Thank you to Netgalley for a copy in exchange of an honest review.

These are short stories of american raised children from cambodian tamiles. Their struggles going through life, their experiences of genocide, fleeting the country and going to the USA. There’s mentions of abuse, domestic abuse, genocide, violence and fear.


I really enjoyed my time reading Afterparties by Anthony Veasna So

One of very interesting short stories about miss Campbell mountainous Cambodia life and how they were so traumatized b By the violence of the seventies in Cambodia How everybody had to face their own fears in this book and how society judged them in America because they really kind of didn't fit in and they were trying to and every story had like a moral behind it and how especially the wedding and how that went on for a couple of chapters and that was really interesting interesting and also another spur is really interesting too about how the guy was gay and he didn't know how to tell his father and I could see that coming from a different culture and then trying to fit in it's all I am the old lady who was in the nursing home how's she kept going back in time to when she was awesome fortunately how she lost her husband and Her Baby

This brilliant collection of literary short stories is startling and darkly comic. The stories are centered on the experiences of second-generation Cambodian Americans whose parents fled the genocide. A common theme is the lingering effects of persecution and loss. Characters often show a lack of direction and a tendency to self-soothe through alcohol, recreational drugs, and physical intimacy. These stories are a poignant legacy of a literary career that tragically ended too soon.

Thanks, NetGalley, for the ARC I received. This is my honest and voluntary review.

4.25 Stars

Content Warnings at end of review.

Thank you to Netgalley and Ecco for an arc of this book.

This is a collection of stories about what it means to be Cambodian-American. It combines stories from the older generation that immigrated to America during the Cambodian Genocides, to the younger generation and what it is like to live in that shadow.

This is such a powerful collection of stories. The writing is really strong and intense. I loved the stories that included queer characters. I also really loved the way all the stories began to come together the farther you got into the book. I really enjoyed how they were connected to form this community. Great book.

Pub Date: August 3, 2021

Content Warnings
Graphic: Domestic abuse, Sexual content, Genocide, Racism, Drug use, and Drug abuse
Moderate: Gun violence and Mass/school shootings
Minor: Homophobia

Short stories.
I read one book of short stories years ago in school and I haven’t read one since. Thanks to #netgalley and #eccobooks I fell in love with the stories written by Anthony Veasna So. The stories were so different from anything else I read, and filled with cultural references and lived experience. I don’t have anything to compare it to, The writings are beautiful yet candid. So much so that there may be content that could be triggering.
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Sadly, Anthony died before his book was published. I hope the book does well. It would be a living testimony to his beautiful writing.

Very well-written stories about the American children of Cambodian refugees, focusing on themes of identity and generational trauma. I liked how the stories took place within the same community and featured some of the same characters. I also enjoyed the view into Khmer culture. Nevertheless, something about this collection didn't quite connect for me, and several of the stories felt like they started to drag. I didn't feel like I could relate to many of the characters. However, I do think that was more of a "me" problem than any flaw of the book itself. Anthony Veasna So was clearly a gifted writer and I was sorry to hear he passed away at the beginning of a promising career.

AFTERPARTIES by anthony veasna so
★★★★★
this collection is full of sharp, acerbic wit that blends into insightful, pointed emotional depth with characters so lifelike some of the stories felt autobiographical. the writing is almost jaunty, packed with strong voices and incredibly hilarious dark humor, and steps into the absurd but is still grounded in stark reality.

many of the stories circle around the khmer rouge genocide; the older characters being survivors of pol pot's regime and their children inheriting the trauma while also battling the hurdles of identity as immigrants and what it means to be khmer, and being a queer khmer immigrant in some of the stories.

i loved how the stories were interconnected, characters reappearing or being referenced in passing. it really built up the idea of looking into this one cambodian-american community in california and seeing the various paths these individuals take.

i enjoyed all of the stories in the collection but my favorites by far were The Three Women of Chuck's Donuts, We Would've Been Princes!, and Human Development.

AFTERPARTIES is out august 3, 2021!

cw: genocide, gun violence, domestic abuse

thank you @harperlibrary for the e-arc during spi 2021!

This is a powerful collection of short stories, exploring the experiences of Cambodian-Americans in California. Several of the stories focus on different aspects of life for recent college graduates, figuring out their way in the world in the face of their desires for their own futures and the weight of their parents expectations. Many explore the dimensions of the family relationships between parents and grandparents, on one hand, and children who have grown up in the United States. Many explore the push and pull of community. The stories also offer interesting observations on several aspects of life in California.

The author is a singular voice, and this is one of the best short story collections I have read in several years. Very highly recommended!

I'm going to be thinking about the first and last stories in this collection for a while. They were really wonderful and showcased such emotional depth and resonance.

There have been notable collections focussing on the challenges faced by second or third generation immigrants, living under the pressure to succeed in a world their forebears have struggled to provide for them. Here we have such a community, in this case from Cambodia, in Stockton, "... a dusty California free of ambition or beaches." It is particularly tragic that the author, seemingly a poster child for success of overcoming generational trauma, has died before publication. This lends particular poignance to the final story recounting his mother's experience as a teacher in 1989 when her school underwent a racist massacre. Although Anthony Veasna So didn't live to enjoy the expected positive reaction to his collection, he was able to see acceptance and recognition through the inclusion of his work in such publications as Granta, Zzzyva, and The New Yorker. He knew he had broken the fate of "... what Cambo men did ... fixed cars [as did his father], sold donuts [I had no idea], or got on welfare." At times hilarious, at times heartbreaking, at all times immersive. Thanks to ECCO for this chance to read this early.

Anthony Veasna So is an incredibly funny and witty writer, and I was so sorry to learn of his passing. This is an incredible debut. Each story was better than the last, and I got the sense of interconnectedness—the feeling that these characters might have grown up a few miles away from each other. I'd give this collection a 4.5 out of 5, just because some of these stories blended in with each other. I think the tone could have been a little bit more varied, and wish the Khmer genocide could have been written about in a little bit more depth.

Anthony Veasna So’s post-humorously published short story collection, Afterparties, encapsulates queer Cambodian-American culture with so much nuance and specificity that anyone from a diasporic community can resonate with his work. This work explores the unique nature of ethnic enclaves which serve as a pillar to diasporic communities. There are always recurring cast members: aunts and uncles that may or may not be related to you, the guy who sells a few years of his life to the American military for stability, the weird uncle-figure who runs the grocery store, and the queer kid forever balancing individualism vs. collectivism.

Trigger Warnings: Cheating, violence, porn, sex, domestic violence/abuse, school shooting, death of family, alcohol, drugs, addiction, genocide, stalking, suicide

Representation: Cambodian, Gay, Immigrants

Afterparties Stories is a book of short stories about different Cambodian-American characters and how trauma is passed on through generations. These stories explore the lives of different children of refugees living in California and trying to explore their intersectional identities under the weight of generational trauma from their parents.

I’ll be honest. A book of short stories is not my normal cup of tea. This book though, wow! I loved the author’s honesty and his layered, complex characters. The stories are often funny or emotional. The characters are Cambodian-Americans who’s parents lived under the Khmer Rouge. They are struggling to figure out who they are and looking for comfort in the ability to leave their small community. I think this is incredibly relatable for anyone from a tight community or small town. The fear of being one’s self while leaving the place that has provided you with everything.

Overall, the stories are excellently written and contain both whit and love. The author’s knowledge of various experiences and his love for the community he comes from is so clear on the page. I’d recommend this book to anyone who knows what it’s like to leave home. I am so grateful for this gift that Anthony left us.

I received an eARC from Netgalley in exchange for an honest review.

What a gorgeous, playful, funny, sparkling collection of short stories.

I'd first heard of Anthony Veasna So through book Twitter. I was late to twitter, and thus to Anthony's presence, but this much I knew: he was a writer, blisteringly talented, with a singular presence on the website; he presented himself as "tall and tan Ocean Vuong", sending off irreverent missives and pithy observations rapid-fire onto the website where they would be devoured by writers, reviewers, and errant passers-by. This worked for him at the unsuspecting offices of n+1, and it still works now, and how lucky we are, to have the last piece of evidence of that sparkling personality, this time wrested into the shape of nine short stories.

These stories operate in the same universe: a small town in California (modeled after, if not exactly his hometown of Stockton, California) populated with Cambodian immigrants / refugees. It's not a pity-party, but rather an exploration of the ways people make construct lives with tenderness and joy and raunchy sex after genocide. I loved it.

Afterparties is the posthumous debut for writer Anthony Veasna So. It's a moving collection of short stories detailing life for an eclectic group of American Cambodian characters. The title is spot on as we come to realize the book deals with the complicated emotions surrounding the "afters" in life. Beautifully written and many of the stories will have you thinking about them long after you've finished the book.

Thank you to Ecco and NetGalley for this ARC.

I felt like this was full of profound stories about different communities that I really learned about by reading this book. Thank you to ECCO and Netgalley for this arc ebook in exchange for an honest review.

I was so sad to learn Anthony So died last year because I had become very intrigued by the short stories of his I kept coming across. This will be his only book, and there is something haunting about reading his acknowledgements in the back of the book. I loved several of these stories, especially Three Women of Chuck’s Donuts, especially the end. Somaly Serey, Serey Somaly was also a favorite, but even the ones I didn’t love, I did admire. There is very much a sense of central California, the heat and boredom, and long slow days to be filled only to end. I also appreciated reading about contemporary Cambodian Americans, who have been affected by the trauma of their parents and grandparents.

In the coming years this book will be held up as a moment in amber, a picture of our world circa early 21st century, in small town inner California

5 stars

This collection is so compelling without a single weak link, and I love how the stories and characters connect in both overt and subtle ways. Though the personas and scenarios differ in each work, there's a youthful quality to their decision making and their at times revelry in mistakes that I love. That fearlessness and naivety never read as under developed or unrealistic. The heft here comes from personal experience and identity, not from age, and this might be asserted about the characters and the writer.

The treatments of the immigrant experience, survival, trauma, queerness, and intersectional identity are profound and varied. I particularly enjoy the juxtaposition of public and private throughout all of the entries.

This is a stunning compilation from a writer whose voice is unlike any other in the space at this time: a gift in the face of a loss to us all. Wholeheartedly recommended -

I usually have a harder time getting into short stories, but I'd already read Three Women of Chuck's Donuts, which was immersive and its characters vibrant right from the start. So's writing is personable and alive and like, gets in your face. I really love it, so many quotes I copied down. And I just kept wanting to read the next story up, ended up loving every one, and was pleasantly surprised when I realized they're interconnected.

Don't know how to express my sadness that So passed away last year..

Written with humor, affection and an unsparing dose of reality, Afterparties introduces the reader into the lives of Cambodian emigres and their American born children. Each story is an unforgettable experience, deftly told with wry humor and piercing insight into Cambodian American culture and American attitudes. With memorable characters and sometimes bizarre yet relatable situations, this novel left me thinking about them long after I’d finished the last page. I would love to see this made into a movie!