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Broken (in the best possible way)

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Thank you to the publisher and Netgalley for the opportunity to read and review this book. One word- HILARIOUS!! I think this may be her best book yet. She is so funny, but also lays out her real-world problems too. She is so real and raw and each chapter is great. Must read!

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I was so excited to see this book available for review. I’ve loved Jenny Lawson’s writing for a while, and have read some of her previous books. I may also follow her on Twitter. This newest book Broken (In the Best Possible Way) made me laugh in the right places, feel all the feels, and made me feel that someone somewhere relates to the struggles so many people suffer through in silence.

Approximately one chapter in, I was already mentally listing who I was pre-ordering this book for (from a local independent book store of course). Lawson ties in difficult subject matter with humor in the best possible ways. It can be really hard to talk about mental health without feeling drained and hopeless, but Lawson manages to bring hope and light to counterbalance the seesaw of emotions. I can’t imagine how difficult it was to write this book with the issues the author struggles through, and the fact that it captures the reader and is so immersive is incredible. This book makes me want to sit down and talk with the author because she put so much into words that I don’t think many people even have the tools to express (but I mean… I know how difficult it can be for someone to go out and interact with people and this book discusses that, so totally not asking).

There were a few moments that I was mildly in a discomfort zone (definitely pre-screen for your kids if you don’t want to be answering some awkward questions), but Lawson always brought me back around. When I read this book, I was mentally noting – I want to share this, because it is so important to help people understand silent mental and chronic illnesses. For those that don’t have mental or chronic illness, living with or having relationships with people who do can be a whole new world to navigate. Lawson acknowledges this and in shedding light on her own health, she helps others navigate and learn to understand what it’s like to have these struggles. She also always seems to find hope, and hope is so important. Lawson acknowledges how difficult the struggle can be, but shares her own coping mechanisms that in the pit of the despair, there will be brighter days. Maybe not perfectly blissful days, but there will be better days. With being in the midst of a pandemic, in which so many are struggling, I feel like Lawson is adding to an important body of work in how to get through the fogs and sadness and depression and anxiety. I really recommend this book, and can’t wait until it’s released so that I can share it with friends and family. Maybe I’ll do some pre-orders from a certain Nowhere Bookshop.

Please be advised that I received this book from NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.

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Jenny Lawson does it again! I love how she speaks of her life experiences and struggles with mental health and general health with such humor and honesty. I saw myself in so much of this book - I laughed, I cried, I nodded in agreement, and overall, I loved every word.

Thanks Jenny, for being such a bright light.

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Thanks to NetGalley and Henry Holt and Co. for an advanced readers copy in exchange for an honest review.

I am always impressed with how I go from laughing to being sad within the same paragraph in Jenny Lawson’s writing. I love how honest she is about her physical and mental health. Everyone, especially all health insurance employees, should read her “An Open Letter to My Insurance Company” chapter.

I was banished from my family room as my giggling annoyed the football watchers and I finished reading in a safe laugh out loud zone upstairs.

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Within five minutes of starting this book, I had laughed myself into crying. And five minutes later, I had cried myself into crying even more. Feeling every feeling, one right after the other, continued for the rest of the book.

Jenny Lawson has captured living with chronic illness and mental health issues with exquisite winsomeness and accuracy in Broken, and I couldn't be more grateful that she continues to share her story with the world. Just make sure you are either (1) reading this by yourself or (2) prepared to explain your mood swings by reading long excerpts aloud to those around you. Highly recommended.

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I really struggle with Jenny Lawson. I have read all of her books (I don't follow her blog though) because there is something engaging and charismatic about her. I admire how unapologetically different she is: she knows who she is and she is not ashamed! As someone who struggles with anxiety and mental health, I feel a kinship with her and appreciate her openness to write about these struggles.

Yet, some of her stories come off as a little... much. Yes, she is silly--- often charmingly so--- but I just can't help but think how exhausting she comes off at times.... and I feel so guilty for admitting that! Her silly stories didn't resonate with me this time, but her longer essay about her TMS treatment was lovely.

I don't think this book will disappoint any Lawson fans! Thank you to Henry Holt and Netgalley for the ARC!

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I have read all of Lawson's previous books, so I went into this knowing largely what to expect. I really enjoy the way she writes about mental illness and I feel that those essays were the strongest in the book and in some ways some of the lighter, more humorous essays took away from them a little but maybe that comes from years of reading the (always-entertaining) Jenny/Victor dynamic. One can kind of predict the direction those essays might take after three books and countless blog posts. Overall, this was an extremely entertaining read and I hope for many more years of stories about weird taxidermy and animal encounters.

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Thank you to NetGalley for allowing me to read this in exchange for an honest review.

I love The Bloggess and I frequently read her blog posts. I read and loved her previous books, and I loved this one too. She writes so beautifully and accurately about depression, like no one else I’ve ever read before. Extremely relatable and also hilarious, of course. The chapter full of tweets about awkward moments made me wheeze-laugh so hard I was honestly a little worried for my lungs. 4.5 stars.

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I have read all of Jenny Lawson’s book and have been following her on social media for years now. I love her brutal honestly and that she is not afraid (well maybe a little) to share her real self. If a world full of people who fake it on the internet, it’s refreshing to see someone who shows us the good, the bad, and the ugly. I also suffer from anxiety and depression and can relate to so much of what Jenny writes.

Thank you for another amazing, honest, and real book.

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I am a fan of Jenny Lawson love her books.Jenny is so open so revealing sharing her depression.,her memory loss her other issues.At the same time she’s hilarious her conversations with her husband have me laughing out loud. Another really human revealing no secrets kept by the terrific bloggess #netgalley #henryholt

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I'd like to thank Netgalley and the published for this ARC. In exchange, I am providing an honest review.

Jenny Lawson has a way of writing personal essays that are both comedic, and very touching. I believe I enjoyed this book more so than her previous ones, and there were so many beautiful moments that stood out to me. There were also some parts that were incredibly funny to the point where I was laughing out loud. Fortunately, I was by myself, so nobody cared. The essays were arranged in an order so that some of the ones which felt a little emotionally heavier (such as the one in which she talks about how she's thought about suicide or the ones in which she talks about her own struggles with feeling worthy) are cushioned neatly in between lighter, more comedic stories (like the one about the bag of small cheerful phalluses that exploded inside her car when really she'd been expecting a taxidermied prairie dog dressed like Danerys.) Therefore, I never felt like it was too heavy for me to continue reading.

A few of the stories did seem to drag on a bit longer than they needed to, but I think that also comes with the territory of a good ol' fashioned Jenny Lawson ramble.

The final piece in the book, about souls and shards, was beautiful, and I had a little happy weep over it. So, thanks for that.

I feel like her book has helped me understand some of the struggles that my friends with mental health issues are facing, and it has made me only love them more for being willing to carry on, even when it's really hard to.

Overall, it was a solid read, and I am very pleased that I got to do it early.

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Full disclosure: I adore #JennyLawson. I follow her on social media in addition to having read all of her books. So I was very excited to be able to read this ARC of #BrokenInTheBestPossibleWay. For those familiar with Lawson, this book will be exact as you hope: many stories she has shared in real time on Twitter or on her blog are made available here in more refined, equally amusing or heartbreaking storytelling as only she can do. She is candid about her life with mental and physical health concerns, family loss, and more. Even in moments of sadness, she can turn a tale into a life lesson or a silver lining. There are also certainly those laugh-out-loud moments where I realized I shouldn't be reading this book in public because I was making a scene. The photographs were a nice touch to many of the stories. For those not familiar with Lawson, this may not be the book I'd recommend to you first. While you certainly will be able to pick up on who her family is or some of her back story, it may feel a bit like jumping into the middle of some inside jokes. I would recommend either of her other books and then moving on to this one. Thanks to the publisher and #NetGalley for this ARC!

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My New Best Friend

So, I first found the Bloggess in the early 2000's and loved her tone and style and dry edge. But as happens, we drifted apart. This book, her third, seemed like a great chance to get back in touch. Well, busy, busy, busy.

I understand that authors create and cultivate a "persona" and that celebrity is a mask. I don't actually know Jenny Lawson. But more than any other cultural/humor writer I can think of her work feels absolutely authentic and genuine. (I sometimes get that vibe from Paula Poundstone.) That authenticity adds extra punch and appeal to everything she writes, and as silly as it sounds, I'm happier when I'm reading her essays.

Don't be fooled or misled, because I don't want you to be disappointed when you read this book. The book is both hilariously funny, in parts, and intensely personal about being broken, (in parts). Perhaps the Lawson genius is that she often is able to combine those two aspects of her writing in a single paragraph and even a single proudly ungrammatical sentence.

This is the sort of book that you read through once in its entirety, taking the rough with the smooth. Then when you need a little Jenny you can skim to your favorite parts and re-appreciate her comedic timing and wordplay and unique deadpan-manic humor. Jenny Lawson, my BFF.

(Please note that I received a free advance ecopy of this book without a review requirement, or any influence regarding review content should I choose to post a review. Apart from that I have no connection at all to either the author or the publisher of this book.)

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It is such a gift to read a book that makes you laugh out loud, laugh until tears roll down your cheeks, laugh until you have to read sections of it to your spouse because they wonder what on earth you are reading. This book was that book for me -- and so much more, because it was also a book that made me realize that we all have ways in which we are broken and that, even when it's sad and hard it can also be funny and good. Such a wonderful, wonderful read. I would recommend it to anyone and everyone.

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Oh, Jenny. How I love you!

This book is Lawson’s third and it is just as magical as her first two, Let’s Pretend This Never Happened and Furiously Happy.

I’ve been a big fan of Jenny Lawson way back in the aughts (I like saying that; it makes me feel like a cranky old lady - #lifegoals), when she was known simply as The Bloggess. In 2007, I wasn’t even sure what a blog was. But I knew she wrote some seriously funny shit on the Internet.

This book, like her previous ones, describes her battles with depression and anxiety along with her everyday observations on life with her signature wit and wacky humor. I literally laughed out loud when she was describing how she keeps losing one of her shoes in weird places, and also her family’s experience having to hunt down buttworm (pinworm??) medicine at the drugstore.

One story relates how a bag of miniature penises (sent by a fan) spilled all over her car and went into all the “car holes” (in other words, the black holes where the french fries go), and she busted into her husband’s office to tell him that her “car holes were full of tiny penises” while he was on a conference call. It reminded me of the time when I walked through a hornet swarm and ran into the house screaming about “murder hornets” and yep, my husband was on a business call. Thus, I can totally relate to Jenny.

If you’ve ever battled with depression or anxiety or self-worth, or if you just like laughing out loud while reading funny stories, you should definitely read this book. It’s not due out until April 2021, so until then, check out her previous titles!

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Jenny knocks it out of the park again!! If you haven’t read her other books, go do it now!! In her latest tale, she talks about her experience with TMS treatment for her anxiety and depression, which doesn’t sound like it would be laugh out loud funny, but I assure you, it is.

Jenny always manages to speak to the low lows of depression in such a candid and real way, that people like me who have been there, and sometimes are still there can relate to very personally, but also about the glimmers of light and happiness in a way that reminds me that this doesn’t last forever.

Peppered in, as usual are more hilarious anecdotes about her husband, daughter, parents. sister, and pets that will have you laughing out loud in the most inappropriate places.

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I find it incredibly telling when an author can make you feel extreme joy, empathy, sadness, compassion and happiness all at once. Lawson nailed it.

In one chapter, she pens a letter to her insurance company asking them if they want her to die. Lawson is depressed and suffers from a myriad of health issues and is getting constant rejections for her medications and treatments. The letter and stories about her health are heartbreaking and telling of our current healthcare system.

Then she literally segues in the next chapter to a story involving her neighbor, a bug on a sidewalk and Victor on a conference call. I was full-on laughing so hard that I couldn’t breathe. I read the chapter out loud to my husband a second time and had to stop because even reading it the second time made it that much better.

The magic of Lawson’s book is the back and forth - between the light and the dark; the truth to her life as she’s living it. Her illness and how it debilitates her, but also her marriage, her real-talk with her editors, and her sending a disco ball to a monkey refugee camp because they wouldn’t take the tiny roller skates she wanted to send them.

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I love Jenny Lawson. She writes from her heart and she writes about the tough subjects. However, she will make you laugh your fanny off while doing it. I laughed through most of this book and when she got serious I got serious with her. This is one of those where you'll laugh, you'll cry and you'll read the best parts out to anyone who will listen.

If you have never read Jenny Lawson, she suffers from depression. In this book she describes what it is like to suffer from crippling depression and how it affects the person's life. She talks about her struggles with autoimmune diseases, including RA, with a spectacular chapter on how she accidentally got TB. Her books make me feel warm and fuzzy and when I am in a dark place myself, she is there to comfort me.

I know that last paragraph makes this book sound like a real downer. I promise you it is not. Jenny is extremely clever and hilarious and some of the situations she gets into remind me a lot of I Love Lucy, only with more taxidermy. She writes from the heart and I just love escaping into her books. I cannot say enough wonderful things about Jenny and her books. She reaches out to an audience that is often ignored and gets real about some dark and scary places. I appreciate her honesty, her struggles and her ability to still laugh about life in general

Thank you Netgalley and Jenny Lawson for allowing me to read this in advance!

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Jenny Lawson made me feel ALLLLLLLLL the feels, and I loved every second of it. I've been following her blog for years now, and have always been delighted by her sense of humor and how she translates that on paper/screen. As a therapist who also happens to be living with depression/anxiety, I also deeply appreciate how she writes about her personal mental health experiences in such an accessible, gut-wrenchingly honest way. Like her other books, this one did not disappoint. Some chapters had me laughing till I had tears streaming down my face and then laughing even harder when I realized I was nervously checking around myself to make sure no one was staring at me oddly (I was in my own dining room, alone). Others, like the poignant letter to her insurance company, built up such a righteous rage in me that I, once again, wanted to cry. Thanks to Ms. Lawson, I'll need to re-stock up on tissues before the next COVID surge and subsequent hoarding of supplies. But you know what? I'm not even mad at it. It is totally worth it. Jenny Lawson is a national treasure who can make me cry whenever she wants.

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I was so excited to get an ARC of this book from NetGalley. I always love Jenny Lawson’s books—the raw honesty, the humor, her perspective on life and struggle. But I think I love this book even more than her others, maybe because I’m older and I’ve been through more in my life than I had last time I read one of her books. I really appreciate how hard the author works to just get through her life, she expresses so well how debilitating that kind of anxiety and depression can be. I’d probably swear as much as she does if my days were more like hers.
I laughed so hard in some parts I couldn’t breathe (the chapter of everyone sharing their most embarrassing moments on Twitter). Other chapters when she’s talking about her anxiety and depression treatments and struggles with her insurance, I cried until I didn’t want to cry anymore, then somehow she turned it around at just the right moment so I was laughing again. One chapter I had to skip altogether (her Shark Tank ideas were just too vulgar for me to get through). In other parts I related to her stories so well I thought we’d grown up together—eating white bread with gravy is just as delicious as she says (although unlike her family, we ate that because we liked it, not because that was all we could afford). By the end, mostly I just appreciated her. I came away hoping she would have more good days than bad and be ready to share more of her hilarious and heartfelt stories with her readers.

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