one frustrating, suspenseful race to the finish for me. I found myself in a dilemma with wanting to give up on this one or control my frustration with how dragged out the story felt at times. The suspense won out and I kept turning the pages as fast as I could and ended up enjoying this one.

I loved the idea of the dilemmas here our main characters Adam and Livia face that left me in a dilemma with my thoughts on their dilemma. Did that make sense? lol I loved all the questions it left me with that I wanted to talk about with my friends in this buddy read.

The characters and their actions are questionable and at times I thought they were convincing and others not so much. At times it was hard for me to empathize with the characters and I went back and forth with liking them and not liking them. The ending left me with some mixed feeling but overall I liked the way it wrapped up.

As you can see I was in a bit of a dilemma with this one! Can you tell I love the title???

This book had a good storyline, but heavily lacked suspense for me. I think I went in expecting a thriller when maybe I should not have. The characters were very hard to find likable, although maybe that is what the author intended, I'm not sure. While it was somewhat suspenseful, I just can't put my finger on what it was about this book that made me disappointed in it. I will always read anything B.A. Paris writes, but this was definitely not my favorite of hers.

I am a huge huge fan of BA Paris and I have loved absolutely everything I have read. I would highly encourage anyone and everyone to pick up a copy and check it out.

I was expecting a thriller, but ended up with more of a domestic drama. Which is fine, just not what I was expecting. I’ve read other BA Paris books and really enjoyed them, so this doesn’t dissuade me from reading more of her work. This one just wasn’t my favorite.

Livia never had a wedding that she has wanted, so for her 40th birthday she throws a huge bash. Adam plans to have Marnie to fly from Hong Kong to surprise her mother for the birthday. However, to not spoil her, Adam makes Marnie takes three connecting flights instead of a direct flight. However, the day of the bash, Adam sees a flight from Cairo crashes and kills everyone and Marnie may or may not been on the flight. Livia finds out a secret about Marnie. Adam and Livia both hold their secrets from one another.
I thought the suspense was good. However, I felt like it was very anticlimactic and a disappointing ending. I find this to be forgettable.

This book took me awhile to get into, and I was not into the characters. I have enjoyed her other books, so thought this would be in the same vain. I actually did not finish it.

THE DILEMMA
BY B.A. PARIS

Livia has been planning her fortieth birthday party ever since her parents refused to attend her wedding. Their reason for not going to Livia and Adam's wedding was because Livia was pregnant with her and Adam's first child. Adam is a kind husband and learns a potentially tragic event regarding their daughter Marnie that he is at first not sure if Marnie is is involved or not. Adam is coming from a kind place when he decides to postpone telling Livia about what he has learned so that she can enjoy her last hours of her much anticipated birthday party. Adam's decision to delay the inevitable is partly because he is hopeful that he could be wrong about their daughter being involved in what would be every parents worst nightmare. By not telling Livia and delaying in confirmation of whether or not Marnie is involved serves a two prong solution for Adam. One is he wants Livia to enjoy her party because after all these years she has prepared and looked forward to this event. The other reason is Adam doesn't want to hear what by the hour seems likely to be bad news and he is afraid to get the consequences.

This was a big departure for B.A. Paris to cross genres of usually crafting psychological thrillers to switching to domestic family drama. I am a huge fan of B.A. Parris and have read every single book she has written. My two favorites were, "The couple Next Door," and I believe I loved even more the, "Break Down." I may even pick up the,"Break Down," and re-read it over the up coming holiday. "The Dilemma," did not disappoint one bit. I really enjoyed it. It was fast paced and an easy read. I couldn't put the book down. I had to find out what happened. Although my one tiny quibble was towards the end when I was getting to the climax and the tension and suspense was building it was slightly annoying to re read the same version just told by alternating points of view. Otherwise this was an extremely compelling and interesting experience reading about domestic family drama from B. A. Paris. I look forward to her next book and hope I am an early reader. Thank you to the publicist that alerted me by email that "The Dilemma," was available.

Thank you to Net Galley, B.A. Paris and the publisher for providing me with my ARC in exchange for a fair and honest review. All opinions are my own. Thank you also to the publicist who alerted me.

B. A. Paris never disappoints! The Dilemma was great. I love this author. I will read anything she writes!

I LOVE B.A. Paris. One of my absolute favorite authors. She is always able to keep my drawn in and holds my attention. The Dilemma is probably on my top 5 favorite books. I thoroughly enjoy the back and forth telling of the main characters story. Wasn’t as “twisty” as I would of liked but her writing is so intriguing I almost don’t need those twists. Such a great book. 10/10 recommend

Olivia has been planning her fortieth birthday party for years, especially since she married Adam Harman in haste after becoming pregnant in her teens with their son, Josh, who is now twenty-two. Liv's big day arrives, but it is not an unalloyed pleasure. She knows something about their daughter, nineteen-year-old Marnie, that will likely devastate Adam. Meanwhile, Adam is hiding important information from Liv. He rationalizes his behavior, hoping that his fears will turn out to be unfounded. Liv and Adam are desperate to spare one another unnecessary pain, but when is silence toxic rather than golden?

"The Dilemma," by B. A. Paris, is a harrowing domestic drama that focuses on Adam and Liv's internal struggles. In alternating and relatively brief chapters, they narrate their stories in an hour-by-hour timeline before, during, and after Liv's celebration. Paris demonstrates that keeping secrets can weaken our relationship to our loved ones, sometimes irrevocably.

This poignant but, at times, implausible and melodramatic novel explores the challenges that all married couples and parents face, and our hearts go out to the well-drawn primary and secondary characters. The momentum builds until the climactic finale, when various people must face harsh realities that could destroy their peace of mind for years to come. Overall, "The Dilemma" is an engrossing and thought-provoking work of psychological suspense that poses a thorny question: When is honesty the best policy?

Very drama centered. Not as much as thriller. Because it is drama based, it is heavily character based so at times it moved slow.

Holy moly!! I I think I am going to need some time to process this one. When I started the book, it had been some time since I read the synopsis, so I was a bit blind. The story is a bit like an episode of 24, where each chapter takes you through one of the characters prospective of an hour during a party that was years in the making.

Each character has their own secret they are holding back on, and I often found myself pondering how I would have acted or what h would have done in their shoes.

Definitely an interesting read!

I received an ARC from Netgalley in exchange for an honest review

It makes me sad that B.A. Paris's books are no longer some of my favorites, because they really used to be!

I’m a big BA Paris fan, but The Dilemma is not my favorite. I found myself often bored with this book and kept pushing through hoping it would get better. If you’re looking for suspense this isn’t it. It’s more drama filled and littered with unlikeable characters.

So I spent most of this book wanting to hit either main character upside the head. I did like the narrators of the book for audio. Both main characters had a big dilemma they need to tell each other. The book is broken up into hours for each chapter. The story goes back and forth between the two main characters for each chapter. The ending did make the whole book worth reading. I am leaving this review voluntarily after being sent a free book.

Sorry, I guess I'm getting sick of BA Paris books. Her characters make the worst, most foolish decisions that I find them mostly unbelievable. A fast read with a great plot line, but totally mishandled in my opinion. 2 stars

The Dilemma, what a title and also a perfect title for this book. This was an incredibly well crafted, emotional roller coaster of a read. What would you do if you found out something life changing in the midst of a big family party. Would you ruin the moment and change your lives forever, or would you carry that burden until after the party is over and then break the news? Such a situation for lengthy debate, and man what a “dilemma” for a story! I questioned, and reassured myself, and questioned some more right along with Adam and Livia the entire book. I bawled with them at the end, as if the author had reached into my rib cage and split my heart in two. This was such a unique, unputdownable (yes I made a word) domestic suspense/thriller. Absolutely unlike anything I’ve read before, and I now feel like I’ve lost all sense of time having just finished it. This author is truly a wizard when it comes to gripping stories with twists and turns.

Another amazingly, twisty novel by this author. I'm never disappointed when reading their books! Always a good time!

I love every book I've read by this author. Always drawn in by the end of the first page and never want to put the book down. Can't wait for the next masterpiece to be published.

I thought this was going to be a thriller but it turned out to be a family drama. This is a little disappointing because I enjoyed Paris's thrillers in the past and was not ready for this story to be what it was.