Olive is very close to her best friends, but when they start to marry and have kids, she feels less connected to them. What's more, she's decided she has no desire to have children of her own one day. She's absolutely sure of it. Fast paced and moving, I would recommend Gannon's debut novel to all my friends.

I found Olive's perspective refreshing - especially when it came to her views on having children. I enjoyed the book, overall, found it to be an easy, quick read, but I would have also appreciated a further insight to her friend group and their thoughts. A great addition to woman's focused literature.

The story touches upon a very contemporary yet sensitive topic. Women have various points of view when it comes to becoming a mother. Some believe that it's the most important part of their lives and motherhood gives them a purpose more than anything else. Some believe that they can be mothers without giving birth to child and help the kids who were unfortunate to lose mothers/parents early in life. Some prefer to never have kids. Just like in every situation, it's perfectly normal to have multiple ways to look at an issue; however, society is little less forgiving and much more strict when it comes to motherhood.

Four friends are standing on different sides of this very delicate balance where they are trying to make their voices heard without crashing the others' views. Olive does not want to have a child and now she is trying to figure out if her decision holds true or if it becomes something else as life throws different people and circumstances at her life. This is probably a story of many 30 somethings as they try to figure out what they want from life.

Although I felt that I may have been a bit younger than this book’s intended audience, I thoroughly enjoyed this book. It was extremely interesting to read a book that deals with the different stages that people are at during their twenties and thirties: some married and having babies; some finishing University; some still just trying to figure it all out. This book really delved into these different stages that people reach, or perhaps don’t, throughout their lives.

It did an excellent job in challenging the stereotypical view that all women must want to have children and that this is the ultimate goal in life, looking at a wide range of possibilities for a fulfilled life. Each of the main four girls felt truly human, with a number of flaws and struggles they were trying to cover up in their lives and act as if everything was perfect. This book was raw with emotion and heartbreak on a number of different levels, from breakups to infertility issues, that really made you feel for everyone involved.

This book was an easy read, and I found myself rooting for Olive in her search for happiness. Although I did find that around halfway through the book I was getting bored as it felt as if Olive and her friends were having the same conversations over and over again, without any resolutions.

There were also moments throughout the book where things were mentioned, such as a moment where one of Olive’s friends reminds her of a time she agreed to be a surrogate for her, and then never discussed again despite seeming to be important things worth discussing. It made me wonder why these things were even included in the story when they were barely looked at for more than a one page conversation and then quickly forgotten.

Despite this, I really enjoyed the author’s writing style and would be interested in picking up future books by her!

I was intrigued concept of this book, but found it a lot heavier than I expected. I couldn’t connect with Olive and I just couldn’t gain interest in the story. It tried to cover some important topics, but just fell short for me in the execution. I had high hopes for this book but just felt really disappointed. This was a DNF for me after giving 50% a good shot.

Thank you to Netgalley, Andrews McMeel Publishing and Emma Gannon for this e-copy. While I was intrigued by the premise I was unable to connect with the book as I found that I didn't like the main character, not in an unreliable narrator type of way but just that I thought she was one dimensional. This was a DNF for me.

Olive was a complete miss for me. I couldn't really connect with any of the characters and as I plodded through the reading, I just could not gain any interest in the story or the plot. I'm sure it will resonate with some readers, but this novel was just not my cup of tea.

As soon as I saw the subject matter of this book (the decision to be 'child-free by choice'), it instantly became a MUST READ for me.

I read the first half of this book in a day! It's so easy to get into and I was quickly sucked into Olive's storyline and character. I've never experienced such familiarity to a fictional character before. Olive was just so incredibly relatable in everything she did, thought and said.
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I felt absolutely SEEN by this book because I am basically Olive but aged 32 not 33 - surrounded by friends getting engaged, married, pregnant or having recently given birth. I always knew I never wanted kids, it wasn't even a conscious decision process to be honest, I just always knew I didn't. Yet everyone I spoke to (when younger) seemed to be adamant I would change my mind... 🤔
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Have I changed my mind by age 32? Absolutely not! I like my independence, spending money on myself, peace and quiet and a good night's sleep! I can also barely look after myself sometimes, let alone another human!
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Thank you @emmagannonuk for writing such a brilliant book about a somewhat 'taboo' topic. This is such an important read for those of us who feel we are the "weird ones" for not wanting to have children. You are not weird and you are not alone, even though it so often feels that way!

I liked this book and the light way it talked about a very serious and often heavy topic! It felt like the book equivalent of a Sunday afternoon movie and that was exactly what I needed.

Olive follows the story of a woman in her early 30s who does not want to have kids. The whole book revolves around that topic and the impact of this decision in her relationship with herself, her boyfriend and her 3 best friends. We get to have a glimpse at the very different lives of 4 women who are very close friends but seem to be living distinct phases of their lives or have very different views of what they want their future to look like .

I’ve seen a lot of reviewers state that they found Olive very selfish and self-absorbed, but I disagree – in my opinion, Olive never came across as disrespectful of her friend’s choices, while the opposite happened often and she was way more patient with then than I would have been. I believe the author was able to create a flawed but realistic character who perfectly encompasses the way a lot of women feel about motherhood, as well as the ridiculous comments they constantly must deal with. It also talks about how difficult these comments are for couples dealing with fertility issues, which is not only very important but also often forgotten when this topic is discussed.

I think some topics and secondary characters could have been explored a little more in-depth but all in all it was a very pleasant read.

The first thing that attracted me to this book was its title, My name is Olivia, and here is a book about an Olivia, I had to jump on it.
I'm glad I did.
The book Olive although named after the major character isn't just a book about one woman, it is a book about choices and staying true to yourself and your choice despite societal pressure.
It is a book about friendship, love, family, and motherhood.

I personally think motherhood is damn difficult and definitely not for everyone.
The idea that a mother should be perfect and have everything under control is another scam, sometimes they get tired of putting everyone else first.

I would recommend this book because it is a jolly good read, raises a lot of questions about friendship and motherhood, it's the ideal 21st-century read.

I am so glad this reading experience is over!!

BLURB:
OLIVE is many things.

Independent.
Adrift.
Anxious.
Loyal.
Kind.
She knows her own mind.

And it’s ok that she’s still figuring it all out, navigating her world without a compass. But life comes with expectations, there are choices to be made and – sometimes – stereotypes to fulfil. So when her best friends’ lives branch away towards marriage and motherhood, leaving the path they’ve always followed together, she starts to question her choices – because life according to Olive looks a little bit different

The book promises so much but sadly didn't deliver for me. Approaching the themes in this book should be commendable, but it honestly deserves better craft.

There was absolutely no overarching story and no credible characters.

I thought Olive was really hard to relate to (and not just because i am a mother of 2). I found her entitled, obnoxious and quite unlikeable. Her behaviour was mostly irritating, I found myself wanting to shake her and telling her to grow up.

The female friendships the book portrays weren't relatable at all. Olive feels frustrated that her friends are no longer as accessible as they once were and fears being left behind while her friends move through life settling down into relationships, having families. Isn't this just life!? I found her attitude really brattish!

Maybe this is a generational thing, I feel like millennial podcasts will be raving about this one but for me it was dull as dishwater.

Its only January I know, but i predict this will be the worst book I read all year!

This book was not my favorite. 😬. While the concept was great and seemed like it would be super relatable and a deep introspective look, I found that Olive was kind of a miserable character. I didn’t really connect with any of the women in the book, and was left feeling slightly disappointed.

One of the best people I've 'met' in a book.
The tale of four women whose lives have always followed the same path, the trials and tribulations of adulthood until the taboo subject arises, Olive does not want to have children.
Olive, our protagonist is a thirty something women who is independent, loyal, kind and a little anxious. Olive knows her own mind and struggles when those closest to her try to tell her something different.
This book is about the struggles of parenthood and fertility but also relationships. This is the part I loved. The relationship between Olive, Isla, Bea and Cecily is something many women dream about and the strong female bond resonated with me on so many levels.
I really cannot find the words to express how much I enjoyed this book. The characters were all so real and Olive so refreshing.
Having your best life after your 30... that's something to shout about.

*ARC kindly provided by the publisher via NetGalley in exchange for an honest review.

Unfortunately, I was quite disappointed by this book.
On the one hand, I really enjoyed the premise but I did not connect with any of the characters.

Oh my god. This is like a Bible for normalizing childless women. This is for every woman who has decided they don’t want to have children in their life, and also for women who either have children or want children and struggle to understand what it’s like for women who don’t want children. As someone who does not want children, this read was so empowering and made me laugh, cry and all things in between as I began to feel like I belong somehow to this imaginary flock of women.

I really really appreciated that it gave perspective from every end of the spectrum to those who do not want children to women who want children but cannot, to women who have children. Of course all shared with varying degrees and reasons behind their decisions.

I LOVED everything about this read and honestly can’t stop gushing about it. I definitely think it wouldn’t be for everyone, but for me it was everything.

The premise seemed aboslutely to my liking, and it hit close to home, though, unfortunately, my expectations were not met; I can stomach an unreliable and unlikable narrator, however in Gannon's case Olive was absolutely dreadful to spend time with.

Thanks to Netgalley for providing me with this book for free in return to an honest review.


The book was..ok. I think it would have benefited from more editing, but the spirit of navel-gazing/stream of consciousness was part of the charm...most of the time.

Some of the dialogues didn't read all that true to me, too.

As a self-proclaimed Anglophile, Emma Gannon's debut novel, "Olive", checked all of my boxes and gave me all of the feelings that I find in a book that I adore. The characters were fun, interesting, loyal, quirky and caring; the setting was all things that I love about Great Britain...pubs, parks, flats, cold rainy days; and the storyline was crisp, quaint, thorough and thematically important and brave. I will carry the main character, Olive, in my heart for a long time. The premise of the book is that Olive, a thirty-two year old, single, career-minded independent, is not the least bit interested in having children, while her three best mates are knee-deep in the child-bearing and raising years. Of course, this is a strain on all of their relationships, but the handling of some tricky situations is what makes this book such a delight. Thank you NetGalley, Andrews McMeel Publishing and Emma Gannon for this fabulous eARC. I wish you much success with this wonderfully written and genuinely appealing story.

Unable to download this book to kindle due to already being published and archived. This is a mistake on Netgalleys part as I was only accepted for the book today 27.12.2020

Olive by Emma Gannon was a book that I think was aimed at 20 or 30 something women who like Olive, may be struggling to decide whether or not they want to have children. I, as a mother of three, was interested to see why women make a decision like that, as it is so different from my own experience.

This book explored that theme through a few different plot devices, the CFBC ( Child free by choice) group, the myriad experiences of Olive’s friends, and a meeting with a homeopathy focused family planning counselor. At the end of the book, I had a greater understanding of why a woman would choose that path. Even though it was not the direction that I chose in life, I respect women who made that choice and I now know a little more about some reasons why they may have decided to not have children.

This book had an enjoyable cast of characters with sometimes laughable and sometimes heart wrenching side storylines. I enjoyed seeing how her friends grew and changed throughout the story. Her friends were true to life and reminded me of people I have known and loved. They all had satisfying character arcs, and were very well written.

Having or not having children is a difficult choice to make, and I feel that Emma Gannon did a good job of using several side characters and plot points to condense that theme into a lighthearted easy read.

I was provided a free advance reader copy from Andrews McMeel Publishing in exchange for my honest review from Net Galley. The opinions shared in this review are my own.