A really captivating novel about precarity, capitalism, motherhood, marriage, and autonomy. This book is honest about things we don't usually talk about.

This book resonated with me, especially in what we are going through with Covid-19. This book is about A woman named Elizabeth, grew up privileged, went to one of the best colleges, has a great family with two adorable daughters, a loving husband, a great job teaching in Brooklyn, a good friend, and much more. I can't say I know what it feels like to have all these things, but I can identify with always wanting more instead of counting the blessings we do have have. She has A great life, but comes off as needy and wanting more and more. I don't have that great life, but I can identify with wanting more. Especially in these times, I should be counting the few blessings I do have, but want more.

A great title for this book. As much or as little as we have, EVERYONE wants more, no matter who they are. A 3.5 stars.

A special thanks to Henry Holt and Company and NetGalley for my ARC in exchange for my honest opinion.

I really enjoyed this book! I liked the subject and also the style of writing. I felt like this was a very honest and realistic description of modern life as it is for many people. So many of us juggle marriage, children, careers, and stress while still never feeling like there is enough money. I also related to the main character since I also work in a high school. The author beautifully expressed the feelings of inadequacy that so many women after graduating, getting a good job, doing all the things you think you are "supposed" to do and yet still something is missing. Wow, I felt that in my soul. I highly recommend this one!

On the surface, it would seem like Elizabeth, the heroine of Lynn steger Strong's novel WANT, has the world figured out if she only would stop navel gazing and be thankful for her blessings. Her life is enviable by any measure, but it is Strong's honesty and her ability to present the inner life of this woman so clearly that keeps the reader riveted. Here are the facts -- growing up in Florida, Elizabeth had a privileged childhood, followed by Columbia degrees and a life in Brooklyn, while she teaches in the Bronx and knows Manhattan well enough to jog across the Brooklyn Bridge and back every morning before breakfast. She also has two healthy, adorable girls, and a loving husband. So why does she feel so needy? The title of the book is the first clue -- no matter what they have, they always want more, feel secondary to friends, made to feel inferior by parents, sometimes everything is not enough. Ultimately, I liked Elizabeth enough that I wish I knew her in real life.

Any woman that works (inside or outside of the home) can relate to this story....what does anyone really want when you get down to their basic, honest selves, and not how we portray ourselves to the world. This is a book that makes the reader think - and also makes the reader want more!

Lynn Steger Strong’s Want reads like a highly personal confession of various wants: the want of money and stability in one’s life and career; the want of providing more stability for one’s children, as well as support—emotional, financial, and otherwise—for one’s spouse; and also the want of creating lasting ties and friendships amid a world where technology has made us feel that people are closer, and yet has instead created gaps and chasms among people, even, in the narrator’s case here, her oldest friend, Sasha.

The narrator of Want comes from a socioeconomically privileged background, with an Ivy League doctoral education to boot (Columbia is never named, but hinted at). With a husband following his fantasy of a dream job and two children to provide for, Steger Strong’s novel charts what it’s like to work at a charter high school in the Bronx—where the students are cattle-prodded into performing high on standardized testing rather than offered actual instruction or one-on-one time that would actually serve them—and also catalogues the increasing adjunctification of higher education in America. For those over-educated living in New York City, this is often paired with being over-worked and under-paid; this is the case of Steger Strong’s narrator in Want, and we witness how she attempts to balance her several jobs, declaring bankruptcy despite working nonstop, being a parent to her children and as much of a supportive wife to her husband as possible, all the while fantasizing about a friendship that fell off the tracks a decade ago—one that is only really continued on social media, in fits and starts.

There are a lot of interesting passages and sequences to mull over in Want, and the books the narrator teaches to her undergrads at night are both resonant of her own prose and also familiarly savory to fans of literary and translated fiction. There are echoes of Rachel Cusk here, too, while Steger Strong maintains her own voice: never once fearful of admitting privilege and its loss for her narrator, and never scared to shows the flaws in modern life in terms of how it affects family, finances, mental health, and one’s personal relations.

While there are many quotes I would love to pluck from the book, I’m respecting the do-not-quote mandate of the ARC I read—kindly provided by Henry Holt and NetGalley in exchange for an honest review—and urge those who are all too familiar with the over-educated and under-paid gap in America right now, especially those in education, to read this book when it’s published in July 2020.

4.5 stars

This book is perfectly accurate about the feelings many overly educated women feel in regards to their personal and financial lives. Struggling with finances is something you don’t expect after getting your degree, but unfortunately many women do. The author perfectly captured the feelings of inadequacy many women feel due to this and the effect it has on their relationships. Even though this is fictional, it is so accurate. I highly recommend this one!

Thank you to netgalley for the opportunity to this read this ARC. Our narrator remains nameless for most of the story. A well educated woman who cobbles together an insufficient paycheck while living an even more unfulfilling life tells us a story that on the surface seems "so what." She and her husband have filed for bankruptcy despite her parents' wealth. She mentions frequently that she grew up with all of the material comforts and more, yet her parents decline to help X and her husband because they just bought an expensive new house. Her mother cannot support her daughter in any way, going so far as to suggest X give her the children. The two little girls seem loved and well cared for, though the two year old and a four year old are never named. Her husband has PTSD from 9/11 and she is depressed, yet neither try to find help, help each other (except for the childcare arrangements which fall through regularly) or help themselves. She has tried meds and therapy in the past, but no longer seeks treatment. She plods on, sometimes leaning into the wind, sometimes against it. She had/has a best friend Sasha. Sasha is a hot mess and X can never be there for her. X isn't particularly good at being available to anyone in the way they need her.

It all comes down to a very unhappy woman who will never be who anyone wants her to be (her perception) or can figure out who she wants to be. It's relatable, but also chaotic. As the reader I often shook my head in agreement - I know the disappointed parent. Yet, X knows how to help herself. Is it that she can't or won't? The book is nearly overwhelming with questions and the roads not taken.

WANT is a difficult book to read because Strong is such a talented writer. She drops us right in the midst of Elizabeth's life. Elizabeth is a teacher, a runner, a reader, a mother and a wife. She and her husband live in a crappy apartment with their two children. Elizabeth's life is small - she and her hedge-fund-manager-turned carpenter husband have had to declare bankruptcy and Elizabeth's parents, who have plenty, refuse to help. the book follows Elizabeth as she revisits her friendship with Sasha, someone she knew as an adolescence. Steger's writing is incredible - as reader, I picked up the emotions Elizabeth was feeling and even had to walk away from the book a couple of times, Just an amazing read.

Aching, powerful, incandescent with rage and longing, this beautifully written novel gripped me and would not let me go. Page turning read about reading, motherhood, family, love, work, money friendship, but mostly the clean cut of how impossible it is to tell the whole truth about anything, about the limits and powers of words, about failures, small and large, and impossible connections and about the failed and necessary kindnesses throughout.

This novel is unlike any I've read. I at first didn't want to finish it. I couldn't get into the book. But it captivated me the more I continued to read.
Somewhere along the way, Elizabeth lost happiness in her life. She was just going through the motions of living. She had lost track of her best friend, feeling like a failure in her parents eyes because her and her husband needed money. Heartbreaking at times and then she could make you laugh.
You will want to put this on your TBR. You won't be sorry buying this book.

Thank you to Publisher and NetGalley for the eARC

Very engaging book. I loved the writing style, since it is different than most of the books I have read. A woman who’s name is not revealed until the end recounts her day to day life and the many challenges she faces as a wife, mother, teacher, friend, and daughter. She discusses how a friendship from her past fell apart and still haunts her, because there was so much left unsaid. I felt it was very true to life and could relate to the main character in multiple ways. It spreads across multiple themes (as mentioned above) and there were several parts that resonated with me. This book explores themes such as privilege, the education system, motherhood, mental health issues, gentrification, friendship, marriage and more . However, when I finished I did not feel that the end was well rounded enough. there were so many stories within the story and not enough
Of a connection, keeping the book on a theme. (What was I supposed to take away from
reading this?) While I understand all books will not give me a neat and tidy ending- I just felt at the ending there were so many unanswered questions. I was left wanting more (haha maybe that’s why it’s called “Want”). I can’t say I hated it. I can’t say I loved it. Three stars for me for beautiful writing, a relatable main character, but I am still left feeling like I needed more in the end.

A mostly nameless narrator talks about her wants. She’s unhappy in her job and she and her husband have filed for bankruptcy. They have no money to do much of anything. She does seem to like spending time with her children who she refers to as the 2-year-old and the 4-year-old. Long blocks of text go by in which she refers to others as “she” which made it difficult for me to remember who she was talking about.

I guess this is the new avant-garde style of writing where hardly anyone has a name. I prefer names that I can associate with characters in a book and that makes it easier for me to follow the author’s train of thought.

To me the unnamed narrator who we find out near the end is Elizabeth, whined way too much. And virtually did nothing to change for the better. That is my opinion and it doesn’t align with many of what other reviewers have said. If you don’t mind dwelling on depression this may be a great read for you.

Wanted to like this more. Sadly out didn't really stand out.

Thanks to author,publisher and Netgalley for the chance to read this book. While I got the book for free,it had no bearing on the rating I gave it.

This just didn't work for me: I need more plot than this. There were decent elements, but it wasn't cohesive.



Review copy provided by publisher.

"All that talking, years of reading: There was a time I thought that all language might contain something of value, but most of life is flat and boring and the things we say are too. Or maybe it's that most of life is so much stranger than language is able to make room for, so we say the same dead things and hope maybe the who and how of what is said can make it into what we mean."

Lynn Steger Strong's latest novel, WANT, opens in 2000 with a doting memory of our heroine, Elizabeth, at age 16, and how she's tethered her love to her dear friend, Sasha, a year ahead of her. Like all beautiful people, Sasha is alluring, magnetic, an unfailing reminder of the innumerable ways Elizabeth places second to her. Seventeen years later: Elizabeth is 34, struggling to uphold her family of four as the brood's breadwinner, and barely making ends meet as an adjunct professor at underprivileged schools following the misadventures of her self-employed husband and the demands of their young daughters. She has, in so many ways, been broken by the trajectory of her life. She is not alone.

While finding transient joy in being a confidant to her students, doing morning runs, and leaving work unannounced to read books in cafes at the limited leisure of her “magic credit card,” she scrolls through the wasteland of social media feeds to find Sasha — married and approaching motherhood again — with whom she yearns to reconcile after her descent to drugs and miscarriage years ago. Burned by the backhanded affection of her parents, whose abuse lingers long after she escapes Florida for an unaffordable life in New York, Elizabeth, like so many other women, must grapple with wanting so much from a world that does not always want her. Who must keep her hands on the steering wheel at all times, and must pull herself together at all times even when it seems the very fabric of her life continues to unravel around her.

With WANT, Strong pens an exhilarating evocation of the ways women overcome the hurdles of motherhood, the distress of being undesired, and the painful severance of once-beloved friendships.

A novel of survival the struggles of. Motherhood.A novel of marriage of financial struggles of life struggles.Well written characters that come alive. #netgalley #henryholt

Disjointed story of a woman and her husbands experience declaring bankruptcy . A lot of complaining about her job as a teacher and her husband lack of employment. In her spare time, she cyberstalks her former best friend who she imagined is doing very well , according to the friends social media. She debates actually contacting the frien, and their real life interactions are disappointing. I never got a feeling for any of the books characters.