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I am starting my #summerreading recommendations off with a nonfiction book. This is the story of an Illinois mother of six who was involuntarily committed to an insane asylum in 1860 by her husband and her fight to take on the American legal system.

Meticulously researched and well-paced, Kate Moore had me very invested in the life of Elizabeth Packard.

Publication Date 26/06/21
Goodreads review published 03/07/21


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This was both more than I was anticipating and WAY better as well. I didn't know much about what the story was about, but I now wish the story had actually been longer - what an amazing woman Elizabeth Packard was. I cannot even imagine living what she went through and then going on and fighting for the rights of herself and the women that were left behind in the insane asylum, despite all the opposition that constantly battered her from every side [including initially from her children whom her husband had poisoned them against her - that part of the story is particularly sad and infuriating], including the man who controlled her in the asylum [and what a piece of work HE was] and her worthless, craptastic, husband [ do not E V E N get me started on what a jerk this man was, no matter what time frame this was in. NO man should be as crappy as he was to both his wife AND his children. Even at the end, he was a complete jerk and the issues the children had [especially Libby] over the years lie directly at his feet.
This is a must-read book for anyone who is interested in the fight for women's rights and to read one where the woman, for once, won - though it is up to the reader to decide if the fight and results were worth it [for the record, I, for one, think they were].

Thank you to NetGalley, Kate Moore, and SOURCEBOOKS (non-fiction), for providing this ARC in exchange for an honest review.

<b>**</b> <i>I listened to the audiobook and initially the narration bothered me, but the author's voice grew on me and by the end, I was very happy to listen to her tell the story. </i>

Kate Moore has done it again! Another intriguing topic that little is known about in modern day (but should be!). I was blown away reading about Elizabeth Packard and her epic saga of her life. Her husband commits her to an insane asylum, with the only basis that she disagreed with him and was standing her ground.
This book was incredibly researched and detailed. It was truly fascinating as a true story. I will be recommending this far and wide!!

In 1860, Elizabeth Packard was committed to an insane asylum by her husband simply because her religious beliefs were opposed  to his.  This was the fate of many women of the time.  At that time men could have their wives and daughters committed for just about any reason.  As the title states, Elizabeth would not be silenced.  After three long years, she was released from the hospital.  She went on to fight for the rights of the insane and women in general.  At times , the book did seem a little wordy and slow but overall, well worth the time.  An interesting topic and definitely thought provoking.

I was a huge fan of Kate Moore’s book “The Radium Girls” when it came out, and it’s been one of those rare books that has really stuck with me for a long time. I wondered if Moore would be able to come up with another worthy subject after the fascinating women in her first book. Luckily, Moore is as skilled with picking a subject as she is crafting a captivating and meaningful nonfiction tome.

“The Woman They Could Not Silence” follows the life of Elizabeth Packard, a woman in the 1860s who was imprisoned in an asylum for basically disagreeing with her husband. This insanely bright and compassionate woman was punished for being intellectual and outspoken (and daring to have a mind of her own). It’s crazy to think that women had zero rights not so long ago in our history – women could have been committed indefinitely for ‘novel reading’ (I sure would have been in trouble!)

Moore does a wonderful job including enough history so that the reader understands the context of Packard’s life and the time period without getting bogged down in fact after fact. Packard’s story is truly a remarkable one – the obstacles she faces and how she works to overcome her circumstances are both inspirational and impressive. I won’t go into detail about what Packard was able to accomplish since the reader doesn’t immediately know what her fate will be. But I will say that it’s unfortunate that Packard is not taught about in school as a valued crusader for the rights of mentally ill individuals and women.

I can’t find any faults in Moore’s storytelling – the pacing is quick, dramatic, and attention-grabbing. There were even a few moments where I actually gasped out loud at what was taking place in Packard’s journey. Like Packard herself, I hope Moore is appreciated for her immense talent and incredible brain.

Many thanks to NetGalley and Sourcebooks for gifting me a digital copy of the latest nonfiction work by Kate Moore, author of The Radium Girls. 5 stars for an impeccably-researched book of this incredible woman's story.

In the 1860s, Elizabeth Packard, married for over 20 years to Theophilus and mother of their 6 children, was deemed insane and committed to the Illinois State Hospital. The reason? She had different political views from those of her pastor husband. She never dreamed that this would be the beginning of a long stay where she discovered that she was not the only sane person committed by their husband. In those days, women had zero rights and husbands could commit them due to reasons such as reading novels, thinking too much, irregular menstrual cycles. Once Elizabeth realized that she had nothing left to lose, she did everything in her power to change laws so that women had more of a voice.

The author stated that every line of dialogue came from an actual record - I was astounded the entire time I read this book. The conditions in the asylum and the treatment of the patients is horrific. The power that husbands and men in general had over women appalling. But the amazing fortitude of Elizabeth Packard to rise up and make a difference for women was astonishing. While. so much has changed, the stigma and treatment of real mental illness still has so much more to go. This book is a must read!

GIRL POWER. I often struggle through non-fiction, but The Woman They Could Not Silence was written so well. We follow the real-life story of Elizabeth Packard and her fight for women's rights.

Women have made big strides recently, but there's still so much more to do. Following the story of someone who was fighting for us so early on was powerful.

The Woman They Could Not Silence: One Woman, Her Incredible Fight for Freedom, and the Men Who Tried to Make Her Disappear is historical non-fiction, telling the story of Elizabeth Packard and her fight for women’s rights in the 19th century. The author uses Packard’s own writings, as well as the writings of others, to tell this in-depth story of the problems facing married women in the Civil War era.
Elizabeth Packard was sent to an insane asylum by her husband Theophilus. He forcibly removed her from her home, her six children, and her life, labelling her as “insane” and locking her up to protect himself from criticism for her opinions. Elizabeth was a force to be reckoned with, and not only did she survive the insane asylum, but she went on to change laws throughout the country so that the same thing would not continue happening to other married women.

The book is extremely detailed. I enjoyed reading it and learned much that I didn’t know about the Civil War era and women’s rights. The author really brings the reader into Elizabeth’s experience. We experience the frustrating feeling of being trapped right along with her. We experience the confusion as it is difficult to know who is trustworthy. We experience the heartbreak of her life as a mother.

Overall, I recommend this book. It is well-researched, well-written, and still relevant to the struggles of our day. At times it does move slowly and I feel that the story could have been told just as effectively in fewer pages. But ultimately, the author has done an incredible job with a difficult and complicated subject.

The Woman They Could Not Silence is a non-fiction book about Elizabeth Packard. Theophilus and Elizabeth Packard were married for 21 years and had 6 kids when Theophilus decided he could no longer tolerate Elizabeth's ways. She was intelligent, outspoken, and demanding of respect. She butted heads with her Reverend husband on theology, and that was a blow to his standing in the community and in the eyes of the church hierarchy. His answer to the problem of Elizabeth was to have her committed to the Illinois State Psychiatric Hospital. It was common practice at the time, and Elizabeth was far from the only sane wife that had been committed to the insane asylum. Elizabeth continued to fight for her freedom and women's rights, specifically to ensure that laws were changed so that women were not property of the husband and could not be committed so easily. #TheWomanTheyCouldNotSilence is a well researched book from the author of The Radium Girls. Thank you #NetGalley for allowing me the opportunity to give my voluntary and honest opinion.

I stumbled across this on NetGalley one day and immediately put in a request for this. I loved Kate Moore’s previous book Radium Girls so I had high hopes for this one too. This book talks a lot about a huge part of woman’s history that a good amount of people don’t know about. Kate Moore does a great job at inviting the readers into the history as if they are there.

I felt like this would be an amazing audiobook, but physically reading it was such a long process and was a bit boring at times.

Moore’s impeccably researched book, “The Woman They Could Not Silence”, was an empowering read, although at times I wanted to scream and throw things due to the injustice so many people experienced (and are still experiencing). The book follows the life of Elizabeth Packard, a mother, a wife, and a woman who speaks her mind. Her husband Theophilus, who is a pastor, doesn’t appreciate that Elizabeth has independent thoughts (gasp!) and has her locked up in an insane asylum. Yes, that’s right. He locks her away because his measly little mind can’t comprehend that a woman has thoughts of her own. (Gasp again!) I shouldn’t jest, because there’s nothing funny in this book, and while the book takes place between the 1860s and 1880s, Moore rightly points out that a woman’s words are still questioned today. She asserts in the postscript that the “pernicious accusation of insanity, deliberately intended to undermine, haunts the annals of history like a spirit photograph, unsettling and at times unseen. It is there in politics, acting as a dead weight to drag back the forces of change” (Moore, 2021). So many men and women have had their voices silenced because they think differently, are not WASP males, and are crying for change in a world that continues to dig its heels in. This book follows one woman who stood for radical change, but it is a message to all of us who wish to live in a better and more harmonious world.

“And yes, they called her crazy.
But if that’s crazy, we should stand back and admire.
For just look at what ‘crazy’ can do.” (Moore, 2021)

Elizabeth is subjected to terrible mental and physical conditions while she was incarcerated at the Illinois State Hospital. Reading her story was painful at times. Elizabeth acted better than I would have. Throughout her entire experience at the hospital, she holds herself like a lady, believing that someone will champion for her, and eventually finding out that she must fight for herself. While she is working so hard to prove to the director of the hospital that she is clearly sane, she’s also picking up her pen and wielding it like a sword. Elizabeth begins to write, and write, and write. She eventually writes laws to change the fate of married woman and the mentally ill. I don’t want to give away too much, but Elizabeth Packard is my new heroine. Her courage and determination, her grit and character are inspiring and incredible. Moore clearly spent a lot of time researching this book because it is one of the best historical books I have read. Moore’s attention to details, time lines, the flow of the narrative, side notes to the reader about societal norms, and the depiction of the historical figures is flawlessly done. This book was captivating and empowering. One of the best books I’ve read!

Trigger warnings: female genital mutilation, physical and mental abuse, neglect, torture

Thank you to NetGalley and SourceBooks for providing me with an ARC!

After reading Kate Moore’s The Radium Girls, I knew to jump at the chance offered by Net Galley to read an ARC of her new book The Woman They Could Not Silence. As she did in the earlier book, Kate Moore researched endlessly to get a factual presentation of a life that would not be believable if it had been fiction. Then she turned around and wrote a true story that reads like a compelling novel.

Running along as a background current behind Elizabeth Packard’s story as she begins in 1860 is American history before, during, and after the Civil War. Smart, independent, and a thinker, Elizabeth Packard becomes a threat to her husband. Because he can in this day and time, he has her committed to an insane asylum. He is a pastor. They have been married for twenty-one years. They have six children still at home. None of this matters.

Andrew McFarland, the director of the insane asylum, puts on a front of friendship to Elizabeth, even as she begins to see that more than one sane person has been assigned erroneously to his care. Many women have been placed there and labelled “crazy” because they failed to fall in line with whatever their husbands demanded. Conditions are deplorable and caregivers brutal.

Elizabeth, with unflagging spirit, comes to rely on her writing to cope. She finds creative places to hide her work for the time that will come when she can use it, not only for herself but for the other women she comes to care for. That time is slow in coming, but when it does, she is ready. Kate Moore’s absorbing narrative recounts a woman who refused to be silent, and eventually changed laws in state after state so that men could no longer confiscate property women brought into marriage, did not automatically get custody of any children in case of divorce, and could not label wives as “crazy” and send them to an asylum on a whim.

As the book pulls you in, be prepared for disbelief that this account could have happened only a century and a half ago, but then look at the extensive research Kate includes in her back matter.

The Woman They Could Not Silence is a thoroughly researched novel that tells the true story of a Elizabeth Packard, a mid-19th century wife and mother. After her husband, Theophilus, commits her to an asylum for thinking and speaking her mind, Elizabeth realizes that she will have to save herself. Elizabeth becomes a voice not only for herself but for many other women who were falsely imprisoned by their husbands during this time.
After finally securing her own freedom, she helped to expose the poor treatment of asylum patients and fought for women’s rights, all while trying to regain custody of her own children.
I was saddened and angered while reading this novel about such an important woman in American history. We should all know about Elizabeth Packard! I found this novel easier to read than most non-fiction, but it still felt longer than necessary. This would be a good choice for a book club discussion and is perfect for those who love women’s history.

This story was fascinating. It's inconceivable to learn what women dealt with only 150 or so years ago in this country. Throughout the story I was able to relate what I was learning to things that are happening in our country today. Kudos to Elizabeth Packard and all of the brave women of that era.

Don't miss this read!!

In The Woman They Could Not Silence, Kate Moore has written a book that gives readers a fascinating, enlightening, infuriating, and horrifying look at the state of women's rights in America (or lack thereof) during the 1800's and society's and the medical community's view of mental illness. She tells the true story of Elizabeth Packard, housewife, mother of six, married to Theophilos Packard, a preacher.

This woman, who I had not heard of prior to reading this book, was quite a powerhouse! The first women's rights convention, held in 1848, made Elizabeth realize that she had a mind and a will of her own, and a right to her opinions. What's more, she could make her thoughts known. Her newfound autonomy horrified her husband, who was used to controlling everything in the household, especially his wife. Her unbridled outspokenness began to cause trouble within his congregation, not only by engaging in debates regarding certain tenets of the faith, but the men found her behavior unseemly and feared their wives would follow her lead.

On 6/18/1860, Theophilus committed Elizabeth, at age 43, to the Illinois State Hospital, an insane asylum. The law at the time required a six man jury trial to commit a person, however, this law did not apply to married women. Their husbands could commit them at anytime with no evidence of insanity required. The reasons for committing a woman were numerous and could range from being disagreeable, stepping outside society's strictly defined gender spheres, even reading a novel.

During her confinement, Elizabeth continued to speak out and work for the rights of women, and made it her goal to better the lives of her fellow inmates, even taking it upon herself to wash them, and make clean linens and clothes for them. The medical theories and practices regarding mental illness were appalling, and she brought them to the public's attention. There is much to admire about this woman, who never stopped working for what she believed in.

This is quite a compelling read which held my attention throughout. Don't be put off by the length of the book. I promise you, you will be drawn into this well-written novel and will be so glad that you read it! I cannot imagine the hours Kate Moore spent meticulously researching her subject (all events and dialogue in the book were taken from Elizabeth's writings and from records) before writing this book which bring's Elizabeth Packard's life to light.

Kate Moore has written a book that is unforgettable. I wish I could give it 100 stars!!

My thanks to NetGalley and Sourcebook for allowing me to read a review copy of the book. All opinions and any errors stated here are my own.

Interesting and inspiring. If anyone needs proof of a patriarchy, look no further.

I appreciated the content but the arrangement and flow could have been better.

The writing style was overly dramatic and distracting in parts, with strange, almost silly metaphors that drew my attention away from the story.

Worth a read but I didn't enjoy as much as Radium Girls. Will be interested to see what Kate Moore writes about next!

Another fascinating book by the author.The story of Elizabeth Packard a woman imprisoned in an insane asylum by her husband kept me reading late into the night.Perfect for book club discussion a brave strong woman who deserves recognition

In The Woman They Could Not Silence, Kate Moore once agains tackles an incredibly grim and complicated portion of our history in an accessible and compelling way. Thoroughly researched and skillfully crafted, Elizabeth Packard’s harrowing journey through the murky medical systems, ruled by a patronizing group of doctors, unfolds. Sent to an asylum by her overbearing and strict husband for merely speaking her opinion, Elizabeth Packard quickly discovered that the law was far from being on her side. Faced with her new reality, Elizabeth swiftly begins contacting close friends and collecting information to build the case of her sanity. But in an era where women were unable to own property, control their finances, or be placed in an asylum for simply reading novels, Elizabeth faced a monumental battle.
Kate Moore writes excellent narrative non-fiction and really brought Elizabeth’s story to life. Just as in her previous books, Moore really focused on the people and their humanity. While the situations these women were placed in were cruel and barbaric, Moore also placed emphasis on the women’s roles in society at the time and their lack of rights within the laws. At no point does Moore excuse anyone’s behavior, only placing the situations in context of the time period. While this heartbreaking and emotional story is well researched and well written, it did feel longer than necessary and the beginning of the book was much slower in pacing than the last half. Overall, Kate Moore has given us another important and emotionally moving look at the complicated history of medicine and mental health.
Thank you to Netgalley and Sourcebooks for the opportunity to read and review this title. All opinions and mistakes are my own.

The Woman They Could Not Silence is the long-awaited new book from the bestselling author of The Radium Girls and tells the dark and dramatic yet uplifting and inspirational, long-neglected story of women’s rights pioneer Elizabeth Parsons Ware Packard (1816–1897), and it’s every inch as riveting and impeccably researched as its predecessor. It's a well-established fact that many of those in Victorian America who were placed into insane asylums were actually there for reasons other than having lost their sanity or their touch with reality, and that was certainly the case for Elizabeth Packard whose cruel, treacherous husband, Theophilus Packard, a Presbyterian minister 15 years her senior. The objective of this was to put his wife back in her place but little did he know, her 3-year term at the facility would only serve to perpetuate and solidify her beliefs and actually helped fuel her enduring fight for freedom and equality for all women.

This is a compelling, captivating and truly exquisite piece of narrative nonfiction by one of the best historical storytellers on the writing scene. It's beautifully written, rich in period detail and intricate from start to finish and I don't believe anyone could have done a better job at presenting this memoir of such an important and sadly overlooked woman who we all should be paying homage to for her sacrifices in order to further the civil rights of both women and those in involuntary medical facilities. Packard was one of the first to shine a light on gender-based injustices and start the ball rolling towards a more egalitarian ideal. She was an extraordinary woman far ahead of her time who courageously fought for what she truly believed regardless of the adverse situation it usually resulted in. That is true dedication and fearlessness to the cause. A scintillating, fascinating and important book and one I can't recommend highly enough.