4.5 stars

The beginning of this piece feels as intended: like an otherworldly dream. I was totally lost in the imagery from the jump and definitely got sucked in to the romance right away....but this is much more than just a romance novel!

Grace Porter, who is interchangeably referred to as Grace, Porter, and Grace Porter, begins the novel with what is promised in the summary: the discovery that she has married someone she doesn't appear to know well on a trip to Las Vegas. But this is only one part of Grace's life, and it's not really the central focus of the work, which I grew to love quickly. Grace is at a number of turning points, and I loved watching her grapple with and come to terms with various aspects of her experience: some she keeps forcing down and others she seems ready to face bravely. The romance piece is there, but it's not all there is.

For her part, Grace lives the whole love yourself before you can love someone else motif, but she does it in an authentic and unique way. I found her character - and really all of the characters - totally endearing, and I loved the intersectional rep throughout. I will definitely be back for anything Rogers writes. Solidly recommended -

Honey Girl checks off a lotof boxes, and incredibly well too. I don't think this is nearly as much a romance ur relationship fiction so much as a self discovery or self love story.- and that is incredibly welcome. Honey Girl smashed my existing expectations in the best. way.

Finished Honey Girl and absolutely loved it! It’s a fresh story that deals with hope, possibility, the complex questions of “what does my best mean?” “what’s my path?” “What do I want out of my life?” The authors words and descriptions read like poetry. She perfectly captured that uncertainty many feel when the life you’ve worked hard for doesn’t turn out the way you want. I loved all of the supporting characters (Yuki, Agnes, Ximena); they felt fleshed out and diverse. I liked that the main protagonist was biracial, queer and doctor of astronomy. Author did a great job of explaining and encompassing the struggles of being the “only one” of having to work twice as hard.

This is an excellent book, if you're ready for it. While there are plenty of fun, funny, and lighthearted moments, there are at least as many deep, painful, and contemplative ones. Prepare yourself for a full gamut of emotions and enjoy the ride!

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This book has so much amazing rep! I loved seeing that an author finally took the time to write a vibrant and diverse queer community within a book! I loved seeing that and I loved this book!
This book is marked at romance but truly I would call it women's fiction. This book does not strictly focus on the romance but instead weaves it into a beautifully raw story of a woman's life. This book felt so very real and I could not put it down.
I seriously can not wait to see this book out there on shelves and to see how popular it gets! I am going to be recing and talking about this one for ages. A top 5 favorite for sure!

I really wanted to love this book (especially with that gorgeous cover!) and I'm sad that it didn't hit that mark for me. The evolution of Grace & Yuki's relationship was unclear to me -- how did they fall in love? I wish this had been explored more, especially since it's such a large part of the book's description. Also, I thought some of the dialogue was unrealistic, especially the constant, grating repetition of "Grace Porter" by every character in the book, including Grace herself.

With that said, though, this book will certainly find its audience. I went through a few solid years in my twenties where I felt lost and unsure of what to do next with my career and life. I suspect many readers of that age will relate to this feeling, and will find inspiration in watching as Grace navigates through it. Also. I loved the racially diverse cast of characters and the portrayal of strong, deeply-rooted friendships. So while HONEY GIRL wasn't for me, I think many young folks will eat this book right up.

I loved the premise of this novel: a 28-year-old who has just achieved her goal of a PhD in Astronomy now feels lost. Grace's story was more serious than I was expecting from a drunk Vegas wedding setup, but I enjoyed getting to know her friends and family and see how she worked out her emotional journey, though the romance with Yuki felt like more of a low burn in the background. The writing had a romantic style - flowery and delicate. The many specific details woven in about Grace's ethnicity and culture really helped add depth to her character development (this goes for secondary characters as well). I would recommend Honey Girl and read more by the author in the future.

Lots of larger-than-life characters! I especially loved Yuki. Her stories about monsters were so beautiful!

Honey Girl had me hooked within the first few pages. It is an easy read with a cute storyline. A+ for a diverse range of characters. Would've liked to hear a bit more of their stories.
The novel did fall a bit short of my high expectations. I really wanted to love it (great premise!) but by the end, it felt a bit cliché and surface-y. The main character was lacking in complexity, and I didn't love the depiction of mental illnesses, which also seemed very superficial. Otherwise, it was enjoyable. 3.5/5

I really wanted to love this book because I love the premise, and how it centers on BIPOC queer characters, but I mostly found the main character to be lacking in depth. The book digs deep into the concerns many of us have faced as millennials who have achieved the goals they've set from a young age, and aren't sure how to proceed. It definitely speaks to the struggles of BIPOC queer people to be respected in the world, and I appreciate those aspects of it.

The writing style is sometimes hard to follow, and I wish there was more behind the main characters decision making and feelings. Also, the author writes in great detail about the strength of the main characters friendships, so it feels really out of character when she completely ignores them for months late into the book. I did appreciate the promising ending, and overall the story was good. I'd definitely give it 3.5 stars if I had the option.

Vivid language appeals to the five senses. The characters and their friends are real individual people, and their strong chosen family bonds are great to see. Diverse characters represent various races, gender identities, sexualities, and mental health issues, which are treated as a ordinary aspects of the person, not giant, negative, or defining characteristics. The friends are interesting enough that I would read more about them, but it didn't feel like a merely a formula setup for a series. Somewhat reminds me of Weetzie Bat, but less disjointed (in a good way). Maybe wouldn't get much traction at my small rural library, but I really enjoyed it.

This might be the most unique romance novel I have ever read. It doesn't read like a typical contemporary romance you might expect from an opening where the main character wakes up married after a drunken night in Vegas.

This book has weight and depth along with the romance. The characters are complex and real and each group Grace encounters (her friends, her wife's roommates, her parents) are so real, so alive.

This was not the book I expected but I loved it. Highly recommend.

This is a great story -- difficult to describe without spoilers. When her father and stepmother give her tickets to Las Vegas for a weekend to celebrate her PhD graduation, Grace Porter doesn't expect it to change her life, but it does.
Her complicated family, drive for perfection, and perfectly executed life plan don't leave a lot of space for romance or new adventures, so Grace is not sure how to react.

The characters in the book are people you would like to know, or people you DO know and would like to forget. Grace's journey is as unique as her profession and ambition and as quirky as her family.

Highly recommended.

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This is Rogers’ debut and it is FANTASTIC. If I were to print my highlighted sections, I would have 6 pages of highlights. It is at times hard to read

CW: Mental illness (main & secondary character, mentions of self harm (skin picking/scratching), codependency, strict military dad, troubled parental relationships

Honey Girl is not a romance, but it does have romantic elements. Grace, our main protagonist is a Sad Girl ™. The book opens up with her hazy reflections of getting drunkenly married the night before. The person she married is unknown to her but did leave some clues behind. Grace is trying to figure out her next steps in life as well as decide what to do about her wife.

What happened in Vegas is tucked away in her suitcase. It is under her shirt in the shape of a key. It is hidden in her hair with the last little bits of dried petals. It hides in the gold ring wrapped around her finger like a brand.

This is really a book about friendship and acceptance and overcoming hurts. Grace is surrounded by an amazing group of found family. I wanted every single one of them to be my friend. They accepted each other exactly as they are. They love each other deeply and unconditionally. At times it is a little codependent but also very relatable. This is something that Rogers tells us about Grace’s circle.

This is the thing: for as lonely and solitary as Grace feels, she is not alone. She has Raj and Meera. She has Agnes. To the very marrow of her, down to the studs, she has Ximena. Raj and Meera are her family, not blood, but flesh and spirit and heart. Agnes is her best friend. Ximena is who she will grab onto when the world ends, and they will watch it burn to ash before they follow. They are two Black girls with their backs against the wall, and on the very good days, Grace likes their odds.

And this-

“You good?” Ximena asks, and Grace nods. “Positive? You don’t have to be good yet.” She taps a finger four times against Grace’s pulse. Love. you. so. much. Love you so much it hurts.

Grace is LONELY although she is not alone. Her journey to discovering this is beautiful and very sad. Grace learns there is a lot she must deal with in order to move on.

Here is the thing about the tar, the sludge, the inky black poison. Once it starts its ascent out of your body, there is nothing you can do to stop it. It tastes like volcano ash and fire, and you must taste it, and gag on it, and ultimately, you must spit it out. There comes a time when you cannot swallow it down any longer. Everything that is buried will be unburied. Everything that is pushed down will find its way out. It is the way of the universe.

Please consider putting this on your TBR for 2021. If you like Sad Girl books (Beach Read, 99 Percent Mine) I think you would like this. Or if you really liked reading about Samiah’s job in The Boyfriend Project, I think you might like this. I think that readers who are looking for a book that does not center a character around whiteness would enjoy this book.

In summary- Rogers debut is fantastic. It made me cry more than once. I wanted to hug Grace. I wanted Ximena to hug me and tap out a message to me. I can not wait for more people to read this so we can talk about it.

Grade: A+

Honey Girl is such a refreshing story about a 29-year-old figuring her life and career out after finishing up her doctorate in astronomy. All of this is made more complicated by drunkenly getting married in Vegas. I really enjoyed following Grace's journey, but part of me was wishing for more romantic tension and development. Some readers will think it had the perfect amount of that, but I was wishing for a little more, I suppose. I would love to see a companion novel about Grace's roommates!

Man, what a book. The word that I feel describes this book to me is, Delicate, and I mean that in the best way. The way she intertwined these characters reminded me of the flowiness( is that a word?) of poetry and it was so beautiful. Beautiful writing, diverse cast, and so many layers of complexities. A beautiful expression of art.

I stayed up all night to read this book. I cried and laughed and saw a lot of relatable moments for Black girls at the end of their academic career and lost. I appreciated that none of the racial family or friendship dynamics were glossed over. The organic way everyone's racial makeup is woven into the story from Porter being biracial to Yuki being Japanese American to Raj and Meera being Indian. No one is allowed to default to being white, ever. I loved the visuals and way the language was able to appeal to all five senses. I loved the frank discussions of mental health and therapy, including interviewing therapists to find the right fit. It's just an all around good book, and I can't wait to share it with readers.