There is no denying that Asian parents are strict, they certainly have a unique way of raising their children. The most common thing the Asian parents do is, pressurize their children into a profession that they are not fervid about. I have seen so many such cases around. Then, they pressurize their children to marry according to their wish (mostly in case of girls) which according to me is wrong. They overrule academics and expect too much. But I must say I am very lucky that my parents never force me to do things that I don’t like.


So talking about this book, it is about an Asian (Taiwanese) girl named Chloe Wang who is asked to marry Hongbo, a boy chosen by her parents. But she doesn't believe that he is good for her, so she rents a boyfriend, Drew from Rent for Tour ‘Rents, a company that provides trained fake boyfriends. The quest is simple, she has to impress her parents that Drew is good enough for her, so they will stop bragging about Hongbo. But at last, she starts falling for the real Drew.


What happens next? Will she talk about it?
To know what happened go grab a book for yourself!😁


Chloe’s perspective was genuinely interesting and I loved seeing her character development. Drew, on the other hand, was way too much of this Perfect Guy.


I enjoyed how accurate this book was. I liked the use of linguistics in the staring of every chapter. I could connect to the story as Chloe's problems were genuine and are common among all the youngsters. The plot and characters are good. The story is described in both Chloe’s and Drew’s POV and I loved this contrasting theme. The easy dip into romance made me smile.

Overall, an enjoyable read with a great ending.

Gloria Chao's American Panda captured my heart with its mix of humor and heart back in 2017 when I was lucky enough to read the ARC ahead of its early 2018 release. Gloria has a signature style that has appeared in each of her books, including Rent a Boyfriend. It’s an unapologetic celebration of and tribute to the language and culture of Taiwanese and Chinese Americans, full of tongue-in-cheek puns and allusions.

While Rent a Boyfriend has mostly been hyped as a romcom with the fake dating trope, and it definitely did make me laugh out loud multiple times, it’s also very much a sentimental coming-of-age story that explores the complicated relationship between diaspora kids and their parents and culture. Both Chloe and Drew struggle to reconcile what they want for themselves with what their parents want for them. Drew puts up a front around everyone but his family and paid the price when he decided to drop out of college and pursue art. Meanwhile, Chloe has been playing the role of the perfect daughter in front of her parents and is realizing just how suffocating and unsustainable it is. When their paths cross, they begin to push each other onto a path toward being confident in their true selves.

The romance between Chloe and Drew is a mix of playful inside jokes and deeply vulnerable heart-to-hearts. Both Chloe and Drew have deep-seated insecurities that have held them back, and their budding romance brings all of those issues to the fore in messy ways. The thrill and joy of finding someone who gets them is shadowed by the lies they’ve constructed and the secrets they’ve kept close to their hearts to protect themselves after being hurt by those they love most. These tensions and conflicts are explored throughout the book, establishing its emotional core and fueling Chloe and Drew’s character arcs.

Although the romance is central to free story, I’d argue that the biggest conflict within the story is between Chloe and her mother. Chloe desperately wants her mother to be happy but resents shrinks under the constant criticisms she receives from her. Money, appearances, and purity are everything to Chloe’s mother. Their mother-daughter relationship is poisoned by internalized misogyny. Chloe tries her best to push back against these oppressive ideals, with limited success. She later learns that there is a reason behind it all, and the story balances understanding where her mother is coming from with breaking the cycle of toxicity.

As the comp to The Farewell hints, there’s a hidden cancer diagnosis in the story. Chloe finds out her parents have been hiding her father’s cancer from her and it is a source of sadness and fear for her. She struggles to understand why they would keep something so important from her, among other things. This aspect of the story hit very close to home for me since I also experienced something similar, albeit on a milder level, when my family hid my mom’s cancer diagnosis from me for a week to keep it from affecting my mental state while preparing for a college interview. Even knowing why they did it, it still hurt.

Overall, Rent a Boyfriend was such an emotional experience. I was so invested in Chloe and Drew’s stories. I laughed and sighed and teared up at various points in the story. I think it’s my new favorite from Gloria.

Content/Trigger Warnings: misogyny, slut-shaming, fat-shaming, classism homomisia, cancer

This book was so adorable and it had the plus of featuring older YA characters! While not set in college, I appreciated that the main character Chloe was at college but still feeling the weight of her parents on her from miles away. Drew is so great as a love interest and I knew right away that they would be a great match for each other. They’re perfect for each other and I rooted for them the whole time. I also really want mooncakes now.

What would you do if you met your supposed boyfriend the same moment your parents do?

That's the situation Chloe Wang is in when she meets Drew Chan for the first time. Gloria Chao brings the concept of renting a boyfriend, a practice common amongst Asian countries, over to the US in her novel, Rent a Boyfriend. While Drew is under the guise of Andrew at the Wangs' residence over Thanksgiving, Chloe, or Jing-Jing which is her Chinese name, romances her parents into the idea that she is indeed in a stable relationship with Andrew, a rich and smart pre-med student who also studies at the University of Chicago.

Soon enough, the façades of Jing-Jing and Andrew crumble as they, as Chloe and Drew, fall for each other's true identities. Of course, that doesn't go without a potential marriage offer from Hongbo, a son from an affluent family, and Chloe's parents urging her to marry him. This soon becomes a novel of how will Chloe get what she wants, while keeping her family and herself afloat.

I truly enjoyed this book. I'm overjoyed that I had the opportunity to read Gloria Chao's book in advance of the publishing date, and I am incredibly grateful to Hear Our Voices for setting this up for everyone! Gloria Chao provides great insight into this common practice in Asia and shows how it is perceived in this American society.

There were many things I loved about this book! The dynamic between Chloe and Drew was to die for! While it was swoon-worthy and romantic, it was also super natural and realistic to me because they shared many jokes and little moments that I almost loved more than the major moments of the book. I loved to see the repetition of symbolism, and this book nailed it. I loved seeing Chang’e & the concept of the moon show up time and time again! I think it was great to see the moon in Drew’s art especially because he allowed himself to be vulnerable in his work. Above all, I think something that has to be mentioned is the push and pull between Chloe and her parents. This relationship was incredibly honest and I really commend Gloria Chao for taking on these hard topics! As an Asian-American, I understand all of the stereotypes about “tiger parents.” While mine aren’t like that, there are many families out there who have a parent who is incredibly overbearing, from education to marriage. I loved that Gloria Chao gracefully accepted the challenge to be honest and realistic with her book.

While there were many things I loved, I found myself at odds with the Hongbo and Chloe relation. I understand the conflict between Hongbo, Chloe, and Chloe's family, but to me, it just didn't flow naturally. I think if there was more buildup to the situation, then it would have felt less choppy. Though, without the inclusion of Hongbo, there wouldn't be a need for Drew so I'm definitely grateful for that!

I was seriously satisfied with this book! Gloria Chao hit it out of the park with this one and I can't wait to read her other novels. What I loved the most was how many of the events in the book went full circle and tied up nicely at the end.

I think if you're ready to laugh and feel some good feels, you're ready to tackle this book. If you're anything like me and soak up any rom-coms, especially those with a cast that I can resonate with on a race perspective, then you're looking for the right book.

Rent a Boyfriend has been published on November 10, 2020. Buy your books at major retailers, but also try to find online or local indie shops who may carry this book!

An emotional ride through the darker aspects of Chinese culture in the United States, and the rift it can create between generations. Rent a Boyfriend follows the lengths a young woman would go to protect herself from a future she doesn't want. In the process of doing so, she learns exactly what she wants, and what she has to do to have. This book is about sacrifice and how in excess it does more harm than good. Illustrating the importance of communication, and the battle to find stable ground among the generations. It's an emotional ride, the ends with a breath of relief. I definitely recommend it.

[Content warnings: sexism, misogyny, classism, fatphobia, arranged marriage, manipulation, disowning, homophobia, a few references to the HP series]

As a born-and-raised Taiwanese, I was incredibly excited when I first heard about Rent a Boyfriend, a Taiwanese American, fake-dating YA romance. I knew that even though I didn’t grow up in the US, there would be elements in Chloe and Drew’s story that I would recognize. What I didn’t expect was how much of my own life I saw in the book.

Chloe Jing-Jing Wang (19, Taiwanese American) is an economics major at UChicago, much to her parents’ dismay. That and the fact that she doesn’t make an effort in dating. When the seemingly eligible bachelor neighbor Hongbo Kuo (25) suddenly proposes to her, Chloe’s parents jump at the chance to marry her off, for fear she might not get a better husband. But Chloe doesn’t plan on sitting around as life happen to her. For Thanksgiving, she hires fake boyfriend Andrew (real name: Drew Chan, 21, Taiwanese American) from Rent for Your ’Rents to convince her parents that a) she does date, and b) her boyfriend Andrew is perfect—son of surgeons and on his way to med school. While everything in Chloe’s life suddenly becomes an ever-growing lie, her and Drew’s feelings for each other is everything but fake.

I thought this was going to be a very light-hearted story with hilarious disasters surrounding Chloe’s huge charade, and in a way, it was, but there were also many conversations that hit home so hard that I find it painful, too. Growing up, I’ve heard countless variations of the comment, “Aiyah, Jing-Jing, I pick at you because you’re my daughter, [...] That’s how I show I care. I want you to be the best.” I used to equate being scolded as being loved. And to catch glimpses of my life depicted vividly in this book was both incredible and terrifying: the little ticks and quirks of the parents, the sense of disconnection with tradition and culture, and even some of the baffling values and beliefs.

Some might think it is ludicrous Chloe’s and Drew’s parents behave the way they do—I wonder, too, but to a certain degree, it is also very true. While I am not sure if Chao had intended to exaggerate all the polar-opposite values Asian Americans face growing up, I wasn’t surprised by any of the dialogue, because I have personally heard tamped down versions of the same things—either directed to me or a friend.

In Rent a Boyfriend, all the parents are problematic, and we also have the awful spoiled rich boy Hongbo. I think his character embodies, and is almost a caricature of, snobby, pompous rich guys, and is a stark contrast to guāi (good, well-behaved) boys which parents prefer their daughters to date. The story also briefly touches upon homophobia within the Asian community, and how some Rent for Your ’Rents clients hired fake dates because they weren’t ready to come out.

The story is told in both Chloe’s and Drew’s first-person points of view, letting the readers in more on Chloe’s motives and Drew’s backstory. I love the contrasting themes in the story, such as Chloe’s initial rejection and Drew’s embrace of their cultural roots as well as the balance between falsehood and truth—though Drew fakes for a living, he is true to himself. And I especially love and deeply appreciate the uses of Mandarin and one Taiwanese phrase in the dialogues. I am not sure what the reading experience would be for non-Mandarin-speaking readers, but I love that Rent a Boyfriend really talked me. There were so many instances I laughed out loud because the word choices were so on point. And there are also many details that connect the whole story well.

Drew is incredibly sweet. I love him from the beginning while Chloe fails to treat him well. We see both of them working through their own issues—Chloe’s identities and Drew’s dreams—before they can finally come together with a believable future. And I love how much potential their future holds. Though almost every other character is not very nice, minor characters such as Drew’s roommate Jason, also a Rent for Your ’Rents operator, and his boyfriend Marshall are truly what friends are for.

The way Chao integrated Taiwanese culture into the story is wonderful. Rent a Boyfriend is not only a sweet romance, but also a soul searching journey. The larger story is about being in touch with all of oneself, that bad memories and misunderstandings should never taint one’s wholeness.

I loved the premise and the fake relationship aspect of this book. Andrew and Chloe fit so well together, even if it did take them so long to figure it out. I really enjoyed learning more about the Chinese culture, the foods and terms. This book has a balance of being a romcom and digging into deeper issues. Overall, I enjoyed this book. If you’re looking for a quick and sweet romance, I recommend this one!

I picked this up because it seemed to check the same boxes as Kiss Quotient and To All the Boys I've Loved. And it does. This book is just as cute just as sweet, and just as intensely centered on familial expectations. But this book wasn't for me, and I say that in the kindest way possible. I loved a lot about this book. The fake dates were freaking adorable.
But this story is so centered on Chloë and her relationship with her parents' expectations. This was much more a coming of age story than it was a romance. I'm too obsessed with love stories to have much patience for these chick lit books masquerading as romance. That is not to say this book is bad or that I hated it. Rather it's to say that marketing matters and when promoting books as romance, you better be sure that's exactly what you're selling.

Thank you to Netgalley and the publisher for providing me with an arc for review!

Rent a Boyfriend reads like a cheesy k-drama in the best way possible with its fake-dating premise, cavity-inducing romance, and enough family drama to make the Kardashians look boring. Chloe Wang, tired of her parents constantly pressuring her about marrying the richest bachelor in their small Palo Alto community, turns to Rent for Your 'Rents, a company that'll provide you with a perfect plus one for a price. Her algorithm-assigned boyfriend is Drew Chan, an aspiring artist fallen on hard times who became a Rent keep a roof over his head. But somewhere in between the persona they present to Chloe's parents and their vulnerable, late-night texts, something real begins to blossom between them. But can their new and fragile relationship survive the strict expectations of their families and communities?

Rent a Boyfriend was one of my most anticipated releases of the year and it definitely didn't disappoint. As a Chinese-American girl from a background very similar to Chloe's, I was able to relate immensely to her struggles with her parents. I expect many other first-generation Asian youths would also see themselves reflected in Chloe's struggles to break free from the influence of her parents while also desperately trying to cling to them. While RaB is no doubt a happy story, there is a bittersweet taste throughout as we see Chloe realize that there's only so much she can change about her parents.

Other than it's amazing representation of the struggles of children of the Asian diaspora, RaB also depicts East-Asian culture so well, from the mouth-watering food to the gossipy church ah yi's that humble-brag about their children. It seems like such a small thing, but having a book depict my culture so well honestly makes me emotional. The cover itself is amazing and I'd love to see more people of color on future books. Representation matters, and RaB does an amazing job.

One note though, this would definitely be categorized under older YA both because of some of the themes and the ages of the main characters themselves.

I will definitely be picking up more of Chao's books in the future, and I highly recommend RaB to literally anybody looking for a cute romance.

Rent A Boyfriend is so beautifully written, I loved the plot and the uniqueness of the story and characters. I don’t read many romances but I enjoyed this one a lot, and can we just talk about this beautiful cover for a second?😍
I loved Jing Jing/Chloe so much and I’m so happy that she finally got to express her true self to her parents and their community! Drew and Chloe are so cute, I’m obsessed with their relationship and their inside jokes!
The fact that women actually rent fake boyfriends in Asian countries got me so interested in the story! Renting fake boyfriends should be totally be a thing, not just in Asian countries!

I really enjoyed this book! Chloe and Drew had some great banter and I loved the character growth. While also being funny and romantic, this dealt with some more serious issues, and I think they were executed really well.

Super cute! It's a fauxmance plus a story about family expectations.

Chloe's parents have lots of ideas about how she should live her life and to a) keep them off her back and b) deter the awful guy they're trying to match her with, she uses a company to hire a fake boyfriend.

Enter Drew, who has a dossier on Chloe and a closet full of Ivy league sweatshirts designed to impress even the pickiest parents.

Of course these two fall for each other and have to navigate all their complicated family issues to be together. This isn't the plot-heaviest book, but it's a moving story about parent/child relationships. And features lots of descriptions of delicious food!

Posted to Goodreads: Chloe Wang has never been able to live up to her parents' expectations. They don't like where she is going to college, they don't like what she is studying, and they really don't like that she is not willing to marry the boy she picked. Desperate times call for desperate measures and Chloe's desperate measures include hiring Drew from Rent a Boyfriend to pretend to be her serious boyfriend and charm her parents. Chloe's plan seems perfect until she begins to have real feelings for her fake boyfriend.

This book was perfectly fine but it never really hooked me. The characters felt very similar to the characters in other books by Chao and the plot was like many other fake date books but at a much slower pace. The most interesting part of the book was the insight into the Chinese tradition of renting boyfriends to introduce to your parents but that aspect was barely touched on.

RENT A BOYFRIEND centers around Chloe Wang, who is anxious to meet her parents for the holidays because they keep trying to set her up with Hongbo, the son of very well off businesspeople that her parents want her to date because it would mean she'd be "set" for life. Chloe, disgusted by Hongbo and his personality, arranges a fake boyfriend through an app specifically for renting partners to please parents.

Drew's just trying to live. Ever since his parents disowned him for wanting to pursue art, he's had to let go of the idea of college so that he can just make ends meet. He works as a fake boyfriend to earn money, which so far has worked out well for him. He's categorized every Asian parent into a specific type and he makes his persona, "Andrew", fit the expectations of each type. It's worked out well so far.

parents:
Holy shit, I know that parents just have your best interests at heart but it made it very hard for me to even empathize with them when they tried to set Chloe up with Hongbo. Hongbo's parents only wanted Chloe for Hongbo because Chloe had a reputation as a VIRGIN?? ARE YOU KIDDING ME? CHLOE'S PARENTS KNEW THIS AND THEY WERE OKAY WITH THAT BEING THE REASON TO SET HER UP WITH HONGBO?

Anyway I have a lot more to rant, full review's on my blog: https://wiltedpages.wordpress.com/2020/11/10/book-review-rent-a-boyfriend-by-gloria-chao/

Thank you Simon & Schuster for a gifted copy of this book. All opinions are my own.

I thought this was an interesting plot - I didn't realize girls actually do rent boyfriends to alleviate the pressure from their Asian parents during the holidays. This may be just me and my mood but this book dragged for me. The family struggles Chloe experienced resonated with me - the pressure to go to the "right" school, study the "right" topic and get married, etc. However, her parents were so horrible, they kind of ruined the story for me. I was frustrated with Chloe and the number of times she apologized. On the other hand, I really respected Drew and his decision to go after his dreams and happiness even at the expense of losing touch with his family. I'm sure it's easier said than done but I was really hoping for a big lightbulb moment from Chloe and I didn't get it.

It’s no secret that I am a huge fan of YA set in college, so I was eager to dive into Gloria Chao’s newest novel, Rent a Boyfriend. Having adored American Panda, I was eager to experience her witty yet realistic storytelling centered on a first generation American college student. Chao’s latest novel did not disappoint, and at times felt full of more emotional turmoil than her fantastic debut novel.

The novel seems to have a surprising plot at first- Chloe hires a fake boyfriend through a service to bring home for the Thanksgiving holiday to get her parents off her case about pursuing a suitor of their choosing. While it’s definitely the set up of many a rom-com holiday movie, it carried extra weight in this context. As the author mentions herself, this is not necessarily an uncommon practice in Asia and in Chloe’s case it’s a last ditch, desperate effort to try to claim some independence over her life, rather than being forced into a proposal within someone who is just NOT a match for her (and not really a good person either). I really felt for Chloe trying to balance saving her parents’ feelings and reputation but also pursuing her independent wants and needs. Some of their interactions were truly heartbreaking, especially their inability to see what she wanted out of life and a partner and their skewed prioritization of the traits they wanted a husband to have for her.

I appreciated how the novel really explored Chloe’s parents’ community and provided some depth to their actions and at times alarming life advice. There’s some excellent scenes where Chloe is out with Drew (the fake boyfriend) in her Asian community and seeing her parents’ beliefs and biases echoed tenfold in their community really helped flesh out both her parents’ behavior as well as why Chloe has internalized so much resentment yet responsibility and guilt when it comes to pursuing her dreams. I thought that this was a nice touch that will help readers to understand the dynamics at play more genuinely.

While the family and personal growth aspects of the novel were engaging, the romance was often over the top and almost cheesy. I really liked Chloe and Drew as individuals and their relationship seemed to work (I also liked how they were quick to call out each other on biases and stereotypes that they had internalized from their own childhoods and pushed each other to be better) I just felt that it happened very quickly. While I loved their inside jokes (mooncakes, sheeps in anti-gravity boots, etc), I also felt that they both became invested in each other unreasonably quickly without really knowing each other that well. The romance read more high school than college to me, and when the big reveal happened it almost felt too easily resolved given the absolute heartburn and stress that Chloe’s parents had caused them (and me!) throughout a majority of the novel.

One thing I do want to emphasize is that I loved the holiday aspect of this book! For some reason I didn’t go in expecting it to be so holiday focused but given the premise I should have expected it, as Chloe “rents” Drew for Thanksgiving, Christmas, etc and Valentine’s Day and Lunar New Year are also featured. I remember how in college my interactions with my family were so dependent and measurable by holiday trips back home so I thought this was a fun framework for the story!

Overall: Rent a Boyfriend is a college set YA novel that has a balance of both emotional family moments as well as fluffy romantic content. It’s truly a coming of age story of a protagonist who is trying to honor both her parents’ heritage while navigating her own identity as an American, a theme that Chao explores deftly in all of her novels. Though the romance was a little too convenient for me, I overall really enjoyed this story!

I really loved this novel! It has a great older YA feel to it, since both of the characters are in college. The banter between the two main leads is great and really entertaining. I loved getting the two different perspectives as well. This was a great funny, romantic read for the holidays. I also loved how much I learned from this book about specific Asian customs that I was not aware of.
Overall this is a really great read!

I really loved reading this book! Chloe is such a charming leading lady and I love watching Drew growing with confidence. The best way I can describe the relationship that develops between them is "verisimilitude." Even though they're fake dating, their love becomes a legit thing. I also loved that throughout all this, Chloe tries to figure out how to deal with her parents. Things aren't tied up neatly in a bow, but there's hope for better things in the future. I seriously want a sequel for this!

Omg omg omg! This is such a cute and adorable read! Choe and Drew are very likable and relatable characters. The setting is familiar and yet fascinating. There are so many things about Chloe that I find hilarious and admirable. This is a must read for people who wants a light, unexpected romance read,

Rent a Boyfriend by Gloria Chao is a fun, fast-paced story that is sure to tug at your heartstrings. A refreshing read that issue to take you on an emotional roller coaster full of drama, lots of laughs, and sweet romance.