I went into reading this book with an open mind as I am not a highly religious person. I do however like to read books about other religions and their perspectives on things.

I think my opinion of this book was slightly tainted as at the beginning the author mentioned that many mental disorders are bitter attacks on others and that this is why so many disturbed people are angry and manipulative. As someone who work in the mental health field I find it offensive to those who have mental illness to be referred to as angry and manipulative.

A positive was that the book was easy to read and flowed well and underlying it all there were some nice messages on how to improve relationships.

You can have a better relationship with anybody—God, your children, your spouse, or friends. Counselor James P. Hilt has helped hundreds of people who wanted healthier, happier relationships with his principles derived from the insights of Scripture. Identify and get rid of problems that separate you from others. Stop feeling bitter and resentful. Listen more effectively.Become more patient. Celebrate others more readily. Feel more satisfied in your relationships. It was a fine book although i wasn't aware it was going to be very biblical.

Thank you to NetGalley and the publishers for the free copy of this book in exchange for an honest review. My opinion was not affected by the free copy.

I requested this book because it was something I really needed help with, and getting a Biblical perspective on the topic made the book even more appealing. This is definitely a book I'll be buying once it's available; for me, I would want something physical so I could flip back to certain chapters or sections. I'm already wanting to re-read this.

I like what the author was saying about bitterness in this book, and how a lot of relationship problems stem from that. I also like him discussing how we talk to others as well as how others talk to us, and how we can speak with more kindness to each other while also speaking the truth in love. And he did touch on something that I know I need to work on: being a part of a community by being in a small group.

Working on earthly relationships is a life-long process, but I think the author did a good job of showing how we can look to the Bible for guidance on how to do better.

This book really wasnt how I was expecting it to be, in a positive way. It's beautifully written. I took time out after reading a few pages to sit and reflect. I will be putting this to practice in my everyday life.

How to have a better relationship with anybody by James Hilt has truly blessed my life and my relationships. This book is written with a Biblical perspective.

The books description says it will help you:
Identify and get rid of problems that separate you from others
Stop feeling bitter and resentful
Listen more effectively
Become more patient
Celebrate others more readily
Feel more satisfied in your relationships


Study what the Bible has to say about relationships, apply these healing truths to your life, and discover the remarkable difference it can make. Christ’s love can flow unhindered through your life. Don’t put up with disconnection and resentment any longer. Get started today.

I highly recommend this book to anyone who wants to have better relationships!

James Hilt's book How to Have a Better Relationship with Anybody provides solid, biblical counsel for anyone looking to improve relationships. Hilt deals with topics like rooting out bitterness, forgiveness and offering kindness to offenders, and clothing yourself with humility. The author weaves together real-life stories and examples with biblical truth on each of the topics.

Take your time to prayerfully read through each chapter, taking time for personal reflection and inventories and asking the Holy Spirit to effect change in you. if you take it seriously, you're bound to see real transormation in yourself that will lead to stronger and better relationships with others. This is a book I highly recommend because it's practical, biblically-sound, and encouraging even as it corrects and guides.

Note: I received a copy of the book through NetGalley in exchange for this honest review. The opinions expressed are my own.