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Alone in Plain Sight

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I followed Ben's journey on the Bachelor and enjoyed this book, which gave insight into his life outside the show and his perspective. Ben has a really good heart and talked a lot about the formative experiences in his life that have shaped his feeling "alone in plain sight" and what he's done to combat that feeling. I would recommend this title to anyone familiar with Ben or looking for an inspirational read that helps you reexamine your priorities.

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I enjoyed this read and am a fan of Ben Higgins. It wasn't as fast-paced as I had hoped, but I appreciate being on the book launch team and getting to learn more about Ben through that channel. Helped me connect with the book more.

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I had looked forward to reading this book based on knowing of Ben Higgins from his time on The Bachelor. I had no idea it was going to be so self help/faith focused. I could only get about halfway through and was disappointed in the focus of the book. For many who were coming to this book from the Bachelor franchise, it might be a bit of a disappointment. There is some good insight and self reflection, but it wasn't what I was looking for and unfortunately, cannot recommend. I appreciate netgalley and the publisher for giving me the opportunity to read this book.

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Overall it was a good book but maybe I just wasn’t in the right mindset for it. Ben had deep insight and you felt as if he was really pouring his heart out. The book was really religious. I’m not saying that is a bad thing. I expected it to be a theme since Ben has been so open about his faith. I understood a lot of what he was saying but maybe I just wasn’t feeling that way at the time to connect deeply with him. In a time of need, I can see myself reaching for this book though

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This was archived prior to me downloading it. I'm looking forward to reading it via purchase.
My star review is not accurate.

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Thanks so much for my copy! I am a big fan of the Bachelor series and loved learning more about Ben's upbringing and background, and some bachelor moments.

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I didn’t finish reading this because I wasn’t enjoying the book. It lacked depth for me and just not authentic enough.

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I always love Bachelor and Bachelorette memoirs. They are so fun and entertaining to read. It's an experience I can never dream of experiencing or wanting to experience, so it's fun to read from their perspectives.

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This book was like a balm for the soul that I didn’t even know I needed. Ben speaks so honestly about his experiences, and weaves in some powerful stories about impactful people from his life, that I think we can all relate to in some way or another. For anyone who has ever felt like an outsider, felt different, or felt lonely, this book so for you. It’s reassuring, inspiring, and gives you hope.

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Thanks to Netgalley and Thomas Nelson for a free copy I read with the audio from the library.

So I tried to read this book earlier this year in print and DNFed it, but when I went back to read some Bachelor Nation books I decided to do it on audio...and I still wanted to DNF it, but I persevered. Now, this isn't the worst. It just feels forced and while Ben has some good things to say, those things could have been said in a series of Instagram posts and served me better. This book is 240 pages and could easily be 100 and get what he had to say across.

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Interesting overall. I wouldn’t have expected his struggles given how he was portrayed on the Bachelor.

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This book was heartfelt and inspirational. It shows that you can never judge a (metaphorical) book by its cover. Even the most impressive and seemingly confident people have their demons.

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I didn't finish this book. Not quite what I expected, I guess. I wanted to read it because Mr. Higgins was raised close to my hometown. I'm sure there are several people who will enjoy this so for that reason my library will be purchasing this book.

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Wow this book was so much more than I expected it to be. I have followed Ben since he was on the Bachelor and thought this would be another tell all drama filled book, however it was so much more. Ben was so raw and vulnerable, I felt as if he was a friend speaking directly to me. This was such a well written honest story and I am thankful to have been given the opportunity to have read it, I will be suggesting this to everyone I know.

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Ben depicts his troubles with not feeling all that, all while his faith in God has remained strong. He touches on several relationships with people he's met along the way and how they have shaped his views and life thus far. He explains his company, Generous and his philanthropy work. Lastly, he touches on his role as the Bachelor, choosing Lauren, their breakup and finally finding love with Jessica.

Thanks to NetGalley for providing me with this advance copy in exchange for a review.

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Ben writes well, and the stories he shares are interesting. He has always seemed genuine and mindful. I didn't realize how religious he was, and how extremely religious this book would be. For those who enjoy religion and self-help, this book will be a favorite.

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I am a huge lover for the bachelor franchise! I was so excited for Ben’s autobiography because I loved him from Kaitlyn’s season. I really enjoyed this book and seeing his perspective through this book. I think he’s such a great person and role model.

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I am a sucker and had to read this. I was hooked on his season of bachelor. It was very interesting and insightful book. I’m gonna go tell others who loved him on the show to check it out. Thank you!

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I really enjoyed Ben Higgins' memoir. I was a fan of his on the bachelor and have always liked following him on social media as he comes across as a genuine and kind person, which this book confirms. This is not the juicy, tell-all bachelor memoir that some people may be wanting, but instead is more of his faith journey. I enjoyed listening to his stories and felt like he touched on a lot of points that many people will connect to, myself included. Ben is honest and raw, and though he is still young, he has had many experiences in his life that have shaped him into someone wise beyond his years.

Thank you to Thomas Nelson via Netgalley for an advanced copy to review.

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At first, I would like to thank Netgalley and Nelson Books for allowing me to review this book. Keep in mind that my review, however, is my true opinion on this book.

I have to be honest with you: I only really know Ben Higgins from podcasts where he has been a guest, but his name somehow stuck in my head anyway. I never watched the Bachelor, so I did not know about that whole journey, but from the podcasts I've listened to, I quickly realized that this man has a sweet spirit and a lot of love to share in our world. But I certainly did not know all the things he has been through and all the hardships in his life. But that is what he shares in "Alone in Plain Sight".

A few months before Ben Higgins was born, his dad was diagnosed with stage four Hodgkin's lymphoma, and his mom with severe placenta previa hemorrhage. And at one point, both of Ben Higgins's parents were in the hospital at the same time. And that is how he learned to appreciate every moment in life and "to approach each day as a gift from God," as he says in the book. This almost brought me to tears. That is so beautiful and an incredible way of living life.

And in the book, Ben Higgins obviously tells the story of how he suddenly ended up in the Bachelorette.

"Can I borrow faith from you today?" one of Ben Higgins's friends once asked. Doesn't this just say it all? This man certainly knows where he stands in his relationship with God. Even though he, as everybody else, sometimes struggles to find this connection, it is there.

The book deals with loneliness and feeling left out. It deals with identity, grief, and relationships.

As you have probably realized by now, this was an incredible read for me. It is so honest and beautiful and extremely touching and near.

I would recommend that all of you read this book today. It might give you a refreshed perspective on your life!

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