Ten Rules for Faking It by Sophie Sullivan was a delightful romance concerning a radio talk show and the famous fake to real lovers trope (no real surprise). I greatly enjoyed this work as a fast paced read, but it was not my favorite over al due to some of the present stereotypes and cliches.

Poor Everly started another birthday terribly. This is nothing new for her, she has been through this many times before. But, darn, Stacy didn't have to make it worse. All of the bad birthdays she's been through and her parents crazy relationship really set her up to find love, finally. Had she not had this awful on air experience, Chris and her would have never broke out of their shell and become friendly, especially not flirty. Her past experiences threaten to end her new friendship. It was fun to go through the ups and downs with her. Recommend this fun read.

The main character of this book, Everly, suffers from anxiety and at times it was hard for me to read because it felt so similar to being in my own head. Absolutely loved how patient and thoughtful Chris was. And everyone needs a Stacey (the steadfast best friend of Everly) in their lives. Overall very mild steam but big on heart!

While I enjoyed this book, and i really appreciated having a main character with social anxiety, i couldn’t seem to be invested in the romance. I really loved the concept of “the bachelor” but over the radio, except that isn’t really what this was. This turned out to be a workplace romance. There’s nothing wrong with that, but I really wanted more from the radio part of the story. The main character goes on all these dates and we barely get to know about them (which i understand because they’re not the love interest, but i wanted one of them to be).

Ten Rules for Faking It is a sweet, slow burn office romance with great anxiety rep, but it fell a little flat for me.

On her 30th birthday, radio producer Everly catches her boyfriend cheating and then accidentally spills the story on air. Listeners rally around Everly and want to help her to find love, so her boss, Chris, suggests a dating show a-la the bachelorette to boost ratings and help Everly find happily ever after.

What I loved: The portrayal of Everly’s anxiety was (hand signal). When we’re in her head, we see her triggers and the thoughts going through her mind that occasionally lead to panic attacks. I really enjoyed this representation and discussion around mental health. Chris is sweet and supportive as can be. He really accepts Everly and her anxiety and is there for her without trying to change her. He’s a great match for her.

Which leads me to what I didn’t love: Everly’s best friend and her parents have NO IDEA how to be there for her. I really disliked her friend Stacey who was either pushing Everly into uncomfortable situations or getting annoyed with her when she had panic attacks. Like, really? Phrases such as “you’re fine” and “why do you do this?” had me super angry. She was honestly a terrible friend and her parents were pretty bad too.

SO! While these side characters pulled me out of the story and made me upset, I did enjoy the romance between Everly and Chris. I know lots of people loved this, so if you enjoy sweet, slow burn romances you may love this too!

🌟🌟🌟.5

Ten Rules For Faking It is a slow paced story. I don't feel excited to finish this book but I did it anyway. It was a cute love story.

Everly has a bad luck when it comes to her birthday. But the latest one is the shittiest birthday ever because she found her boyfriend hooked up with his assistant. Goshh that suck!!

Her bestfriend, Stacey who is a DJ wanted to surprise Everly so she wanted to wish her birthday while she was on air without Everly knowing but opsssss Everly accidently told Stacey bout what that fucker did. Everyone is listening lol But it turns out cool because everyone wanted her to have a happy ending.
Her boss, Chris got an idea to make a dating contest on the radio to help Everly found her love and to help their radio station.

Thank you Netgalley, publisher and author for this ARC!

rating: 3.5/5

Things I liked: I'm a sucker for a dual POV! I also appreciated how anxiety was portrayed in this book; I think it was handled with class and dignity. As someone who has anxiety, there were many moments throughout the book that I thought, "YES! That's exactly how it feels!" And I think the relationship between Everly and Chris was really sweet and easy to love.

Things that I didn't love: this was a slowwwww burn. I wanted a bit more romance between Everly and Chris.

Overall, I thoroughly enjoyed reading this and would recommend to anyone who likes office romances, or The Bachelorette!

I enjoyed this romance about Everly who writes a list of ten things she wants to change about her life on her 30th birthday. I liked her list and how she actively strove to stick to her goals to improve her life. I was so inspired by her list that I created my own list of ten rules for 2021! I loved the characters and found them to be likable. I related well with Everly because we have similar personalities and I, too suffer from anxiety. I loved that she had her best friend, Stacey, and her boss/love interest, Guy, there to give her the support she needed. I would recommend this book to readers that enjoy a fun, light, romantic book!
Thank you to NetGalley and St. Martin's Press for the ARC in exchange for my honest review!

3.5 stars

Everly celebrated her birthday by learning that her boyfriend was cheating on her. In order to get ratings up, radio station manager Chris suggested a Bachelor-themed radio show segment in which Everly would find her Mr. Right with the help of the audience. Except Chris had been in love with Everly since he stepped into the station.

Ten Rules for Faking It was a cute read with the love interest stealing the show. Everly suffered from social anxiety; however, her anxiety mostly served as a foil to her dating challenges. As someone who only has mild social anxiety, I can’t speak to the authenticity of Sullivan’s portrayal, but I was expecting a bit more introspection regarding Everly’s anxiety.

Chris was a sweet and supportive love interest. Chris came from a large family and I liked his relationship with his brothers. I’m somewhat hopeful that Sullivan explores all of Chris’ siblings in future books.

One aspect I enjoyed was that Everly and Chris had to address how much their families had negatively impacted them. From that slow realization, they were able to begin the healing journey.

Sophie Sullivan’s debut novel was sweet and will attract readers who enjoy a slow burn romance with low heat.

Ten Rules for Faking It is one of those novels that is nothing like you expect it to be and that’s not a bad thing. Exploring how a young woman lives with debilitating anxiety and panic attacks within the setting of a romantic comedy about a radio producer’s 30th birthday and the changes she decides to make to improve her life, the novel is sweet, emotional, humorous, angsty, and entertaining.

Unfortunately, things seem to always go disastrously wrong on radio producer Everly Dean’s birthdays, which is why she probably should have been prepared for her 30th of all birthdays to really suck worse than any of the other’s. There’s a whole list, notably her parents’ first split and the year she had to have her tonsils out. Somehow, however, she found herself woefully unprepared. First, she finds out with her very own eyes that her boyfriend is cheating on her with his assistant. To deal with this disastrous start to her 3Os she comes up with some rules/guidelines to help her make it through with her sanity intact and without becoming bitter. Then, her DJ best friend, Stacy, fails to mute her mic while Everly rants on air about her cheating ex for all the world to hear to her complete embarrassment.

That would be bad enough but then her boss at the radio station, Chris, who she finds cute and might be attracted to feels sorry for her and starts talking to her today of all days – after ignoring her very existence the entire time that he has worked at the station and being so standoffish with her that she’s convinced he must hate her. After Everly’s rant about her ex and the listeners’ response and some chatting between Everly and Stacy on air, Chris comes up with a promotion to find Everly a better boyfriend like the Bachelorette.

I love the way the novel starts off. It draws you into the story and into Everly’s world immediately, making you care about her. Sullivan’s description is vivid and her development of Everly’s character is fitting. Everly suffers from debilitating anxiety, a lot of which seemed to be worsened by her parents on again/off again relationship and the stress from playing middleman and the grown up in her dealings with their immature antics. It wouldn’t surprise me if it didn’t stem from her parent’s relationship all together. Everly’s self-soothing/calming measures are a nice touch to add to her character development and enrich her character. While some of the situations in which she finds herself because of her parents are humorous, it’s mostly not cool and very frustrating. Initially, I thought the novel would be more humorous throughout based on the beginning. There is humor sprinkled in places but for the most part, it’s more angsty and emotional, to me it read like more of a romantic drama with bits of humor. The dates along with Everly’s list increase her anxiety, but they also broaden her horizons and help her to grow over the course of the novel.

I loved the interactions between Chris and Everly. You can see Everly begin to step outside her comfort zone when she is with him and that’s nice development for her character. You also can see Chris softening and not hiding as much of his emotions and personality as they spend more time together. Although the story is told in both Everly’s and Chris’ viewpoints, it seems like we get more of a view of Everly’s emotions for most of the story, which impacts how we see Chris and limits how we can connect to his character emotionally.

I felt like Stacy’s character was underdeveloped, aside from being the reliable best friend who was ride or die and always there for Everly. Her life was missing on its own, which was unfortunate, because from what we learned about her she seemed very cool and crucial to Stacy’s well-being. She also holds her accountable, which is so important. Clearly, Everly’s emotional issues and anxiety are something that she is not able to control most of the time. Still, she seems to sometimes take Stacy for granted and not consider her feelings when she becomes overwhelmed or has a panic attack. Maybe it’s a product of how most of her relationships come off as one-sided because she is so closed off and self-protective, understandably so.

Ten Rule for Faking It has some nicely written scenes that totally draw you in and those moments are a joy to read. The story flows and the pages fly by, including moments where Everly is overwhelmed by her anxiety. However, other times when Everly’s anxiety becomes the monster that consumes the story and keeps you from being able to learn about the other characters important to the story and their viewpoints the pacing slows, and it becomes a frustrating read. Perhaps, that is authorial intent to show the all-consuming nature of this disease, but this is clear from Everly’s story, her character development, and interactions with Stacy and Chris, as well as other characters. So, it’s not necessary. A more balanced approach in developing all three characters I think would have resolved this issue.

Although Ten Rules for Faking it falls short on the full-on humor of the average romantic comedy and has some character and pacing issues, it is a heartfelt, evocative, introspective, sweet, angsty, and humorous romantic drama about first learning to accept yourself as you are and then taking responsibility for your own happiness to begin making changes to grow as a person and to improve your life.

Super cute and a great quick read!
Romcoms are some of my favorite reads when I want to just relax and enjoy a good book. This one did not disappoint!
The angst, the plot, and the overall romance was just what I needed during a stressful time to help me feel “at home”.

DNF @ ~40%: I'm sad to say that this book just did not work for me. It wasn't necessarily a terrible book, but even after 150 pages I really struggled to connect to or care at all about the characters or anything that was happening. I also found myself rolling my eyes a bit at the cheesiness of the way the dialogue / inner monologues were written and I just got to a point where I couldn't look past it any further. Overall, this book wasn't The Worst, but it just did absolutely nothing for me and I didn't want to force myself to finish when I knew I wouldn't have rated it more than 2 stars in the end. Womp.

I made it about 40% of the way through this book before I lost interest. The pacing was very slow and I struggled to feel invested in the Everly and Chris's romance. I did enjoy the characters and found them relatable and funny. Chris was stuck between a rock and a hard place with his dad controlling every aspect of his professional life. I wanted to shake him and say "branch out, find your own way!" I think I related to him more than Everly though. She found out her boyfriend was cheating on her birthday and inadvertently shared her frustrations to the live audience of the radio show she produced. She was shy, struggled with anxiety, and although good at her job didn't strive to expand or do more. She agrees to do a Bachelorette type dating show on their radio program which felt so wrong to this type of character. I just couldn't connect with her that much.

Overall, characters were cute and the plot was interesting but the pacing was too slow and I struggled to get into the book.

Never have I felt more seen or connected with a main character more than I did with Everly!!
Sophie Sullivan hit the nail on the head when she wrote about Everly and her struggles with anxiety and how she navigates dating and life. The whole story centers around the ten rules for faking it that Everly writes for herself after turning 30, as a way to get her life together. As someone with anxiety that can get out of hand at times THIS HAPPENS ALL THE TIME. And I don’t mean this particular list, but lists in general are an anxiety-ridden person’s lifeline. The overall storyline for this one was so good and did I mention it’s a fricking DEBUT!! I didn’t realize this until after I was done reading and seriously it just made me love this one more. Solid characters and story for this one and gets 4.5 well deserved stars!!

As a thank you to Netgalley and St. Martin’s Press for an advanced reader’s copy of Sophie Sullivan’s debut novel “Ten Rules for Faking it.” What is worse than seeing your boyfriend cheat on you than to see him cheating on you with his assistant? For Everly Dean, this acts as a wake-up call to change her life. This appears by addressing three main areas of her life her family, career, and relationships, and by creating ten rules to navigate them. This novel inserts known elements from Sleepless in Seattle, and The Bachelorette in this romantic comedy. A highlight of the novel is its ability to depict social anxiety disorder. The mental health representation in this novel is everything. It follows the step by step process to which this disorder affects the individual ex. rapid and irrational thoughts, rumination, feelings of discomfort when in social situations, and more. Overall I give this novel three out of five stars on Goodreads. I recommend it for those who enjoy light-hearted romance novels.

Everly struggles with bad luck on her birthdays, but this year topped them all. After discovering her cheating boyfriend, she then accidentally rants about her love life on the radio show she produces. As someone riddled with anxiety, there's nothing worse then having the entire town know about her personal life.

However, when the radio station decides to spin this into a Bachelorette-style dating show, she agrees in the hopes of overcoming some of her fears and finding the perfect guy to date. She slowly realizes she wants nothing more than her station manager, Chris though.

I had high hopes for this rom com since it features two of my favorite tropes - office romance and friends to lovers. However, I found myself struggling to connect with the characters and their budding relationship. It was eye-opening to read about someone who deals with anxiety and how it infiltrates her life. Ultimately though, there was something missing from Chris and Everly and their relationship.

This book was absolutely adorable. The writing was fantastic and I was rooting for the characters so hard! I am absolutely obsessed! I have already recommended it to multiple friends and I purchased a final copy as soon as I was able to! The writing felt fresh, even though I read a lot of romance. I was leery of the fact that Chris is Everly's boss. I didn't feel like that was a romance trope that I would be interested in reading again, but I was so pleasantly surprised! I loved it! It was a sweet, soft story that was exactly what I needed.

There were some aspects that I loved about this book and others that made it hard for me to fully enjoy. I love the representation of friendship and social anxiety. I also really liked how the couple loved each other. I didn’t like however how they came to love each other. It was Insta-love and I don’t ever find that credible. I also had some issues with the dialogue but that was relatively minor. Overall I liked this book and it was a great read for my holiday.

OMG! Everly Dean is me! I suffer from horrible anxiety, and to read a character like myself was so comforting. Like Everly, I found someone who understands all my anxieties and he loves me even more for them. This was a great representation of an anxiety disorder. Oh, and I really loved the story too!

*Thank you to @stmartinspress and @netgalley for the copy in exchange for an honest review.*

I enjoyed "Ten Rules for Faking It" by Sophie Sullivan. And would definitely recommend it. It was a light, easy read, perfect for when you just want to drown out everything. The main character, Everly" is easy to like. She is sweet, but has huge anxiety issues. Her best friend, Stacey, is a hoot and her parents are also something else. The love interest in this book is her boss, Chris, but neither one of them wants to admit to the attraction. This book should be placed on your reading list!