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The Spoon Stealer

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I purchased this book because I did not get to it on time. I LOVE Lesley Crewe and her books. As an east coaster, her voice is spot on and perfect for the hardworking people of the East Coast of Canada and down through the Maine coast would be able to identify with this hardworking way of life. The Spoon Stealer is another one of my favorites going on my Lesley Crewe section of my bookshelf as I have all her books. I would highly recommend! Don't walk...run to get her books!

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This book was an absolute joy to read. Emmaline and Vera are so delightful.

The Spoon Stealer came highly recommended by Genevieve Graham, who I am a big fan of. She pretty much came running to me, telling me I had to read it. If she felt so highly of it, I know I had to read it. And she was not wrong. Now I am running around telling everyone they need to read it.

The writing of this story is rich and engaging. The story is packed with detail. It is three hundred some off pages, but took me longer than normal for this size to read. But I enjoyed every minute of it.

This book is about family, love, friendship, loss, forgiveness, hope, courage and so so much more. It has a little bit of everything, which makes it such a lovely read. It also has all of the emotions. I mean all of them. One page you are laughing and the next you are crying. The story, writing and characters truly draw you in.

The story is split into two parts. The first focuses on the background and the second on the contemporary time. Both were equally beautiful and enjoyable. I feel the background provided for more attachment to Emmaline in the present time.

The ending was as perfect as it could be. But I was left craving more. To me, that it a sign of a very wonderful book.

I highly recommend it to everyone. I guarantee you will find something in it for you. It will pull at your heart strings.

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Thank you to NetGalley for the ARC in exchange for an honest review. Sometimes life takes a person away from their reading and sometimes reading can spirit you away from your life. This is one of THOSE books—A book that is funny, fun and so charming.. it’s not full of exciting but it is full of love; it is a book that will enfold you and make the world seem a nicer place..

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I received a copy of the book from Netgalley to review.. Thank you for the opportunity.
A interesting story with an unique and quirky heroine that the reader will instantly find likable and warm to immediately.
A good read.

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oh my gosh, i loved this book so much! such a charming and heartwarming story - literally brought tears to my eyes - but i shouldn't be surprised because i have loved everything i have read by Lesley Crewe!

highly recommend to one and all!!

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A well crafted story of family ties that is equal parts charming and heart breaking. The Spoon Stealer by Lesley Crewe will leave the reader emotionally spent yet satisfied.

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You all know I love Genevieve Graham's books. So when she told me I had to read Lesley Crewe's The Spoon Stealer, well, I trusted her judgement. I'm so glad she recommended this historical fiction (written by another Canadian!) to me because I absolutely, completely, totally loved it.

Here's the synopsis:
Born into a basket of clean sheets—ruining a perfectly good load of laundry—Emmeline never quite fit in on her family's rural Nova Scotian farm. After suffering multiple losses in the First World War, her family became so heavy with grief, toxicity, and mental illness that Emmeline felt their weight smothering her. And so, she fled across the Atlantic and built her life in England. Now she is retired and living in a small coastal town with her best friend, Vera, an excellent conversationalist. Vera is also a small white dog, and so Emmeline is making an effort to talk to more humans. When she joins a memoir-writing course at the library, her classmates don't know what to make of her. Funny, loud, and with a riveting memoir, she charms the lot. As her past unfolds for her audience, friendships form, a bonus in a rather lonely life. She even shares with them her third-biggest secret: she has liberated hundreds of spoons over her lifetime—from the local library, Cary Grant, Winston Churchill. She is a compulsive spoon stealer.
When Emmeline unexpectedly inherits the farm she grew up on, she knows she needs to leave her new friends and go see the farm and what remains of her family one last time. She arrives like a tornado in their lives, an off-kilter Mary Poppins bossing everyone around and getting quite a lot wrong. But with her generosity and hard-earned wisdom, she gets an awful lot right too. A pinball ricocheting between people, offending and inspiring in equal measure, Emmeline, in her final years, believes that a spoonful—perhaps several spoonfuls—of kindness can set to rights the family so broken by loss and secrecy.
Oh, this book. It made my heart so full. Emmeline was such a joy to read about. Her storytelling (and therefore Crewe's) was so amazing and I really felt like I was following Emmeline around as she was reading her memoir and then traveling to Canada to meet her family.

It did feel like a really long book, though it's just 360 pages. Normally I'm a remarkably fast reader but it took me awhile to finish this one. I think it's because Crewe adds in a lot of detail, plus I was so enthralled in the story and the way it was told that I may have been lingering over the words a bit longer than usual. That said, the beginning does drag ever so slightly but the set up pays off for the rest of the story.




Do yourself a favour and read the author's note at the end, too. Crewe explains how the story came to be and what parts of it were inspired by her own family. I love hearing how novels come to life.

I hadn't really thought too much about how the book's description mentions Emmeline's spoon stealing was her third biggest secret. The other two secrets are big ones and they explain so much about Emmeline's life and how she's been living it.

The Spoon Stealer is one of those novels that will burrow into your heart and stay there. It's also a really hard one to review because I don't want to give anything away and I just want to shove it into your hands and say, "READ IT!" I was close to tears as I reached the end of Lesley Crewe's latest novel. It's a well written, engaging story featuring a main character who is unique and completely lovable. You'll love every moment you spend with Emmeline.

*An egalley of this novel was provided by the publisher, Nimbus Publishing, via NetGalley in exchange for review consideration. All opinions are honest and my own.*

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💫 Book Review 💫 ⁣
𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐒𝐩𝐨𝐨𝐧 𝐒𝐭𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐞𝐫 by 𝘓𝘦𝘴𝘭𝘦𝘺 𝘊𝘳𝘦𝘸𝘦⁣

She collected them as she went through life... but It was never about the spoon. It was about what the spoon represents: kindness, meals shared, loss, family members, friends and the in-between of life. ⁣

I close this book with a blotchy face and the feeling of a character that found a place to stay in my heart. Emmeline Darling... is that not the most loveliest name of a woman that had a hard life but managed to find a way to shake herself off and keep going. ⁣

This book begins with Emmeline joining a writers group: she’s in her 70’s but going to share her memoir with an electric group of ladies that grow to be her friends over the life she still has yet to live. Em shares her past; reading to the group about being the only daughter of 5 children on a small farm in the east coast of 🇨🇦. As the story unfolds you learn why and how she ended up in the UK.. with a collection of spoons that may seem worthless to others and yet the most precious things she has. ⁣

Delight in her friendship with her dog Vera; cry as you learn about what both wars do to her family and perhaps let your mind go to your own family’s history 💛 ⁣

I’ll leave you with this... this book is a slow, steady stream of words that feels like an old blanket to pick up when you need it. This book is what I would call a comfort book. It’s not fast paced, it’s not a thriller, it’s rather a steady beat of life running through it. Which is what many of our journeys are in this world. ⁣

𝘛𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘬 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘵𝘰 @𝘨𝘦𝘯 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘨𝘦𝘮. 𝘛𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘬 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘵𝘰 𝘮𝘺 𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥 @𝘬𝘢 𝘸𝘩𝘰 𝘬𝘯𝘦𝘸 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘐 𝘸𝘰𝘶𝘭𝘥 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦 𝘪𝘵 𝘢𝘴 𝘮𝘶𝘤𝘩 𝘢𝘴 𝘩𝘦𝘳. 𝘈𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘯𝘬 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘵𝘰 @𝘭𝘦𝘴𝘭𝘦𝘺 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘨𝘪𝘧𝘵𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘸𝘰𝘳𝘭𝘥 𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘩 𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘴 𝘣𝘦𝘢𝘶𝘵𝘪𝘧𝘶𝘭 𝘯𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘭 𝘰𝘯 𝘚𝘦𝘱𝘵𝘦𝘮𝘣𝘦𝘳 𝟹𝟶, 𝟸𝟶𝟸𝟶. ⁣

“𝐀 𝐬𝐩𝐨𝐨𝐧𝐟𝐮𝐥 𝐨𝐟 𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐝𝐧𝐞𝐬𝐬”⁣

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This book comes highly recommended from a number of sources and sometimes that’s not always a good thing, expectations are elevated.

The location drew me right in, a Canadian setting by a new-to-me Canadian author, that’s bonus points right off the bat. It wasn’t hard to like Emmeline, the story opens with her attending a memoir writing class. The Spoon Stealer is her story told in dual time periods. Making new friends is a bonus from this class that highlights how important having good friends is.

The year is 1968, it’s a lot of living for someone born in 1896. The author doesn’t hold back in all the challenges Emmeline faced, heartbreaking at times to read. However, the author has a knack for making me smile at some of her antics and dealing with family.

The Spoon Stealer is a story of relationships, good and bad, perseverance and the significance of the simple spoon. Lighthearted with serious undertones that mesh together nicely. Emmeline’s friend Vera stole the show for me, great addition that added that extra sparkle to this book.

The only thing I struggled with was the length especially towards the end, it was just a tad long winded but I totally get the direction the author was going.

My thanks to Nimbus Press, via Netgalley for an advanced copy in exchange for honest review.

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‘Everyone thinks their own lives aren’t very special, but that is so far from the truth. Ordinary lives are as glorious as great lives’ ..Emmeline attends a memoir writing course at the library and begins to read out the first pages of her life story. Her audience is completely mesmerised by the tale that unfolds and asks for more. That’s how I felt about this book - this is story writing at its very best. I chose this book because I’d read so many good reviews but from the unusual title I wasn’t entirely sure what to expect. This is a beautiful story - the story of Emmeline’s life which is anything but ordinary; it’s the story of an ordinary life becoming a great life. Emmeline is a young girl growing up with her parents and brothers in Nova Scotia. She’s large and ungainly and lives in a world where women are subservient but she has a brother who believes in her. The book is beautifully written, quirky with a sharp sense of humour and a bit of magical realism. It’s also an extraordinary tale about women - the strength of women, the amazing relationships women form with each other and what they overcome. The second half of the novel is about Emmeline restoring the relationships described in the first half and making peace with the life she had led. For me the first half was perfect, slightly less so the second half hence the four stars but this was an absolutely wonderful read and I shed so many tears. The book has many wonderful characters- Emmeline is full of courage and strength, humour and intuition; her brother Teddy is warm, loyal and loving and it is he who tells Emmeline, ‘That’s all it needed. Just a spoonful of kindness.’ And of course there is Vera the dog who is definitely one of the best literary dogs I’ve ever met. The story is full of wonderful moments - conversations between Vera and Emmeline, the memoir reading sessions as the ladies gather to share Emmeline’s story, Emmeline’s epic journey from Nova Scotia to England in search of her wounded brother. At the end of the book Crewe explains some of the history which fed into the story which adds to the sense of an epic tale. This is such an original and beautiful piece of story writing. With thanks to Netgalley and Vagrant Press for a digital copy of this amazing story.

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I approached this novel with only a general knowledge of the premise. I found Matt Haig's writing kept the promise of the premise. What if there was somewhere you could go to explore the "What if's?" in your life. What an opportunity, would you want a go over or a do over? The main character took a little getting used to for me, however I did sense there was some growth in the character throughout her adventures. That growth made me accept the character more readily. The story moves slowly at times, and can seem repetitive - but how many times do YOU have to experience something to learn a lesson?
I think The Midnight Library would be a strong book discussion selection. 3.5
I received my copy through NetGalley under no obligation.

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Every few years a book comes along that resonates with your soul and The Spoon Stealer is that book for me. I couldn’t put it down and I was so sad to have it end. I felt like I had lost a best friend or an amazing family member. When a book feels like this to you , you know you have found an amazing author. Lesley Crewe writes exquisite books and while I have really enjoyed her books, nothing prepares me for The Spoon Stealer. I laughed out loud so many times at Emmeline’s and Vera’s antics, felt my heart swell with love and sobbed hysterically. Another book has never done that to me.

This is a tale of an amazing woman from her teenage years through to her senior years. We learn different aspects of her life mixing the past and present together into a moving story of life, love, loss and friendship. Along with the many people Emmeline meets throughout her life, none is a better friend than her dog and confident, Vera. If you love dogs you will fall in love with this book also (the dog is never harmed). I love that the author always includes Nova Scotia in her books as there is nothing more exciting than to read a book and have been in the places the character is living.

Nimbus Publishing continues it’s to support not only Maritime authors but truly amazing authors. Thank you to Nimbus and NetGalley for giving me the privilege of reading this beautiful book.

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The Spoon Stealer is historical fiction, inspired loosely by some events in the author’s family around the time of World War I. In this story, the current day is 1968, Emmeline is 74 years old and takes a memoir-writing class at the local library in a small town on the southeast coast of England. Emmeline’s memoir goes back to the 1890s, to when she was born in Nova Scotia, Canada. This memoir writing class winds up bringing together a small group of women who become great friends.

Emmeline’s life is revealed gradually through the book, as we read portions of her memoir, from her childhood in rural Nova Scotia to living through both World Wars. She has a dog named Vera who “talks” to Em and is a great comfort to her, as she lives alone in her retirement. Em’s philosophy, learned from her favorite brother, Teddy, is “people who are hurt need a spoonful of kindness.”

A turning point in the book occurs about halfway in, when Em heads back to Nova Scotia to renew her relationship with her remaining relatives, after the family farm is left to her by her older brother. Em is Mary Poppins-like, stepping in to solve (or try to solve) all sorts of family problems.

I felt the author drew the various characters vividly, all of them coming to life as distinct individuals. The ending is a bit sentimental, and it did drag a bit in parts, but overall I really enjoyed Em’s story.

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I automatically read everything by Lesley Crewe writes. She’s amazing!
This book is fantastic!
One minute, I want to cry and the next, I’m laughing.
It’s pure magic!
The characters are well written and very real. I feel like I’ve met them irl.
Come and visit the Maritimes as only Lesley Crewe can write! You’ll be so glad you did.
Thanks to NetGalley and the publisher for providing an arc in exchange for my honest review.

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Thank you NetGalley, Lesley Crewe and Nimbus Publishing for the ARC of The Spoon Stealer. In exchange for this ARC this is my personal review.
This is the first book by Lesley Crewe I have read, and I know that I will be reading more.
I became attached to Emmeline and wanted to know all about her and her life. She reads parts from her memoir at a writing class she is taking in her small town. After the end of the class the group have bonded and they continue to meet to hear more about her life.
Thank you, Lesley Crewe, for giving me the life of Emmeline to enjoy.

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What a wonderful experience I've just had. Quirky, funny, and oh so emotional. This had reminders of Eleanor Oliphant for me at the start, but gradually this book developed into a book that was memorable in it's own right.
The first half of the book was much more engaging for me, I adored reading about Emmeline's memoir. The rest of the book was a little slower for me but still completely necessary to the book.
Amazing.

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1968- When retired Emmeline Darling signs up for a memoir writing class, she is unprepared for the fanfare from the other participants for her personal story. They decide on a weekly gathering to hear it all – the epic story of an amazing girl who rides the emotional tidal waves of life and is strong and stubborn enough to do what it takes to make things right. With each weekly class, her life’s heartbreaking story unfolds.

Born in 1894 in a basket of clean linens (which her mother would never let her forget). The only girl in a houseful of brothers, she is however, much closer to brothers John and Teddy. Teddy was her protector and always there when she needed him. When The Great War breaks out, all but one brother is sent overseas to fight along with the other brave men and women. Tragically, John is killed and Teddy badly injured. Her parents tuck the pain away, and refuse to talk about any of it. Worried for Teddy, the young Emmeline puts a plan in motion. So, in 1915 she sneaks away from her home in Nova Scotia and boards a ship to England to find him.

And now many decades later, and after living all of her adult life in England, it’s time to go back home to Canada.

The Spoon Stealer is not entirely Emmeline’s painful memoir, it is also funny and endearing. You see, Emmeline’s best friend is the quick-witted Vera – the talking dog she found. Oh, and have I mentioned that Emmeline is a thief? Hold on to your spoons people. Seriously, if Emmeline loves it, it will very quickly find its way into her pocket.

This book has the perfect balance of emotions, the silliness and the serious. With the added bonus of historical fiction which I love. There’s something cozy and colourful about this story with the underlining of tragedy and heartbreak like a Maud Lewis painting. Honestly, it’s safe to say, if you love A Man Called Ove by Fredrik Backman or Dear Emmie Blue by Lia Louis, you’ll love The Spoon Stealer. There really is something to be said about a book that has you 100% whole-heartedly invested in the protagonist as I was in Ove, Emmie Blue, and now Emmeline Darling. I already know that this book will very easily become one of my most recommended books of year.

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The Spoon Stealer is an absolutely wonderful historical fiction novel set between England and rural Nova Scotia. The story is about Emmeline (who is in her 70’s) and her looking back on her life through a memoir she has written and is sharing with other women in a writing class at the local library In England. This leads Emmeline to try and repair her relationships with her family in Nova Scotia that she hasn’t had contact with in many decades.

The characters in this book are so well written and I loved Emmeline and her dog Vera. I don’t think most younger people realize the long lives that seniors/elders live and the stories that they have. There was so much to Emmeline and there is a twist close to the end which I didn’t see coming. I really liked that Emmeline kept bits of herself for some of her closest friends (which I think is very real for most people). I also enjoyed how some of the characters were mean and said very hurtful things and that this book wasn’t about people suddenly becoming better people- it was about how there are sometimes going to be people in your life that will never be your friend and it’s ok and to not let it get to you.

I did cry numerous times while reading this book. It is very heartfelt and made me think of my own grandmother. I hope everyone enjoys this book as much as I have!

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Thank you to NetGalley and Nimbus Publishing for the eARC of The Spoon Stealer by Lesley Crewe. This is my honest and voluntary review.


Lesley Crewe had me teary within the first few chapters and ugly crying by the end of Miss Emmeline Darling's life story.

Emmeline & Vera were a great little duo, they made me laugh and seriously ponder lifes choices.

This is a story that covers so many things; loss, love, the love/hate relationships within a family, making new friends and the difficulties in choosing what may be best for you is not always best for others.

I'm giving this one 4☆ because at times it felt like it was dragging a bit but overall I really enjoyed this story and Lesley Crewe's writing is lovely.

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I just thought Emmeline was a bit too controlling and was not crazy about the talking dog. The book ‘s ending was like a lottery for all the people Emmeline liked. A tad unrealistic but if you like happy endings this book has that. I liked the setting of Nova Scotia as that is a beautiful part of Canada . The Spoon Stealer is a book that tries to see the good and positive in people. If you like a feel good book I would suggest this one.

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